Chủ Nhật, 3 tháng 6, 2018

Waching daily Jun 3 2018

So hello everybody I'm in the hotel now I'm going to check out Roland Garros and

what there is to do there with Lucian

and so let's go have a look - at where it is.

So we are just in the hotel lobby now.

We are going out.

I'm really excited to see a couple players there hopefully

tomorrow Nadal obviously I think he's gonna win he's probably the favorite so

I'm gonna go take the tube there - so let's go.

Tickets? I got it, I got it.

So we just got the tickets here

we are in the tube station ...on our way to Roland Garros.

So guys we have just come out of the station... we are now walking obviously to

the Roland Garros... oh and here's a sign

Roland Garros

This way - so here we go...

So we are coming up to the gate to Roland Garros - here.

Here are all the gate numbers - we need to go to gate X so let's go there now and see what it's like.

So here's the gate C and D

Actually over there...

So we're gonna walk around now and go to gate X see you when we are there...

We are answering questions from

our You Tube Live Stream

...but we just came today just have a look - thought we might as well stream just

to show you guys what we're doing here really.

I'm 14 years old

I'm 12...Felix is nearly 15 now.

Have you guys been in Wimbledon before?

Yes - we went to Wimbledon last year

So guys as you can see we are walking to gate X while we are

collecting our tickets and right here we cannot film so it might be a bit shaky

so we're just doing this undercover and here we are receiving our tickets

Felix from Bidi Badu. OK - can I have an ID please?

We just got back from Roland Garros

and we are all really hungry so we decided to come here to La Felicita it's the biggest

restaurant in Europe and we're all really excited. It's here at the Train Station

It's a pretty big building so let's go try and find it.

It may take a while though...

So guys I have just had dinner it was really nice food here it's the

first day of opening so they could see around a thousand people lots of

different foods here. Me and Felix had a great meal so the next thing to do is go home

as in go to hotel. Pack for tomorrow and get ready to go to the Roland Garros.

Guys we have just...so guys we have just got back to the - Felix is laughing

So guys we have just get back to

the hotel it has been a great day we've had really nice dinner and we've done a

live stream I cannot wait for tomorrow because we are watching Roland Garros

How do you feel about that? Yes I'm really excited we're also gonna do a lot

of live streams so subscribe to our YouTube channel to be notified when that

starts and now get some sleep before a big day tomorrow!

Yeah

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It's A Good Thing - Duration: 8:46.

so there's something specific that I want to talk to you about today and it

has to do with this property

hey welcome back to another extremely video hope you're doing well hope you

have a smile on your face cuz today it's a beautiful beautiful day I mean look at

this place is amazing the view is incredible

we are staying here at our friend's house and they have this huge house and

they have this amazing property up on the hill and it's arguably probably one

of the best properties in this whole entire valley I mean it's amazing we

haven't been to a ton of the other properties here but I mean the view I

mean it's just amazing

you've seen the place you've seen how amazing it is and basically it comes

down to generosity and so we all have different material possessions in life

we all have different financial status and so we have a wide variety of

demographics you know everyone that's watching these videos there are people

who have a lot and there's people have a little in the sense of what ever comes

to your mind when I say that I actually believe that we all have a lot and we

all have something to give even if it's something really small and so the couple

that owns this house you know they could keep this house to themselves but

instead there is a local nonprofit organization and they've basically

opened their home to this organization and they've allowed them to come up and

use their house every week you know they have meetings up here and this is kind

of a space where the people who are involved in that organization can come

up here and meet and relax and have respite and it's just really cool to see

them using their house in a way you know they're giving their property in a way

even though they're keeping the property but they're they're practicing

hospitality and it's a way for them to give and so downstairs there's this

giant space that was just kind of open and so they kind of turned it into a big

meeting area and there's an octa ball court down there I don't know if you've

ever seen one of those but it's basically like a giant octagon and it's

kind of like wall ball Foursquare and dodge ball all combined in this octagon

ring so look up octa ball if you if you've never played it before but they

built in octave all court and they put it downstairs in their basement actually

there were two guys that came here today and help them take down the octo ball

court because they're gonna go take it to this other event in the valley and

it's just cool it's cool to see them using their place for good

now I personally I grew up in a log home as very large home bigger than what

Taylor and I would need if we were to to buy a home or build a home and and and

now that my mom and Charlie they live in that house they do the same thing with

their house they they allow people to come and stay there who need a place to

stay people who are in transition they come and go it's just really cool to see

people using their homes in that way to be able to give and this evening we're

going to it's kind of like a celebration barbecue for the nonprofit that I was

talking about and so there's gonna be kids there and stuff tonight and before

we even have gone there a couple of the guys told me that this is another like

amazing property another amazing home that this family has opened up and

allowed others to use and yeah I just wanted to be able to share that today

that even if you have little you can still give and there should never be

this mindset of like oh once I get more than I'll give and Taylor and I have

been challenging ourselves with the same concept you know we're we're living out

of our truck and we're still we're still trying to give and we're still trying to

be generous and to go out of our way to love others well I don't I'm not saying

that like hey look at us look at how amazing we're doing there look at how

good we are or whatever I'm I'm just trying to be a positive influence on

here and I'm trying to impact you in a positive way and I think if I'm able to

do that with this channel and as we grow and we have more people watching there's

gonna be a bigger shift in our world and and that's gonna be a good thing you

know and you have an opinion you have advice

and I want to hear it I want to hear what you have to say how you have been

generous and other ideas you have leave them in the comment section down below

let's just kind of start a discussion about ways to be generous and do you let

people stay at your house if you have an extra room or empty nesters you know

families that have had two or three kids and now their kids have grown up and

they're gone and now they have this big house like what do you what are you

doing with that home and so yeah it's my challenge for today that's my video

topic for today I definitely wanted to show you this property they have this

personal orchard private orchard that goes around their property and the

couple that live here they're actually involved in some of the bigger orchards

in this area and

new to the channel thanks for stopping by I hope you stick around you just

gotta push that subscribe button all the way in and then ring the bell so that

you get notified and if you didn't know there's a huge thumb war going on on

YouTube right now so click that thumb war button down below help us out and

we'll see you later hats off to you

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YBR 125G 2018 Model - First Impression - Duration: 2:52.

hello guys recently bought this 2018 model of Yamaha Ybr 125g it cost me

around 136 K including the registration charges of 4k this bike amounted to a

total of 140 K previously this model came in two colors black and red Yamaha

has added to his line a new color which is blue

yamaha has introduced slight changes to this latest 2018 model number one they

have introduced a new speedometer

they have made few changes in graphics as it is visible from the tank they have

changed the color of 125 G

the third change that they have introduced to this bike is that they

have put a new cover on the exhaust

finally Yamaha has addressed the reservation of the pindi boys and they

have finally changed the sound of the bike by making it more loud which has

been most demanded by the pindi boys

SAY No To Honda Shekhupura :P

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What is: Xcelerator - Knott's Berry Farm - Duration: 3:52.

