Thứ Bảy, 2 tháng 12, 2017

Waching daily Dec 2 2017

*Clicks*

*Click*

*Click*

*Typing on keyboard*

(I've already dubbed this comic.)

(*sigh* If only...)

(Wait...)

*Click*

*Exhale*

*Marker sounds*

Nothing like a frightening tag to bring a truck together.

(You are about to die in :)

(Holy crap)

Da ting goes skrrrrrA

*gunshot*

PA PA KA KA KA (with impact sounds)

I didn't know you were left-handed, Rachel.

I can actually write well with both hands.

Both hands ? I see. So you're...

AMBER-dextre !

*badum-tsss*

That must come in HANDy. Ha Ha Ha

Chloe...

Wow, Chloe, this truck really suits you.

You think so ?

Yeah ! It's a garbage that will be unceremoniously cast aside once it has exhausted its usefulness !

Haha, Thanks !

What kind of car do you think would suit ME ?

Ho, that's easy.

An AMBER-ghini !

What ? Do car jokes DRIVE you crazy ?

If you TIRE of them, WHELL take a BRAKE !

*scream*

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КАКОЙ ТЫ В ПОСТЕЛИ ПО ЗНАКУ КИТАЙСКОГО ГОРОСКОПА - Duration: 24:26.

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Pork Soda //Meme Remake// - Duration: 0:47.

Pineapples Are In My Head

When You Were Fun

Got Nobody 'cos I'm brain Dead

You Made Me Run

Pineapples Are In My Head

To The Seafront

Got Nobody 'cos I'm brain Dead

She Took The Plunge

Pineapples Are In My Head

(Pineapples Are In My Head)

Got Nobody 'cos I'm brain Dead

(Got Nobody 'cos I'm brain Dead)

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Saç Doğal ve Hızlı Nasıl Büyür Uzar ve Kalınlaşır, Sihirli Saç Büyütme İşlemi %100 İşe Yarıyor - Duration: 3:14.

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10 ЖИВОТНЫХ-НЕВИДИМОК - Duration: 7:06.

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ব্রয়লার মুরগি পালন পর্ব-০৬ মুরগির তাপজনিত পীড়ন ও বাজারজাতকরণ Heat Stress & Cooperative Marketing - Duration: 2:06.

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#SOCIETY60 - Episode 1 - Say My Name: Eniko Mihalik - Duration: 1:01.

I see other people in the gym foam rolling like it's nothing...

For me, this is harder than the exercise itself.

My name is Eniko: E-N-I-K-O

And I'm training for the New York City Marathon...seven days to go.

Some weeks are much easier, some weeks are much harder. Sometimes I can finish the shortest run,

but then other days I just...I just go for it.

I tell myself that there's only ups after the downs.

Four days till the marathon, I'm super super sore.

My longest run for the whole training was 18 miles.

Two days left!

Today I'm personalizing my t-shirt.

REPRESENT!

One day to go, and I'm picking up my bib today at Javits Center.

My name is Eniko. Say My Name at the finish line.

Oh, and throughout the whole race. Yah duh!

Never again...never again!

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Nya minioner och hunden - se video målarbok för barn. Nya målarbok - tecknade filmer - Duration: 2:43.

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Lahore's Newly Built Swimming Pool Complex offering State of the Art Facilities | GharanaPK - Duration: 1:58.

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Finger Family Songs For Kids with Pig Toys & Superheroes Nursery Rhymes - Duration: 2:04.

Daddy finger, daddy finger, where are you?

Here I am, here I am. How do you do?

Mommy finger, Mommy finger, where are you?

Here I am, here I am. How do you do?

Brother finger, Brother finger, where are you?

Here I am, here I am. How do you do?

Sister finger, Sister finger, where are you?

Here I am, here I am. How do you do?

Baby finger, Baby finger, where are you?

Here I am, here I am. How do you do?

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Машинки мультфильмы для мальчиков прохождение игры на андроид Traffic Rider #1 - Duration: 6:10.

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The Secret Code For Your Andriod Mobile Phone 2017 - Duration: 3:50.

The Secret Code

The Secret Code

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[ENG] "Chinese film Report"- #LuHan interview Full ver. - Duration: 5:39.

