Thứ Tư, 16 tháng 8, 2017

Waching daily Aug 16 2017

If we go swimming for shore it is because the captain caught a poisonous fish

Of large size and will now release it and fall to the water

welcome to another fishing video

I'll ask them to watch the video until the end

Because in my videos I will try to be more didactic

Not so much catching fish after fish because you know what a fish is

But give some tips and explain how I caught the fish

So the video will have little tips

Cuts maybe some action but you realize a bit more what I'm doing

hope you like and see till the end

what lures did I use?

Has you will see I used the fry, the shrimp ...

and the 3D Crab, for the first time I use the Crab in Ocean

It was more out of stubbornness because it was from the lures that gave me less catches

Maybe because that lure don´t have scent

And I should have bought scent and did not do that

So I think that was why I did not have the same catches

With the crab I had with the other lures

However I had the capture of an excellent bream that made me very happy

It was a lure that I used a lot of time

I was fishing with two lures

and was hard to catch a fish with this lure

But as soon as I got that fish I was very pleased because it was a great fish

What did I do? Well ...

I used a technique that is used in jigging

When the fish is not active, imagine that this is a jig

I have a jig here, no need to imagine

When the fish is not very active it is customary to put a strip of cuttlefish or squid or even shrimp

So the fish see the action of the lure and feel the scent

and that works great

As the fishing was quite complicated I decided to do that

At one point the fish cheered and it was fish after fish

But until reaching that time was very complicated

So I put some shrimp in one of the lures

in two lure I put in one and not in the other

we use that alot with Sabiki

so I put shrimp but all the fish that I catch is in the lure without the shrimp

so I have the same lure two times, one with shrimp and another without

Regardless of whether the lure is lower or higher

The lure that had the shrimp had no catches

natural shrimp, I am talking about natural shrimp

I did not catch any fish with the natural shrimp in the lure

I think it is because the scent of this lure is sufficient

And the shrimp in the lure would spoil the action

big bream

here comes the bird

He got the clamshell

and I got a fish

We both got

run, they are bigger

He will catch it there

Look, so round

so round

there he goes

now we have the hook

is a finesse worm

the shank of the hook is very big

and we use this way because...

we can´t have a smaller shank

so we will ...

make the point of the hook go out in the begin of the lure

our lure will work better

because if the point is near the head og the lure will work better

but you will catch less fish

you need to found the balance

the hook need to go out here

in this part

let me show you

like this

enter in the head

and go out here

like this

this is the perfect way

the hook need to be like this

The hook should not be too far out or in

If is in too much you'll miss the fish

If it is too much out the lure does not work so well

he goes so fast

he is fighting good

bring the net

fast,fast,fast

don´t want to loose him

Look what he's got in his mouth.

don´t worry (he hooked my finger :P )

don´t worry

is already out

they swim ao fast after a so great fight

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Power Supply Q&A & More - 10 Model Railroading Questions ❔❓❔ - Duration: 14:30.

what a beautiful day for a QA and today's QA I got more Q's than A's so

let's see what's going on with this right now I'm Tom Kvichak and this

is Toms Trains and Things this channel was created to help other modelers who

are need of guidance in pursuing their dream of building a model railroad and

why do I have more Q's than A's because I got some questions for you in this

episode so let's get started with it right now all right it's a little bit

cooler here it's 9 o'clock we just took our walk and eating breakfast on the

lanai and it is hot outside already my goodness but anyway if you would like to

support our channel and our web page go on over to Patreon dot com slash Tom

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going right now this is it right now okay here we go let's start this off by

saying I have two questions for you and the first one I found out this morning

was resolved and this one was from Andy Kemp now he had and I'll put the thing

right down here his message right down here of what his problem was but anyway

he was having a problem with two locomotives trying to get them to

consist and I don't think that he was doing it right but he resolved his

problem and Andy if you're watching can you let me know what you did to resolve

the problem so we could put it on here and maybe if someone

else is having the same problem then we could figure it all out that's what I'm

doing these Q&A is for is if anybody has problems they could ask it here and they

