I had sex reassignment surgery which means I mutilated my
genitals. Yeah, let's talk about why that's complete nonsense.
Hi everyone! I would like to discuss some of the
misconceptions of sex reassignment surgery. A video of
mine about dilation was shared all over Twitter not long ago
with people mostly using it as a reason why transgender people
should not serve in the military. I have my own view on
that situation and this is not the place for it, but I mostly
wanted to address some of the concerns and misinformation
I saw these people spreading online. One misconception is
that SRS is mutilation of the body and the genitals. You can
see it that way, and I totally get it. The result some people
have from SRS may be a bit disappointing. The truth is,
everyone will have a different outcome. Some will look more
natural, and others not so much. Even if you go to a reputable
surgeon, issues can still happen. It all depends on the
person. However, some people even describe it as a
'gaping hole.' Ok, I'll admit that for some people it can look
like that as it may not look natural. But, if it makes
someone happy, does it really matter what it looks like.
If it's true mutilation of the body, does it
matter if they want to do that to themselves?
Another issue is people said you don't have
sensation and cannot orgasm, and also can't lubricate.
Wrong, wrong, and wrong again. This is all possible,
and I experience all of these. Lubrication is
possible if you are really in the mood.
This comes from the cowper's gland which is
connected to the prostate. The prostate remains there too,
which is a male organ, but it acts almost like the G-spot that
a woman has. Not only that, but orgasm, while different, is much
better now. Maybe not every experience is fantastic, but
overall things are good. Now I completely understand that
cutting nerves will result in loss of sensation. If the penis
has less nerve endings than the clitoris of a woman, and it's
severed even more, then it's true that there will be less
sensation. Yes, there are spots where it's completely numb with
no feeling at all, but that doesn't mean you can't orgasm.
For anyone interested in how to repair nerve damage, look into
the supplement CoQ10, specifically Ubiquinol. It can
help especially after surgery heal the nerves and get better
sensation. I think the main reason people have the
misconception of the inability to orgasm is because after SRS
your sex drive diminishes even further. Your body no longer
produces testosterone. For all of you who have transitioned
from male to female, you know what sex drive is like before
and after hormones. Then after SRS, it decreases even more. So,
in order for you to have more sensation and reach orgasm, your
testosterone has to be in good range, otherwise you could
regret surgery if you cannot use the new parts you have. Yes,
people do regret it and I won't overlook that fact. For some
people it can be great, but for others, it enhances the risks of
depression and suicide. It's true so be careful. I was taking
testosterone for about a year, but stopped and found what
worked best for me that I could incorporate into my diet and
supplement regimen. These are DHEA, as well as iodine and
selenium. DHEA is a type of hormone that decreases as we
age. And iodine and selenium both stimulate the thyroid,
which I think has had the biggest impact. Iodine can be
acquired from natural sources like seaweed and other marine
life. Selenium can be acquired from brazil nuts. Just one or
two brazil nuts a day and you'll notice some positive effects.
Exercise also helps get those testosterone levels up. The
amount of naturally born women who have told me how much they
have related to my discussion of my surgically made vagina is
quite astounding. So much that is sounds like maybe, just
maybe, that the results closely reflect that of a woman who was
born with a vagina. Of course, I'll never have a real vagina.
I can never have a period, get pregnant, or have plenty of
other female only features and characteristics. It's made by a
human being via surgically reconstructing male anatomy.
It wasn't made naturally. I'll admit it's not real. But with
the amount of women who could relate, that's interesting for
sure. Even when I went to the gynecologist, she was impressed
and said my surgeon did a good job. Maybe she was just saying
that, but I don't think so since my vagina is not a freak show.
Yeah, there may be some problems visually due to how thin I was
when I had the surgery since there was less fat to work with,
but I like it now. Yeah maybe also there is some hair inside
the vagina which is unnatural. However, it's minor. It's not
like a hairy cave down there. Another misconception is that
dilation is required to keep this gaping hole open and ready
for action. Dilation is crucial early on after surgery,
especially the first year, if not two years. But after that,
it's not as important and can actually be replaced by sex. If
I had a man I'd much rather have a penis up there than a dilator.
