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Hi, thank you for joining me for another episode of the Trans 101 series today

I'm going to be talking about sex, so yes this video may be a little bit explicit

so if you are a parent, or friend, or acquaintance just

understand that because I don't want to

Confuse anyone I want to be as open as I can so that everyone can kind of understand

Concept of sex and trans people having sex so did you know that trans people have sex? OH

That's the thing did you know that other people don't mind having sex of trans people cool all right. Have a great day. Bye

I'm kidding

So there has been missed out there that either people don't want to sleep with people who are trans

Or that trans people don't want to sleep with other people because they're so uncomfortable with their bodies

I'm here to tell you that these are myths all right. There are a lot of people who?

fetishize trans people and only want to sleep with trans people because they're trans then there are also people who really don't mind that you're

Trans and kind of embrace that you're trans and are just like whatever it doesn't matter to me and

Also, there are a lot of trans people who are very comfortable with their bodies?

Or who are somewhat comfortable with their bodies and still act in a sexual manner and have sex with partners so in this video

I'm going to talk a little bit about STIs a little bit about

How trans people have sex and a little bit about the type of prosthetics that trans men and Gender nonconforming?

Non-binary Trans male folks may use I actually made two videos a while ago about STIs

for trans men where I talk about gonorrhea and chlamydia and HIV

and I talk about how to try their transmitted and what they are and

how to be careful and you know how to how to protect yourself so instead of talking about that in this video

I will link those I would highly recommend looking at those because it's just you know it's sex Ed

But it's taught by a trans person and it's talked about in a trans perspective for trans bodies

So a lot of sex Ed that is

available now really just

focuses on genitals and that

vagina equals woman, that's

problematic for a lot of trans people because they don't want to associate that with their genitals so what I try to do is be

More open and talk about genitals instead of Gender. So that's what I do

So please take a look at those videos i'll link them below so I'm going to focus mostly on

And trans mac individuals because that's what I am. I am not a trans woman

I can't talk about how trans women have sex and what trans women are comfortable with I

Also can't represent the entire trans community. I am a very open person. I talk about sex a lot

I review a lot of prosthetics and a lot of dildos and stuff like that for trans men

So I am someone who's very open not everyone is as open as I am but I am here to just

Talk to you

Just a little bit about sex and how trans people can have sex so if you're a partner of a trans person you would like

To have sex with them, but you just don't know what to do alright

Quickly I will tell you that you just need to listen to your partner and you need to ask questions

The most important thing you could ever do if you're sleeping with anyone is ask

What do you like? because there's such a thing as communication a lot of people don't have that when they're having sex

And it's super important to make sure that everyone's on the same page

Everything is consensual and that you're actually doing something that the person likes I

met a lot of trans people who have told me that they've slept with cis men or cis women and

Trans women also in General non-binary everyone in the past even trans men and

They weren't able to vocalize. Oh, I actually really don't like when you touch me there and instead

They just kind of feel very uncomfortable and very dysphoric

This is something that I'm trying to get people to Avoid

I would like there to be a crazy amount of communication, so when I'm sleeping with someone I either tell them right away

I'm like hey, I don't like this don't do that. Please do this. I really like this if you're comfortable with that

that's what I like to do to make sure that I'm

getting the most out of this encounter and that I'm happy and that the person is happy and

That that just produces like such a great way of communicating even if it's a hookup even if it's some grindr hookup

I'm like don't do that. And if they do it get out of my house. You know I'm saying so for example

There are a lot of trans men who bind their chest before they have top surgery

Some trans men are comfortable taking off their shirt, and they're binder during sex some are comfortable with you touching their breasts others are

Absolutely, not some people wear t-shirts, and they'll wear t-shirts forever until they have top surgery and that's fine

And then there are other trans men who are also very comfortable with their genitals where they

really embrace the genitals that they have and they like to be penetrated in the hole that they have and

they like to have sex with other people and

To have that genital those genitals that they have touched and all of that thing even before they have bottom surgery even before

even if they don't want bottom surgery

So they're trans people on the spectrum

Everywhere some people super comfortable some people will never have sex with or asexual we can't talk