can ask it in my comments and in the discussion page there's a little you

know little tabs on here and thing down below here and one of them says

Discussion you could go on there and ask questions

or leave comments on there also but anyway Andy if you can send me a message

saying what you did to resolve it and that way we could all know what what

happened on there another one was Pat Gallo and he asked me about B X P 88 and

I had to look that one up because I didn't know what that was but anyway

it's a Digitrax and I'll put the picture right over here it is occupancy

detector and power management they combined two controls and put it into

one and now he was asking and I'll put the his message down here and he was

asking if he could use that with his where did I write it

it's the SE8C and I'll put a picture right there that is for signaling and

the other one is for occupancy detection and power management that he wrote and

after I responded to his message he wrote back and he said he thinks he

ordered that one by mistake and he was going to send that one back because it

really wasn't what he was looking for I guess he was looking for more on

signaling than occupancy detection although he did ask if he could be used

for occupancy detection but if anybody has used the BXP88 leave a comment and

let us know how you like it so if anybody have asked questions about it we

know what to talk about on there I had to read the thing and find out what it

was all about because it only came out in this I think it was March or

May of this year so it's fairly new and I haven't seen any around anywhere and

and haven't heard anybody using any yet so I had to read up on it before I could

answer his question so those are the two that I'm asking you to answer now it's

only one right now because Andy answered his own question but Andy give

us a little help here and let us know what you did to resolve your dilemma and

also Andy I got to find it and I'll break away and I'll bring it back I was

wrong when I was talking about the chocolate boxes that he was talking

about I thought you know what we had a discussion with him about the suitcase

connectors and he wrote back and was talking about chocolate boxes well he

did it away with his suitcase connectors and started using chocolate boxes and I

thought he was calling the suitcase connectors chocolate boxes okay Andy is

that what you're talking about we called those terminal strips okay is this what

you call your chocolate boxes so verify this for me so we can all understand

what's going on here this is I'm assuming from your descriptions this is

what you're talking about okay Ian Turner asked the question in the power

supply video is no resistor but getting higher reading that I had on my

multimeter voltages are going to vary depending on the power supply and you

know you're not going to all have the same reading the only way that you're

going to have 5 volts 3.3 volts 12 volts if you put a regulator on it and I'm

going to do a video on that later on how to put a regulator on there and he said

purple and black wire why still have voltage on it that's your standby

voltage as long as there's power on the our supply even though you don't turn it

on that wire is there for the computer they designed that so your computer

could have power on certain items before you even hit the switch to turn it on

and he said after he pulled the plug and everything there was still voltage there

