11 Contradictions You Might Experience If You're An INFJ
If you think INFJs live in a very straightforward pattern, you should consider the fact that
they actually have some contradictions here and there.
As an INFJ you probably experience some contradictions.
While people think you are like this and that, you actually rarely ever feel like that or
at all.
This happens because any type of personality can have contradictory traits that other people
cannot notice.
This kind of contradiction should not confused with weakness since it is naturally occurred.
There is no one who can control this contradictory traits since they are just there.
So, let;s see some of the Contradictions You Might Experience If You're An INFJ.
#1 - Realistic yet pessimistic
INFJs are idealistic and realistic.
They see the world as it is.
They also have plans to make this world as better place for humanity.
They indeed have plans on what they should do in the future, in an accurate manner.
Unfortunately, it is important to understand that INFJs are also pessimistic, and it is
caused by their realistic view of the world.
Sometimes, INFJs think they cannot handle the problems as well.
This makes them desperate and people usually see this.
#2 - Not knowing how to create a better world
INFJs are idealist, and they have different vision of the world.
They prefer the world to be a more peaceful place, and they want to make change.
However, it is worth noting that INFJs usually stop on admiring people who make movement
or change.
They do not know how to start the movement.
They also do not know how to gain masses especially if they are still young.
#3 - They cannot love people equally
This actually happens to most of us.
We want to love each one of us equally because it is just unfair to love or hate someone
more than others.
Unfortunately, INFJs just cannot do that.
Though they want to have peaceful world with equal distribution of love, they really can
hate someone who does wrong to society.
#4 - They want to be single in a relationship
Okay, this one is rather complicated.
INFJs sometimes need a partner for their life because they want a deep connection to seek
meaning.
However, most of the time, they prefer being single anyway.
Being single for INFJs allows them to keep their expectation high and it releases stress.
#5 - It takes time to love others
Even though INFJs we all know love many items.
They actually spend quite a long time to be convinced with those materials.
Indeed, it is not easy for INFJs to fall in love.
It needs extensive convincing strategy to make them love with certain thing, and it
happens to loving whether a living object and an unanimated object.
#6 - Nature lover, but staying indoors
Nature offers peace that INFJs really passionate about.
They also like nature because it keeps them focus.
However, staying indoors is something they prefer.
The temptation to watch TV, browsing the internet, and reading book with some snacks is somehow
greater.
#7 - They want to look good without effort
They believe that look is not everything, but they struggle to look good.
The reason for that is because INFJs want to drive other people away from their chaotic
mind.
With a nice and neat look, people will not realize that there are troubles in INFJ's
mind.
More importantly, INFJs do not want to put so much effort because it is exhausting.
#8 - Battle of anxiety
People experience anxiety, but it is worth to note that INFJs are always in battle with
anything in life.
They worry that things may not run out very well, and it makes them worry.
However, they believe that they are not anxious as people can see through their gestures.
#9 - Depression complex
Most INFJs can be categorized as empaths considering the fact that they have feelings that make
them feel about other people.
However, when depression strikes, you become ignorant to yourself and others.
#10 - You plan things, but not getting them done
INFJs are usually in constant battle with themselves, making their plans unexecuted.
This can be the real trouble because INFJs usually have brilliant plans to change the
system in holistic manner.
#11 - We are all human after all
INFJs and other people with different MBTI personality type are human after all.
We are affecting and affected by others, and it keeps us in state with instability.
Well, at least that's all about the eleven contradictions you might experience if you're
an INFJ.
So, what is your experience as an INFJ?
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