I've heard many reasons why would-be students of singing don't take voice lessons.
Inside this video I'll highlight the top 5 reasons for not taking voice lessons and
I'll "bust them"!
Hi I'm Chuck Gilmore with Power To Sing.
I've taken and taught voice lessons for years.
During this time I've heard many reasons for not taking voice lessons.
Here are the top 5 reasons for NOT Taking Voice Lessons
I've heard these multiple times.
#1: I'm No Good at Singing
I know many teachers that will take a non-singer who's motivated to learn and make them singers.
Those same teachers also will take a singer who want's to improve and makes them better.
If you think you're no good at singing that's a great reason to start taking lessons.
#2: I Don't Have Any Money
Will you eat tonight?
Tomorrow?
The next day?
Then you have money.
What you're saying is I don't want to learn to sing intensely enough to make the
sacrifice of time and effort to get the money to take singing lessons.
If you want it badly enough, you will find a way.
A favorite quote of my from years ago is attributed to Ella Wheeler Wilcox
"There is no chance, no destiny, no fate, that can circumvent or hinder or control the
firm resolve of a determined soul."
A determined soul will find a way to afford lessons.
Period.
#3: I Can Learn To Sing On My Own
Yes you can, maybe.
Some people have done it.
I know at least two.
The rest spend hours, days, months, years watching YouTube videos, watching Idol or
The Voice or anything but actual lessons and never make any breakthroughs in their own
voices.
#4: Voice Teachers are Scammers.
Yes, probably some are.
In every field of life there are scammers.
So you've go to find someone reputable, trustworthy and experienced.
When you do, hire them and get some help.
It's likely you'll be surprised how fast you improve.
#5: There Aren't Any Good Teachers Where I Live
Try SKYPE or other online options.
Try courses.
As you're learning to sing, face to face lessons can be very powerful and effective.
Even if just a few to make sure you're on track.
Here are Three Reasons You Absolutely Should Take Singing Lessons
Number 1: A trained instructor will hear things you're not able to hear in your own voice
and will be able to help you.
You'll get better, faster.
Number 2: With the right teacher, You'll save 100's of hours or more.
Your progress will be rapid.
As a result you will save $100's of dollars instead of wasting time (and money) trying
to find improvement for free.
Number 3: You could be singing and performing and happier so much sooner.
Instead you've been stranded in "Vocal Neverland" trying to learn on your own.
Personally I've spent 1000's of dollars on lessons, courses, workshops and seminars
taking voice lessons and learning to teach.
I've always improved with every investment that I've made.
I've never regretted 1 cent spent on my voice or my teaching.
Caveat: Even the best teachers sometimes don't match up well with everyone.
If you don't get the progress you're looking for, and you've done the work, change teachers.
Learning your vocal type and practicing exercises for your vocal type is a great way to improve
your voice rapidly.
Do you know your vocal type?
Go to PowerToSing.com and take the vocal test which I call the PowerTest.
Take the quiz and discover your vocal type.
Then go to the Knowledge Center and watch the videos about your vocal type.
Download the free exercises for your vocal type and start improving your voice rapidly.
These exercises will help you experience real vocal progress now and get you ready to take
singing lessons from a skilled singing teacher.
If you liked this video, give it a thumbs up, make a comment, share it with a friend
and please subscribe.
I'm Chuck Gilmore with PowerToSing.
You can sing higher with beauty, confidence and power.
I'll see you inside the next video.
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HOW SACRED SCIENCE ADDRESSES WHAT MODERN PHYSICS IGNORES
In a recent attempt to understand how conventional physics �explains� reality, I began to
read Lawrence Krauss� A Universe from Nothing
Krauss is one of those famous scientists like Richard Dawkins who doesn�t find anything
strange about the fact that existence IS.
Instead he takes EVERYTHING for granted and attacks, like Dawkins and Bill Maher, the
low hanging fruit of organized religion and its dogmatic, unproven Gods created in our
image.