well you have residual voltage on there is being held in there by capacitors so

eventually if you keep your meter on there long enough it'll well that's an

analog meter but it'll the numbers will start going down but anyway use a

digital meter and I'm going to do a video on meet multimeters also so

everybody could find out how to use them if you don't know already okay now I'm

going to do a couple of old videos Jack Gale on my easy soldering as where did

you get those tweezers some of those tweezers I got from a vendor at a train

show they have all kind of little stainless steel gadgets that you could

use a lot of them for soldering and I bought them there also you can get them

at micro mark or any other place that has soldering equipment

Chronus101 on the drop bridge now this is a video that was way back under this

is a long time ago on the drop bridge I did the design of the drop bridge from

an article in Model Railroader from probably back in 1990 or 91 I'm

not surer but it's in the video there but anyway the switches that I got I got

from RadioShack and also you can get them at any electronics stores all you

need is just a little single pole single throw switch and that'll do the trick

okay Dwight Kerley he wrote on the message board on my channel what would

be the best transformer to start out with and I asked him back

what are your budgets I said I need a little bit more information and this is

one time when my my family was down so I finally got back to him but he said he

was going to use a Tech II either 1500 2500 and I told him you know either one

of those would work great he wants to run two locomotives on there and I said

he's going to have to go and put blocks in his layout because he's doing DC and

I think he said he's doing a 4x8 layout so whatever you do if you want to run

multiple locomotives in there you're going to have to put blocks in there and

there is a good video out that Mark from M&M Rails did with me about DC wiring

go check that out to see more about it okay that and that concludes the old

videos all right I just have a few more questions here now and when now this

this name is as hard to say ass mine so excuse me if I don't get it right

Kowalewski okay I hope that's right he had a 20 year Corky's Carnival

Caravan he wanted to know can it be converted to DCC and I asked them how

does it run now I says if it doesn't run very well putting a decoder in it isn't

going to make it run any better but if it does run you're going to have to be

careful with it because I think on the older locomotives you have to isolate

the motors make sure it doesn't ground out that's the only thing you got to be

careful of he responded back by I said he's not working on it right now he's

doing some other projects but he'll be going into it a little bit later but

whenever you get it done or whatever you decide let me know how it's going okay

Bob Skingley on the power video what's the difference between plus

24 and minus 24 well actually it was plus 12 and minus

12 and you put those two together to make a 24 volts okay so that's that one

there Terry Lefevre and Joe on the same video

on the power supply what size resistor for LED the LEDs where you get them by

yourself and Vinny also said it asked the question or had a comment on there about

it he has some LEDs that he doesn't have to use the resistor on it and it works

fine they do manufacture some that already have the resistor built into it

but if you just get the plain LED you need a current limiting resistor so you

don't burn it out like that and when I use was 220 ohm quarter watt resistor on

that one there you can play around with it and you can get a range of resistors

and and see what resistors work best because depending on the value of the

resistor you can make it brighter and dimmer so you can play around with it

but what I used on that was it was 220 ohm where can i buy the resistors any

electronic store where I bought them was not posted it down and I'll post it here

again and I'll put their thing right here and you can any electronics store

you can get them at and they're pretty cheap I think that's it that's all the

questions and all the answers on this version of QA where I have more

questions than answers keep commenting on those videos so I can answer your

questions and this helps both you and me and everybody else out there in case

they have a problem similar to what you have we can all do better once we have

the solution to our problems if you haven't done so already go ahead and hit

that subscribe button you know why my granddaughter says it's free and I say

it's free so and while you're at it well that's a

little smoke detector but in that Bell and that will notify you of when I have

a new video coming out and this Saturday monorail running for beginner is a week

late but it's it's going to be out there and I'm making it on electrical I was

going to do scenery I did a little bit back there but I didn't get finished

with it but I figured since I got all these questions on here about electrical

problems I've see that there's a lot of people out there that need a little bit

of help with electrical issues so I'm going to do a model railroading for

beginners on electrics not electronics that's a little bit deeper but the

basics of electric electricity in your railroad that's what it's going to be

okay so that's it for now and we'll see ya

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The Untold Truth Of Pitch Perfect - Duration: 6:59.

Ever wanted to find out about some awesome behind-the-scenes facts about the Pitch Perfect

franchise and cast?

Then listen up, pitches — it's time to get a educated.

Low budget start

The first installment of Pitch Perfect was produced for only $17 million — a sum that,

by industry standards, is considerably low.

Peter Cramer, Universal Studios' co-president of production, told the Hollywood Reporter,

"It was a little, under-the-radar, affordably budgeted movie.

We didn't project that it could be a big franchise."

"We sing songs without any instruments.

It's all from our mouths."

"Yikes."

The film ended up banking $113 million worldwide at the box office, going on to earn over $103

million in home video sales, video-on-demand, and premium cable deals.

Anna Kendrick told Glamour UK, "The weird thing is that it happened so slowly.

It wasn't until [video-on-demand] and iTunes that anybody thought about making it a franchise."

Auditions

Hana Mae Lee, who plays shy and quiet Lilly, told Young Hollywood that she used to sing

in her church choir, but that most of her singing experience prior to Pitch Perfect

focused on Korean folk music...which she used for her audition.

Rebel Wilson, by contrast, went for modern pop music.

She told Buzznet that she showcased her chops by auditioning with Lady Gaga's "Edge of Glory."

"Crushed it."

Changing it up

Producers made some significant changes from the film's original direction.

In an interview with Collider, Elizabeth Banks revealed her role was originally meant for

Kristen Wiig, saying, "When she wasn't going to be able to do it, we made a list of who

else could do it.

And then [director] Jason [Moore] was like, 'Why aren't you just doing it?'

So I was like, 'Yeah, okay, I'll do it!'"

In a separate Collider interview, Anna Kendrick revealed that the movie was originally supposed

to revolve around the film Say Anything, not The Breakfast Club.

She even had to re-record "Don't You Forget About Me," because she didn't feel like she

had an emotional connection to the song.