(Strengthen learning; try the best to make yourself good)

If you have the faith, you will keep working hard and to study intensively

(Take the responsibility, pass more positive energy)

Passing people energy through a role or doing positive things or charity by ourselves .

(LuHan to be a Guest at "Chinese film Report", tell his feeling and experience)

If young people need to have ideals, abilities and responsibilities,

then the country will have future, and the nation will have hope

(Study hard, try the best to be a good young actor)

MC: As an actor we are talking about "never forget why I started",

I do not know when you start to realize getting your movie dream or being an actor this kind job ?

LuHan: I am sure since I have watched movie at my young age,

because I have had a dream to be a singer and an actor

For this dream, it has been pushing me to work hard to achieve my dream,

but till now I am still on the way of it.

MC: Which movie impressed you very much when you were a kid?

And make you want to be in the movie field

LuHan: Maybe because I watched martial arts movies a lot when I was a kid

Jet Li is that kind of heroic dream

So when I was a child, I thought I should act some action films like Jet Li,

such as Wong Fei-hung

MC: It was a dream about action actor

LuHan: Right

MC: Speaking of the actor's faith,I don't know how you understand the importance of faith to an actor?

LuHan: Actually I think this is very important,

once you have the faith, you will keep working hard and studying deeply

MC: I dont know What do you think about the words "double reputation on acting skill and morality?"

LuHan: This is a little bit far to me, I can not say the reason because I am still young now

I think it is still too far to be there to me, there is a long way to go

I hope I can work with a lot of excellent senior actors and artists

who have double good reputations in the future

It can help me to improve quickly , to be strict with myself by learning from them.

MC: Big responsibility and long way to go

(Passing the positive energy, strive to be a high quality young idol)

MC: In fact, there are many of your injured scenes which have not been seen

You always show the optimistic sides to people

You actually did a lot of hard working behind

MC: I find you are the one who don't want the fans to know about your injuries

LuHan: As this career, it's easy to get injured sometimes

such as Wire fu, or riding a bike, it is easy to happen accidently

but I think we should go through,

must experience it then will grow up

Also I don't think it is necessary to say it

to let others worry about it, this is negative energy ,I think.

MC: Passing more positive energy

LuHan: Positive energy, right.

MC: You are a public person who have a lot of fans

so what kind of requirements and benchmarks do you have to build up your public image?

LuHan: In fact, I think the public people have much responsibilities

because they make the media spreading up largely, so we have a big responsibility

(This responsibility will be transformed into motivation, encouragement and inspire me,

never forget why I started, do my best to work hard, be vigorous,

be positive, set a good example for young people )

Passing the good energy to the people through a character or by doing positive or charity things

(LuHan took away the rubbish when the event was over)

So people can feel it

For example, the fans took the rubbish away by themselves in my concert before

I was particularly moved by that

So I think it's really important if we can do it right

MC: There were special attentions to the young people by learning the spirits of the 19th CPC National Congress report

I think you should have very deep impressions of some parts

Do you have any words to share with all the young people,to encourage them together?

LuHan: "Young people need to have ideals, abilities and responsibilities,

then the country will have future, and the nation will have hope."

I am impressed by this

Because I am also a young person,dream is really important

but not only have a dream, you must be able to take the responsibility

and have guts

So I hope I can learn this spirit with my fans and grow up together

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Easy Troubleshooting DC Problems With A Multimeter - Model Railroading For Beginners - Ep 19 - Duration: 19:04.

we're going to go over some basic troubleshooting techniques with a

multimeter and other devices to check your components on your model railroad

so let's get started with this right now

I'm Tom Kvichak and this is Toms Trains and Things this channel was

created to help other modelers who are in need of guidance in pursuing their dream

of building a model railroad and in the past couple of weeks I've been getting

some emails from viewers who said they bought some train sets on eBay and were

having problems with them they're not running and they wanted me to

troubleshoot them for them and I said well I'll show you how to do it I tried

to step through it with through emails but it's kind of hard doing it that way

so I'm gonna do a video on it showing you how to troubleshoot problems

on your model railroad and basically the first thing I'm gonna do is show you how

