It's titled, "My Man's Cave."
Hello. I'm a woman from Daegu
and I've been married for 4 years.
I still can't believe that I'm married.
Why?
(Wife / Knock knock)
"Honey, let's eat."
(Wife / Are you asleep again?)
"Honey, are you asleep again?"
"Are you alive?"
My husband stays cooped up in his room.
Our child is 3 years old.
"Daddy."
"Daddy." (It's not a horror story)
- He's 3? / - Yes.
"Daddy."
"Get out of here!"
Oh my.
He pushes our 3-year-old child out
and locks the door.
Why?
I don't know what he has in his room.
"What are you doing?"
"Why didn't you just live alone?"
"Why did you marry me?"
"Just leave me alone."
"Pretend that I don't exist."
"Can't we live that way?"
(How frustrating)
During the last 4 years, I tried arguing with him
and threatened to leave him, too,
but he won't change his ways.
I will take my husband with me today.
Please help us out and
get him out of his room.
Let's meet the person who sent in the story. Come out!
(Jeong Jin-ae)
Seongwu, stand up and greet her.
(Welcome)
(Sangmin greets her!)
Does he really stay cooped up in his room?
He comes home and stays in his room
like he is living alone.
(Oh...)
When I try to go into his room and touch his computer,
he yells, "Don't touch it! Get out!"
When our 3-year-old child goes in, he yells,
"Why you little..."
"Get out of here!" Then he slams and locks the door.
(Is he a real dad?)
Did you see what he does in there?
I was curious so I snuck into the room.
He has celebrity pictures and
dirty videos on his computer.
None of me, right?
Right.
(What did we just hear?)
She's laughing, too.
She's genuinely laughing.
I'm a celebrity, too! I could have a video!
There could be a video of me spreading.
Yes, you do have a legendary one.
Are you scared of your husband?
No.
Then why can't you confront him?
Right.
"What are you doing?"
"How can you yell at our child like that?"
You could get mad at him.
I've tried threatening him to kill myself
and I asked him for a divorce, too.
But it doesn't last long.
Did something happen?
What changed him so suddenly?
I think it started after I gave birth.
What? After you gave birth?
You and your husband barely spend time together?
Yes, barely.
Does he look after the child at all?
Not at all.
How would he? He even pushes his child out.
Does he earn a lot of money?
- Is that why he's so confident? / - Well...
That's a great question.
Why have you been enduring this for 4 years?
I'm sure there's something that he does
that makes you put up with this.
We each earn our own money.
- You do? / - Yes.
- You work, too? / - Yes.
(Child-rearing + House chores + Work = Hell)
We were shocked to hear that your husband
asked you to treat him like he doesn't exist.
He told you to ignore him?
When we go out
he asks me to leave him alone.
He says, "Have fun with our child.
Just ignore me."
How was he when you two were dating?
Was he sweet?
He was better than now.
Her husband is here with her today.
Where are you?
- Hello. / - Hello.
People usually applaud when a guest comes out,
but they all hate the husband already.
(You caught us)
Do you understand your wife's concern?
As for me,
I want to come home from work
and have some free time on my own.
I want to go to bed after having some free time.
But she said you're in your room all day long.
You're cooped up in there, pushing your child away.
I play on the computer or my cell phone.
Look at celebrities' pictures.
Time just flies by.
Of course.
Which celebrity's pictures do you look at?
Well...
Not me, right?
(No)
Kim Sarang.
Oh, Kim Sarang.
(Oh gee...)
What do you do the most in your room?
I play a lot of games.
- You play games? / - Yes.
Why won't you let her touch your things?
What's wrong with that?
I really cherish my things, but
my wife has unlucky hands.
She breaks everything she touches.
She broke a knife while slicing potatoes.
How do you do that?
That's why I won't let her touch my things.
I understand that you cherish your things.
But why don't you cherish your kid?
Why do you push him out and lock the door?
He usually comes in
at the most critical time. The timing is bad.
Critical time? In the game?
What's the critical time?
The time you spend with your child is critical.
If a child can get the timing right,
he's not a child.
How can a 3-year-old get that timing?
"Since daddy is playing a game right now,
I shouldn't go in!"
That's nonsense.
I'm in the middle of a war.
Oh, you're playing a game.
- Middle of a war. / - While playing a game.
Do you not go out as a family then?
It's a bit of a nuisance to go out together.
Also, even if I want to go out
I have these daily quests I must complete.
(Biting down hard)
What are daily quests?
He has these quests in the game
that he must complete every day to get items.
- He means the game? / - Yes, I think so.
If I don't complete the quests,
I feel uneasy when I'm out.
He's a game addict.
Shouldn't you complete your quests
with your wife and son every day, too?