We can't not talk about people were asexual there are people who are trans and who are asexual

It doesn't mean if they're asexual because they're trans and it doesn't mean they're trans because they're asexual. It's nothing like that

There are some asexual people who do have sex there are some who are sex repulsed

They don't want to have sex and that's okay as well

So if you meet a trans person you're getting along you want to get to know them

Even if you're trans yourself very good idea to have a lot of communication obviously on your first date

Don't want to give them wine and be like so what do you like in bed?

You know that's kind of awkward, or do you have a dick don't do that?

So please God don't do that, but instead when you have an open communication

And you know that it you know might lead to the bedroom soon or that night?

Quick quick Check-in and be like hey, we're on in the moment

and

I just want to make sure like what do you like and I know that for some people that can seem like oooo that kind

Of ruins the moment, but honestly it will make the moment so much better

it will make the moment so much better because

everyone will be happy with what's going on and what's happening a very good example of this is I have actually met a lot of

Trans Men who are gay and who sleep with cis men and who are tops and they'll meet a

Person at a bar and at a club

And it'll go really great and the person knows that they're trans and then like okay. Let's go home and have sex

The cis man who is gay

almost always assumes that the trans person is a bottom and

That assumption is very strange. I've talked about this in the past about FTM topping cis guys and that's such an important thing to

Not overlook honestly because if you had that conversation you know and really actually I'm a top and I

Sleep with men who are okay with that?

And I use a prosthetic or I had Phalloplasty or bottom surgery or something like that that open line of communication

Helps so much in the event that's going to happen later on so if you have somebody in your life

That's trans and kind of struggling with this aspect of sex and how to have sex and will people ever have sex with me is

very important to show them that

It's a possibility and by that

I mean like show them videos that people like me for example who talk so openly about sex and

Talk about other public figures in the trans community who are also trans and we'll also talk about

Being so sex positive and talking about sex and sex and and really embracing their body

And I feel very empowered when I'm having sex because the partners that I have know what I like know what I want

Know what

I don't want and it just there's no like ooh

I want that are they going to touch where they're going to do that or even go do the who and then they do and

You like really ruining it to do I tell them stop have the conversation before it makes everything so much easier

and I'm talking about that with like people who are also going to have sex with trans people not just talk about trans people like

Being like hey like what you like. It's not always all not all right. It's not always on us to do that

It's a good thing to have a communication and if your a cis person about to have sex with the trans person it is also

Good if you want to start the line of communication should be like hey

I just want to make sure like what do you okay with and

Honestly, I feel like when cis people are aware of that and like ask and have an open communication

It's so well-received and it's a wow okay. Wow this pretty much this could happen

I'm actually enough fun to be great wow. I think it's really great to do that

So I'd like to talk to you a little bit about prosthetics that trans men

non-binary

Trans masc individuals may use during sex and I'm going to show you four different ones

I have a lot honestly, and I've reviewed so many of them

I'll put the playlist in this description below so you can have a look but I'm going to show you four

main ones that have different features that

Might be good, and I'm showing you

As a partner who may want to talk to your partner about you know getting one of these because that's what they want

They don't know what to do will you have this video or if you're a trans person, and you're thinking

Oh, I don't know what you know prosthetics you use for sex. I'm going to show you four of my favorite ones so disclaimer

I'm about to show some prosthetic penises all right, so this is a

Prosthetic here that is very thin now the reason. I'm showing you this one is because on this side over here

It has ridges

So when the person wearing it is wearing it in the harness this part will actually rub on their genitals

And it'll feel really great this also has a spot here for a vibrating bullet, so this will actually feel good for her

This is vibrating for the person who is wearing and with the harness because it will rub on their genitals

And it'll also feel good for the person who's being penetrated

Because it vibrates inside

And I will link you to all of the prosthetics in the description below and this is the Fuse. quick tip very good for first

