(This is how the guys started their rooftop chat)
(Their first day went by fast)
(As the twin lighthouses shine bright)
(The boats are asleep)
(But for us)
(It would be wasteful to sleep so soon on this night)
- Cold, isn't it? / - Yeah.
It'll be cold if the wind blows.
My slippers.
(Heading to the rooftop in matching outfits)
Gosh, what a great view.
It's nice up here.
("Past Days" by Yu Jaeha)
Wow, this is great.
Isn't it nice?
- It is. / - This place is nice.
When will we ever get to do this again?
(When you're happy, you get scared of it ending)
Gosh, how nice.
I could sleep here.
Wow... This is great.
They decorated the place so nicely.
We're on the rooftop.
There's a view of the sea. It's amazing.
("Past Days" by Cha Taehyun)
I'm just going with the flow.
- Jongkook. / - Yeah.
You can take video selfies too.
Really?
I knew that.
- You can take video selfies. / - Look at that wind.
Such a nice and cool breeze.
Goodness gracious...
This wind is pretty strong.
Goodness gracious!
- Whoa! / - Did the laver fly away?
We should clean up the things that'll blow away.
Looks like it could rain tomorrow.
If we don't get to go swimming tomorrow...
- Let's think of another plan. / - Just go fishing.
What if we can't go out to sea?
- If that happens... / - If the waves are too dangerous?
If it rains, we should watch a horror movie...
On-demand?
- With kimchi pancakes. / - With a movie.
- Let's pay for an on-demand movie. / - Yeah.
I've never experienced anything like that before.
You should really look into getting married.
I'm not joking.
- It's not like you don't want to. / - I do.
I really want to get married.
It would be funny if he had a son just like him.
If you really want to be happy...
- Have a daughter... / - I want my first to be a girl.
From what I've noticed,
I think daughters are nicer to their parents.
- It's true. / - True.
I wasn't exactly a great son to my parents.
Boys can do big things for their parents...
- But they're not as thorough as girls. / - Yeah.
Now that I'm older,
I realize that I didn't treat my mom as best as I could.
That really makes me sad to think about.
It's not like I can turn back time and fix that.
Of course you can't.
What was that show where you went on a trip?
Yeah, back in the day.
Going on a trip with your mom.
"Let's Go With Mom."
- I did that. / - My mom saw that...
My mom is turning 70 this year.
I want to do something nice for her birthday present.
So I asked her
and she talked about that show.
She didn't want me to spend a lot of money...
Right.
She wanted to be on that show.
It's the perfect expression.
Yeah, I think so too.
By doing that show,
she can go on a trip with me for her 70th birthday.
That's what she wants.
I felt a bit choked up at that.
My mom mentioned that
she'd like to take a trip with me too.
It's like this...
I should take her...
But what would we do together when we get there?
Just the two of you?
- What would we do? / - The thing is...
That could become something you cherish forever.
- But... / - For real.
You're pretty amazing.
Traveling with your mom... Gosh...
I'm not exactly super affectionate with my parents.
But my wife does nice things for them instead of me.
- I prefer that. / - That's nice too.
- But a son doing something for his mom... / - Right.
- It's totally different. / - It's different.
I think you just have to do it.
- Yeah. He's right. / - You have to.
You guys have kids so you should know.
You give so much to your kids. So much love.
In reality...
It's because Jongkook still isn't married.
In most cases, for guys our age,
leaving your wife behind
to take a trip with just your mom...
Your wife might not be too happy about that.
For most families...
But if he still travels with his mom
even after getting married,
he'd probably do something nice
for his wife to make up for it.
She should be understanding of that.
The wives' behavior depends on the husband.
I think so too.
Even if it's somewhere close like church.
Right, that's...
It's like this for me.
If I want to do nice things for my family,
I have to keep working hard.
That's what I think about these days.
You're an amazing guy.
How can you work harder?
Well...
But that's a good mindset to have.
Everything he just said...
I agree 120%.
- I agree because... / - Of course we all do.
My family lived apart from each other.
When my dad went to Saudi Arabia,
it was just the 3 of us.
When he came back, I went to Seoul.
When I came back from Seoul,
my brother was in the army.
So even until I got married,
the 4 of us has never lived together.
Back then...
My dad would come home for a month every year.
And now, I'm living apart from them.
How I feel about my family now
is probably how my dad felt.
So this is how he felt...
I always just missed him.
We didn't have any family photos at our house.
For real.
Since my wife started taking charge in that,
we began to take trips and have family get-togethers...
- Right. / - And stuff like that.
Then I started to feel joy about
doing something nice for my parents again.
- That happiness... / - True.
That's for real.
I'd like to take my mom to a movie or something.
That's a great idea.
I've taken my mom to see a movie a few times.
It's really nice.
I'd like to take my mom out on a date.
We should be good sons.
You never know what will happen in the future.
I feel regret too.
I always wish I could've done more.
When I was in my 20s and 30s...
I partied a lot as a teen.
But I don't remember partying in my 20s and 30s.
Me too.
I was on set every day working.
It's still like that now.
Back in the day, I met a fortune teller.
My first and only time.