Xcelerator is a launched steel roller coaster, located at Knott's Berry Farm, in California, USA.

USA.

The ride is well known for being the world's first roller coaster to feature a hydraulic

launch system, in which riders are quickly and consistently accelerated to a high speed.

On top of this, Xcelerator was one of the first roller coasters to feature the now iconic

top hat element, providing guests with both fantastic views and small amounts of airtime.

The ride opened to the public on the 22nd of June 2002.

It was built at the cost of 13 Million USD, by Swiss roller coaster company, Intamin.

It was Intamin who first invented, and popularised, the widely used hydraulic launch system.

Instead of using magnets or a large weight, to accelerate the train to its maximum speed,

hydraulic launches use a cable winch system.

Before the launch occurs, a catch car hooks onto the underside of the train.

While guests board the vehicle's, electrical energy is gradually stored within large hydraulic

pumps.

As the train launches, the energy is released from the pumps, causing the cable, and train,

to be pulled along the launch straight.

This method allows for Xcelerator to launch from 0, to 132kmh (82mph), in approximately

2.3 seconds.

Once riders have made reached their top speed, and traversed the launch straight, they begin

the steep climb.

The trains ascend vertically to the maximum height of 62.5m, 205ft.

At this point, guests slowly navigate the rides top hat element, before plummeting back

down towards the ground.

The trains fall, at the maximum angle of 90 degrees, and enter a large, left-hand overbanked

turn.

This leads riders into a second overbanked turn, this time to the right, before allowing

them to slide into the ride's final brake run.

Even though the full experience only lasts for approximately 25 seconds, guests navigate

over 670m (2200ft) of track.

From beginning to end, Xcelerator is a fast paced, thrilling, roller coaster.

The ride also has a theme to match.

Xcelerator is loosely themed to retro drag racing, which can be seen within the design

of the trains and station building.

The rides station resembles american retro architecture of the 1950s, while the cars

imitate that of a 1957 Chevrolet Bel Air.

The trains themselves feature 5 cars, each of which seat riders in two rows of two.

This leads to a total of 20 guests per train.

A maximum of 2 trains can navigate the circuit at any one point in time, resulting in a theoretical

throughput of 1330 riders per hour.

Unfortunately however, the Intamin hydraulic launch coaster model is not known for it's

high throughput and excellent reliability.

Xcelerator, and the many rides around the globe similar to it, often suffer from large

amounts of downtime.

The complicated nature of the launch can cause the ride system to easily run into errors,

resulting in the attraction shutting down.

This downtime is natural, and well established in the world of roller coaster safety.

Nevertheless, when operating, Xcelerator is a fantastic experience from start to finish.

Because of this, several parks have adopted the technology to develop taller and faster

rides, often pushing the limits of both engineering and thrills.

Although, despite being the prototype model; many prefer Xcelerator due to its comfortable

lap bar restraints, and seemingly snappier initial launch.

Ultimately, the final question remains:

What's your opinion?

If you have Instagram, facebook or twitter, make sure to follow me, for updates on the

channel, and general theme park news.

The links to the various social media can be found in the description below.

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Best Squarebody Trucks of The Internet! #14 - Duration: 5:11.

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Pilates For Beginners ♥ Tone Your Body & Core | Peru - Duration: 16:48.

Welcome to the magical city of Cusco Peru

We are here amidst the beautiful mountaintop ruins and today is going to be a Pilates class that focuses on

Toning your entire core and lower body

This class is perfect for beginners or for anyone that is looking to ease their way into this kind of practice

So if you're ready to tone and strengthen your body grab your mat and let's get started

For full length Pilates and yoga classes check out bo-beautiful complete where we have everything from Pilates bootcamp

yoga workout program and of course our yin yoga journey

Whatever your goals may be. We are here to help you reach them with that said let's get back to our practice

All right friends, we're gonna begin today's seated on your mat with your feet in front of you

Go ahead and just place the hands behind your knees and start with a head roll big roll to one side

Warming up the neck here and then a big head roll to the other side letting go of any tension here

Beautiful and then from here, let's inhale arch the back look up to the sky. I'm gonna exhale extending the elbows

Round out the spine

inhale look up and

Exhale let go

Inhale look up seated cat cow and

Exhale round out the spine extend through the elbows

Stay here, and then just extend the arms forward drop the shoulders away from the ears

We're gonna begin by lifting both arms up palms down

Push the arms down palms up arms up palms down bring him down

Keep going lift those arms. Turn the palms and down

Inhale as you lift

exhale as you push

Inhale as you lift

Exhale as you push try to keep that core engaged

Exhale push you want to keep the spine?

slightly rounded so you're engaging your abdominals here lift and

Push beautiful hold and I'll slowly make your way all the way down to your mat

Reaching the arms over your head and just start by windshield wiping the knees side to side

allowing the knees to fall to one side and then the other

warming of the spine here

Great job one more time and

Then returning back to centre drop the arms place the hands on top of your ribcage

Let's take an inhale expand the ribcage and then exhale

Pressing that lower back over to the mat bring those ribs in together

And then once you ready come on to your tabletop position arms down

we're gonna start with our single toe taps simply tap the toe exhale bring it Center other toe and

Center inhale as you lower exhale

Center inhale lower exhale

Center so keep going

We want to keep the back, press the whole time so we're engaging the abdominals here

Beautiful keep going just tapping the toe and then bring the knee up

Good now slowly from here bring both hands behind your head and then go ahead lift up

So in a crunch position, we're gonna start with our single legged extensions inhale

You're going to extend one leg away from your body

Exhale bring it in

there leg inhale

exhale and keep going extend the leg and in

Extend the leg and in and just like in our single toe top

So you want to think about keeping that lower back pressed towards the mat?