She told the mag, "To me it's like 'Take my Breath Away' from Top Gun, where it's almost

a parody of itself."

"Don't you forget about me..."

Getting messy

Those infamous vomit scenes were intense, even for the actors.

In an interview with MovieViral, Anna Camp said that the production crew attached hoses

to her neck and chin, and that the "stunt guy was off to the side, and he would press

a button and [the vomit] was so powerful that it would knock me off my feet...It was actually

gross, actually cold.

But it was fun."

And what exactly was getting all over everyone?

The cast revealed to Buzznet that the faux-vomit was a mixture of pineapple juice, tomato juice,

and chicken noodle soup.

Yum!

Improv

Multiple cast members described the flexibility for improv in the scripts for both Pitch Perfect

and Pitch Perfect 2.

Banks told Collider, "John Michael Higgins was hired because he's one of the best improv

actors of all time so we were going to make use of it…We did the script, and then we

played and played and played."

Ester Dean, who played Cynthia Rose, described a similar situation in an interview with NYLON,

saying that Banks, quote, "gave me the perfect freedom to go out there and try a lot of things…It

was like, 'These are your lines, but Ester, SAY SOMETHING, OKAY?

Try this…do whatever you wanna do.'"

Castmates Brittany Snow and Hailee Steinfeld echoed that sentiment, with Snow telling Collider

that in Pitch Perfect 2, "We felt safe with each other because we knew each other better,

so there was a collaborative atmosphere, this time around...We knew each other's comedy

so well, we really had a chance to play."

The real Fat Amy

"Love it."

"What's your name?"

Fat Amy.

"You call yourself 'Fat Amy'?"

"Yeah, so twig bitches like you don't do it behind my back."

According to Buzznet, the name Fat Amy actually originated with Amy Poehler.

When she was pregnant, scriptwriter and friend Kay Cannon asked Poehler how she was doing,

and Poehler replied that she felt, quote, "like Fat Amy" — which Cannon then used

in the movie.

Friends IRL

Given how well the cast gets along on screen, it's no surprise to learn that they get along

in real life, too.

Lee told Young Hollywood that "Filming was like summer camp.

We were there four weeks prior to filming — we would have four hours of dance and

two hours of singing a day…We're still friends now…We were all from a different place,

yet we were altogether making this beautiful and fun movie together."

And those friendships have remained intact.

Snow told Refinery29 that she and co-star Kelley Jakle, who played the role of Jessica

in the film's first two installments, live together in L.A.

Perhaps the most impressive post-filming real life relationship comes from Camp and Skylar

Astin, who got married in 2016.

Cast-mates Wilson, Banks, and Ben Platt attended their fall wedding in California, according

to People, and Snow was even one of their bridesmaids.

Snow told People, "It's funny since I've known them from the beginning of them meeting and

dating, and to now see them get married is pretty surreal."

Pitches got skills

When Dean isn't acting, she's also an accomplished song writer: she co-wrote Rihanna's "What's

My Name?," Katy Perry's "Firework," and has also worked with Nicki Minaj.

In an interview with Glamour, Dean described herself as "a very emotional writer.

I always need to have a boyfriend.

I always need to have some food...I normally work like a vampire.

Around 8 to 9pm, what I call 'the spirits' actually show up, and then I just go in the

booth and scream on top of a track."

Lee, in addition to her beat-boxing skills, is a fashion designer and even has her own

clothing line, telling Young Hollywood, "I love fashion...I've been into fashion since

I was really young.

I've started my own clothing line, Hanamahn, which means 'just one' in Korean.

A lot of my pieces are fierce and avant-garde."

Twerking and burritos

Remember the scene where Wilson is hit by a flying burrito?

It happened to writer Kay Cannon in real life.

She said, "I was running on the side of a highway and a group of five guys drove by,

one threw at burrito at me and I fell over.

I looked down and thought I was looking at my guts when it was really just beans and

rice."

Snow told Cosmo that she injured her back on the set of Pitch Perfect 2, saying, "One

of my favorite scenes to do was this number where we really get dirty with our dancing...I'm

a really bad twerker — I still haven't figured out how to do it.

I actually hurt my back one day.