Yeah, dilation is unnatural. Many women don't need to do
this. But, also remember that dilators are not just for trans
women, but also women who were born with vaginas who have
vaginal atrophy. This happens to women with low estrogen, so it's
still something real women do, not just trans women. Another
misconception is that having this surgery, or just
transitioning in general, promotes the mental disorder
that is gender dysphoria. The main problem with this is that
it does encourage people to alter their bodies through
hormones and surgery, which why would anyone want to do this
anyway? I wish I didn't have to do any of this. People alter
their bodies because they don't like them. Instead of accepting
the bodies we were born with, we alter them with drugs,
surgeries, and so on due to insecurities we have. Cosmetic
surgery can be very addicting and I've seen people get carried
away and transform themselves into a non-human being, which is
simply impossible. Just like it's impossible to truly change
one's sex. I had SRS, but I recognize that I'll always be
male. I can never biologically be female no matter what, so
I'm not going to obsess over it. However, what other way than
transitioning can alleviate dysphoria? Often there is no
other way, which there certainly should be. The argument people
make though is that if someone hates their legs and wants them
cut off, it's a mental illness and shouldn't be encouraged. And
they also apply that to trans people. Ok, that's a reasonable
argument. But, what if it's not just a mental disorder at play,
but a physical condition. What if a baby was meant to be a
male, but physically developed as female prior to birth. While
body, mind, and spirit are all connected, it doesn't mean the
body will always match the mind. Spirit doesn't know any gender,
but mind and body are gendered as either male or female, so
some people have to transition. The mind is more powerful than
the body, so that's why we have to change the body to match the
mind. Another thing I take issue with is the medical necessity of
SRS. It's not necessary to be happy and live as who you really
are, and neither is transitioning. You can learn to
be happy and love yourself without changing anything
physically. Some people will have an extremely difficult time
and will be saved by this transition and surgery, but
others will actually be negatively impacted by these.
So it's not necessary, but some people have a harder time with
dysphoria. Another issue I have is that some people think trans
women are going to be sleeping with men and never tell them
that they were once a male and now have a surgically made
vagina. This is a tricky one to answer since I always believe
one should be honest. If a trans woman is going to have sex with
a man, she should always tell him. She should say,
"Hey, as long as you're cool sticking your penis inside this
gaping hole that is a penis and scrotum that's
been pushed into my body to resemble a vagina."
Obviously it's not going to go like that.
Some people won't find the humor in that statement and be
offended. I don't really care. But, telling someone is so
important and I simply just don't understand the people who
slut it up for some action. I'm not these people so I don't
know. My best advice, find someone who loves and cares for
you, wait until you two know each other well, then tell them
you are trans, then have sex if both of you are comfortable.
What is the need to rush and have sex and one night stands?
Lastly, I just wanted to mention that any videos related to sex
reassignment surgery are often flagged as inappropriate and I
cannot make any money off them. I'm fine with that. But if you
recall, I made a video not long ago about censorship, which I'll
have an annotation and a link to in the description. Essentially
Google AdSense has put a violation on my account due to
sexual merchandise. This affects my website currently, and if
they shut my AdSense down, it'll affect all my YouTube income as
well, as scant as it's become. And this video may be the final
straw since it discusses sexuality and surgery. According
to them, "Google ads may not be placed on adult or mature
content. This includes fetish content as well as sites that
promote, sell or discuss sexual aids." Ads don't appear on any
page on my site discussing sexuality or surgery as I've
removed most of them, so it's merely a cover up for something
else. The page that was in violation does talk about a
sexual device, dilators, but you know what, you can call them
dildos or sexual devices or whatever, but above that, they
are medical devices since surgery was a medical process
and I have a medical condition. I don't show off vibrators and
try to sell them to you like some cheap referrer code deal,
"Get 50% if you use the code AutumnVagphodel," like I've seen
a few other trans people do on YouTube, which is just a
disgusting way to make money from your viewers. So, they've
targeted me because they don't like the other content I make
and are using SRS and dilation as the excuse. This is
fascinating since the video about censorship is pretty much
censored and I don't make any money off of it, and more and
more videos are seeing a sudden halt of revenue. That's why it's
so important to help whatever way you can. However you can
support me, I am truly grateful since it helps us continue
fighting the censorship. Just by sharing my videos and spreading
the message helps greatly. And if you want to donate, I am
currently using Patreon and PayPal which is in the
description of all my videos. Via Patreon, you can get early
access to my videos and even have your name and social media
displayed on the 'special thanks' page on my website.
However you can contribute, I am so grateful for your support.
Thank you! Be sure to also sign up for my free newsletter on my
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always, the links are in the description. If you have any
other input on this topic, I would love to hear it so please
feel free to leave a comment and let me know what you agree or
disagree with, and/or how this has helped you or someone close
to you. Have a wonderful day!
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