inhale

sale

inhale exhale

Keep going. You got this

Your last one here

Awesome hold it go ahead extend the arms over your head on your exhale pushing the arms down curl up

We're gonna start with our 100's if you like to take it even easier place the feet on the ground

Otherwise a little more difficult is the Nisa

inhale, one, two, three, four, five exhale, two three

four five inhale, two three, four, five exhale, two three

four five inhale, two three

four five exhale two three four

thirty, inhale two three, four, five exhale 2 3 4

40 inhale, two three, four, five exhale two three four

nice strong arms pushing him down

Keep that core engaged draw the navel into the spine. You're almost there. Inhale, two three, four, five exhale, two three

four five inhale, two three, four, five exhale, two three

Four five inhale, two three, four, five exhale, two three, four five

you're almost there and your last stretch keep going and

three two one

beautiful job that was

100 go ahead and relax your head on the mat. Drop the feet to the ground. Just take a second for yourself

Let's stretch out the core muscles by lifting up into our bridge posture

Keeping the feet grounded. Just go ahead and lift up squeeze the gluts here

Breathing deeply and then lifting one leg

Drop the foot and then switch other leg drop the foot

So by alternating one leg at a time we're engaging the hamstrings here

strengthening the glutes at the same time

Beautiful keep going

You

Nice

Now from here last set

Bring it up bring the foot down now lift that leg up. I want you to hold it and just pump it to

three

Or keep going five lift as high as you can six

seven and

Eight awesome release. Let's switch sides right away. Bring the other leg up and let's start to pop one two

Three

four keep going five lift as high as you can seven and

eight awesome

Let's slowly bring the foot down reach the arms over your head lift the hips up a little higher now really squeeze

those gluts together

Even higher as high as you can and then drop the body down awesome. Go ahead and hug your knees into your chest

Let's just start to gently rock side to side

massaging the lumbar spine here

Just let it go

And then as you release extend the legs head drops

Let's take our next abdominal exercise opposite elbow to knee and then just rest back down. So you're just lifting and

down all trimming legs need to elbow and

down

Knee to elbow and drop

Nice and controlled air see if you can get actual physical contact with the elbow and the knee a

Wonderful exercise for the obliques for the waistline. Keep going touch and

open

touch and

Open and then from here go ahead touch your obstacle bow to knee and just hold that position for me

Open those elbows. If you like to challenge yourself, go ahead and lift that straight leg off the mat

Let's just hold and breathe

be

engagement in that oblique

You're almost done. Keep holding open up deep breath in and then exhale switching the legs

Dropping the straight leg down. Go ahead and reach with the opposite elbow to me

Now again, if you like to challenge yourself lift that straight leg off the mat. Let's just hold this position

Breathing into your nose pulling the navel into the spine

keeping that connection with the elbow and the knee and

Release beautiful job. Go ahead and reach both arms

Over towards your legs extend the legs all the way up point your toes

Just taking a moment here to breathe and then taking one leg towards your chest. The other leg is gonna drop down

Let's just hold it here. Think about pulling that forehead to the knee

Really?

feeling that stretch through the entire hamstring and

Then drop the head down. Let's switch legs. Same thing the other leg drops down and

Then pulling yourself up. Think about your forehead reaching for that top knee

Feeling that stretch through the hamstring take a deep breath knee

on your exhale your opposite hand comes behind the knee straight single X switch 1 2

X Co 3 4 so a little pulse with the legs 1 2 X Co 3 4

inhale 1 2

3 4

1 2

3 4 you got this open those legs as wide as you can three four

one two three

four almost done 1 2 3

4

full Small's

pulse pulse

Some last one

xeo3

for

awesome legs together

Let's take our rolling like a ball exercise now so hands behind your knees

Roll up to your seated position round through the spine and then come back up

So you're rolling onto the shoulders and then using the strength of your core to come up

roll back and

Up, let's hold this bow posture to make it easier to drop your feet on the ground. Otherwise keep those feet lifted

Let's hold here. And just breathe. All we're doing is holding

And then crossing the ankles we're gonna transition over to our plank so whatever way is most comfortable come on up

Hands grounded shoulders above the wrists to modify your plank bend your knees and just stay on the knees just like that

Otherwise if you're up for the challenge come up to a full plank

And all we're gonna do here is just focus on our breath

Imagine is if somebody placed a ruler on your back

You want to match that ruler you want to stay straight as possible here

Pulling the navel into the spine

Awesome and now let's come on down to your knees

If you're not already there, and then we're going to open into our side knee plank from here

all you're gonna do is just lift that straight leg up and lower down for one lift and

two

lift and

three now this exercise tones your glutes and

Strengthens the lower body you want to make sure that your front knee is pointed towards the screen

Wonderful you got one more lift it up

Now, let's hold that position. Hold a navel to the spine. Just hold that leg up feel those muscles engaging

Go ahead and now flex that top foot and just start to pulse it two three four five

six seven eight

Nine and ten awesome drop it down. Go ahead and bring yourself over back to your plank position

same thing you can modify stay on your knees or if you're up for the challenge stay in your foot like

Holding here for about ten seconds. Just breathing deeply

Think about that navel reaching the spine

Awesome from here drop down to the knees and let's go over to our side knee plank on the

Opposite side reach the top arm up and let's lift that leg up to the sky four one and lower

two

Hips are square three

Four

By

Six

Seven you got this and eight

And let's hold this one

Breathing deeply here. Just finding that Center

flex the foot and let's pump it 2 3 4 5 6 7 8

Beautiful extend let's release come on over back to your knees

Now for me here, we're gonna come onto our elbow plank

So drop down to your elbows again, if you're beginners stay in your knees. Otherwise come up to your elbow plank

from here

We're simply going to tap one knee to the mat extent of pike switch knees extend just a little tiny tap

good tap the knee and plug me and plunk me and

Knees stay centered. You're almost done shoulders on top of those wrists

Let's hold up plank. Now if you're tired drop down to the knees otherwise hold

deep breath in

Pull the navel to the spine. You're almost done

two and one

Beautiful job take a baby Cobra stretch here. Let's just stretch out the core muscles

let's take a deep breath in through the nose and

Then exhale

pushing your way up to your knees and

Rounding out the spine into your Child's Pose

Or head down

Reaching the arms to the top of the mat. Let's just take a moment here for ourselves

Being that nice gentle stretch through the shoulders or head reaching for the mat

Some one more deep breath a

Long exhalation through your nose let everything go

Wonderful and slowly coming up to seated reaching both arms up to the sky exhale arms down

Inhale arms up exhale

Release awesome one more time last one big breath in and then

exhale

releasing the arms down

Amazing job you guys. Thank you so much for joining us in Cuzco sending you lots of love and we'll see you soon

Thanks so much for watching if you enjoy this video, we'll give it a thumbs up

And of course subscribe to our channel

if you're looking for full-length videos and programs check out our website below beautiful dot life or you can find everything from

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Отпускаю, Грустная Песня о Любви, Тернова Светлана - ПОСЛУШАЙТЕ!!! - Duration: 3:42.