I woke up the next morning and my back was completely tweaked out…from twerking."

The Pack

One of the most memorable scenes in Pitch Perfect 2 is when the Green Bay Packers compete

in the riff-off.

But how on earth did that happen?

Cannon told Vanity Fair that it all began when Packers' offensive tackle, David Bakhtiari,

started a Twitter conversation with Banks, telling her how much he loved the first movie

and eventually asking for a cameo in the sequel.

Cannon initially resisted the idea.

But the Pack promised to work hard, saying "If you put us in the sequel, we will practice,

we will rehearse, we'll take it as a serious thing.

We're athletes, this is what we do.

We'll really work at it."

Coming soon

Fans eagerly await the release of Pitch Perfect 3, slated for late 2017.

According to IMDb, in the third installment, "The now-separated Bellas reunite for one

last singing competition at an overseas USO tour, but they face a group who uses both

instruments and voices."

Can they come out on top?

Here's to getting pitch-slapped this December!

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Perfect rainy day coffee? Seattle's Best House Blend Coffee Review - Duration: 4:17.

Welcome to coffee coffee coffee. Your place for average Joe coffee reviews.

Today's a little rainy outside, it's a nice day for coffee and today we are

reviewing what? Seattle's Best. Apropos. Since it's so rainy outside. Right and this

is the full and balanced House Blend which is a medium roast.

It's supposed to be smooth roasted. Don't really know what it means really.

Like Miles Davis. It doesn't really give you much information on the packaging

either it just kind of says it smooth... It doesn't really give you any kind of

origin really. It says Latin American beans but you know. And yeah Arabica. Right. As the usual.

Right. Like everything that we've reviewed so far is

Arabica. It's fun to say. So did you have any thoughts of the sniffer test?

Yeah like I did this already. sniffer. I mean I'm not it's not like one

of those that I really just drink it in through my nostrils. Right I wouldn't consume

it after that. It sounds like it would be pretty dangerous. Yeah. Okay um it was $5.49 a bag

for a 12 ounce bag,so that's not per pound that's per 12 ounce bag. Right like eight

dollars a pound. And so you ready to taste it? Yeah let's see. Hot cup again. So

I want to know it because we haven't discussed this coffee... I want to know

your thoughts before I tell you my thoughts. It's not as good as Seattle's

Best Signature Blend Number Four. No. The organic. Yeah and quite frankly I don't

like this coffee. Like I I thought it had a beannie taste. Did you pick up on any beanniness?

Yep. Yeah and I just don't like the beanie, which again this whole experience

this experience has been really informative like all the reviews we've

done so far... I used to think like when we would have like a cup of coffee, I wasn't

paying attention to what like what roasts we were buying,

we would just try out different coffees and then I would assume oh I hate that

you know that brand because I don't you know whatever. But really it's more about

the roast. Like there have been certain like Seattle's Best I really enjoyed the

number four. I don't enjoy this roast. So it's not so

much the brand as it is the specific roast within the brand so. Mm-hmm. Very

much so, I've learned that too and what's really helping us though is so far to

date the cheapest coffee was the Seattle's Best... well all of them but

Signature Blend Number Four and I think it's been one that we both could just

drink whenever. Yeah yeah that's one we agreed on. But not this one. Yeah

I'm a pass... Hard hard pass. Would we buy it again? Hard pass.

Yeah yeah. Yeah anything else to say about it other than? No no... and it's gone

the other way for us to whereas like with Lavazza we love their Gran Selezionne,

but really dislike their Kilimanjaro... so it's the other like the

higher priced brands too. So never judge a .... but I don't know how to say it. I

was going to try to come up with something off the top of my head, but

By its price tag. Yeah never judge the coffee by it's price tag either way.

Just because it's expensive doesn't mean it's good and just because it's cheap

doesn't mean it's bad. That's true. And just because you like one roast doesn't

mean you're going to like all of those by the same brand. Right yeah so if you

have other coffees that you'd like for us to try, you can find us on Facebook

Instagram and YouTube and also our website at coffee coffee coffee show.com.

And coincidentally that's how you'll find us on the social media networks too

is coffee coffee coffee show. Okay I understand now. So ship the coffee to P.O. Box...

