13 Things You Should Never Say to an Introvert
Introverts are unique, and it is important to start realizing that they are really good
people too.
Many people think introverts negatively, and some of them are really curious to know about
them.
Unfortunately, some questions lead to serious damage, although it is the fact that you don't
have any ill intention.
Therefore, be sure to not ask a sensitive questions to introverts.
In order to help you understand more about introverts, here are some key phrases to avoid
when dealing with your introverted friends.
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#1 - Why are you so quiet?
Showing introverts as quiet person actually burdens them.
Introverts do not want to be noticed, but they are asked such question multiple times.
It actually stamps the shy and quiet adjective to them forever, and it makes introverts get
more isolated.
#2 - You think too much
Introverts' best ability is thinking.
They can think in great focus without being distracted.
Moreover, they think quickly with great analysis process.
Unfortunately, many extroverts ask insensible questions and statements that damage the introverts.
#3 - Don't you have any friends?
Since you spend a lot of your time alone at your comfort zone, they thought you don't
have any friends.
It's not true, just because an introvert enjoys their own time alone, doesn't mean that
they are completely friendless.
Though, it's true that they are selectively social.
#4 - Just Say it
Introverts use long term memory, and it takes long pathway to respond and say something.
That is why it is difficult for introverts to say something.
Eventually, introverts will say what they want to express once they are relaxed and
ready.
#5 - "You should smile more."
Maybe this is the most annoying phrase introverts ever herd, you just can't expect your introvert
friend to wear big smiles on their faces 24 per 7.
If they happen to look a little standoffish or mean, then you should know that it's
not intentional.
That's just how their expressions happen to look.
#6 - Get out more
You should know that introverts have very limited energy when they are with other people.
Therefore, the best way to have a good happy life for introverts is basically being alone
in a quiet place.
Some people really do not understand this by saying to get out more.
It is actually like asking extroverts to stay at home for the whole week.
#7 - "Why do you hate people so much?"
Since when introverts hate people so much?
Just because they tend to isolate themselves and avoid other people, doesn't mean that
they don't like people.
Honestly, this is a ridiculous myth and it needs to end now.
#8 - It will be fine without preps
Introverts need to prepare many things before going on stage.
Even if it is only an honoring speech, introverts need to plan things properly to avoid any
pitiful move on stage.
#9 - Are you ok by being silent?
It is okay.
It is just there is nothing important to say.
#10 - "Quit being so shy all the time."
Although some introverts are shy, and it's absolutely nothing wrong with being shy anyway,
but not all introverts are shy.
It's just that they're not as comfortable with openly engaging with others or always
saying what's on their minds.
#11 - If only you would come out your shell
Introverts do not live inside a shell.
It is just additional protective layer to keep them alive in front of people.
Meeting with people is exhausting unless the people can understand the introverts.
#12 - "My friends think you're weird."
If an introvert can't blend with a certain group of people right of the bath, or, if
they're just not open on having a long discussion, that doesn't mean they are a complete weirdo.
It just means that they need a little more time to warm up to those people.
#13 - Get over it
This statement is often said when introverts start to worry about doing things in group
or wide social setup.
Unfortunately, introverts require different progress or journey before they can actually
speak.
All in all, that's the things you should never say to an introvert.
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