unhealthy relationships can have so many
ramifications in our life and I think a
lot of the times many of us are
oblivious to what's really going on
their relationships because you care
about people so much and that can be the
fundamental that keeps us restricted
that keeps us limited and restricts our
ability to move away from those
relationships and date service because
those people can be quite often close to
us very close to us and important to us
so not being how to resolve those issues
that keeps the stapled in those
unhealthy relationships in when we know
it all so well can be very inebriated
and the reason I say this is because
I've come to understand it and had to
move beyond those unhealthy
relationships in my world in order to
grow to a greater level of energy
capacity and ability for new possibility
to the future of myself because
otherwise there was no other possibility
for that because the unhealthy
relationships to my life were really not
moving beyond the stock paradigm of a
fixed mine gripe fixed mindset which
wasn't allowing any of us to solve
issues and problems had a great ever
greater capacity and
having a look all of us in those
environments namely my family really
become limited in that in our ability to
express herself and be unique in our
identity because there were so many
levels and layers of judgment that will
passed around through their constructive
those unhealthy relationships and you
know this oddly there's no one to blame
it on LT relationships it's just a
series of events and unresolved issues
that have graduated over time that have
member that we've never really spring
cleaned out our troops and our souls now
integrity in order to get to a high
level of energy and emotional connection
within those relationships because you
know would you agree that a healthy
relationship is where somebody's really
understanding they understand your
feelings understand when they've hurt
you and I understand when when you are
having fun and when you try to express
yourself in a unique way to understand
when you're going any company actually
understand when you are out of your
comfort zone while you're out of your
comfort zone I want to see you so safe
and happy and healthy and being the best
version of yourself or you can because
we can't stop bad days we can't stop bad
times in our life and you know for me I
don't really want to leave it because
it's through those hard times and
through those struggles and through
those issues of shop in my world and my
life they're really bringing abrasive
sense of growth to my character my
charisma and my gumption in order to get
out there and you know express myself in
new ways to grow in new ways to move
beyond my own mindset and be forever
young I'd like to believe that even when
I get 29 years of age I'm still going to
be forever young and being able to
interact and express myself with the use
of
date that's because that's not what I
want to be able to understand them I
want to be able to understand people of
multi-generational generational
lifestyles and cultures in order to
really get to know myself to my will or
more because we don't have a short life
and it's up to us to make it how we want
and sometimes within unhealthy
relationships we can spend large
portions of time they can go for very
quickly because they're in the puddle of
head model and without clearing out a
lot of that junk inside of their own
trunk of our own minds in their own
lives and spring cleaning and truth and
our relationships like we're always
going to sort of hold one another
accountable to the things of the past
without ever actually being able to move
the honour and it's very limiting you
know like how draining is up for you
when you spend large amounts and periods
of time trying to be understood by
somebody and try to break through some
silly drama that's going on only two
never really eventuated it's kind of
like the current that gets dangled in
front of a donkey the lovely gets
promised when we get to a certain place
when we get to this end result and it
never gets to live it it's a form of the
unhealthy relationships ultimately comes
from a form of psychological abuse and
not to the point of torturous
conditioning but you are very subtle
a subtle element of psychology obese
because in the Western culture today
we're not we haven't been taught how to
communicate we haven't been taught how
to effectively raise our families and
our children and to resolve the issues
to move beyond them to in order to raise
your own form of leadership in our world
no life we're not being taught about the
edge of the economical system we're not
talk talk about finances and why not in
between yet financial conditioning is
one of the greatest issues in the lives
of families tonight it's also one of the
biggest causes of unhealthy
relationships because it rubs in this
rash in this hustle to try to get this
point where they've got this beautiful
light in the language but I got this
beautiful crap we're working our asses
off a nine to five fourteen forty hour
week up to a 90 a week trying to get
ahead about debts now bills now afters
and got to his need to so we can have
this shiny bunch of crap so that we can
be the man whilst ultimately forgetting
the most important assets we've got
their world which is our relationships
you know unhealthy relationships what
they can cause us not only emotionally
but physically with our energy is
unprecedented because a lot of people
don't understand what availability of
energy levels and new abundance levels
of prosperity are available to them when
they start to understand their bodies
and how their minds work and then how to
actually get creative performance such
as very many levels up to and including
the condition of an athlete are
available to them I'm inserted because
of blind spots and unhealthy
relationships of the come from blind
spots in our life of our inability to
see what we don't know that we don't
know because sometimes we don't know how
to fix relationships but we know that we
love those people and we want them in
our world but we don't know how to break
through the emotional and the
communication blocks that we had and
that's why we must ultimately
step back and take responsibility for
yourself because it's the only person we
can never control in our life is
ourselves I can't control you anymore
than you allow me to the person i can
never control is myself and so if we
start to understand that and take
control of our song learn about our body
our reactions our emotions understand
and put an A into the information that
different eyes our life and start to
learn to express the sort and resolve
those emotions and express our emotions
from a functional constructive place
especially with others because very easy
to judge other people and especially our
relationships when they've done
something wrong by us or things are good
will their bills or there's some stress
or level of stress within our
relationships or our lives now
lifestyles so easy to pass judgement of
times it's so much harder to step back
in the frustration in that moment and
actually say you know what we're in this
together let's work through this man
let's do this let's get ourselves from
point A to point B no matter how long it
takes us and we want another over and
step beyond that that model to create a
new level of spring cleaning in our mind
and our mindset through our
relationships and through our life's now
lifestyle to understand our for you to
understand our body and our mind and to
help those people in our life understand