As a dad!
(Whoa!)
Yeah! Shouldn't you complete daily quests for them?
Yes! What a way to mooch off me!
When I come home from work...
You want to spend time alone?
I want to be alone.
But your wife works, too.
She'd want some time alone, too.
In my opinion, if you feel that way,
you shouldn't have gotten married.
You asked her to treat you as if you don't exist.
That's being irresponsible.
Think about it. We get mad
when we're neglected.
Nobody asks to be neglected.
You're completely the opposite.
Why did you say that to her?
When I'm home playing games,
she keeps asking me to do things for her.
I want to focus on my game, but I can't.
It's annoying.
Did you know that he's addicted to games?
Yes.
When our son was a newborn,
he suddenly came home during the lunch hour.
I thought he came home to see me.
He said he forgot to turn his game on.
He's a game addict.
He left work without letting anyone know and
he just left without saying goodbye to me.
One time, we were at a crosswalk. He started
to cross so I went after him without looking.
It was actually a red light.
- I almost got in an accident. / - How terrible.
How did you two meet?
We met at work.
At work?
- We were colleagues. / - Oh, at work.
Did you ask her out first?
No, she did.
Is that right?
He looked normal.
Yes, he does look normal.
(Normal)
He does look fine.
(A surprise turn of events behind his looks)
Were you addicted to games then, too,
so you got married without thinking much?
Please be honest. We're very curious.
I did play games back then, too,
- but I wasn't addicted. / - Really?
(She agrees)
I come home from work pretty late.
I come home at around 9 or 10 p.m.
That's quite late.
When I go home, she just tells the baby
that I'm home and walks by me.
I was upset by that.
How do you want your wife to greet you?
More cheerfully?
Oh my!
You're home!
Is that what you want?
We're really curious.
I want her to tell me, "Good job."
She said that you changed
after your son was born.
I'm asking because I just can't understand.
After our son was born,
our meals became centered around what he can eat.
- Of course. / - The same goes for everyone.
- That happens to everyone. / - Tell us more.
When she's doing the dishes, I hug her from behind
and she hates it.
She glares at me like I disgust her.
She's still number one to me, not my son.
But it's not the same for my wife.
You don't like it when he hugs you from behind?
I normally don't like showing affection.
Now that I have a child,
I have to work, do house chores and watch him.
- It's tough. / - I am always busy.
I just want to get things done and rest.
I have no time to allow him to hug me.
When a baby is born, things revolve around him.
Never around the husband.
When women give birth,
they are biologically drawn to the baby
because of the hormones.
But that's not the reason for
playing games in your room.
After talking to him, I'm starting to
understand his point of view.
He wants to act like a child to his wife,
but now that they have a son
her love is geared towards the baby only.
So he's turned his attention to the game.
Did you know about this, ma'am?
He says that you're no. 1 to him. Did you feel that?
Yes, he tells me every day.
He says, "I have to be no. 1 to you."
When I'm feeding our son
he asks me to feed him first.
What?
He asks me to buy his clothes first, too.
Maybe you're focusing too much on your son
and are neglecting your husband too much.
But don't all moms do that?
Since my son can't talk, he comes first.
When I feed him, hold him or kiss him
my husband comes. "Me first! Me first!"
He tells me he's upset because
he's supposed to be no. 1 in the family,
but he isn't treated that way.
Didn't you try to give him more attention?
So I tried to have beer with him,
but he drank a glass and just went into his room.
To play games. We couldn't spend time together.
You were no. 1 to her when you were drinking beer.
You came first at the time.
Why did you go into your room?
I just went in to check on the game real quick.
You're not making sense at all.
You're just making excuses.
She offered to drink beer with you
because she wanted to treat you like no. 1.
To be honest, when I'm in the living room
to be with my family
she tells me to go in the room and play games.
- What does that mean? / - Why did you say that?
He just lies there and toys with his cell phone.
I'd rather not see him do that.
So you told him to go in his room?
That makes sense.
So you tried to be with your family, but
you went in your room because she asked you to?
Well, not really, but...
She's always busy when she's home.
She's always doing this and that.
Tell us what this and that are in detail.
She does the laundry, the dishes, cleans...
What else?
I think being busy helps her lose weight.
So you just watch her work?
He is just so selfish.
You said that she's fat and should lose weight.
What are you talking about?
She looks perfect and beautiful.
(An unexpected romantic comment)
Don't listen to everything he says.
Minhyun...
Tell us how skinny you want her to be.
I think her legs are skinny enough,
but her arms...
She could lose weight around her waist.
(Oh my goodness)
He's so terrible. (Wow)
Is that why you stare at Kim Sarang's pictures?
