Adolescence can be a confronting time
for anybody gone through it and as now
we've all been through it and we can
somewhat acknowledge the abrasive
patterns of behavior that goes through
adolescent years and suicide in youth
suicide and adolescence is a big issue
in Australia and the greater world today
like we're having over five thousand
young people between the ages of the
year 7 and 12 daily attempt committing
suicide Australia right now and you know
that's that's an alarming statistic
because it's something I think when they
all need to address within ourselves and
how we deal with teenagers and how we
allow them to find their own unique form
of expression we're going to turn the
news on to seal the destructive nature
of some of these parties and drugs and
violence and sex going on with you today
to realize that the abrasive nature of
adolescence is only getting even more
destructive as time goes on and I think
that's a that's a community issue for
all of a society to address within
ourself and raise their own potential
for leadership and influence others in
order to build a greater level of
connectivity into the environment around
us and the reason I say that it's
because I believe that when we start to
make people's lives around us better and
more happier more fulfilled and
prosperous not by the way of finances
but the by the way of connection and
synergy within our emotional states that
will have a flow-on effect will have a
ripple effect like pebble in the pond
idea and spread out into the outer
precincts of the community where people
live happier generally wanting to see
anyone outside of their own immediate
circle still live with a hat a level of
happiness and abundance about them
because when you're feeling completely
connected and happy and relaxed with the
people in your life I mean how how easy
is it for you to reach out to somebody
who's homeless or somebody less
fortunate and say hey men
you're doing all right okay like his is
a couple of bucks and here's some love
for you know here's a moment of my time
to have a conversation so I could
reflect on on who I am as a person you
know because we've got a cup full and
runneth over we can start to feel other
people's cups and so as a family as a as
a working environment of a community
when we start to all fill up their cups
and run up our cups over then sooner or
later then there were no cuts left full
fill other than those less fortunate and
I think a lot of suicide in adolescence
comes from the feeling of being less
fortunate the feel of being left out or
not connected or not having an identity
or feeling judged or criticized or
ridiculed within yourself from how you
can see the role that you play the world
around you and seeing a greater purpose
to who you are you know there's many
times my life when I dealt with
depression which started from my
adolescence want to do because I had a
lot of disconnection invite with my
mother and father because of their
destructive nature of their relationship
and yet if I reflect back to a lot of
the dark times of my life most of them
came from then an abrasive nature of not
being can connected to my nerd identity
I'm being grounded in my own identity
and really having a place for me to
stand in my world and feel like that was
of value and I think I'm we start to
work through these issues with with
young teens and adolescents and young
young people and young adults that we
can start to give them permission by our
own example by the way that we live our
life by the way that we conduct
ourselves in a working environment and
in the community and start to exhibit
the other side of of hope for them and
not just promise so you cannot just use
the old catch phrase of do as do as I
say and not as I do but to actually say
do as I do and do as I do because I will
do until you can see
the point of why I do what I do and if
you can convince me and different better
way of doing that then we will discuss
that and open up that communication
because leading by example we generally
step into our own flow we generally step
into our own abundant nature in our own
level of connectivity and desire to want
to connect with others and resolve
issues and living that abrasive nature
of being human because I think part of
being human and part of being connected
to the greater family is about abrasion
it's about growing and about building
our identity and and raising our own
potential for the future through that
abrasiveness because it's through the
abrasiveness of life that we get to cut
away the exterior that doesn't serve us
and move towards a greater version of
ourselves sometimes when we're not being
heard or understood or connected to the
greater family it couldn't be because of
a breakdown of communication on many
different levels of many different
relationships may be an overbearing
father or a helicopter mother or you
know any levels of sympathy or anger or
more so you know degrading or corroding
conversations that happen over time a
certain people that's ultimately what it
was with me and my family because I
watch mom dad you've been each other up
so many times near life physically and
mentally that in the end they didn't
understand one another i didn't get one
another and they didn't know how to get
their needs met with one another yeah
and that cost them it costs them
severely you know they end up having to
put me in a mental institution for times