Let me go, Sad Song of Love, Ternov Svetlana - LISTEN TO YOU !!!

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One year, 16,000 miles, 18 countries in my McLaren ! - Duration: 2:51.

Hello Pog !

You told us to meet you in front of the McLaren dealership.

Let's go.

Here is how they deliver a supercar at McLaren Brussels.

Pog bought a purple McLaren 675LT

You're not dreaming. It's a garden gnome.

Let's go for 7 days of Gumball 3000 !

All these winding roads. So beautiful. This place is fantastic.

Pog chose to keep his Gumball 3000 stickers.

It's an MSO interior.

Here you have the different driving programs.

It's not Monaco here !

It's raining.

You are here from the beginning.

Thank you

It's a fantastic experience.

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Cimbrian War 113–101 BC - Roman - Germanic Wars DOCUMENTARY - Duration: 15:52.

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exclusive offer they have for our viewers at the end of the video.

Throughout its history Roman civilization had many enemies, but none

of them were as fierce as the Germanic peoples, and no other ethnic group fought

the Romans for so long. The Romans and Germanic tribes started their bitter

fight on first contact and the conflicts between these two peoples decided the

fate of Rome. The Cimbrian War of 113-101 BC was the first engagement and its

results influenced the history of Rome for the next 6 centuries.

By the mid-2nd century BC the Roman Republic was in control of most of the

Mediterranean directly or via its allies. Rome won the conflicts against the

Seleucids, Macedon and the Greek leagues and that allowed the Republic to take

control of Greece. To the west the Romans defeated a number of Gallic tribes in

the 120s BC and created the province of Gallia Narbonensis. However, new

enemies were already on their way.

Between 120-115 BC the Jutland peninsula suffered some kind of catastrophe. The peninsula was either flooded or extreme

colds made it virtually unlivable. In any case, the proto-German tribe

populating modern day Denmark called the Cimbri had to leave these lands. By 115 BC

they began migrating to the South. They were joined by their neighbors and

relatives Teutones in Northern Germany. The tribes, now 200 thousand warriors

strong moved into the modern day Czech Republic but were defeated there by the

Celtic Boii and were forced to change their route. In 113 BC the Cimbri and

Teutones crossed the Danube into Pannonia and then moved to Noricum.

The region was populated by the Celtic Taurisci, who weren't able to repel the

invaders and asks their ally Rome for help

invaders and asked their ally - Rome for help.

At the time the Roman society was showing the first signs of the crisis that will end the republic in the next century: their conquests made the elites richer,

while the poor lost their lands. The landless were not allowed to join the legions.

This was weakening the army in terms of leadership, morale, and numbers,

and that became the central theme of this war.

Roman consul Gnaeus Papirius Carbo answered the call and moved his legions

to block the North-Eastern Alpine passes into Italy. The Cimbri send emissaries

promising that they were not going to attack Taurisci anymore. Carbo

seemingly agreed to peace and gave the tribes guides to show the route away

from Roman territory, but at the same time he laid an ambush for them.

The tribes learned of this and attacked Roman ambush near Norei, crushing the legions.

The Romans lost more than 20 thousand soldiers in this battle.

For reasons unknown, the Cimbri and their allies did not attack Italy immediately

and moved to the west through Noricum to Raetia. Celtic tribes called Tigurini and

Tougeni joined them here and all these tribes moved into Gallia.

We don't know much about their time in modern day France, but we know that they

raided and looted Gallia and the Gauls were not able to stop the invaders. Rome

was content not to have to deal with the invaders anymore, as they had been

fighting the Jugurthine war of 112-106 BC in Numidia. This war underlined

the problems in Roman society: military and civilian leaders were bribed by the

Numidian leader Jugurtha multiple times and the Roman army became so

disorganized it failed to win against a much weaker enemy.

In 109 BC the Cimbri and their allies decided to move into Roman controlled Gallia Narbonensis.

Roman consul Marcus Junius Silanus attempted to negotiate with them.

The tribal alliance demanded lands in the Rhone valley and promised to defend the

Roman borders, but Silanus declined. In the ensuing battle, the Romans were

defeated yet again. Most of the tribes returned to Gallia Transalpina, while the

Tigurini stayed to roam Narbonensis and in 107 BC they ambushed a newly

formed Roman army near Burdigala, modern day Bordeaux. The Roman leaders

were killed and there were almost 10 thousand casualties.

The Romans now understood that the Germanic threat was real.

An 80 thousand strong army was formed to be sent to Gallia Narbonensis. As their

most talented general Gaius Marius was leading the African army at that moment,

a commoner Gnaeus Mallius Maximus was to lead the army and Quintus Servilius Caepio

was his second-in-command. Caepio, a patrician from one of the oldest

families of Rome, was not happy that Novo Homus – new man with no aristocratic blood, will be the one in charge.

In 105 BC Mallius arrived to Gallia Narbonensis and positioned his troops on

the west bank of the Rodan river near the city of Arausio, while Caepio stayed

with his troops on the eastern side despite orders to cross the river.

He forced the river only after the direct order from the Senate, but even then

insisted on a different camp and ignored order from Mallius. The king of

Cimbri Boiorix decided to negotiate with Mallius and asked him to

let tribes pass into Hispania. Caepio did not want a commoner to get the

credit for stopping the Germanic threat and ordered his troops to attack the Cimbri.

His smaller force was easily stopped by the Germans and was

slaughtered after being surrounded.