to do it on a train set to see if you got power on tracks to see if the

locomotive is working and other things that you want to take into consideration

these people have bought train sets on eBay thinking that they were good

apparently they don't work and one of them said that the contacted the seller

and the seller says well you're not hooking it up right and I just I just

wrote back to him I says well that's the canned excuse from everybody that sells

something you're not hooking it up right but I know these people were hooking it

up right because they stepped me through some of the things that they've done

already and it appears that they are doing it right so I'm gonna go through

this and show you how to troubleshoot to see if your locomotive is working to see

if your power pack is working to see if your wires are working and I have some

back here I have the locomotive and I have the the EZ track now the ones that

they were talking about were Bachmann and that one person showed me a power

supply it's a little bit different than this one but I'm gonna use this one

because this is the Bachmann one have and I'll show you some of the MRC

ones I have too and show you how to troubleshoot with those also so if you

would like to see more videos like this go ahead and hit that subscribe button

and go to my channel click right below the video where it says Toms Trains and

Things click on that and that'll take you to my channel page and click on

Playlists and that will show you all the playlists that I have I have them

grouped into different categories by topic so it's easy to find so if you're

looking for something on soldering you'll go find it if you're looking for

electrical project you could find it if you're looking for DCC you'll find it I

have over 40 playlists on there where the videos are grouped in two categories

so you could find them easily so take a look at it and let's get started with

this with the multimeter since this is a model railroading for beginners episode

I'm going to do this for DC only I'm not gonna be doing DCC troubleshooting so

this is gonna be for DC only and we're gonna use a multimeter it doesn't have

to be one like this it could be a less expensive one you could pick one up

anywhere hardware stores Walmart anywhere even on my Amazon Shop store I

have a few multi-meters on there and we're going to use this Bachmann one

here and you could see it has the plugs in the back for the power for the little

wall wart and it has a plug right here for the track power now most of the

problems that I think that everybody was having was whether to find out if the

transformer was bad that the wire was bad or the connection on the track was

bad or the locomotive was bad so we're going to cover all of those aspects

right here the first thing I'm going to show you is about the locomotive I have

a steam locomotive here that I picked up at a thrift store a few years ago there

was many there were many items there it looked like the the modeler passed away

and his wife unloaded everything at the thrift store so I

picked up quite a few locomotives and some buildings and some other supplies

there but I had no idea if they ran or not luckily they all ran one thing you

could do if you go somewhere and you find a locomotive

even at a train show take a 9-volt battery just a 9-volt battery and this

is only going to work on DC and just put it now you can see on the tender here

you have these little wipers on the wheels okay that is an indication that

one set of wheels is is going to one track and the other set of wheels is

making contact with the other track so you can't do it on here but do it on

here and just put your 9-volt battery up there and just see if it turns now this

is not going to give you anything for speed or how smooth it runs or anything

like that but you'll be able to see if the locomotive runs and if there's

anything stuck on there like is see if the the gears are stuck or anything like

that so that's the number one thing to troubleshoot to see if your locomotive

is working now don't try this on DCC because it won't work and you'll notice

on DCC there will be a little plate on the bottom and it'll say DCC onboard so

only on DC continuing with the locomotive if your tender has these

wipers on it right here that means that one set of wheels is making contact with

one track and the other set of wheels is making contact with the other track and

I'm going to show you how to do this right here we're going to put this on

owns and I'm going to put my lead on this side right here and we're going to

take this one right here and you'll see that you got twenty two point eight ohms

okay that means you're going through the motor on this side here you got point

three ohms so that means these wheels right here and these wheels right here

are on the same side of the motor these wheels over here are insulated so

we're going to go over to the other side okay so we'll go on this one right here

and it shows approximately 0.5 ohms so that means these wheels right here are

making contact and these over here are not so you can see it says O L that

means there's no continuity between here and here and let me put the probes on

these wheels right here so I could show you these are metal wheels on here but

if you look closely down in here you'll see that there's an insulator between

the axle and the wheels and so there's no continuity right there now on the

locomotive itself you're going to see you're going to read the coil that's in

the motor and you'll get some kind of reading on this one here it's twenty two

point seven ohms so you know that there something is working there and all of

this is without power on and the next couple of tests I'm going to do the same

thing with out our on but I'll go back to this battery

right here and you'll see now if you get it in the right spot on the wheels you

could run it for a little bit to test it up like that and you can see that it

runs freely that we've got a section of ez track right here

and what I did I use this for many different things so I I cut this here

but I'll show you how to test it with this connected if you have a small piece

of wire and we're going to check this connector right here you'll see that it

has three slots in here the Center one isn't being used so you put this little

jumper between the two if you didn't have this thing disconnected now I have

these little attachments on here but what you would do you would put these on

your plug and that won't that one's a little bit big so I can't really do it

and test it with this jumper on the back there to see if you have continuity if

you have continuity on there and what I will do is figure out which plugs or

which pins on there are the good pins okay so this back one is that wire right

there and then this wire right here

should be the second one so they're not even using the first plug on here so

though you're getting your power from right here and right here so what you

want to do you could either do it this way you can you can do it two ways you

could leave this in here jumpered across both pins but you got to make sure it's

in there good and tight and this is probably a bad example with this one

because that's too small let me see if I have a wire is just take your meter and

your probes and go like that and if you read and if you have a reading on there

and on this one you're not going to get it because I have it disconnected but

you'll see something like that and that tells you that the wire is good that

your whole cable is good all the way up through to the plug now if you don't get

a reading and it looks like this or you get something where it says mega ohms

then your wire is bad now the connectors on the track and it's basically the same

thing you just check one side with the track okay so that this connection right

here goes to that track that's good this connection right here goes to that track

and we could do the same thing on the other side this connection right here to

that track this connection right here to this track now one other problem that

you might have and you might have dirty contacts here and here so when you're

doing this right here you're not getting good contact so and we see that's 9 ohms