As I listen to him talk,
I feel so frustrated right now.
Right.
Does he help you around the house at all?
He's never cooked his own meal.
For 4 years?
While your wife was busy doing chores,
what were you doing?
He was playing games of course.
You weren't watching the baby?
(No way)
Our son doesn't come to me.
He only wants his mom.
It's because you don't spend time with him.
Kids know.
If you spend time with them
they will come to you and play with you.
They won't go near people who don't love them.
I'm sure you asked him to watch your son once.
I did once.
I called after I got done with work at 5 p.m.
I asked him, "Did you feed Yeongwon?"
He said, "Yes, in the morning."
I called at 5 p.m.
I asked, "You didn't give him lunch?"
He said, "He never said he's hungry."
The baby never asked for lunch?
Why didn't you feed him lunch?
We both fell asleep after breakfast.
We both got up quite late,
so I couldn't feed him lunch.
Our son was hospitalized once from pneumonia.
He was in the hospital for a week.
I was there watching him for 24 hours.
My husband came for only 30 minutes at a time.
When our child was in the hospital,
I felt bad for him for being sick.
But it was tough being at the hospital.
It must've been tough for her, too.
- I... / - You're into this?
I have a panic disorder and
I'm having a hard time
overcoming this situation.
- I understand. / - It's because you're angry.
I don't have a panic disorder but
I am very much frustrated, too.
All right then.
Was it tough psychologically or physically?
Or was it tough because you couldn't play games?
Be honest with us.
Just being at the hospital was tough.
And she's so good with our son.
She cares for him very well.
Sangmin, are you all right?
He's like a 5-year-old child.
- He's only 2 years older than his son. / - Right.
After listening to the husband,
he isn't an evil person.
He's not a terrible person.
He's just very childish.
He knows himself very well.
She's raising two boys right now.
If he were a terrible person,
it'd be easy for her to leave him.
This is worse.
It's harder.
Your parents-in-law are here, too?
All right.
Did you know about your daughter-in-law's concern?
Yes, of course.
She has to get ready to go to work,
drop her son off at our place,
pick him up after work, bathe him,
feed him, do the dishes and laundry,
clean the house. She is very busy.
But my son is busy playing games and doesn't help her.
She must be very upset.
Did you know about it, too, sir?
We all get together on holidays.
We all get together to talk and have fun,
but he just disappears.
He does the same thing at home, too.
- He's like a middle school student. / - Yes.
Were you like that when you were young, sir?
You two look so much alike.
There weren't any games when I was young.
How was your son before he got married?
He played games a lot before he got married.
He complained earlier that he isn't no. 1
and that's why he's upset.
He was just trying to justify his actions.
It's not about having his own world.
He's just a game addict.
Let me ask the mother.
He spent his time in the arcade as a kid.
He did this in the past, too.
(He has 30 years of experience with games)
He upset me a lot as a child, too.
Did you allow him to do that?
We fought a lot.
But it had no effect on him, right?
Right.
Were you guys ever into games?
Everyone likes to play games now.
Yes, we like to play games.
But when I play for several hours
I want to do something else.
Sir.
Does Yeongwon go to his grandfather?
Kids like those who like them.
Dongyeob said the same thing earlier.
His dad doesn't spend time with him,
but he likes to come to me.
I spend a lot of time with him.
He loves being held in my arms.
Yeongwon is here with us today.
Hi.
Hi, Yeongwon.
How cute.
Say hello to Wanna One members.
Hi.
He is so cute.
If it were me, I'd be dying to go home to see him.
He's so beautiful.
- He's handsome. / - Act cute, Yeongwon.
He's so handsome.
(Even Wanna One members admit he's handsome)
Let's go to daddy.
Where's daddy? Go to daddy.
He's such a good son.
He's with his dad just for today.
Yeongwon.
You like daddy?
He's not a scary man.
Let's compare how he acts differently
when he's with grandpa and when he's with dad.
What? (He's pointing at his grandpa)
He wants his grandpa.
Grandpa.
Yeongwon. Grandpa.
(He feels comfortable)
You like your grandpa?
(Yes)
You like mommy?
Grandpa.
He likes his grandpa the most.
Dad. Isn't he so cute?
He is.
I'm shocked to hear that
you cussed because he went into your room.
He barges in during critical moments.
Critical moments.
Why is playing a game so important?
It sounds like your husband
doesn't listen to you at all.
It seems like he belittles me.
Whenever I speak
he tells me I'm stupid.
What?
He tells me that I sound like a fool so
when I go out with others, I shouldn't talk.
Why does he do that?
How does that make you feel?
I've ended up accepting it.
"Oh, so that's how I am."
- You just got used to it? / - I've accepted it.