Mallius was not prepared for the swift counter-attack of the enemy, his

legionaries were basically encircled. 80 thousand legionaries died on this day –

the biggest Roman defeat since Hannibal crushed them at Cannae.

But as Hannibal before them, the tribal alliance didn't attack Rome after this battle.

Most of the tribes moved into northern Hispania and pillaged it, so the Romans

got one more chance to catch their breath and prepare for the inevitable invasion.

In 106 BC Marius finally finished the Jugurthine war and despite

the law prohibiting it, was elected consul for the second time in 104 BC.

Marius recognized the problems of the Roman army. His reform is one of the

focal points of the Roman military and political history and we will cover it

in our Armies and Tactics series. In short, the landless were allowed to join

the legions. The army became professional, training and equipment were standardized

and those serving were promised lands. The legionaries started carrying all of

their supplies, weapons, and rations themselves, which improved the mobility

of the army, and the stamina of the soldiers. The traditional manipular

organization of the legion was scrapped, for a more agile formation based on the

cohort, a group of 400 soldiers. All these allowed the organization of the

strongest Roman army in history, with the best-trained legionaries.

By the time Cimbri and their allies decided to turn their attention to Italy

in 102 BC Marius was ready to stop them. The tribal army was divided into two halves:

The Teutones led by the king Teutobud moved via the Mediterranean

coast in order to attack western part of Italy, while the Cimbri moved

from Gallia into Noricum to move into North-Eastern Italy. In the summer of 102 BC

Marius was waiting for the Teutones in his well-fortified camp close to

the Rhone river. The Germans tried to assault this camp, but their 3-day

long attack failed and they lost thousands. That strengthened the morale of the legionaries.

The Teutones decided to bypass the Romans to the north, but Marius moved

parallel to them and forced them to fight in the location called Aquae Sextiae.

Marius had 40,000 soldiers and his opponents outnumbered him 2-to-1.

The Romans positioned themselves on the hill, with 4 thousand legionaries as an

ambush in the nearby forests. To provoke the Teutones Marius led his cavalry

in an attack, but retreated on contact behind the line of the legionaries.

The Germans run swiftly uphill and were met by the Roman pilae and then the shield wall.

The Romans had a clear advantage in training and equipment and soon the Teutones

had to start a retreat to the base of the hill but were followed

by the legionaries. By this point in the battle, Teutobud's forces were tired and battered.

They tried to create a shield wall of their own but the combined

attack of main Roman forces from the front and ambushing group from

the rear broke their lines. More than 50 thousand Teutones were killed, while the Romans lost

few thousand soldiers and continued the massacre in the Germanic

camp, where tens of thousands were killed and enslaved.

But the Cimbri were still strong and Marius' co-consul Quintus Lutatius Catulus

was tasked with the defense of the Alpine passages.

Under the Cimbri pressure he had to abandon Brenner Pass. His second attempt

to mount a defense on Adige river also failed, when Cimbri tried to

encircle his positions and forced him to retreat beyond the Po river, which was more defensible.

That allowed Cimbri to loot rich territory between the Alpes and Po river.

By that point, they had been traveling for almost a year from Spain

to Italy and were exhausted, so they were not so eager to attack Roman positions in winter.

Marius used that opportunity to move back into Italy. He was elected the consul yet again.

In the spring of 101 BC Marius moved into Po valley,

where his 32 thousand legionaries were joined by 20 thousand of Catulus.

Modern historians believe that Cimbri led by Boiorix had up to 60 thousand warriors,

while Roman historians claim that the Germanics were 200 thousand strong.

The Cimbri continuously avoided Marius throughout spring and early summer.

Marius was pushing Boiorix to the North-West in an attempt to entrap them

along the Alpes. The Cimbri were not able to avoid Romans anymore.

By the end of July, both armies reached the place called Vercellae. The Romans led

by Marius and Catulus had more than 50 thousand legionaries, while Cimbri were

able to field between 60 and 80 thousand warriors.

Marius's army had an advantage in cavalry, as most Cimbri fought on foot.

As soon as the battle started the Roman cavalry on both flanks of the legions

moved swiftly to attack their counterparts. The Cimbri line moved to

attack the legionaries. While the infantry lines clashed, with Romans on

the defensive and being pushed back, Marius's cavalry was able to win their

engagement against Boiorix's horsemen in short order. The Roman cavalry then

turned and attacked the rear of the Cimbri line. The Germanic forces were

surrounded and almost all of their army was killed. The battle took few hours

and all of the Cimbri were either killed or enslaved. That was the end of the Cimbrian war.

The Romans were able to defeat this threat, the biggest since Hannibal.

But new cracks formed in the Roman society and they would eventually lead to a series of civil wars that we are planning to cover in future.

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ROSE Festival in Korea 🌹| & BAKING up a Storm 🍪 국제커플의 장미장미한 일상! 아내가 만든 바나나브레드가 역시 최고! - Duration: 13:14.

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New End of Match Procedure Had Already Changed the Game!? - Duration: 5:52.

New End of Match Procedure Had Already Changed the Game!?

Hey, where's the guys soccer on TNT free here and this videos going to be a video about the new and of the match procedures?

that Konami dropped and then are actually

already

Going so let's get started and I just want to talk about this

Topic because it's going to be really really relevant and I tried it

And turned it out in my last local and

This is devastating for a lot of players, you know also in the last ycs

They got a lot of draws, so

Let's get started and take a look at this

The majority of you maybe already knows but the first change is that after the first 40 minutes

There are no more additional turns the freed fighters. There are more no more there now we got zero turns

So starting on June 1st, 2018

All you use is organized play

will use brand new and match procedures duelists should familiarize themselves with the new and match procedures prior to attending any

event

So we got three rules

first one is that

If time is cold while duelists are in the middle of a game and the current game must have a decision win loss or draw

the second rule is that

Once the current game is computed with a decision determine the winner of the match

By determining the number of game wins or game losses

Each duelist as for the current match the duties with the most game wins

will win the match of course and

there are

two different paths

One from the Swiss rounds and one for single elimination rounds

so in his whist

If both duelists have the same number of game wins or if time was called in between gains of a match when both duelists

Had the same number of game wins. The match is drawn

in single elimination rounds one duelist the same number of game wins or the

Time is called

When while both the duelist has the same number of game wins, it will begin a new deal with specific guidelines