Time anal very thin very good anyways

The next one I'm going to show you is this one over here by the New York court selectively

This is the Ellis and it is uncut, and it has a very dense core, but it feels very

Realistic and it actually has a suction cup as well

So you don't even have to use this in a harness and do it with a partner

You can actually you know put this on a wall and do things with yourself and all that stuff

But this is also a very good prosthetic

It is a bit longer than a fuse that I showed you, but this is another one of my favorite ones

It's very good very realistic, and I've decided to show you realistic ones because a lot of trans men do want that

But there are also a ton that aren't realistic and are purple and have

Different patterns on them and a lot of people like that

So the next one that I'm going to show you is actually called a three-in-one

Ok prosthetic so it's 3-in-1 because you can have sex with this ok because there is a rod inside all right?

So you can penetrate someone with it, but if you take the rod out actually this is a foreign one

If you take the rod out it is a packer

So you wear this in your pants to imitate a bulb in your pants, and then you can also urinate out of it?

So there is a cup and you put it under and then the urine goes

I've made videos about all these products in this series, so I'll link those below

And I said this is a foreign one because it also has this part here that rubs on the wearer's genitals

So it actually also feels great as well, and then the final one is my favorite one

And I'm going to leave it for last because this is the one that has changed my life and my sex life forever I have

Never had such good sex in my entire life than with this prosthetic

This is called The Bono by transtetics alright, and I have done two reviews of this, baby

It looks strange like how does a harness go you please look at the video where I talk about it?

We'll be long, but this is very good because it's hard it has a vibrate so that the wear may feel the vibration

But it really it just it works well with my body, and I feel everything with it

And what's also really good with this is that it has a little reservoir at the tip so you can put some lube in there?

Or something that looks like semen and when you squirt it it comes out

Which is very realistic and a very big disconnect that I have with a lot of these toys

Is that they don't feel like me and because they don't feel like me

I don't feel like they belong to me and they don't that it's not part of me

I'm not having as much fun with this because it squirts

I don't have a disconnect this feels like it's part of my body, and that is so reaffirming so

amazing to hear so

In the reviews that I've done about this there have been actually mom that have said thank you so much for this review

I'm going to get this for my teen because they really want this which I think is really awesome

That you know that that's happened because my videos are age restricted, but I talk about prosthetic like this

Which is very sad because there are people who are under 18 who would like prosthetics, and you have dysphoria during sex anywhere

We're 2017 come on

Do you think eighteen year olds and under 18 aren't having sex like somebody was 16 17 this could be life-changing for them

So that's all I want to say for that

So the last thing I'm going to talk about is and basically talking to a trans person right now all right

Trans guy, trans woman, non-binary, squiggly line

Whatever you are doesn't matter it is okay to like your body, and it is okay to not like your body

and it is okay to be a sexual person and it is okay to not be a sexual person if you are trans and

I have met a lot of trans people who

repress their

sexuality a lot because they feel like no one will want to have sex with them and no one want to be with them and

It's very sad to see that honestly and it's just so empowering to see them

Flourish and after seeing other trans people who are sex positive, so I'm not only calling myself like the sex

God of trans people nothing at all

I'm just saying that it

Is it is amazing to see that some of the videos that I have made about sex and how open I am with sex I

get so many comments from people being like I

Is this something?

comfortable talking about

But watching your videos makes me more comfortable and unable to tell my partner what I want and what I don't want and then other

people talk about the prosthetics that I reviewed and they feel more comfortable in their bodies and other people talk about how they're

Asexual and they're not going to have sex but the videos still open their mind to a world that

They're not a part of it is very interesting so I think that

Me being so open to sex and talking about sex positive things and not being ashamed at all about sex because you shouldn't be ashamed

even if you're trans and even if you have dysphoria

You can still have sex I have bottom dysphoria sometimes and honestly it's very bad

But yet

I still enjoy being penetrated in that area because it's my body and I like the feeling and I feel empowered when I'm

Okay with my body even if I have dysphoria. All right that's all I have for sex.

