CRUSH Excuses & Take Action Ryan Michler's 2017 StyleCon Presentation
[0:00:00] Antonio: How often do you use an excuse to
not do something?
I can tell you I'm a human being and I use them.
In today's presentation, Ryan Michler is going to teach you how to crush your excuses
because gentlemen if you want to be successful, if you want to do everything you want to do
in life, you're going to – you're going to run into so many excuses not just your
excuses, but the excuses of others.
But, Ryan in today's presentation shares with you personal examples of how he had to
deal with his own excuses that they kept putting out there, how he became the man he knew that
he was.
And if you're unfamiliar with Ryan, you're going to be in for a treat.
This guy opened up my event, Menfluential formerly StyleCon.
He got up there on stage and the guy just got everyone on the edge of their seat.
He knows how to present he knows how to talk how to engage, but most importantly like everyone
that gets up on my stage he made time after he got done for two days to be able to talk
and engage with everyone there at the event.
Let's get into his presentation.
I think you're going to enjoy this.
Ryan: I am a liar.
That's my confession.
The accusation I need to make is that you are probably a liar too.
Now, what's interesting about this is I told somebody else I was going to start my
presentation like this, they said, "I don't know, I might rethink that.
You might not want to call your audience a bunch of liars as you get started.
That might not be a great way to start the presentation."
But, it wouldn't if I was here to blow smoke up your ass, but that's not what I'm here
to do.
What I want to do is I want to give you some information that will cause you hopefully
to think differently about where you are right now because the choices that you've made,
the thoughts that you have the beliefs your background have gotten you to the exact point
that you are today.
Some of you are probably saying I'm pretty happy with that, some of you and probably
the reason you're here is because you're interested in growing and you're interested
in developing and you're interested in becoming a better person.
And in order to do that you need to confront the reality that you aren't always truthful
with yourself and the sooner you do that and the sooner you realize that and you embrace
that idea fully that we all just because of human nature have the desire and ability to
lie to ourselves, when we face that reality that's where we start to grow.
And there's one word in specific that I want to talk to you about today and that is
excuses.
Every single one of us in our lives makes excuses, they're difficult to see at times
and I'm going to talk with you about why that is, I'm going to talk with you about
what some of those excuses are and I'm going to talk with you about hopefully how we can
see those things and overcome the lies and the excuses that we tell ourselves.
And when we do, that's when we'll be able to grow.
So, the first one I want to talk with you about today and these excuses that I come
– that I've identified fall into one of three categories.
And the first category is our past.
How many of you in here have had a rough past in one way or another?
How many of you are sitting here knowing that twenty, thirty, forty, fifty years however
long you've been alive knew that you were going to be at this point where you are in
your life right now or have things gone a little bit differently?
Of course, we can't plan these things.
But here's what happens and we have a way of sabotaging ourselves because we think that
what happen in the past is automatically going to continue to happen in the future that by
default, their design or destiny that we're destined to repeat the past.
I'm a financial advisor by trade and one of the little disclosures disclaimers that
we need to put when we talk with our clients is past performance does not indicate future
results or something like that, I haven't been talking finance for awhile, but it's
something like that.
That's the point that I want to make is just because you've had a divorce or just
because you've had a failed business or a bankruptcy or whatever because things happen
in life does not mean that you can't succeed moving forward.
You know if we're to look at the past for example for me I grew up in a fatherless home.
My dad left when I was 3 years old.
He chose drugs and alcohol over my mom and my sister any myself.
When I was 9 years old, I had another stepfather – another man come into my life, a stepfather.
He was an alcoholic, not abusive, but never really present, never really there for us.
And another stepfather come into my life when I was 14 years old and he was verbally and
emotionally abusive.
And so, I never had this great role model and I was getting into trouble, I was drinking
at the age of 12 and 13 years old I was getting into drugs.
One day I actually brought 12-inch wrench to high – to my middle school because I
planned on hitting somebody over the head with it.
Thank God I couldn't keep my mouth shut and somebody found out and I got expelled
from school.
Like how would life be different if I didn't?
And so, I was going down this path of destruction, I got arrested when I was 16 years old.
I was going down this path of destruction and if you were to look at me now most people
wouldn't know that, most people wouldn't assume that because I changed.
And that's what so great about being human being is that we can change simply because
we want to, not because we have to.
It's not this fight or flight response, but because we want to.
[0:05:02] So, you're going to come to this StyleCon you're going to listen to people
over the next two days and you're going to hear some guys that are doing some amazing
things, making great money, influencing literally millions of people with the sound of their
voice and you're going to think to yourself, oh, I've never done anything great in the
past just like I did two years ago when I reached out to Antonio.
I've never done anything great.
I've never stood in front of two hundred and fifty people.
What right do I have to do that?
And I'm telling you, you have the right, you just need to make the decision that your
past is not going to necessarily represent your future.
Antonio: What do you think guys?
Great presentation, right?
Ryan kills it.
And that's why I have him opened up my Menfluential event formerly StyleCon and I would love for
you to see him at year five.
Now, to do this you got to attend the event, so I'm going to link to it down in the description.
This February in Atlanta, Georgia you want to meet me, you want to meet Ryan, you want
to meet Aaron Marino, you want to meet Jose Zuniga, Raphael Schneider, Barron over at
the Effortless Gent, Andy Snavely over Primer Magazine, Ryan Masters over at Sparta Strength,
AJ over at Art of Charm.
I could keep going on.
If you follow anyone in the men's lifestyle space, you're probably going to see them
at my event.
And this is the secret to this event is it it's for you.
I don't want to have a conference where people just get up there, they talk and then
they fly out.
I make sure that everyone of my speakers sticks around.
I make time, Aaron makes time for everyone that attends our event because we're honored.
We realized that you've made an investment, you've made a commitment whether you own
a business, whether you're an influencer whether you are just someone that wanted to
come and thank us for changing your lives, we want to spend time with you, we're inspired,
we get powered by this event.
And at the end of the day, I want people to come to this event and have their lives changed.
Now, we're capping attendance to this event and it's something that we're not going
to allow more than five hundred tickets to be sold.
I want to keep it intimate, I want to keep it so that you can actually and I have time
to talk to everyone there.
The only way to do that is to limit the number of tickets being sold.
So, go grab your ticket before they're gone, get your butt to Atlanta, Georgia because
this event is going to help you to start taking steps in the right direction so you can become
the man you know yourself to be.
Gentlemen, that's it.
Take care.
I'll see you in the next video.
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