And let's take a look at this guidelines near Luis may use this site back

If the time was called him between games of match and at least one duelist has ready access it is or her side duck

So the just has used the main deck in this case, then Judas must use random method like the coin flip

Of course to determine will go first and the doing will continue for a total of four turns

True for each duelist and let's use manages to win the duel before for currents have concluded

Once the four turns are completely life points dollars are compared and

Who's got much left points will win if what duelists lifepoint's are the same after four turns are completed. They will tie continue

On a turn-by-turn basis with dualist with the most life points at the end of a term being declared the winner of that game

So just one me one for you one for me of you just like that and third is if a win condition occurs

During the end of match procedures that u.s. Wins the game, of course

so

The worst thing of this is that giving this treaty rules in mind

Please follow these instructions when proceeding to the end of match for ceders

Continue with the current phase of the game

Once the face is over stopped game and that's a huge deal. That's a huge deal

You should not end the turn just and face

so if you are in standby phase draw face or something like that, you will not do anything and

You just have to rush in your in your own battle place

determine define a game winner at this point with duelist with the most Life Points win the game and

Also here we got Swiss round and single lumination

Different paths but the huge thing is this one

Continue the Cure in the current phase of the game. So

what happened and last local what happened and last ycs just happened that we got a lot of draws a

Lot of players that are not happy about this treat

because this really sucks and

in my opinion a lot of people before of these rooms came in our says that

This will be a huge it for the players they like to slow play. And so no playing will be banned now this

But my advice now slow players are

even more

Stronger than before

just because if you are able to snow play in the right way, you can just go and win about

Buddha's rule and we winning using this rule is really easy, especially for some decks like trick stars

or maybe random chambers that can occur in a turn in the tournament and

I

Don't know what to say just tell me in the comments down below. What do you think about these new rules

There are already applying in our TCG game

So that's it for today. I really hope you enjoyed this video

If you got some suggestions, please comment down below leave a like and subscribe to our channel support me. See you

You

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Understanding "AlonenessIsolation" During Spiritual Shifts - Duration: 8:06.

Understanding �Aloneness/Isolation� During Spiritual Shifts.

by Zoe Davenport.

Aloneness, is something we HAVE to gift ourselves without question along our spiritual paths?�?even

when we are with people?�?we have to continuously show up for our own personal and emotional

needs.

This houses the potential for our continued expanded growth into the unlimited possibilities

of multi-dimensional experiences and thus have those with the people we love around

us.

In order to truly step into this we need to gift ourselves support?�?time and aloneness.

Not a night here or there?�?but actual proper time to really tune into the self-care needs

for our souls to be held in the space needed to evolve.

It can FEEL daunting as inherently as humans we seek so desperately to hold onto the support

from others.

But if we take these moments it can be the making of our realities and seek to enhance

our relationships.

Aloneness supports;

Our authenticity as we get back into our own energy to expand.

Take a re-set, a re-charge, processing our thoughts and emotions.

Spiritual gifts start to enhance as we are purely with self and the divine love that

flows through us.

We get to untangle the cords of other people�s emotions, thoughts, feelings, expectations,

ego, dramas and low vibrations.

Reminds us of who we are underneath, free from the build up of external energies.

During our transitions there will be many ups and downs, as things we once loved seem

no longer fitting to our souls anymore.

Relationships, jobs, taste will all change as we hold more love and light in our hearts.

Our alone time is imperative while we work ourselves out again, while we shift into our

new healing and awareness for life.

When we start out on a spiritual journey so many changes and revelations are happening

that it can feel very isolating.

At times the more we change and discover things about ourselves and the world around us, the

connections we once had with people can often feel withdrawn.

These moments of feeling disconnected are the times of feeling the most isolated from

life.

We haven�t quite anchored all of our learning, truths and authenticity into practise yet.

A sweet spot emerges within self.

We know we can�t go back to our stories, fears and limiting beliefs for comfort.

We know the person we thought we were is evolving, but haven�t quite worked out how we are

supposed to show up in the world yet.

This sweet spot, this void, unrest and uncertainty on how we are meant to show up is the perfect

time to get present.

Embrace the not knowing, the nothingness, the freedom, the potential and the opportunities

not yet revealed to us and embrace aloneness.

This is the moment to really go within, to really work on healing, keep letting go, keep

opening and expanding the heart.

Learn to not hold onto things that are meant to leave our lives even be it for the time

being.

Knowing that what will align again will be the most perfect alignment of the soul.

These moments of spiritual growth are the perfect opportunities to get to know ourselves

once more, to enjoy our company and connect back in with our intuition.

These are the moments of aloneness is to remind ourselves it�s ok that we are not quite

sure how we are meant show up in the world yet, all we have to do right now in these

moments is to show up for ourselves in love?�?with self-care, space, grounding and healing.

In order to understand who we are we need to have some fun again.

We already know things are coming up for healing.

We already know we are not our stories.

We already know we are not the limitations of our fears.

Let us embrace once more the not knowing, the sweet spot and surrender in the NOW.

Surrender into joy Surrender into fun

Surrender into play Surrender into love

Surrender into the light It is FUN to feel alive, to feel awake, to

feel at one with who we are.

It is fun to be spending time in our own energies again.

It is fun to not dwell on the past.

Let us be reminded of the child that we once were.

Let us embrace the time to start new creative projects, join new groups with similar interests

to us, take long walks in nature, and dance like no one�s watching.

Being on our own during these transitions will ignite the flame from deep within again

so we may start to gain strength once more in our authenticity.

Let us also embrace the alone time to really let go, to scream, cry, and fall on the floor

as our bodies release the emotional traumas of life times.

Let us embrace the solitude to ride the waves of emotions that don�t make sense but find

strength because they will make sense to our souls.

Let us be reminded and embrace that our souls are driving and have our best intentions at

heart.

These days of feeling like nothing is shifting, no guidance is coming and feeling insecure

because the life we once knew is disappearing and we are not sure as to what the future

holds.

This is really the time to let go, to observe, to not over question but simply allow, to

be in each moment, embrace the tears, the fears, the uncertainty for embracing what

is in the moment will set these feelings free.

We do not need to push through our experiences.

We do not need to feel like we are not evolving when we are feeling down.

We do not need to feel like we have to change right now.