therefore your men wine and their lives
and how they work you imagine imagine
the healthiness that starts to breed
back into the relationship then imagine
since desire to see those people in your
life wind and the answer sighs to you
we'd imagine we start to cheer each
other on from that place what a
beautiful place that would be here
and you I know probably a lot of your
Sonya that's wonderful that ain't gonna
happen you don't know Uncle Phil or
Johnny D loved or Fannie Mae West well
you don't know Maxine it clearly none of
his no max minute my grandmother she's
very much a fixed mindset absolutely
beautiful or duck cranky as the bucket
of old smash Pratt's trying to climb out
all over one arm and it she's one of
those beautiful knowledgeable people
that I know you know she could because
she look but it cut you down and it's
that quicker than the boldero Robin
Hood's Merry Men yet for some reason
such a beautiful person with such so
much knowledge and gears to empower the
world in a family with been caught up in
so much model and our resolve over her
life the now she's filling into this
acceptance loss over rather in learning
to fly it and to step up and let people
in and you know that breaks muscle if
you have those unhealthy relationships
with people very close to us in our life
because we love it we want to be close
to them we want to understand it and we
want to want them to be around us and
yet when they're not reciprocating with
that same level of intuitive Marvin
connection and desire to grow and
designer I parba can be so frustrating
effort to be so hard to let that go
especially the closer they are to us
so we only really have two choices in
those moments of unhealthy relationships
and one of them is to reply and then go
spend more time with other people I by
yourself to understand yourself and to
sit with our emotions to resolve them to
try and send them to move beyond them to
become the more great aberration upon a
prosperous and antigenic version of SL
or we've got to dive down the rabbit
hole with those people and take control
of this this in order to help them and
see them and building trust for them to
get them to understand that they have a
safe to open up and start to let go of
some of that unresolved stuff that's
going on for them it's keeping them in
that fixed paradigm or being pigheaded
because you usually find a lot of those
people that are in that pigheaded as
stark Irish Pig mod set to one let go of
all issues because they've had some
seriously strong a lot of that we've had
to see the world and their worldview a
certain way that they can't move beyond
and sometimes we don't know if those
people are ever going to open up and
express what's happened to them in their
life we must have them for them that's
will control myself I play one motion
state eat your growth mindset to want to
decide to move your hand on earth
becomes the cost of their beach now it's
Billy for a long period of time before
people see and what you're doing is
actually not it worthy loyal honest and
loving because it can seem manipulative
and here is the dragoness even though
you were living with best intention that
is why we must learn that self-control
because you can get yourself into some
volatile times the people that start of
course you back into leaving them in
their fixed paradigm even though you
need to see you create a resolution for
them that's a hard one that's a super
hard one that's why we've got to learn
to love yourself and other people who
they are and making sure it consisted to
what we will need to put on the table
and all for their self in the way of
time and money the love and connection
sometimes the cost of an emotional being
in order to see those people safe get to
where they need to go on a where you see
them better off as being and which is
also be closer to you your motion you
know look I've had two works with a
staff of bread come on but Dad y'all got
I've started to have some beautiful
asian stem I didn't have my father of a
lot for 12 years and any coming to my
life place hand grenade out of the
trenches just like he did 12 years
previous I was like holy shit look out
and coming boom mom shelters gone nuts
within a good smile vacuum all combined
spice that appear in that space and not
make involved Eve what happened to his
wife mr. doe puppy sub express himself
you are dropping a family and yet nobody
was wrong another he was right I'm not
going to stand here pointing fingers at
anybody because my mother father chose
to be part of that relationship and that
managers completely unhealthy and it's
called since women can involve Navabi
Romanian Jenny levels they're building
to connect communicate efficiently with
other people which is like heartbreaking
I can't not love these people well that
way of being you always get it still
also cannot judge myself to stop myself
from growing beyond that limiting factor
because that pigheadedness in the family
in my father and my mother my grandma my
knuckles and that the editors let's
table that stapled mindset that fixed
mindset that inability to see the world
be in any other way out of the way they
want to see that limits them from
growing and yet I can't punish myself
for that because that is how it may be
shift and the less of Judge therefore
that this have made the wrong more
o'clock and emotionally still stepped up
beyond that myself over time it's pretty
hard to ignore because that's a good
mindset a pic someone said that they're
in also equates to perfectionism and the
ability to feed been through all these
people I'm talking about I'm very hard
workers and have a very strong work
ethic in order to see something through
either one is going completely wrong my
parents had a very volatile relationship
and yet that was strong rule enough to
see that relationship through to see me
and my brother make it to be 18 and
actually have what we needed to get us
there
so the expensive there I'm well-being
their rates be my brother so that is the
other side while we must love these
people he knows unhealthy relationships
with our and learn to control only as
well and not throw back at them for
their faults or parent them in the
darkness because when we know that where
there is a greater level of connection
abundance on the other side of that
pigheadedness well we we try to show
them the door and continually make it
wrong to take them into the door of what
we know is true we step into I'll inform
the narcissism in your own form of
righteousness and it can feel to them
look we're dragging them by the head and
it's so counterintuitive I know I know I
know it's like dad to market your mom's
apartment and all the rest is just one
big macho however there is a bigger
picture of your man that's what I want
to bring to this video is through your
unhealthy relationships you will raise a
greater level of your own leadership and
your ability to effectively recount
people solve their problems and build
ever greater strong but deeper our love
and connections and if you start with
those healthy relationships and choose
to either move away or e to them over
time I promise you that you can build a
greater level of abundance into your
wealth and if you want to speak to me
personally more about this in contact
meets or one of the links provided here
and you've got any questions around the
subject drop them in the box below it
i'll make a video furthering this
concept of unhealthy relationships all
right I'm Ashkelon from a song calm bye
for now crazy
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