When I tried reading his book I got a bit frustrated and then checked the index for
the word �consciousness,� and when I did not find it, I put the book aside.
The question really is � �what� exactly is �nothing�?
First and foremost it is a concept.
Nothing does not exist.
What exists is, well, everything.
Nothing is the word or placeholder we use for null � similar to zero in math � but
in both cases (words and math) they are human abstractions or interpretations of Nature.
As such they are a step removed from reality and flawed by the limitations of our own perceptions
and consciousness � a fact that escapes many modern physicists but which was in fact
apparent to great thinkers like Einstein and Schrodinger.
As I�ve noted, we can use the concept �infinitely large� to �understand� the truth about
� and yet, for example, while we know what a prime number is, and we know that there
must ALWAYS be one larger, we are incapable of going to the �next� larger prime without
� now � a supercomputer.
We can�t identify the greatest prime, but we can inadequately describe it as �infinite,�
and as soon as we do we know that, yes, there must be another.
How he finds geometry within a vacuum, or what science deems to be �nothing,� is
similar in my view to finding code (DNA) running in our cells.
His description of a mathematical geometric structure potentially at the heart of nature
(or a vacuum � or �nothing�) that has energy flowing equally in all (infinite) directions
is to me very dramatic.
It �resonates� profoundly (Nassim�s website is the Resonance Academy) with the
notion of dimensions that was described in a recent article on similar thinkers.
What I loved about the video above is how it directly supports the notion of �As Above
So Below� in the same way propounded by Rodney Collin � that 3D may be infinite
at a lower scale; that is perceived as a line a level below (2D) and as a point (one dimension)
from another level �lower (1D).�
(So that, for example, what we deem �infinite� as the Universe is limited in our view (by
our instruments) to a perspective related to our relative (smaller) scale.
A year for us is but a moment for the Sun, or more accurately its relatively shorter
movement in its scale).
Nassim also relates this sacred geometry to nature, pointing out the ubiquity of Phi (the
Fibonacci sequence) in how life manifests, among many other examples, and of course relating
both Phi and Pi to the ancient monuments of Egypt and other civilizations that did not
suffer from our own myopic scientific constraints.
�It was Buckminster Fuller who discovered the significance of the full vector symmetry
in 1917 and called it the Vector Equilibrium in 1940.
With all vectors being exactly the same length and angular relationship, from an energetic
perspective, the VE represents the ultimate and perfect condition wherein the movement
of energy comes to a state of absolute equilibrium, and therefore absolute stillness and nothingness.�
According to the physics of Nassim Haramein:
��the 64 tetrahedron grid is the seed geometry of what eventually becomes, with
more and more octave growth, the infinite holofractographic vacuum structure of the
entire universe.
As well:
64 codons in human DNA.
64 hexagrams in the I Ching.
64 sexual positions in the Kama sutra.
64 classical arts listed in many Indian scriptures.
64 �tantras� (books) of the �tantrism,� which is a form of Hinduism.
64 is the maximum number of strokes in any Chinese character.
64 is the number of cells we have before our cells start to bifurcate (differentiate) shortly
after conception.
64 is fundamental in computer memory bits and coding.
64 things are needed to be able to approach the Ark of the Covenant of the Lord according
to the 2 copper scrolls that were found among the 300 Dead Sea Scrolls.
64 is encoded in the description of the Tetragrammaton in the Hebrew Bible, which is the 4-letter
theonym YHWH which means God in Hebrew.
64 is the number of generations from Adam until Jesus according to the Gospel of Luke.
64 forms or manifestations of the Lord Shiva in Hinduism
64 squares on chess and checker boards.
64 Braille characters in the old 6-dot system 64 demons in the Dictionnaire Infernal
64 is the smallest number with exactly seven divisors.
