Do you understand how your sister feels?
- Yes, a little. / - Why do you?
I think she would feel a little sad.
Just a little sad.
How does your grandmother treat you?
- Give us an example. / - When I go to her house,
she feeds me tangerines and listens to me
whenever I talk to her.
Does she feed your sister tangerines too?
She doesn't come.
She refuses to go to Grandma's house
because Grandma favors me.
Two incidents happened in the past.
The soup incident and the messy sink incident.
When those incidents happened,
- why didn't you say you did it? / - I did.
- Did you? / - But what did your grandmother say?
Did she still scold your sister?
Because I'm older, she believes I didn't do it.
She claimed she did it.
So why did you blame Gahye?
I didn't see her doing it, so I blamed Gahye.
How do you feel whenever that happens?
Gahye gets scolded for what you did.
She's being falsely accused. How do you feel?
I've tried to explain though. It's too bad.
(I'm so upset.)
She can be nicer to Grandma in the first place.
Do you think she's not good to Grandma?
She yells at Grandma and she doesn't visit her.
She doesn't visit Grandma at all.
She doesn't know how Grandma's doing.
That's why Grandma likes Gahye less.
In your letter, you said
your mom gets scolded by your granny too.
Yes. Grandma bought my sister a pair of sneakers.
I was jealous, so I asked my mom to buy me one.
So my mom bought me a pair in the market.
And my sister told Grandma about it.
So Grandma called Mom and scolded her.
I don't remember doing that.
(She should seek for a doctor's help.)
- She's the best. / - This is how judges feel.
- She avoids everything. / - We can't ask her anymore.
- She avoids everything. / - Did you tell your her
- about the shoes... / - You exaggerated the fact.
because you were jealous?
- Tell us. / - I was just telling her.
- Were you just telling her what happened? / - Yes.
Here's today's family news.
Gahye got new shoes from her mom.
(Breaking news! Gahye gets new shoes.)
Whenever your sister tells something to Grandma,
your mom gets scolded.
She scolds your mom about buying your sister the jeans,
cutting her hair and buying shoes for only you.
Is that what happens?
- Yes. / - I see.
Do you remember any of this?
(She shakes her head.)
- I forgot all. / - You don't remember any of it.
You have to stay healthy.
Let's meet their mom. Hello.
- Hello. / - Hello.
She's been nervous the whole time.
She's with her mother-in-law right now.
So she's uncomfortable. Is she very strict?
In-laws are tough.
- Yes, she is. / - She hesitated to answer.
She's quite strict.
I got scolded for coming on the show.
She said it's all because I didn't do my job well.
Gahye cried and begged me
to go on "Hello Counselor". That's how we came here.
I got scolded a lot for it.
Do you sympathize with your younger daughter?
I understand her.
Ever since she started talking,
she's been saying she doesn't want to go to Grandma's.
That made me think she was deeply hurt.
- Right. / - Right.
(The 11-year-old is troubled.)
Your mother-in-law says she favors
your first daughter because she was unwell before.
How is she now?
She's very well now. The doctor said she's healthy.
But my mother-in-law is very worried.
- She worries a lot. / - I will refute that.
She's not okay. Even if
she was careful, she recently fell
and wore a cast on her toenails for two months.
She broke her toenails in school while kicking a ball.
Instead of kicking the ball, she kicked the ground.
- That's how it was fractured. / - It was her fault.
It's not because of her congenital illness.
Then, did Gahye's grandmother know about
Gahye being hospitalized?
- That's right. / - Yes, she knew.
(She knew about it.)
- However, she doesn't remember it. / - Ma'am!
(She feels betrayed.)
- How do you call Gahye? / - Excuse me?
(This is how she responds to a question.)
(I don't remember. It never happened.)
- Gosh, she's so adorable. / - Ma'am!
- Speak over the mic. / - I don't remember at all.
(It's so hard for her to recall the memory.)
(Until the end, she said that she didn't remember.)
Did she know that Gahye was hospitalized?
- That's right. / - Yes, she knew.
(No way.)
- However, she can't... / - Ma'am!
- She can't remember it. / - She can't remember.
(This isn't a still frame.)
I don't think she took it seriously.
She must have thought that Gahye got injured a bit
- from playing. / - "She got hurt."
When do you think Gahye was emotionally hurt?
I think such incident would've occurred.
Since she's a daughter,
my mother was half joking,
"You should've been a boy."
- My goodness. / - She said that a few times. Gahye
asked me if I wasn't happy with her being a daughter.
- Did she say that in front of Gahye? / - Yes.
- That's why Gahye was... / - Did your grandma...
