oh my god this is the best beer I've had here so far it's pretty good yeah
actually is doesn't just taste like beer water
we're all here
so
sounds like you had a great time it was definitely worth enough stop to eat it
the place just finishing up and this time woman just comes down at our table
and leans against James like this she's actually she was very pretty
like she very pretty woman but she was drunk off of her ass yeah yeah she leans
against James and she goes I'm hungry and she looks up at me she goes she look
at James and like her eyes are really heavy in her you know it's doing the
drunk swivel and she goes this your boyfriend we started we started laughs
he goes this is your husband but she was bum hungry and she reaches into I get
James might not have been quite finished for this soup yeah
- in gently no no no but she scoops up anyway and she starts anything good
we're we're just for a while it's just kind of like okay what's gonna happen
next you know he's drunk off her ass and it's
you know 1:30 in the afternoon yeah James look somebody goes we're
pretty much done right like yeah so we stood up and they thought we were
leaving because of her and they wanted us to stay on yeah and then they moved
her to a different table and I started to think that maybe they they actually
knew her so they had her move it she was and she spoke decent English something
she was everyday yeah I knew they had some restrictions because of the Kings
anniversary you know or no so on normal days like I believe to the five day you
know it's awful and then they don't even sell it until 11:00 so is it you drunk
you have any other dates today I asked uh gal if she wasn't here again
I was texting I'll have to show you the southern woman she's just she's so hard
seeing creative yeah it's so cool and so beautiful yeah she was what I was
telling you were she's got like this guy who's kind of back and negative date oh
yeah because sincere you don't live here oh wow this is the woman I fell in love
with a 38 and she lives in San Francisco no but she's a total artist - she said
mere address you know Valley and I was a little soon yeah she's like divorced and
everything but I feel like she isn't the type that would totally like hook up for
fun I like that you made yeah it was so good I was seriously
cracking up and she was like texting on their phone in here like super just
relatable but you know like there was there was moments of inside them there's
one to come and yeah you know the thing about that too is like I didn't know
what we were doing didn't have a very clear direction on where I wanted to
take it is let's see what happens yeah and something cool came out of it into
editing like I was ever let's stuff together like that and that's what I'm
wondering about this like I'm just pulling footage right now and hoping
that it turns out interesting when I go to edit it but I don't know that it will
that's kind of what scared to show
YouTube content anything we didn't go back to this teacher mode and I don't
think that's what midlife man about a midlife man is more about exploration
with you do that exploration not telling them okay there's this in this technique
reviews I need you to think about something yeah and I'd rather go there
and do that but it's more uncomfortable now because I've spent some like so many
videos and so much time doing an OPM teaching and I like putting that
teachable whereas this needs to be no about like exploration and inciting
asking you know for lady she she's into men were older she's into middle-age so
obviously she's 35 to 36 now but she's always been into older guys and her
boyfriend is like the whole ten years older so years old older women well I
mean I was my first relationship as she was I knew yes she goes but if she lost
really like internal sugar or struggle or our struggle in ours I think it's
obviously both you know I put myself in this situation it's not entirely to say
no
and she thinks she does but she's not going to take she's cheap insanity
though that way look at is there such a thing as just not being like a I'm out
and just like being like yeah okay I'm out and it if it comes up and it comes
up with it I would say that to me so what do you think about the woman
from Sex in the City when the actresses who says yes shows on a certain level
it's not a choice do you think she might have just been like bisexual and she
said make the commitment to be honest women ain't about it most women I mean I
forget exactly that the statistic was but they have had thoughts or fantasies
about whether it's kissing they're being being and that's been true
so you think it might feel like these women love them are really lesbians but
they're fighting all this conditioning of growing up and say yes that's to be
whether their mom and dad I believe I believe we're so especially I mean as
we're social is socially conditioned everything about until recently all
movies and all ever love story ever made it was man woman princess Prince and you
did it then so yeah how does that all fit into the 15 year to your life it was
more into society service yeah absolutely man
but you've been attracted to them yeah the 10 min just wanted to connect
I guess I'm fortunately it hasn't been so complicated amazing when I talk to
not just women but men too there's a lot more complexity with some some people
like for me it's been very simple I've just been in a women it's yeah I
