We heard that the second daughter
also works a lot at home.
I work so much that I'd like to send my concern here.
That's how much you work?
Tell us everything.
After school, I help out at the restaurant
until 7 p.m., when the other employee comes.
Then I have to do the laundry for all 5 of us.
I help out because
mom can't do it because of her bad knees.
She can't mop the floor either,
so I do it.
Dad likes things clean, so I clean his room, too.
He likes the place clean but doesn't clean it himself?
That's right.
What grade are you in now?
I'm in sixth grade.
You're like Cinderella.
He goes out to meet his friends, too.
He does?
He goes to play pool.
He seems to care more about meeting his friends.
She must really be disappointed with her dad.
He even plays pool? He does have time.
He has plenty of time.
I just briefly go out with friends after work.
But your wife is working while you're out.
You go out with friends while your wife is working?
Yes. (Admitting it)
What meetings do you have?
I have meetings with friends.
My elementary school friends,
my middle school friends,
and my high school friends.
I hope you didn't go to college.
I didn't. I meet former work colleagues of mine.
Those I did the transportation business with.
How many times a month do you go out?
Once or twice a month.
You should meet with your family once a month.
It doesn't fit my schedule.
What do you mean?
When is your restaurant the busiest?
From 9 p.m. to midnight.
But you're not there at those hours.
You're at the gym.
You know it's the busiest time of the day.
If I'm there,
customers just leave.
(What are you talking about?)
That's ridiculous.
Then you should be home at that time.
You should at least help out at home.
There's nothing to do at home. Kids do all the work.
Why should they do all the work?
While you're just working out?
Your daughter said you have bad knees.
You couldn't come down the slide earlier.
How's your health right now?
I got an artificial joint surgery at age 40.
The surgery didn't go too well,
so I got 3 surgeries on this knee and 2 on this one.
I needed these surgeries.
I needed his signature, but he said he had to work.
Women who shared the hospital room with me
asked me if I was a widow.
They asked that because he never came to see me.
Did the doctor explain why your knees got so bad?
I have to work at the restaurant and at home.
I have to look after the kids.
He said it's because I work too much.
But my husband disagreed.
He said it's because I don't work out enough.
It hurts to hear him say that.
Right. It hurts.
Why didn't you to the hospital for her?
I did go see her later on.
Why are you stuttering?
He seems to go out to see his friends
and enjoys his life that way.
How do you relieve stress?
Whenever I get stressed, I call my older sister.
I rely on her a lot.
Her older sister is here too, so let's talk to her.
Hello.
It's fortunate that she has you.
Does she talk to you about her situation a lot?
Yes, she calls me whenever she gets upset.
She tells me, "All I do is work all day.
I don't think I should've married him."
Then I tell her to just divorce him.
I get very upset, too. (Her sister gives her strength)
Did you ever get upset at your brother-in-law?
I was most upset about this.
Our father may have lived longer thanks to him,
but our father passed away later.
But he didn't show up at the funeral because of work.
He didn't?
(No way...)
He just showed up from time to time at night.
Our family was upset about that. (Didn't attend wake)
My youngest sister was most upset then.
(She must've been more upset due to her dad's death)
Didn't you think her family would be upset by that?
I was working in the vending machine business then.
I had to fill up the machines during the day
and I went to the funeral in the evenings.
I went back and forth.
I was more tired than anyone else at the time.
Couldn't you have asked someone else to work for you?
There was no one to ask.
We know about vending machines.
If it's out of stock, we'd find another machine.
My machines weren't placed outdoors.
I had a contract with a factory.
If a drink or two were out of stock, it's okay.
But it's a problem if all the machines are empty.
In your opinion...
He could've notified them that someone passed away.
Anyone would've understood.
That's why I was upset.
He wants me to be good to his parents.
I like his mother.
He's always busy with work, so I take care of her.
His mom was hospitalized for a week once.
But I also worked at nights then, too.
I would help out at the restaurant during the day.
His mom didn't like the hospital food,
so I cooked and took the food to her at this hospital.
When I was at the hospital, he called me,
telling me to hurry over. Why?
Because he had to go the gym. It was 7 p.m.
- He had to work out even then? / - Yes.
What?
I had to go work at the restaurant in the evening.
I did that for a week.
Did he go see his mom in the hospital?
I think he went once when she was discharged.
Because he had to pay the bill.
I asked him to take his mom on a trip for
her 70th birthday and he told me to go without him.
He said he'd work instead.
So I went on a trip without him for three days.
What daughter-in-law goes on a trip with
her in-laws and three daughters
without her husband?
This is so frustrating.
That's not a trip.
It's a penance.
Why didn't you go see your mom at the hospital?
It didn't fit my schedule then either.
Because I had to work during the day.
You had no problem working out at the gym.
Everything else doesn't fit your schedule.
She told me not to come.
But it's your duty to take the time to go see her.
I hope this never happens,
but what if you get sick and you're hospitalized?
How would you feel if your family doesn't go
see you at the hospital because they're too busy?
That would be a problem.
He's extremely selfish.
You think you're being good to your family, right?
I want to ask you why you are
working so hard to earn money.
For our family's well-being.
Right? For their happiness.
Do you think they're happy right now?
I think we're happy in our own way.
My kids and my wife.
Your wife is having a hard time right now.
I know, but we don't have a choice right now.
She has bad knees because she works too much.
Your kids want to spend more time with you.