Hang on, ma'am.
Bring her the mic. Do you remember this?
I was disappointed but I don't feel that way anymore.
I had five daughters
and then I delivered my son.
As the first child was a daughter,
I took care of her well
but I hoped that the second one would be a daughter.
You told Gahye directly about that, though.
"You should've been a boy."
What exactly did she say at that time?
"If your older sister was a boy,"
"it was unnecessary for you to be born."
- My goodness. / - Oh, dear.
"Your dad is suffering because of you."
They lingered as painful remarks.
Ma'am, how did you feel until you delivered your son?
I had my son after delivering five daughters,
so I was happy. The elders were happy too.
In fact, if one had daughters only in the past,
she was maltreated for not having a son.
Gosh, I can't even explain how much I struggled.
My husband came home after drinking alcohol
and threw stuff at home.
We couldn't even eat at home. We were kicked out,
then I carried my seven kids to our neighbor's.
We slept there and came back the next morning.
You remember what had happened 30, 40 years ago.
(You remember what had happened 30, 40 years ago.)
She remembers everything exactly.
- I was deeply hurt. / - She can't recall recent stuff.
- Who'd remember, then? / - Ma'am,
since you were filled with such sorrow in the past,
you could treat her more nicely.
That depends on her.
She's very jealous and bad-tempered.
She tells me, "You only treat"
"my sister well. You hate me." Then, I'd say,
"If you don't scream or frown and run errands,"
"I'd treat you well."
Granddaughters are adorable the way they are.
She doesn't have to do something cute to be adorable.
Does she have to do something cute?
I find both of them adorable.
- You do, right? / - Her grandmother said
that Gahye has a peculiar personality.
Ma'am, do you also think the same way?
Gahye has a cute personality.
- She's active / - She seems so.
and she's quite greedy too.
Since she's quite a jealous type,
she sometimes goes overboard.
What did you do to get your parents' attention?
I took out all the towels in the bathroom
that my mom had folded nicely.
You did something she wouldn't like on purpose.
- That's right. / - What else did you do?
I sprayed water all over the living room.
Ma'am, she does have a peculiar personality.
(Ma'am, she does have a peculiar personality!)
What else?
I pretended to be asleep in the car
- so that my dad would carry me. / - I get that.
That's understandable.
You wanted be held in your dad's arms. What else?
Using a small knife,
I cut my finger on purpose
to be injured.
- What for? / - Gahye, that's too...
You do know that it's wrong, right?
I do know that it's a bad thing.
Then, you shouldn't do such stuff from now on.
It's totally possible for young children.
Gahye, I think
your parents will only be upset
- as they're both busy. / - That's right.
However, your grandma is lonely, as she's alone.
If you do something nice for her, there's
a possibility she'll like you more than your sister.
You must get attention from doing something nice.
Did you know that she's going through this?
She made a mess on purpose to get attention.
I just knew that she did all those things on purpose.
- You must be shocked. / - Exactly.
Are you a bit brusque?
Gahye wants me and my husband to love her more,
for her grandmother discriminates against her.
- She wants to be even. / - That's why she overreacts.
Gahye, have you ever had a puppy
or goldfish?
I had goldfish and a hamster.
When there are goldfish that swim energetically
while jumping about
and those who seem to be sick,
which fish do you pay more attention to?
- Sick fish. / - I see.
You pay more attention to the sick ones, right?
I think your grandma remembers your sister more
as she was born long ago. On the contrary, you are
not afraid of speaking among us. You're so pretty
and smart that we admire you.
I think your grandmother believes that you
will be energetic even if she doesn't take care of you.
That's how I feel.
- What do you think? / - I feel
- reassured. / - Is that so?
(I praise myself.)
When were you most upset?
Be honest and share with us.
(You must have been upset.)
I'm not
really upset about anything.
However, since I didn't have a son,
I am deeply sorry.
However, since the wife of my husband's brother
had a son, I am grateful to her.
When there was a huge earthquake in Gyeongju last year,
I called my mother before anyone else.
The line was busy, so I called her
later on. It turned out that she called
the family of my husband's brother first.
- To check her grandson. / - To check her grandson.
You were upset.
I wasn't upset, but...
(A foreboding never goes wrong.)
You're expressing your thoughts well in a nice way.
As I'm the elder daughter-in-law, she cares
- more about me. / - I'm sure she does.
She knows the passcode of my house,
- so the passcode... / - She really does care a lot.
She'd enter and check the fridge.
She also cleans the house once in awhile.
She gives me words of blessing to clean up.
