I think that among the things that
prevent us from acting is the fear of
failure and if you've already failed you
don't want to fail again the pain of
that the disappointment many of us don't
act because we want other people's
approval we want everybody to like us
and to accept us we'll settling for less
than what we actually deserve we don't
feel good about it but we make it work
in our lives we'll come up with some
kind of excuse to make it all right
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mostly would like to feel like their
king in the area of their comfort zone
they only want to do those things that
they know how to do well so there are
many reasons why we don't act there are
other things though that affect us is
that not wanting to take personal
responsibility we want somebody else to
do it and that's not possible
and when you go through life like that
something in you dies you need to start
asking yourself some questions what do I
really really truly walk don't wait
around for things to be just right
don't wait for things to be perfect
don't wait for the ideal situation it
will never be ideal
the date is opportunity you have it
might not be here next year it might not
be here two year after next it might not
be hitting you today this is the only
moment you've got
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and
fine but when you decide to act when you
decide to take life off and let me warn
you it can be painful it will be
uncomfortable and that's where the bro
never be satisfied with yourself always
know that as you invest the effort at
time on youth that's the greatest
ability that human beings have above
animals see adult can be anything but a
dull tree can't be anything but a true
human being you've got unlimited
potential you can put effort on you and
by concentrating on you and developing
you you can transform your life wherever
you are right now
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many people will leave the universe
without a trace no one will know they
were here
what will you leave what will be
different because you came this way
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listen to that still small voice within
you don't try and make everything
logical there are some things about life
that defies logic see there's some good
out there for you in the universe that
has your name on it and nobody can get
your good
it has your name on it they can't take
your stuff it's your stuff so when you
know that when you know that whatever
you are seeking it's also seeking you
you don't worry you don't run scared you
don't think somebody's gonna take it
from you
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you've got to say yes yes to my dreams
yes to me yes I can make yes I can
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you don't need anybody to approve your
dream that was given to you if they
can't see it it's because it wasn't
given to them it was given to you you're
gonna get thrown to the ground again and
again and again but when you have
determination and you know that what
you're doing is right that gives you
your life it gives a special meaning
I refuse to be denied and I'm gonna go
all out I'm going to be with Nikolas I
don't care how many knows I don't tell
me doesn't matter how many care about me
doesn't matter how many mistakes happen
doesn't matter
doesn't matter what I've done yes
take full responsibility for what
happens to you it's one of the highest
forms of human maturity accepting full
responsibility it's the day you know
you've passed from childhood to
adulthood the day you accept full
responsibility
and another note learn to reap in the
fall without apology without apology if
you do well and without complaint if you
don't that's maturity I used to have
that long list of reasons why I wasn't
doing well to explain you got to explain
right otherwise you're gonna look bad I
used to have this funny list called
reasons for not looking good I used to
blame the government I mean you can
believe that or not it was at the top of
my list I had a lecture second to none
the government that was on the list I
used to blame taxes look what you got
left after they take everything and they
expect you to do well that was on the
list their prices that one's easy right
you walk into the supermarket with $20
come out with a little half bag so I had
that on the list I used to blame the
weather I blamed the traffic I used to
blame my car I blamed the manufacturers
I used to blame the company I blamed
company policy I used to blame the
training program
I blame my negative relatives they were
always putting me down I blame my
cynical neighbors they're just selfish
looking out for themselves won't loan
you money they were on the list I used
to blame the economy I blame the
community that's a pretty good list for
not doing well isn't it
I thought it was good I'll never forget
one day mr. shelf was very kind but he
was also very blunt and this was no
exception and I'm glad he was blunt
there's a lot of things I have missed if
he hadn't been blunt one day was sort of
a curious look on his face he said Jim
just out of curiosity tell me how come
you haven't done well up until now
excellent question
I thought well so I won't look too bad
I'll go through my list and this list I
just gave you I put that on him and he
was very patient he let me go through
the whole thing the government the
weather I went through this whole thing
when I finished he looked my lists over
very carefully he said mr. own big
problem with your list you ate on it
when I went to work for him a few months
later I learned very quickly to tear up
my list reasons for not doing well and I
threw it away and I got me a fresh piece
of paper and I put one word on it me
there's a black heritage spiritual that
says it's not my mother nor my father
nor my brother nor my sister but it's me
O Lord standing in the need of prayer
see I used to blame everything outside
and then let me give you a little
philosophy to help turn my life around
for your notes here it is it's not what
happens
that determines the quality or the
quantity of your life it's not what
happens and the reason is because what
happens happens to about everybody no
different the Sun went down on all of us
last night
a common event a happening and I found
out that the same things can happen to
two different people one gets rich in
one stays poor why is that it's because
it's not what happens but rather it's
what you do that changes everything so
that's a key phrase it's not what
happens it's what you do what happens is
about the same you might put that in for
instance here same what people do that's
what's different
anything can happen right everything can
happen I've heard all the stories I've
been one of the stories hey we could all
tell stories all night long right
happenings anything can happen
have you heard of Murphy's laws anybody
here heard of Murphy's laws okay most of
you have Murph had these laws one of
them was if anything can go wrong it
will that's one of Murphy's laws he was
not one of the great positive speakers
of the day but anyway it's still true
though right anything can go wrong
everything can go wrong
for sure I've fallen out of the sky so
many times once to the tune of a couple
of million devastating took me a while
to survive that one
now I wasn't all that much but it was
all I had I mean that's when it's much
right when that's all you got if you got
three to go you got one left you ain't
looking that bad but when it all goes
has anybody been there when it all went
anybody come on the rest you liars hey
we've all been there right when it all
went of course used to be a long time
ago right when you ran out of money got
to zero you were all through heck now
you can whistle right on by zero they
will bury you that's what they will do
but see those are the happenings right
everything can happen anything can
happen but it's not the happenings it's
what you do about it somebody says yeah
but you don't understand the
disappointments I've had come on
everybody's had their share
disappointments are not special gifts
reserved for the poor everybody has them
the difference is what you do about it's
not the weather I used to blame the
weather and I discovered it rains on the
ridge so see that won't help
two men wake up one morning there's a
rainstorm on one of them looks out his
window sees the rainstorm and he says
wow what a storm with weather like this
they can't expect you to go out and make
sales he stays home same morning the
other guy looks out his window sees the
same storm says wow what a storm but he
says you know what with weather like
this what a great day to go out and make
sales most everybody will probably be
wrong
especially the salesman
see that's the difference in how your
life works out it's not what happens
it's what you do so here's one of the
key questions of the evening starting
tomorrow what are you going to do
that'll make a change in your life stir
good question what are you gonna do
starting tomorrow that'll make a
difference now see if you don't do
something starting tomorrow that'll make
a difference guess what it's gonna be
the same and see that way you can guess
what the next five years are gonna be
like look at the last five because the
next five are gonna be like the last
five unless you made your key tomorrow
change it all or change a little or
change something or don't change its
choice time you can do whatever you want
but it's nice to know any day you wish
you can change your whole life
what can you do starting tomorrow
that'll make a difference good question
what can you do with economic chaos
massive disappointment what can you do
with a broken heart what can you do and
it won't work good question
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