They don't know when they'll ever be happy.
Sometime in the near future...
You said you'll work this hard until you're 65.
I will be working until then,
but whether it's this year or next year,
I'm sure we'll find happiness soon.
We're not saying you're a bad person.
That's not what we're saying.
It's frustrating because you don't realize it.
She's not asking for something big.
She just small joys and your love for the family.
To me, it looks like you don't really care about them.
That's what I think. This is so upsetting.
Right.
I would've done something if she was my sister.
This is not right. She's in bad health.
How can you say that to her?
Why can't you see that she's working so hard?
It's so frustrating. Let me do this to cool off.
How frustrating.
(Applauding)
I'm sorry to her husband.
(Ah!) I'm sorry.
Somebody help her.
One, two, three!
(Two men must help her up)
Even strangers are helping me like this.
You've been enduring this for years.
What made you send your concern to us?
My back was hurting so bad, so I went to the hospital.
They asked me to get an MRI scan.
They told me that my cervical disc ruptured
and that I urgently needed surgery.
It was my 10th surgery.
I got scared.
I'm older now and I'm diabetic.
I was afraid I might not survive.
So I got so angry.
So I went through the surgery.
He was there when I was done.
So I returned to my hospital room.
As soon as he saw me, he said bye and left.
- Right after he saw you? / - Yes.
He was satisfied that he was there until I got out.
He didn't ask if you were in pain or not?
No. He just said, "I'm leaving."
But...
What's more enraging is that he told me to go work.
- The day you returned home? / - Yes.
I either had to stay lying down or standing up.
- I couldn't sit. / - Right.
He told me to come and just stand there.
He wanted me to be there to greet the customers.
Why did you ask her to work the day she came home?
I was afraid that customers would think
the owner changed.
Customers must like her a lot.
Many of them come because of her.
So you cared more about the customers?
To ease your mind?
I guess so.
Because the restaurant comes first, right?
I'm sorry.
He's apologizing for the first time.
Please tell him what you want from him.
This is what I want.
I'm not asking you to go on a trip with us.
I want you to spend time with the kids.
Go play badminton on the court or something.
Something small that people do ordinarily.
That's what I ask. (Wife wants a simple life)
To be their father.
You say you're earning money for the family,
but what have you done for them until now?
That's what I'd like to ask you.
If you ask me what I really want...
What is your wish?
I want to sleep at night.
How many hours do you want to sleep at night?
Everyone else sleeps at night,
but I never got to do that.
I want to sleep at 10, and wake up in the morning.
Nothing else.
My wish is to sleep at night.
(What is he thinking now?)
I think that
if you spend more time with your girls,
your wife would work so hard.
- Right? / - Yes.
You're usually positive and don't cry often, right?
That's not because she doesn't want to.
She's holding everything in.
She's trying to stay strong because if
she collapses, everything else will collapse.
I learned today that if someone asks me if I like to
travel, I will say I do.
Make sure you do, everyone.
I'd rather be single than be married to him.
- It's good to have a husband, though. / - Right.
Can you grant her wish?
Yes, I can.
I will have her take a day off every week or two.
So she can rest.
Is it a concern or not?
It's a concern.
Please press the button.
You said you wanted to work until you're 65.
My grandma worked until she was 65.
She did nothing but work.
She retired after that
and she got depressed right away.
If you only work,
something that's such a big part of your life is gone.
And you get depressed right away.
- So it's a concern. / - It's a concern.
It's a concern.
You don't have to eat expensive food to be happy.
Even if you're eating $1 noodle soup,
to eat, talk, and laugh as a family is true happiness.
Jiyeon.
There is no need for words.
I got upset as I listened to him speak.
She kept sighing as he spoke.
I actually can relate to him.
I'm a workaholic, too.
I feel like I'll be unhappy if I don't work.
My family asks me to travel, but I say I'm too busy.
It feels strange listening to this concern.
Please don't misunderstand.
It's not a problem because he's a workaholic.
Work is an excuse. She actually works much harder.
So much that she's ruined her body.
He's using work as an excuse, not a goal.
- Think about it, Jongmin. / - I have!
Have you been listening?
What you're saying is not right.
You must listen to other people.
You won't listen to your wife after you marry, huh?
That's why I think it's a grave concern.
Oh, Jongmin.
If you can relate to her concerns,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. / - Please stop.
So many people pressed the button.
Many people voted.
Many people were sighing as they listened.
I could hear people sighing.
By the way, I'm very sorry.
We've just met. I feel bad.
It'll be aired anyway.
He sought revenge timidly.
- I'm sorry. / - Don't worry about others.
Please say a word to your wife.
What do you normally call her?
Honey.
Honey, I loved you ever since I first met you.
That hasn't changed.
I still love you.
I love you, honey.
Since we're here today,
we'll discuss it and change things now.
My values are starting to waver now.
Coming here was helpful.
Please say a word to your daughters, too.
(High anticipation) I...
I will spend more time with you.
Be sure to go to her graduation.
I will.
(Wow)
Look at how happy she is.
He said he'll be at your graduation!
He'll be there.
He said he'll be at your graduation!
(Hahahaha)
(Sure sure)
She's saying, "Sure, sure."
Be sure to look after your health.
Please show us the result.
What's the perfect score?
200 votes.
There's no perfect score.
It's more than half if it goes over 100 votes.
165? 175? 165?
165!
They got so many votes.
(They got 165 votes / It was a concern)
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