Loving ourselves is embracing all our emotions and allowing ourselves the rest that we so

desperately need in those moments of surrender.

Let us embrace these times to really be alone and rest, heal, cry, eat, and switch the mind

off and the heart on to being, just simply being.

We do not need to show up BIG in the world when we are going through these shifts.

All we need to do is show up for ourselves to take comfort, space and rest.

Finding our way gently through the shifts and into joy, fun, play, love.

Be gentle, be kind, be nurturing, not forcing, not pushing, not fighting, pure surrender

into the emotions that are coming up to be released, simply breathe, relax and do nothing.

For doing nothing is doing far more for our spiritual growth and authenticity than we

can ever do when we try to fight how we are feeling in the present moment.

This will clear our internal emotional storm, bring out the sunshine and we are reminded

to play, dance and laugh once more with who we are.

Within time, these days become more common than the feelings of isolation and disconnect

for we understand those alone times were never really alone for they were building a relationship

with who are once more.

Embracing these challenges within time will bring about the greatest insights, clarity,

ideas and changes we could have ever dreamt possible.

We will truly know ourselves?�?be in support of ourselves and truly be able to show up

in the way we always wanted for those around us in joy and love.

Embrace your aloneness?�?allow yourself to know who you are and gift yourself what

you truly need.

YOU are so dearly loved and supported by the universe?�?by the divine flow of love within

the core of your being.

Breathe into these times and all will be well.

I love you all

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FORTNITE Song - Moisty Mire (AFRICA by TOTO Parody) - Duration: 4:09.

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Para Bellum is fun (Rainbow Six Siege) - Duration: 4:21.

Oh my God! Okay! It's happening!

But he is mine

Max! You cunt! Alright! Fine. Fine. Fine.

Hold the team hostage you piece of shit

Fuck you

Max!

Calm down!

Max! No

I only downed him!

He's down outside here!

Yeah! You spray them down, Max! Come on, Max!

Kill 'em all!

How am I still alive?

Here we have the representative of the Ash species from the Maxiter family

During the hunt those vicious predators will use every trick known to them

From decoy attack to full-blown frontal assault

When surprised they usually start making eerie noises to discourage their prey

Ferocious

Get back in here

Fuck is this shit?

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Why Russians Are So Good At Ballet - Duration: 8:42.

Italy birthed ballet, France helped codify its terminology, but it's Russia that

made this style of movement synonymous with its identity.

If you look at a lot of the principal dancers a lot of the dancers in the company, they're either

had Russian teachers. They had Russian training. Russia has been en pointe when

it comes to fanciful footwork. While in the United States ballet is seen as

entertainment for the elites, in Russia it's mainstream culture. During the Cold

War, America used popular culture to spread its views with things like movies

and television. The Soviet Union countered with high culture in the form

of music and ballet. The role of ballet in Russian culture has always been one

that's connected to the government. It's not just something people do

or companies have done, but rather that this has become something that's seen as

deeply connected to political power.

Hey, fam. I'm Imaeyen and this Sunday we're strutting to beat outside of our regular studio

and telling you how Russia forever changed ballet.

Why has ballet become synonymous with Russia and Russians? Because we are the great.

Anton Pankevich knows ballet because it's been his entire life.

There's literally a book on him. The Russian-born Stanford University

instructor has spent a lot of time on his toes, using relevé, rond de jambe,

and plié to have his body articulate what words cannot. In the neoclassical ballet

we tried to make of figures that not necessarily human. You can portray an

animal. You can portray a tree. You can portray many different things. Pankevich

put on his first pair of ballet shoes at age 10, and in doing so he stepped into

Russia's decades-long tradition of ballet dominance. They always put so much

emphasis on culture. Culture was extremely important to Russia -- culture

and sport. Those are the ones that were their bread and butter, and they always

succeeded in culture. So many think of ballet as a Russian art form, but it was

actually the Italians who invented the dance in the 15th century during the

Renaissance period. Ballet was how the European royalty entertained itself, says

dance historian Lynn Garafola. They were not public performances. There were no

stages. There wasn't a public theater, but rather it was something that's exclusively for the court.

The first dancers didn't wear the tutus or the pointe

shoes we've come to associate with the art today. And the language, words like

Barre, Pirouette and port de bras. It comes from the French who adopted ballet

shortly after its creation.

Ballet didn't arrive to the United States until the 1900s, which is centuries after it began.

Its arrival coincided with a large wave of Russians immigrating to the U.S. after the Russian Imperial government was

overthrown, and years of civil war followed. Russia nearly abandoned ballet

following 1917 Bolshevik Revolution. That upheaval eventually birthed the

Soviet Union and a communist party that would rule the nation for decades.

In the revolt's aftermath, the powers that be tried to destroy what they saw as the

trappings of the aristocracy. Revolution leader Lenin had

originally intended to close the theaters, but peasants and farmers kept

filling the audiences for the ballet. After the Revolution the number of

Russians from the ballet world of Moscow and St. Petersburg but also many other

places increased enormously.

Since the Russian people wanted ballet and opera, the famous Bolshoi Theatre was saved. As the Russian Empire died and the Soviet

Union began more than two million people fled the country, and that number

includes more than 30,000 people who came to the United States to escape

repression and the police state. Many of those people were aristocrats and professionals.

In fact the Mariinsky Theatre in St. Petersburg lost a huge number of people after the Revolution and many of

them later turned up all around the world from San Francisco with a huge valley-

centered community in Paris. New York also had any number of people. Those

artists may have escaped Russia, but they didn't escape her very watchful eye. You

have to realize this was during the height of the Cold War. The U.S. and the

Soviet Union were two world powers with drastically differing ideologies. And the

close watch the Soviets kept on their dances is just one example of their

contrasts. You were being constantly watched, then you had to worry about what

happened afterwards. And the parents, the colleagues, the fellow dancers, family --all

of these would be subjected to surveillance and threats by the secret

police and by the political authorities, sometimes years before a dancer would be

able to talk to his or her mother, for instance, or someone close. But even

when you did you knew that someone was listening to the phone conversation.