Even The Beatles knew: �When I�m 64� (hehe)
This all could, of course, just be a coincidence�� (Nassim�s Facebook Page)
(Note: I find the use of the word �octave� extremely interesting in the context of how
Gurdjieff and Ouspensky use this same term for the energetic unfolding of everything
in their cosmology.)
This is the essence of both number and dimension to me, then � both are pointers, as are
most philosophical statements, to a greater Truth that we can only know beyond the intellectual
� that Being is a vastly infinite and intelligence field in which �we� (another unexplained
concept) operate temporarily.
And the true science that can help describe it needs to be not only �scientific� but
also reverently �Sacred� in the face of its immensity.
This is a notion to which today�s most vocal atheists remain oblivious.
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We've all heard the worn-out jokes about lawyers coming from comedians and politicians, and
even our friends.
They refer to lawyers as opportunistic ambulance chasers who are only out to make a quick buck
off of someone else's suffering.
These comments aren't as innocuous as you might think.
In fact, they're focused and developed as a highly financed, well-coordinated, decades-long
smear campaign carried out by business interest groups like the U.S. Chamber of Commerce and
the world's biggest insurance corporations.
In 1971, Lewis Powell, before he became a justice on the United States Supreme Court,
sent a memo to business and political leaders, where he outlined what he believed were the
challenges facing the business community, coming from a group that he referred to as
the New Leftists.
During Powell's entire career, as a matter of fact, as a lawyer and as a judge, he was
a loyal, loyal servant to a system where the interest of corporations was always superior
to the interest of consumers who were victimized by those corporations.
In this memo, Powell suggested that business groups, specifically the U.S. Chamber of Commerce,
needed to come forward with direct campaigns in the media and by lobbying politicians to
paint anti-corporatist groups like trial lawyers and consumer groups as enemies of democracy
who are only out to serve themselves.
By the 1980s, the campaign was well underway, and the U.S. Chamber of Commerce and the insurance
industry was leading the charge to discredit and dehumanize and vilify trial lawyers because
they were the only ones holding corporations accountable when they killed or crippled American
consumers with defective products.
Sadly, the public was willing to buy into those lies.
The Chamber of Commerce created a new department that they called the Institute for Legal Reform.
This group was created to be the attack dog of big business and Republicans.
Their only job was to go after trial lawyers for two reasons.
The first reason was because businesses didn't want to pay for their crimes.
The second is because, at the time, trial lawyers were the largest donor group for the
Democratic Party, a trend that's only ended once Citizens United allowed Wall Street bankers
to buy the loyalty of the Democrats.
Once the Chamber and their allies in the political world smeared the image of trial lawyers as
a whole, they began to target specific attorneys and law firms.
In a report issued by the Institute for Legal Reform in October of 2013, the group specifically
listed law firms and individual lawyers who they believed posed the biggest threats to
the profits, the profits of big business.
The attacks from corporate interest groups and politicians took a sinister turn.
In the last few years, they've provided just a small glimpse of what corporations really
want to accomplish, and that is putting consumer trial lawyers behind bars.
That leaves government regulatory agencies as dysfunctional as the FDA, as dysfunctional
as the SEC and the EPA, to keep their eye on corporations and try to keep corporations
honest.
Then, of course, there's America's corporate media that today is fully owned and operated
by huge corporate advertisers who threaten to pull billions of dollars in advertising
from ABC and CBS and NBC if those corporate media types go too far in protecting consumers
against corrupt corporations.
My guest tonight understands the attacks on trial lawyers better than anyone.
He was targeted for prosecution for filing claims against oil giant BP after the Deepwater
Horizon disaster.
Thankfully, he was acquitted by a jury of all 66 counts brought against him by the federal
government.
Throughout the course of his trial, in which he represented himself, he proved that he
was actually a victim of fraud himself.
Joining me now to talk about this is attorney Mikal Watts.
Mikal, take us right to the beginning of the story.
What were you doing that made BP so angry, where the federal government actually sided
up with BP, along with the U.S. Chamber of Commerce, in this fight?