and that's good come over to the other wire and 10.9

ohms and you realize that you're going to be doing this through the plug

through the things on the plug because I have the wire right here so you see all

of this is good you might have a little bit of dirt or something in there

because you've seen that the resistance on one wire to the track was lower than

the other one one with the higher resistance you may have a little bit of

dirt in the contact so what I would suggest if you you could either spray

some alcohol in there and there's hardly anything that that will fit down in

there but you might be able to take that same wire and and just scrape down in

there with that wire and that might just shine it up a little bit to get good

contact in there but I wouldn't worry about it if it's just you know that you

know one ohm or a half an ohm or something like that if it was like 30

ohms or something then I would worry about it but with you know that little

bit I wouldn't worry now we know that the locomotive is good two tracks good

the wire is good and if it still doesn't run then we can assume that the

transformer is bad now the way that we can check that is we'll have to plug it

in now I have power on this little transformer here and I have my probes on

the wires but if you're you're going to be troubleshooting it you could even

bring this over to here plug this in to the track and then test the tracks

itself but I'm going to do this now putting it here is the same thing as

putting my probes on a track so you'll take a look at the meter I have it set

on DC and as I increase the throttle you'll see that the voltage increases on

it so that means the the power pack is good now whenever I change direction on

this you'll see that it changes to a negative and I'll bring it back down and

shut it off and you'll have residual power in because there's capacitors in

here and it'll slowly drop down because right now what you're doing you're

bleeding off the capacitors that's inside the power pack I just showed you

how to test the basic components to see if it does work and if you have a

problem to be able to identify what that problem is all right I have a couple of

more transformers here I have a Tech ll 2500 and I have an Ampack and model

402 now I have the Tech ll plugged in I don't have this one plugged in I'm not

going to plug in every one of them but just to show you basically everything is

the same on there on the back of this one there's an extra set of terminals

you have fixed DC accessories AC and variable DC the variable DC is going to

be what you're going to hook up to your tracks and so I'm just going to hook

these leads up right here to show you if I can get them to stick on there on the

screw well I'm testing this without having to hold it all the way you might

have to hold it a little bit but I'll turn the power on right here and I'll

increase on the throttle and you can see as I increase the voltage increases all

the way up to 18 almost 18 and a half volts now I'll switch the direction on

here and it'll and you'll lose the minus on there

so I'm going to go over to fix DC and this is a like 19 and a half and I'll go

over to the AC and the AC says 20 okay 15 just under 16 volts so basically

everything the same on a power pack it doesn't matter what the brand is or how

big it is or how small it is you're going to have basically the same thing

this one has tracked DC and accessories it doesn't have the fixed DC on it and

you know just on some of them you're gonna have three sets of terminals that

most of them you're just going to have two sets of terminals you're going to

have the variable DC for your throttle and AC for the accessories so that's

basically what you have to do to check on them with the meter to make sure that

they are working properly now in future episodes I'll show you how to do more

troubleshooting on your model railroad in DC and later on in DC see if you have

any questions or comments about specific problems that you're having leave a

comment down below or else you could contact me through my email toms trains

and things at gmail.com I have to think about it you know or else you could go

on my website and go on to contact page and you can leave a message on there

also and that will send me an email that I'll be able to respond back to you so

if you have any questions about this or any other troubleshooting about DC on

your model railroad just go ahead leave a comment or leave me an email and I'll

be happy to help you out with that settle