Coming to America wasn't easy for Soviet ballet dancers, but the outcome of all of

Russia's unrest did forever change the art in the United States. It's Russian

choreographer George Balanchine who became the father of the American ballet

when he co-founded the School of American Ballet in 1934. Russia's Ballet

Russe tour sparked an American interest in the dance and Russian

defectors began to share their training. Today you can enroll in ballet class

just about anywhere in the U.S. If it wasn't for Balanchine

I don't think ballet would have been as popular

in America. Russian ballet has influenced pretty much I believe all of

American dancing. The Soviet connection is clear - it's in the execution where Pankevich

says you'll see the difference. He compared the two styles to a car race.

It's like watching Indy 500 versus Formula One. Which one's Indy, which

one's Formula One? Indy is American. Formula One is the European. So Formula

One, you have the fastest technology in the world and you have the most amazing

races, what they have. In Indy they just go in a circle. Look at the

difference in the speed of the footwork. On the left is the Russian way and on

the right is the American way. The Soviet Union is also the reason

ballet saw an increase in the quality of male dancers. The Soviet early on had

decided had put a premium on the quality of male dancing. And so many of the roles

were increased, augmented, new variations, new solos would be added and it was this

tradition of male dancing that the Soviets brought to the west and

electrified people. Mikhail Baryshnikov is one of the Soviets most famous male

dancers. He's considered one of the greatest ballet dancers in history and

he's actually the pre-eminent male dancer of the 1970s and the 1980s. At a

time when one of the only ways Soviets could see the world was through touring

with the arts, Baryshnikov wowed international audiences with his ability.

And in June 1974 he wowed them with his defection from the Soviet Union. It was a

big deal. Yes, ballet is about strength and beauty, but

for the Soviets it was also about power. Their art was a way to try and persuade

people to the Soviet worldview without force or coercion. In this way Soviet

dancers introducing their style to a global audience was a sort of propaganda --

in the same way the West also used soft power, like having the CIA back abstract

expressionist painters like Jackson Pollock, or producing movies like James

Bond which cast the Soviets as the bad guys.

[movie excerpt] "As he pits his murderous talents against the Iron Curtain."

I believe the Soviets felt that this was one way of encountering

what was the vast American influence abroad and what essentially America

exported, although certainly didn't do so consciously, and

this led of course to a wonderful period of touring by Soviet companies.

So this couldn't have happened in the U.S. without the Soviets because they essentially

created the American version of ballet. Pankevich believes Russia will continue to

dominate ballet because of the amount of monetary resources the government

contributes to sustain the art. And for him, the most difficult part of ballet isn't

securing the funding. I would say the most difficult thing about ballet is

letting go. You have certain memories that you remember how you look. It's hard

to let it go because you have a certain memory. Just don't dwell on the past

and try to share your memory with the dancers.

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Q&A: When is the right time to meet your boyfriend's kids?! - Duration: 4:49.

Alright! "Hey Jamie I've been dating a man with three kids for about six months now

and we're ready to take it to the next step, there is no doubt in my mind that

this is the guy that I'm going to marry and I'm excited and nervous about our future together

we're thinking of doing the big introduction but are not sure when the right time is

when do you think is an appropriate time for a woman to meet her boyfriends kids?"

Okay, you know what?

This is a heavy and controversial topic amongst the stepmom, divorce & co-parenting community

As always I don't think that there is a one-size-fits all approach to this

so I can't really give you a definate answer

That being said there are four, nope there are six contributing factors that I really think that you need to

consider before you take a leap and meet your boyfriend's kids.

1: Are you in it for the long haul?

I have a really hard time when people introduce their kids to their partners

or their boyfriends when they're just casually dating. I don't think it's fair

to the kids. If the relationship doesn't work out they have another person in

their life leave or another disruption to the routine.

kids have been through enough with their parents divorce I think that it's really important that

parents think long and hard and make sure that there's a future involved with

people who they introduce to their kids

2: Are the kids ready for this?

How are the kids doing with their parents separation?

are they struggling emotionally?

Are they in this space to meet a new person?

is it in their best interest to be introduced to someone new?

Kids all adjust to their parents divorce in different ways and this very much needs to be considered before you

do the big introduction

3: Do they know about you?

I think it's so important for kids to get a heads-up before this big introduction

their dad needs to have a conversation with them about what's going on what this looks like

and what this will mean moving forward

it gives them time to get used to the idea and to ask any questions that may come up

4: Are you mentally prepared for their reactions?

Look they could love you,

they could hate you

they could be indifferent

they could be uncomfortable

they could be stand-offish

or hey you know what they could even be a complete nightmare just like I was

when I was introduced to my dad's girlfriend's as a child

in all seriousness though, I think it's so important that you and your

boyfriend sit down and have a conversation about their potential

reactions and how you guys are going to respond if and when this happens

5. How is this ex-wife going to react?

look I'm not saying that this is a make or break situation or that she really gets to dictate whether or not you're

introduced to the kids, but I will say it's something that you might want to

think about

in some situations, the dad lets the ex-wife know, and gives her a heads-up

when he's introducing them to a new girlfriend

in other cases based on the dynamic of that family

that's not the best route to go

there's really no, like I said one-size-fits-all approach

either way it's worth having a conversation with your boyfriend about how this could all pan out

before the big introduction

Personally, I'm all about being prepared for the worst while still hoping for the best

6: and this is a very important one

have you really considered what life will be like as a stepmom

like REALLY REALLY considered

so many stepmoms have this fairytale perception of what life will be like as

a stepmom or when there's kids involved

and you know, often those women are in for a huge shock

your life is dictated by a co-parenting schedule, extracurricular activities, there's sick days, there's barf

there's messes, there's discipline, there's behaviours, there's issues that

come with co-parenting with an ex-wife,

what else is there??... it's just there's just a whole lot of never ending stuff!

I'm not saying that it's not amazing and that I'm not so grateful that this is the route that my life took

but it's definitely not all hearts and sparkles

I think it's so important that you really sit down and talk to your partner about what life will look like

with his kids involved because it's a huge huge change from living the single

Bachelorette life on your own

trust me I know ... I've been there

I'm willing to bet that right now your relationship is fairly simple because it doesn't involve the kids

as soon as kids are thrown into the equation, step-family life can get a little bit complicated

so just be prepared for that and how it's gonna change the dynamic of your relationship

basically to answer your question if you're in it for the long haul and have really thought about

all the things that I've talked about

then go for it... if you think it's the right time then that's up to you and your partner

but I do want to reiterate that I don't think this is a decision that should be taken lightly

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