of my brother spent a large mounted
portion of his life in jail and you know
they've had to carry that that tough
tough attitude through the whole life
and instead of continual point the
finger and that's what taking its toll
on them just for them to sit there and
say well you made your bed you lie in it
and you've got to deal with the problems
as you show up I've had to what of it in
return I've had to watch that takers
toll on them because I mean it sorted
out wrong it's not that they're added
that I need to step up and prove myself
the world was wrong however they've had
to sit and watch the outcomes of
ramifications of that even though that
was the environment they got forward
into a brought up in and which gave them
a great level of perfectionism and
pigheaded pneus to see things through
and get them done real what your great
attributes don't get me wrong but the
downside of it is that it disconnected
them from their emotional connection
with the people in the world namely
their partner their lover their husband
and their wife and then their kids me my
brother and it's a long road back down
that road when you finally realize what
went wrong because it's so in the
five-second rule it's very easy to stay
in the in the self-righteousness but
over a longer period of time you know
through a longer term memory that leaves
great levels of frustration unresolved
through never really getting back as for
the issues back to Louisville connection
because it's only through love and
connection that we can build greater
levels of abundance of fun and
prosperity into our world because you
know if you don't have that connection
because I have that constructive
communication and that soon as you with
those people in your life you've got
making million dollars it can become a
billionaire sure you know and you can
have some of the best experience in the
world but they'll still ultimately leave
you empty in the in the end because you
won't have that connection with your
teenager young adult teenagers are young
adult or even your partner and you
consistently have to run and create new
friendships and new social idealisms in
order to keep amusing yourself rather
than being satisfied or sitting one
place I knew that all too well because
I've spent the last ten years running
from place to place ultimately escaping
the wrath of mom dad and all to
understand them
in order to Grobe myself and men to
watch that side of them had to watch
them hopefully punish themselves by
disappearing back deeper and darker into
their own corners and not being out
really effectively connect with people
emotionally in their world because of
the lack of understanding on on how to
communicate effectively how to move
beyond issues you know dad ramifications
on all their different environments not
just their relationship with me but this
is how we solve the depression and
adolescents we start to slow down we
need to slow down and step back a little
bit from a half to his neck off to know
those deals and that mortgage is not
going to pay itself I can understand
that in hindsight yet and what costs do
we put those things forward and what
costs do we put those things in front of
stopping and listening to little Danny's
bad day at school where is being bullied
or feel Sally's issue with a boy that
keeps hitting on earth laughs matter or
you know calling you names you know when
do we stop and take the time to help our
teenagers through these somewhat
seemingly imbecilic issues that they
have and bring them back to being okay
with their world and their influence
their world because even though their
issues and their problems can seem
insignificant to us on the grand scale
in their world their very real you know
they're very real for me when I was a
teenager sort of stuff I was going
through mom dad just made me out to be
silly old stupid all the time and you
know it really hurt me really degraded
me it really pushed me back into my self
made me feel like a need and then to go
to school and have to deal with the same
staff with different themes people and
situations and stuff was to push me
further into my own darkness alone
separation from a family that had me
start to express myself in all sorts of
destructive ways and manners it or not
that's where a lot of young people
starting to do that now that
disconnection
an ability to effectively communicate
and resolve things as they come along
for them is having them inwardly reject
themselves and the outwardly manifests
and express themselves in destructive
ways because if they inwardly express
himself in a destructive manner that's
where generally they'll start to
outwardly express himself and a deacon
in a destructive manner you know because
if somebody ultimately loves himself
they're not going to punish themselves
to a deep level you know when people
started becoming addicted to drugs and
alcohol binge drinking and partying
having sex et cetera et cetera it's kind
of because they're living in the
five-second rule of enjoying them right
now the moment of right now rather than
having and developing and opening up
their concept for the future and what's
possible for them because I don't see
the passport they decide to settle for
me your gratification and start to
actually just express himself in that
manner because what do they got to lose
you know by not listening to them and
not effectively communicating with them
and helping them resolve their issues