I mean, that's not I could say a lot more about this topic, but we'll keep it short for this video

I hope this helps a little bit

I touched on a little bit of subject if you have any questions, please let me know in the comments below

I'll put links that I talked about in this video everything down there in the description, and I will see you guys later

Thank you so much for joining me. I'll see you for another episode soon. Have a great day. Bye

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Accounting for Beginners #74 / Paying Rent Expense / Journal Entry / Widget INC #2 - Duration: 11:07.

yoyoyo who's back once again Who am I'm CPA strength I'm the strongest licensed

CPA in the state of Florida boys getting jacked over here okay you know what it

is man you know you knew what it is oh I love this stuff man I love this yo what

do you do see pH strength besides being strong it's like CPA instead for yo I

educate motivate and inspire teaching the world over accounting basic blocks

basic blocks basic blocks you might know me as having the best place in the world

this is the best place in the world I guess if you don't know about the place

you wouldn't know about me I don't know just hit the playlist made and stuff

best place in the world it has this is number 74 and that's what it is

this is paying rent this is number two this is Road 100 this is a subset of our

of the big playlist accounting for beginners playlist

business subset this is this is which again this is keeping this is where I'm

widget Inc 73 was our first entry we loan it we loan widget Inc some money so

now what do you think has some money in its checking account and what is it

going to do next I've already made changes from the first one like dates

and stuff like that so let's just keep going and I hope you like this boom what

happened oh this is DC ever this is why this is what really why you know me this

this has helped thousands of people thousands of people by this point learn

accounting get jobs like I'm on some for real stuff this is just you know very

subjective I think it's the best place in the world but this is on some real

stuff this has really helped a thousands and thousands of people it helped me get

a CPA license I know that for sure it's a mapping system that I invented let's

go anyways what happened you paid some rent

man I found this widget in Fell's great place for $4,000 I know it's a lot of

money but he said we could have it for like a year maybe two years I don't know

he's kind of like a family friend you know I kind of finessed I kind of

wiggled my way in there we're kind of finessed it up you know so that's how we

do and so anybody's would you dink oh man and I hope you could sell some

widgets for god sakes but widget Inc pays rent for $4,000 out of the check

well we know do we have cash do we have cash checking account yes we do we have

we have four thousand dollars leaving because you're paying rent for our for

our warehouse space so you're paying rent so there's money leaving out of our

checking account so check your account is an asset if it's leaving our our

company that means see if it was positive it was going up it'd be a debit

that's why it's under to happen in the positive form but it's leaving so it's

going to be a credit so it's going to go down because it's going down it's

leaving so four thousand dollars is going to be our credit and our checking

it and our checking account here so we're gonna we're going to put four

thousand dollars in our checking account which goes in an asset box envy asset

box but it's leaving our company so that's why it's a credit it since

leaving now what's gonna be our exhibit pane rent okay so we got money going out

for a service that's gonna that's gonna help us selvages help us make money so

it's like an ordinary in the ordinary course of business

that's an expense money going out in the ordinary course of business which this

is in hopes of making more money that's what the rent is that's what that's what

the money is leaving our business for us for rent and so that accounts going up

because you're getting you're gonna you're gonna get four thousand four

thousand dollars in an expense account you might know because debits have to

equal credits well the rents gonna be a debit but or or you could get this we're

like about account you can get you can skin a cat you know I don't know why you

it's gonna cap what you can get to the problem a multitude of different ways

you might know hey it's an expense because that's what that's what uh the

rent is and things friends so it's a debit so however you might come to it

it's gonna be that's gonna be our debit is four thousand dollars

of rent when I can put rent rent expense we're just gonna put rent

okay and that happens to go in the expense box let make sure I'm recording

yes I'm recording I would hate to not be recording this beautiful stuff so that's