that's this one for right now and we'll have more on troubleshooting DC and

later on DCC so thank you

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What If We Had Cities Of Light - Duration: 5:02.

What If We Had Cities Of Light

by Rainbow Ra,

But what am I?

An infant crying in the night:

An infant crying for the light:

And with no language but a cry.

Tennyson/In Memoriam

Would we notice an appreciable difference in our lives if we could access cities of

light?

How could we acquire these for our world?

Our City of Light

On December 3, 2012 at 6:00 a.m., my husband interrupted my morning meditations.

As it is an unwritten rule that we not disturb one another during our meditations, I thought

it must be important.

He beckoned me to the kitchen window.

Southeast of our home was an astonishing cluster of lights, at or slightly above ground level,

where no lights had been before.

It was large enough for a small city!

I recall being able to distinguish individual lights.

There was a tremendous glow surrounding the area from a mixture of warm and cool white

lights.

We glanced out the window periodically as we got ready for work.

Forty-five minutes after we first observed it, not a light shone from the site.

Only the occasional, years-old, yard lights of the countryside lit up the dark.

We puzzled what it could be.

It seemed too large to be a group of farmers working their fields.

We didn�t think a new wind turbine site was there either.

Time has shown that it was neither of these.

We haven�t witnessed anything of this nature since then.

Researching

I did many internet searches and found a plausible explanation.

Genii Townsend wrote the book, Something�s Coming.

She has had contact with an etheric city of light over Sedona.

The Sedona city of light is one of fourteen throughout the earth.

Mrs. Townsend describes them as �universal cities of light, love and healing.� These

can heal us physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

After I read Something�s Coming, I developed a high degree of hope that these cities would

begin revealing themselves quite soon as our world is in sore need of healing.

Another source, GOF Planetary City of Light Project believes there is a group of more

than forty cities rather than just fourteen.

Their website speaks of a process to birth further cities of light.

Each may have sister cities in countries around the world as well as in various star systems.

Yet a third resource, Star Soundings, lists twenty-two cities to �be filled with hope,

love, peace and acceptance for all peoples�.

Sarasota, Florida, the home base of In5D is included in this group.

All three sources have noted cities of light for not only healing and worldwide peace,

but also featuring art, music, teaching and alternative healing.

Another View

Nearly three years after we were granted the gift of seeing our city of light, another

member of our family was given a view.

One morning, our son mentioned the beautiful lights that fascinated him during the night.

He described red and purple lights and a great brilliance of light above our home.

He thought it was from our Christmas lights.

We had no exterior holiday lights hung yet!

Our Future

As none of the lists I�ve seen mention our area as a city of light location, I�d like

to think that they could literally be anywhere that has high vibrations.

Additionally, I wonder if the initial city we viewed has since grown and expanded.

I�ve pondered, what can we do to hasten this marvel, this literal heaven on earth,

New Jerusalem?

How can we manifest such tremendous opportunity to bring us more fully into the fifth dimensional

experience?

If we try with 3-D methods, we may feel as if we are �an infant crying for the light�,

�with no language but a cry.� Genii Townsend tells us, �The Imagination is the pathway

to the Christ Consciousness.� Could we use our imagination to bring public access and

disclosure of the cities of light?

According to Gregg Braden, if we purposely induce the feeling of having acquired a certain

desire, it is more likely to appear.

Could we feel how we might feel as if we already had them?

Let us imagine, feel in our hearts and shine our lights.

�Ye are the light of the world.

A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid.� (Matthew 5:14) Bring it on!

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Parenting Advice You Always Hear From Non Parents - Duration: 4:42.

If you've got kids, you've probably gotten unsolicited advice from your non-parent friends

and family.