Mike, I think it's interesting that in the largest environmental disaster in American
history, an oil spill that lasted 85 days and killed 11 good men, the United States
Department of Justice did not succeed in convicting a single individual within BP for the crimes
that led to that catastrophe.
What it did do is it set up, in conjunction with BP, a fraud task force, where average
citizens were hauled before courts all throughout the Gulf of Mexico and accused of submitting
fraudulent claims against BP.
Unfortunately, as part of that effort, our law firm got swept up in the middle of it
within two weeks of the time that the trial was supposed to begin, so the timing was very
suspicious.
Yeah, it was well-planned.
There's no question BP ... The ugly thing about this is that the U.S. government got
so close to the wishes of BP, it became like a lapdog for BP in many ways.
What did BP do to try to stop you from doing your job?
How extensive was it even before you went to trial?
Where do I start, right?
The bottom line is that about 360 different lawyers working together were putting together
the evidence against BP and the fraud allocution trial where the judge was going to decide
who was responsible for what percentage of the fault and who was liable for punitive
damages.
That trial was supposed to begin on February the 25th of 2013, and much to my shock, 17
days before, two of my offices were raided by the United States Secret Service.
There was an assistant United States prosecutor from the Southern District of Mississippi
who traveled to Texas to oversee the raids.
I was in Miami at the American Association of Justice Winter Convention and found out
about it through frantic phone calls, frantic texts.
We didn't know what was happening.
What I knew is is that I was one of the primary lawyers that was supposed to take on BP in
what was the trial of the century supposed to start 17 days later, and all of the sudden
my offices got raided.
It was a surprise, to say the least.
Mikal, I can tell you, let me say this for you.
You were regarded as one of the most effective trial lawyers on the team that was supposed
to be ...
I appreciate that.
... trying the case against BP.
You had taken the key depositions.
You had hammered BP.
You showed their criminal conduct.
You showed 100 different ways that the feds should have thrown these corporate thugs in
prison.
Deposition after deposition, you showed that, so I have a hard time believing this was just
a coincidence that all of a sudden BP talks the federal government into prosecuting you.
Let me get to the good part of this story.
You took them on, and you said, "Okay, you want a story?
Let me try my own case in front of you in trial."
You tried the case in Mississippi.
What were the results?
The results were as I predicted.
We didn't do anything wrong.
We knew it from the start.
It was a completely specious prosecution, what the motives were.
It's hard to even fathom that a United States attorney would try to wreck a law firm and
the 140 people that work there with the scant evidence that they had.
It helped that we didn't do it.
I felt that I was uniquely situated to defend myself, so I could talk to the jury every
day about what was happening and extol the virtue of what mass tort lawyers like you
and I do on a daily basis.
I think that that helped get the jury behind what was going on in terms of what the goals
were, and this case against BP was a righteous lawsuit.
Mikal, one thing you did is you rocked the world of a federal prosecutor who routinely
had set up for corporations versus trial lawyers.
You weren't the first one.
This was not the first time a corporation talked the government into going after a trial
lawyer.
You rocked this guy's world.
I think he quit right after the case.
Tell me about it.
In terms of not being the first time, some of the most prominent trial lawyers in the
United States ... A gentleman and a friend of mine now, Paul Minor, who you knew well,
in Mississippi was indicted and sentenced to 11 years for something that is beyond me
that he did anything wrong.
I think it was outrageous.
The largest class-action lawyers in the country got prosecuted for things that, I don't know,
I didn't see anything criminal there.
Dickie Scruggs, everybody is prosecuted under the Bush administration.
Mikal, I know you lived through the time when corporate America had the U.S. Chamber of
Commerce, they had the biggest insurance companies in the world, that had this plan that they
had focused for a decade how to go after trial lawyers.
Then it finally evolved to one thing we're going to do is, if it's a trial lawyer going
after a corporation, we're going to figure out how to put that trial lawyer in prison.
