welcome back I'm Lynn JT and today is the second
part of my interview with love
relationship expert Hilary Silver. In the last video I asked
her about her best tips on how to
have a better sex life during pregnancy .
You can watch that
video in the link up here. Now, everyone
who's been a mum, Hillary included can
empathize with how difficult it is to
get back into the groove to find that
feeling again - for some people it comes
back faster than others and it's that
imbalance in a couple that creates
tension and can be really really
tough
so how common is this and what expert
advice would you give me parents whose
baby have taken away all their space and
intimacy
so my number one thing that i want to
remind all couples who are how about to
have a baby or have little ones at home
is that this is a season of your life
and and it's a greater sacrifice than
most people talk about it's going to
take a hit your relationship is going to
take a hit it actually becomes a period
of time in your life where things aren't
just aren't that fun
you're not sleeping i call it the times
of scarcity there's not a lot of sleep
not a lot of time
not a lot of money if you're spending a
lot of money on daycare and all the baby
things there's not a lot of time to
yourself not a lot of time for each
other not a lot of time as a family and
I'm not saying this to be negative i'm
just want people to understand what is
about to happen so that when they're in
it they don't feel like something's
wrong with their relationship
this is what happened to us and i'm a
professional and I didn't know what to
expect
no one told me so I'm kind of on a
mission to get this information out in
fact my program keeping level I've after
kids arrive addresses all of these
things all the traps that comes that new
parents fall into common mistakes that
couples make but number one most
important is just to remember this is a
season of your life this is supposed to
be this way and actually as we watch our
children go through developmental
ages where they're crawling or number
they're walking over there TV over there
learning to speak we to as adults are
still going through our own
developmental stages and this is one of
them child-rearing years and it's just a
strain and that's why it's so important
to take extra care of your relationship
and to be even more mindful and
intentional about putting the energy
into your connection not just your sex
life but your intimacy in your emotional
connection as well and in my program i
had a lot of tools and tips for that so
might want to follow me but thank you so
much for asking me these questions it
really is one of my greatest pleasures
to share this information and spare a
couple of you are going through this
period of time it's just it's tough and
it does get easier I promise you
in fact I tell couple please please
please do not give up on your
relationship until at least your
youngest is five like that's when it
starts to get easier and in fact the
statistic is two-thirds of all couples
become distressed after the first in the
first three years of their first baby's
life but then of course we're about we
usually around that time are having
another one so it's a very long period
of time that our relationships are
stressed it doesn't start to get easier
until your youngest is somewhat
independent and is in kindergarten and
that's when it starts to get easy so do
the work now before baby comes and
continue to do the work when babies are
young so that when it does start to get
easy you still want to be together
ok so again thank you lynn for asking me
these questions for your audience i hope
it was helpful such great tips and thank
you so much i think you really helped
put everything into perspective
something that might seem really
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