When he said he met a fortune teller,
I thought he meant he dated one.
I didn't.
So then what?
I went to get my fortune read.
Everything she said was whatever.
But just one comment
had me sobbing that day.
I got home.
I was so shocked at what she told me.
I ended up crying. She said...
"What do you do for yourself?"
That was it.
- Yeah. / - "When do you ever do things for yourself?"
I thought about it and there was nothing.
That's why you cried?
You just felt wronged!
That was unexpected.
I thought she told you something about your mom...
It's not being selfish...
- That's hilarious. / - My kids...
My parents, my wife, my brother...
My brother's kids, his wife...
- I'm satisfied with them being happy. / - True.
But I'm never there.
- I should be there with them. / - I get it.
As long as they're happy...
That's what makes me satisfied.
A lot of people think like this.
Most Korean men think like this.
I'm working so you all can benefit...
- Right. / - But being together would be...
A lot more favorable.
That's why I don't have anything to say.
That comment really made me reflect a lot.
I thought it was love for my family.
But they would prefer to have me around.
Rather than that.
The present is important.
But actually...
Rather than the present,
we often need to think of the future.
I think it's just my dad that has passed away.
When he was showing off his jeet kune do.
Yeah, I remember.
Yonsei University Severance Hospital.
Right, right.
You guys bringing this up...
I always felt that we should be good to them
while they're still around.
I've always wanted to mention this.
You know...
When I was a kid,
I'd write my dad's occupation as business.
But I had no idea what he really did.
I only knew that he sold mats.
So I figured that was it.
We weren't well-off
but I never lacked allowance.
Even though we weren't well-off.
Then I started working at a young age.
I made decent money in a short period of time.
I became the bread-winner of the family.
That's when my dad had a stroke.
Everyday life was hard for him.
He passed away after 10 years of suffering from that.
I wanted to do things with him
but it was hard since he was sick.
I couldn't even talk to him properly.
And I was busy with work.
I tried to do things for my parents.
I gave my dad pocket money behind mom's back
because he feels a bit better going out.
He would lose all the money outside
and tell mom about it.
Then she would scold me.
That happened a lot.
Then my dad passed away.
Then...
Before I went to the army, I ran a restaurant...
- With my wife. / - Selling chicken soup, right?
We were running a restaurant.
But that's when...
A mat peddler came into our restaurant.
Normally, we'd tell them no soliciting the customers.
But it wasn't lunch hour or a busy period.
He came in and said...
"I'm friends with your dad."
"I'm friends with your dad."
"Oh, really? I see."
"How's your dad doing?"
"No, he passed away recently."
My dad was a very kind man.
He was such a good guy.
So the guy went, "Oh, I see."
And he left shortly afterwards.
And that's when I thought...
So that's how my dad worked.
I realized that so late.
So...
It got me a bit choked up.
Sorry to talk about this stuff...
We should on a day like today.
Sure.
- Talking about this... / - I totally get it.
- I get it. / - I miss my dad suddenly.
When my kid was born...
When my first was born...
When I first held him...
This is what I felt.
So this is how my dad felt.
That's what I really felt.
When you raise a kid...
Gosh...
My kid doesn't have to do things for me
when he grows up.
As long as he grows up and does what he wants.
I think that in itself is a success.
But on top of that, he does something nice for me...
Something nice for his parents...
How could I accept?
Really...
("There was a definite process")
("By which one made people into friends")
("And it involved talking to them and")
("Listening to them for hours at a time" by Rebecca West)
I don't like to talk about this stuff.
Perhaps it's because of the mood.
- I had no idea. / - Me too.
I didn't mean to make you guys feel bad.
- I don't usually talk about this stuff. / - We know.
I guess I've aged now.
- Sometimes I want to talk about my feelings. / - Yes.
You can't keep them all bottled up.
You become more sensitive.
We've grown up a bit.
We can't help it.
It feels like we're 19 and we've run away from home.
It's all good today.
I want to get things off my chest...
- But I have nobody to talk to. / - Yeah.
You don't.
- This is nice. / - That's funny.
We met when we were in our 20s...
I said I barely remember my 20s.
All I did was work.
I did what I was told.
And the few times...
That I had fun and went lose
while working in this profession...
- Was all with you guys. / - Yeah.
20s are really precious time.
(Their precious 20s have passed them by)
But it was tough.
Because I had nothing then.
- I had nothing in my 20s. / - Things are good now.
Yeah, things are great now.
I couldn't be happier.
Even over the smallest things...
I tend to get very grateful and thankful.
But being really grateful and thankful...
You should feel that way a lot...
- Whether or not you have a religion. / - You have to.
Whether or not you think that way...
- Is a big difference to me. / - It's big.
The moment you think that
you accomplished everything by yourself...
- That's the end. / - Yeah.
Junior, pour me a drink.
(Hyuk is the youngest as he's born in December)
Your hair is cut short like the youngest too.
I've never heard that before.
(We kept on talking the night away)
(It was only for a moment)
(But we all went back to our 20s)
Kyungmin, can we leave here at 8:30 to 9?
Sure. What time is it now?
- It's 1 a.m. / - Oh, yeah. Sure.
Good night.
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