I just accept that I shouldn't talk with others.
I've just gotten used to it.
So I am careful when I talk to others.
Have you considered that
your wife would be hurt when you say that?
I said it because I feel comfortable with her now.
I never meant to hurt her feelings.
How smart are you that
you tell your wife that she's stupid?
She is a bit ditzy.
For example, during the PyeongChang Olympics,
she said, "The Olympics should only be held in
the winter. Everything has to be icy."
So he said, "That's why it's the Winter Olympics."
That's cute. What's wrong with that?
(This is not what I pictured...)
That's cute.
She didn't say anything wrong.
It can't be held in the summer.
Sir.
That is why I tell her
to try to keep her mouth shut.
Don't tell her that she's stupid.
- Never! / - Don't tell her to be quiet.
I want to say so many things to you.
I want to collect every cuss word in the world
and give them to you as a gift.
But I'm holding myself back.
Only the most foolish man in the world would
say such things to his wife.
How can you say that?
To your life partner?
You could feel a bit frustrated. That's because
you are learning the newest trends through
your phone because you have free time.
But she doesn't have the time to do so.
If she did, she could keep up with you.
When you were dating,
she seemed innocent and lovely, right?
Yes. She was fun to be with.
You thought that part of her was lovely then.
But as time passed by
- you think that part is now frustrating. / - Yes.
That's because you're being selfish.
"Why don't you do the laundry?" "She's good at it."
"Why don't you watch the baby?" "She's good at it."
Everything revolves around you.
You must change that.
Your son called his wife stupid.
Did you know that?
- No. / - How do you feel?
He shouldn't say such a thing.
What was the most hurtful comment that
you heard from your husband in life?
(Perplexed)
You're attacking grandpa now.
He's suddenly flustered.
He's watching the baby so well!
He was shocked to hear the question.
How do you want your husband to change?
I don't ask for anything else.
I want him to spend some time with our son.
I want to spend some time with my son, too.
But he only wants his mom.
I want my wife to let me spend time with him.
How can she when you don't even feed him?
She can't trust you.
What would you like to do if you have free time?
I want to sleep as much as I want to.
- What? / - She wants to sleep in.
How many hours do you usually sleep?
I get done around 11 p.m. and wake up at 5 a.m.
since I have to get ready to go to work.
What do you think about that?
I always thought she slept enough.
That's what you thought?
It's not enough because she's so tired.
What do you want from your wife?
When I come home from work
I just want 2 hours of free time.
Then I'll spend time with my family.
You come home at 9.
Two hours later, it's time for her to go to bed.
You can't spend any time with your wife.
You had conflicts with your parents because
of playing games even before you got married.
I think saying that is very irresponsible.
You have to quit playing games.
You must think long and hard and change your ways.
What is your goal in life?
I want to spend time with my family
and have fun in life.
The biggest problem is that
he's used to this way of life.
Changing his way of life at age 42 is a difficult task.
People usually get accustomed to familiarity
and end up losing what's most important to them.
You are saying that you've tried,
but you don't sound sincere.
That's why she couldn't see your efforts.
I know that you're not being malicious.
You're just immature.
I personally think that
an immature person should marry someone immature.
A mature person must marry a mature person.
It's too hard if the two don't meet eye-to-eye.
Someone who's too immature shouldn't marry.
You're too immature right now.
Try to become more mature now.
With a strong glare
say what you want from your husband.
I want you to play games less.
No. Be stubborn. Say it strongly.
- Be strong! / - Be powerful.
He has to quit playing games.
I want you to quit playing games and
watch our son once in a while.
All right.
He's a good man, so he'll come around.
Let's start with Sangmin.
This is a concern.
- Ong Seongwu. / - It's a concern.
Why?
It's a concern.
All right. We know how you feel.
You can't express it in words, right?
Forget the reasons. It's a concern.
It's a concern.
Hwang Minhyun.
I think it's a concern, too.
Why?
By listening to everything so far,
it's a concern.
Jaehwan. Is it a concern or not?
It's a concern.
Why?
I feel so bad for the wife.
Could you sing a song for her?
A comforting song.
♪ It's all right, everything will work out ♪
♪ You have a nanana bright future ahead ♪
(Jaehwan's awesome motivation song!)
Hold the button, everyone.
If you think this is a concern,
please press the button.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Please say a word to your wife.
Now that I've heard everyone talk today
I realize what a terrible person I've been.
I will do my best to change my ways.
Have faith in me and let's be happy from now on.
Tell her how much you love her, too.
You're still no. 1 to me, not Yeongwon.
How many votes did they get? Please show us.
I'm sure they got many votes.
Out of 200.
(What's the result?)
163?
173?
They got many votes.
(They got 163 votes)
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