our journal entry on 228 15 that's our journal entry we're paying we're paying

rent we have debit rent $4,000 credit up

checking account $4,000 in 228 that's our journal entry for paying right now

let's go to our chart up let's go to our chart accounts in general ledger you

jump cut back in what are we gonna do now okay what do we have we had checking

account four thousand dollars let's look at the drill they're checking out four

thousand dollars and we had ran a four thousand dollars so we're those in our

chart of accounts the checking account was and the rent in the chart of

accounts was not so we collect the rent in the chart of accounts in the chart of

accounts inside of it what's going on in our specified time range whatever

and our special part time range is one one one fifteen that was the start of

our business let's go let's go with rent because that was the first thing that

happened was that our journal entry that was our debit for four thousand dollars

so we had essence it was a debit that means it was it was going up in the

expense a two 2815 we have four thousand dollars in our rent in the general

ledger in our rent inside of our chart of account of rent now for the fun now

for the fun part is our general ledger we just had what's what's going on in

our general ledger for our checking account we've had two things happened in

our in our checking account since we started since we started our widget in

business look we had a one one fifteen we had ten thousand dollars now we have

now we deducted four thousand dollars right because we have four thousand

dollars leaving our business that's correct right that's our journal journal

entry indicated so we have six thousand dollars in our checking account

currently a two 28:15 we have about six thousand dollars so that's what's in our

debt that's what's in our general ledger yo-yo jump cup yeah yeah alright so we

do we had our journal entry I'm looking down here we have our journal entry

debit four thousand run credit checking account four thousand and that turned

into our chart of accounts we had to add rent from from from that from that

happening as a change our checking account balance to six thousand dollars

and had a rent of four thousand dollars in our general Ledger's from each of

those accounts now let's see what that data with that journal entry that that

made a change in the chart of accounts there add to add grant and then it

changed the general Ledger's for the checking account it brought it brought

the total to six thousand and it made the rent account four thousand dollars

so what we did was we added rent to the rent affected the income

statement the checking account affected the balance sheet and now you'll see why

the net income flows over and makes things work so now our income statement

has has the addition of rent we still don't have any revenue income statement

is revenue minus expenses so all we have is an expense of four thousand dollars

so our net income is negative four thousand dollars and that flows over

from our income statement it flows over to our balance sheet so now we're

balanced you have and then income of negative four thousand dollars we still

have no retained earnings and equity so our equity is negative four thousand

dollars what's our what's our balance sheets

you know assets equal liabilities plus equity what's our assets the only asset

we have in widgets Inc right now is $6,000 in our checking account and this

is on 228 I'm sorry this is on 228 the balance sheet we'll go over that more

but the income statements for a period 0 1 0 1 15 to 228 15 is for the period

it's for a hope for the whole period it's gonna end up being for the whole

year and the balance sheet is just on this day on this day right now so 228 15

in the balance sheet we have our asset of $6,000 and that has to equal because

assets equal liabilities plus equity that has two so our liabilities and

equity has to equal 6,000 does it well what's what's on our liabilities alone

from Cheryl or for $10,000 that didn't change what else is on our balance sheet

well we have negative $4,000 net income net income under the equity so

liabilities and equity equals 6,000 which equals 6,000 the balance sheet

ooop now oh these are definitely gonna be a little rusty I'm like making

changes every single time and I I wanted to do this series earlier but then I

kept on being like oh well making changes and it's not perfect it's not

perfect and I had to think back to you know if you wait till everything's

perfect you're never going to start and that's like one of my things like it's

like a lust Brown quote like you're gonna just jump and grow your wings on

the way down so that's what I'm doing I like jumped off the cliff from started

this series this is the second one on widget Inc I think it's 74 so we're

gonna run up to a hundred on these and you know I'm gonna try to make everyone

better make everyone every widgets Inc better and better and better and if you

liked it please like share subscribe leave a comment like how I can make this

better or maybe what you want to do in a journal entry

and anyways you just have a great great day night evening make the most out of

your day I'll be nice to everyone don't hate be nice alright deuces

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