feel like that's an area of my life but it's just been pretty easy except for
you know the hard part about it was just like wanting certain women and also
wanting to like not just be chosen by a woman in that like oh that's the best
that I do a woman who's chosen me that I'm not really completely into but she's
the only one available or something like that like knows that that's the
complicated challenges that I've had but it has not been to do with like
questioning what am i into what do I like like that's been the easy part for
me man you know becomes even harder it's not you know
especially your parents cakes and ashes it's all that plus the Sun comes with
that it's my parents don't really ever or never really want me to date outside
my race I have friends you're gonna like yes are you
you don't really like white women be and I'm like no it's so not the case it's
just I like all of them so if you see me various races it doesn't mean it's to
the exclusion of white women nobody doesn't I feel like we're in a different
races have very different perspectives on dating in love and so it is really
cool that you are kind of getting the broad spectrum of different numbers
that's um what songs how it started with just my curiosity about where they're
from and then just showing that interest they go oh he's into me at him like wow
yeah I'm into her growing up in the deep south where you know there is that
separation you know it's supposed to like process and then like people and I
remember getting to college and I was like oh no I do want to cross that I'm
really curious about that first few like women going kiss that was that was
interesting they have that was because I was breaking like a social norm yeah and
then when I started like actually like dating I really the first time I had sex
with a black woman it was just like it was it was a it was an interesting
experience more than just like having you know any woman that I was dating
having sex with because of that norm that I was breaking like I felt it as it
was happening yeah wow really I am crossing a boundary here but it's
an imaginary breadth boundary but it was a boundary that have been conditioned
from a very early age and it was just like that made me kind of special away
people were looking for the writers but yeah we're looking for their perspective
that cycle and it doesn't even mean like the moral right it's like they were
looking for like the one thing that works but the truth is what works is
being able to tap into multiple perspectives
the fluid shifts yeah that's where I think true wisdom was cultivated by any
means consider you
have been oh yeah yeah she was asking me about that it looks like why not I said
well him if you know the phase and then there was some objectification of women
involved with that you see the thing is does I know you have I'm just saying
on your current endeavors and I feel like the mental process that you're on
right now it's truly just trying to gain experience an understatement
it was not that's how it always well that's what I did
so like when people talk about you know seduction and pickup and all that I knew
right from the start that like this is not they said I needed to be very clear
about what I wanted permit then when I got it because I'm the exit because I
saw guys get caught up it and go too far with it it becomes billing or like if I
didn't have a woman
something I've seen I think is this very fun and understanding or is this a job
well that's what it's okay it's not going to be you know even if I had it's
three women a week today that's not you know did your when you're at that point
than you're worried about losing all of them which happened to me a few times
like I mean all over women like to get into relation
then or whatever they just all go at the same time and then I would feel like if
that's what my happiness is dependent on then I can always lose it so therefore
it's not really happy it's almost a constant state of insecurity the way
that I was going about it very systematically you know approach a you
know the whole thing it kind of forced me to go a little bit deeper to what I
want it's really connection I mean I just really want to connect that's every
single person connection with Matthews it's like
they're craving that connection but that's that's as far as I can go with it
this exit that's because there's a lot of fear and insecurity totally yeah and
then you expose yourself to hurt she got upset with me it was like she was just
like hi thank you is it gonna come first but secondly like I don't want to be in
a relationship with someone who's ever going to cook in that position to make a
choice like that it's always maybe my kids but still like playing
situation like that that's what we all want something so you want something out
of being nice to me that doesn't mean it's bad it doesn't mean it's like and
you know you have like some ulterior motive but we all want something you do
things because we want something even if it's because we want something good for
someone else because when that person's happy that makes you happy
but that's still a desire that still introduce things because you want
something so I was just trying to explain it to her she found out that
like then I was accusing her of like trying to get something out of like no
that's
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