While it can feel like a personal attack on you, your child, and your parenting skills...deep

breaths, moms and dads…this is the stuff you're always gonna hear!

"You should be more strict"

Non-parents tend to think you can prevent all bad kid behavior just by being more strict.

Mom and family psychologist, Kathryn Smerling, says, "I remember when I was raising my son,

my non-parent friends always seemed to want me to be stricter...They felt as if my parenting

style was overly indulgent."

It's a tough job, but no one else can do it better than you.

"You should feed them differently"

People who don't have kids often don't grasp the severity of children's food allergies.

Cara Maksimow, mom, clinical therapist and author of Lose That Mommy Guilt, says, "People

with no children and even those with children [who have no] allergies, will often say that

we should desensitize [allergic kids]...or other comments on what the kids should and

should not eat."

Often times, parents have to pick their battles, when getting kids to eat at all.

Clinical psychologist, Anna Prudovski, says, "Most parents make their parenting choices

based on their beliefs, their family situation, and their kids' temperaments...Usually, those

are thought-through decisions.

At other times, parents may have preferred a different strategy, but it proved too difficult

to implement (which is often a case with...junk food)."

"Thank you for the effort, but I'm not really into this kind of thing."

"You should breastfeed"

Breastfeeding is arguably one of the most personal (and controversial) decisions that

moms make.

Jennifer Theriault, a licensed clinical social worker, says, "Almost from the beginning...friends

and even strangers seemed to weigh in on whether or not I should nurse, and those who were

proponents always added in their beliefs about the absolute importance of it...I can remember

having a very difficult time nursing both my boys and feeling so inadequate and ashamed

that it was not enjoyable or easy.

In fact, there was nothing about it that made me feel bonded or attached during those agonizing

times."

So, free the nipple!

And make the choice that works for you, not everyone else.

"You shouldn't let them cry"

Just like breastfeeding, this one's a hot topic.

Prudovski says, "The advice, especially by those who themselves have not experienced

the struggles of parenthood, triggers negative emotions in parents...This is especially true

for those parents who made an informed decision on a controversial issue and are now challenged

by their childless friends or family.

Parents feel judged and may become defensive.

Some may experience self-doubt (as if the self-doubt that naturally comes with becoming

a parent is not enough)."

You've done your research, you're trying some self-soothing…rock on with those sweet dreams!

"You're too attentive"

"Helicopter parent" is a term that you've likely heard before — and yeah, there's

some truth to it when it comes to parenting dynamics.

But it's no gift when non-parents act as though they know exactly how much attention to give

to someone else's kids.

Smerling says, "As my son got older, I continued to get criticism that I was...overattentive

to his needs...But you know what?

He grew up to be a kind, compassionate, generous, smart, amazing human being."

"Don't let them get away with that"

If you've ever been the parent-victim of your child's public meltdown, you know how much

it helps when someone judges how you handle it.

(Spoiler: it doesn't.)

Theriault says, "It's very easy to make judgments and have ideas about how other people should

raise their children...I think people can fall into the trap of making assumptions about

why children behave the way they do without really knowing or understanding the complexities

of the child or the dynamics that play out between child and parent."

"They shouldn't watch TV"

It's easy for people to criticize parents for letting their kids watch too much TV.

Or too little!

Prudovski's family doesn't have a TV, which sometimes elicits comments like "You should

let them 'have a childhood'."

But, Netflix or not, only you know what's best for your kids.

"They shouldn't have a cell phone"

The age at which you give your kid a cell phone is ripe for unsolicited advice.

Maksimow says, "People without children will judge the age you give your kids a phone...If

I chose to allow my child a cell phone before middle school, people can have very strong

opinions about how that is not ok and that we should wait until they are older."

However you choose to dish out that screen time, there is no "us" in "iPhone."

"I don't believe in punishing"

Prudovski says this is one of her favorite pieces of unsolicited advice from people who

aren't parents and have never been in a position to discipline their kids.

Theriault agrees, saying, "People feel entitled to all kinds of ideas that they really have

no business expressing to others...Most of the time it's not worth arguing or losing

relationships over."

But hey, maybe now that you've seen the other side of adulting, you can offer a glimmer

of understanding for those unhelpful, childless busybodies.

Now a veteran mom-of-two, Maksimow jokes, "I used to think I was a great parent, until

I became one."

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