(She's a great mother who gives words of blessing.)
- She cares... / - Are they really words of blessing?
She really cares as if she was her daughter.
She especially cares about me only.
- That's how I feel. / - Ma'am, is there a place
where they teach you all these mean expressions?
Ma'am, do you remember this?
This is what I think.
She became my family before holding a wedding ceremony.
(That means...)
They had a wedding anniversary in six months.
(Was she pregnant before they got married?)
- That's why... / - It was a shotgun wedding?
They didn't have a wedding anniversary.
She even spills stuff we're not curious about.
(Her memory is remarkably amazing.)
What a remarkable memory you have.
Ma'am, you heard what your daughter-in-law said.
What do you think after hearing her thoughts?
She'd be upset, saying that I was wrong.
It'd be nice to treat her warmly, as you're a family.
We live separately. There's no need for warm treatment.
We don't even meet that often.
(I shouldn't have said all those things.)
Perhaps, are you upset about anything
because of your son or your granddaughters?
Is there anything you kept to yourself?
They did that because they're young. They didn't know.
I'm not upset about anything.
What she just said
about how they'd know nothing
is the difference.
People of older generations do not know
that children can be sensitive and get hurt,
for they were busy trying to afford their living
in the old days.
"I heard that so many times when I grew up."
I guess she didn't take it seriously
- that her kids would be hurt emotionally. / - Exactly.
Your grandmother definitely loves you.
- Once you grow up, / - He's right.
you'll figure out that she loves all her grandsons
and her granddaughters.
Your sister was born before you
and she was ill, so your grandmother
worried a lot about her.
That's when she became attached to her.
You should approach her first, as you're smart.
When you wrote your story,
what were you hoping to get out of this?
I wanted to be closer with Grandma.
- She's adorable. / - Ma'am, what do you think?
Gahye wrote the story to be closer to you.
- That's right. / - Is she adorable?
Change your plan as of today.
Make her yours, Gahye.
Ma'am, did you come here hoping for a change?
Of course, a change is necessary. There shouldn't be
- any harm feelings between us. / - Of course, not.
How do you want your relationship to change?
There's nothing else. We should get along well.
Since it's the beginning, tell us Gahye's good things.
She's swift and she's soft.
- Soft? / - She's pleasant.
- She's pleasant. / - She's soft.
(Is that a compliment?)
- She's swift. / - She's swift.
- It means she's clever, right? / - Yes.
Please say it in a nice way.
(Please speak nicely.)
Ma'am, is there anything you'd like to say to your
daughter-in-law and your granddaughters?
I love you, my daughter-in-law and my granddaughters.
(I love you all evenly.)
To be closer with your grandma, you must express love.
Grandma, please don't discriminate me
against my sister and love us evenly.
I'll run errands and behave better.
- All right. Let's get along well. / - I love you.
Give your grandma some water. She must be thirsty.
- That's right. / - Go to her.
- Feed her. / - How cute.
- Be quick. / - Give her a kiss too.
(I'll go see her now.)
(She sensibly pours water in a cup.)
Thank you.
(It tastes nice, for my granddaughter gave it to me.)
- Give her a kiss. / - Give her a kiss.
Well done.
Let's hear the guests' opinions.
I think it's a worry.
Among your family, who has the most influence on her?
Is it perhaps your husband?
- That's right. / - Since he's very paternalistic,
he's the one who can change your mother.
- I see. / - His role is very important in fixing this.
Her dad must work hard so that his adorable daughter
and his mother will
make up with each other.
You should pull this up and press the button.
- I think it's a worry. / - That's it.
- For Gahye, it's a serious concern. / - It is.
However, Gahye needs to act cuter than before
to be closer with her grandma.
The older one should put more effort.
How could a kid...
Your personality also changed after you hit 50.
What are you two doing now?
It seems you two haven't seen each other for long.
Quit working as doctors for a little while.
Come here and share your story one day.
That's right.
She's young but if you feel her, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In five, four, / - In five, four,
- three, two, one. / - three, two, one.
- Stop. / - Time's up.
We had a lot of conversations today.
Was it all true that you don't remember?
I believe it was true.
I see.
- All right. / - Got it.
I wonder how many votes her story got.
Show us the result.
(The result)
I think many women voted for this story.
- Did it get over 100 votes? / - Look.
It did get over it.
(It got over 100 votes.)
127 votes?
It got 137 votes.
(Her story got 137 votes.)
- Good job. Go back to your mom. / - It got a lot.
Ma'am, many people voted, as they empathized Gahye.
This means you lied.
(Gahye's grandmother is suspected to have lied.)
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