No no we don't have a P.O. Box. I was just kidding. Just contact us and let us know what you'd

like us to try and we'll see if we can get a hold of some and give it a whirl.

Yep. Ernest P. Worrell. No one knows who that is anymore. I know

it's sadly. Ernest Goes to Camp! Check it out. Or to jail.

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7 Ways to Make Your Introvert Feel Loved

Each of us gives and receives love in our own unique way.

This is one of the very things that makes us who we are, and makes our love special.

However, in a lasting relationship, it's as important to adapt to our partner's love

language as it is to teach them our own.

In this video, I'm going to show you 7 ways to make your introvert feel loved.

Before we start, make sure to like this video and subscribe our channel so you won't miss

any interesting update in the future guys!

Couples that contain both an introvert and an extrovert tend to work well together.

They each balance out the other, and they often have different strengths.

However, the introverted partner might not be as comfortable expressing their needs,

and the more extroverted partner may not realize when or how they are failing to meet them.

So, here are seven ways to ensure that your introverted partner feels as loved as they

are:

1.

Don't Over-Schedule Yourselves.

An extrovert may excitedly book a full weekend of activities, oblivious to the nightmare

they are creating for their significant other.

This kind of rush will deplete an introvert's energy levels and leave them feeling scattered,

overstimulated, and ultimately dissatisfied.

If you must plan every moment of your weekend, make sure to balance your social activities

with quiet time at home.

Your partner needs this, and so does your relationship.

2.

Have A Code Word – And Respect It.

An introvert has limited social energy, and will likely want to leave a party long before

their extroverted partner does.

Before going out, plan a code word and a believable excuse to leave the situation.

This will make your partner feel safe and keep them from building resentment at your

hard-partying ways.

Remember that your introvert is experiencing a very different party than you are.

As Laurie A. Helgoe wrote, "I am rarely bored alone; I am often bored in groups and

crowds."

3.

Write Letters And Emails.

Extroverts often consider face-to-face communication to be optimal – but this is not always true

for an introvert.

Many introverts are able to express their feelings more accurately and completely through

writing than they could verbally.

If you are struggling to understand your introverted partner's emotions and opinions, give them

the option of writing their feelings out rather than saying them aloud.

You might be surprised at the depth you discover.

4.

Ask Questions.

Introverts are not inclined to dump information in the same way that extroverts do.

This can leave their partner feeling disconnected from the realities of their daily life.

Open-ended questions, such as "How was your day?" or "How do you feel?"

do not work well for introverts.

They will most likely respond to these with a short answer that will not provide you much

in the way of insight.

Instead, ask your partner something specific.

"What surprised you today," or "What's the biggest challenge you're facing at work,"

will bring you a better sense of insight into your partner's world.

There is a trick at work here.

If the question includes an emotion, the answer will have to, as well.

5.

Make Plans Via Texting, As Opposed To Phone Calls.

This gives your introvert more time to process their thoughts and formulate a response.

Making plans is a bigger commitment for an introvert than an extrovert, since their social

energy is more strictly limited.

Don't catch them off guard with a phone call.

Give them time to consider the reality of what you are asking them to do.

Allow your partner to make a decision that they are fully comfortable with.

This simple act will help to avoid a lot of unnecessary resentment later on.

6.

Don't Interrupt.

It's super rude to interrupt anyone, but this is an especially unkind thing to do to

an introvert.

Because they put so much thought into what they are going to say, an introvert is losing

more when they are interrupted than an extrovert would.

Listen closely to what your partner is saying.

Maybe even take a few seconds after they've finished speaking to process their words before

you respond with your own thoughts.

Isn't that what they often do for you?

7.

Embrace The Silence.

Your introvert needs quiet time to recharge.

If you want to spend more time with them, embrace the concept of being together without

having to speak.

Read a book, listen to music on your headphones, or work on a project.

The act of sharing in this quiet space will bring you and your partner much closer together.

Well, that's the seven ways to make your introvert feel loved.

Treasure your introvert, and care for them attentively.

Introverts love deeply and completely, and they make wonderful life partners.

As Anne Lamott said, "Lighthouses don't go running all over an island looking for

boats to save; they just stand there shining."

So, really cool information isn't it?

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