they don't see any parts board and
creating what they want to create all I
see is a series of roadblocks so
therefore they start to escape around
them you know I get as parents you know
we tend to look out our children our
lesson so young adults me like yeah you
know you can't see what I can see
there's also a side of our own inability
to an inefficiency to be able to express
herself in a way that somebody else
understands us as we intend to be
understood because we just talk about
people with kind of dictating to them
and it is a certain form of bullying but
we've been dictated to so much through
the red tape corporate agenda through
political sciences and through social
enterprising that we don't have none of
us really know any different none of us
really
to a deeper level I don't think
understand what it is to really
communicate effectively to really stand
by word to really step into conflict and
resolve it for a bigger picture of
building what I'd like to call a romance
revolution I mean when do we bring back
to the romance to the community spirit
and the young adult going into their
lives and celebrate them as making it
into manhood and feminine antiquity when
do we celebrate our young women in
making it to becoming a young woman and
when do we celebrate the young man for
being good enough to join the rest of us
and honor him and her for the role that
they're about to play in the world
around us rather and just push them into
some category where we can hustle them
into a pond and make money from them
while they're in the workforce because
we know better and we've been bullied
along the line and this is corporate
strategy grabbing and climbing up a
ladder there hold your rung so tightly
that you will get the benefits of reap
the rewards of your efforts you put in
when do we get off the hamster wheel of
the nine to five and go from that's gone
from a 38 hour work week to a 90 and get
back to actually enjoying our weekends
and our afternoons kicking the footy
with our kids and not just tell them to
get off the Xbox but actually go on for
a skate with them taking them down the
beach and having fun or down to the ice
cream parlor just for a walk to get them
away rather than just dictating to them
about how they should be living in their
life maybe we should be living our life
and stepping away from the corporate
agenda and the 925 having to have the
big diesel truck smoking our black smoke
out the top and so I'm super fast
fucking drag car five storey house
mansion with a wife and three mistresses
15 kids in four dogs five holidays a
year etc except her like when do we step
back from all these these crazy
outrageous desires and realized that the
best quality life is right in front of
us and they're killed himself trying to
prove it to us
a lot of adolescents just want to have
some fun they just want to find new ways
of expressing himself and for I'm the
value they can bring to the world you
know when they're not finding that value
that they're delivering and bringing to
world it makes them feel obsolete
useless people they've even started the
journey of life a lot of that comes from
a tainted worldview that's been painted
to them boy most of us I believe it's up
to us to change the future for these
guys I believe it's up to us to create a
more constructive world and get back to
having a lot more fun and that's through
just really opening up and opening up
new conversations if you're an
adolescent is in depression you keep
till we do man like get to know how your
body works explore all these new
feelings emotions put a light navel a
name to those emotions and get to know
them get to sit with them and transform
them so you can understand your body
works learn how the food that you ingest
actually fuck that operates as it turns
into energy and your system starts to
function within your body because
different foods will make me feel in
different ways and have different
outcomes as you put them into your body
some help remove toxins and build energy
some help replenish glycogen supplies
others replenish the insulin which helps
you burn the protein proteins help you
build muscle etc etc there is so much to
your body that you are still yet to
understand that will allow you to
understand how to get performance out of
the fuel body and raise your own
awareness of the world around you so
that you can see the world in a more
beautiful place and start to enjoy it to
become the full capacity of the creative
gesture an identity that you are learn
about hydration and how yourselves need
water to nourish them to thin out the
blood supply and dilute the capacity of
blood cells in your
battery so that it can flow easier
actually release the toxins learned how
the water molecules pick up the toxins
from the blood cell and then deliver it
as a package with the water to your
kiddies a process it for you to excrete
that out of your body because it's no
longer needed in the production of your
performance as a human being because we
all have toxins toxic thoughts also have
a physical outcome that you portion
exert out through your body positive
thoughts and feelings do as well so we
must choose to learn to understand how
body works and step into that conflict
and have a greater level and that will
teach us how to function in the greater
society much love to you young people
keep the real ha
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