Let me ask you this.
Out of this, if you were to give us your ideas about what needs to be reformed, I mean immediately,
what do we need to do to change this scam type of prosecution that's been taking place
in the last 10 years?
The bottom line is it's without doubt that for the last 40 years it has been a goal of
the opponents of the Democratic Party to defund the party by going after trial lawyers, and
that's been a very conscientious, deliberate effort with $660 million of paid advertising
designed to, in effect, affect juries before they sit.
This phenomenon of criminalizing our politics, as has happened since Karl Rove took over
the Bush White House in the early 2000s and going after trial lawyers criminally, is I
guess now about 12 or 13 years old.
It's just shocking that this kind of thing could happen here in the United States.
To answer your question, there's a lot of things that ought to be done.
First, the entire federal criminal justice system is built upon the pressure that the
government can put on individuals who cannot bear that pressure, getting people to roll
over on people, to say things that aren't true, to threaten witnesses.
If they don't do X, they don't do Y, they're going to get prosecuted along with them.
Buy your peace by rolling over on someone else.
We were able to show that that happened in our case, but there's absolutely no consequence
whatsoever to any United States attorney that brings charges, however specious, however
false, however ridiculous as the charges against me were.
At the end of the day, I just got to go home, but there was no consequence on the prosecutor
for leaking evidence to the press, for bringing false charges, for pressuring people, for
putting their lives at jeopardy, just so that this guy could get a notch on his belt.
It was wrong then.
It's wrong now.
That needs to change.
There needs to be a substantial process where the United States Department of Justice remembers
that when its prosecutors take that oath, they're swearing, not that they're going to
get every conviction, but that they're going to do justice, and the goal is convictions.
This is a prosecutor that probably should not have been around that long after we saw
what he did in other cases.
Mikal, thank you.
Congratulations.
Keep up the fight.
I'm glad you're out there.
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paw patrol tracker jungle rescue click
play to start play
paw patrol to the lookout Ryder has a
new mission the legendary golden banana
is missing somewhere deep in an ancient
jungle temple but it needs to be brought
to the museum the paw patrol needs to
call in some help for this mission
trekker the jungle puff no job is too
big no pup is too small first tracker
needs to swing over to the ancient
temple health tracker swing through the
jungle coolest truck creaks along the
way to keep up his energy press the
spacebar on your keyboard to help
tracker launches cable and swingers
action watch out for Ross and other
obstacles in the way join over this one
when pressure starts 2-12 press the
spacebar again to keep him swinging
through the air nice swing way to blow
nice way to Brody
you
you helped tracker get to the temple the
golden banana is somewhere inside
tracker needs your help to choose the
right doors through the temple you need
to follow the right animals by listening
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pair of years for that listen with him
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parent listen to the sounds behind each
door hmm that doesn't sound right you
need to find a parent try again the
parent that's it next you need to find
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to the sounds behind each door hmm that
doesn't sound right you need to find a B
and a parent try again that way now you
need to find a room with two frogs
listen to the sounds behind each door
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find Q frog try again
remember to frog sounds like this hmm
that doesn't sound right I here which
room has to frog tried mr. that's the
door tracker
getting closer almost there the golden
banana is behind three locked doors this
code on the door will show you how to
unlock them make each part match what's
shown in the code and the door will open
click the number that matches the one in
the code on the door then click the door
when you think everything matches you
crack the code another door with the
coast now there are two parts you need
to change click the pedestal to turn it
to show the gem that matches the one in
the code on the door the door is open
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are now three parts you need to change
click here to turn the dial to point as
a picture that matches the one in the
code on the door perfect keep moving you
did it you helped tracker find the
golden banana now it can be displayed at
the Museum so that everyone can see it
thanks for saving the day tracker what a
great pup click play again to go on the
adventure again
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Even nerds get girls on porno sites Hands glued to a celly, are you using it right?
Advancements got me thinking what the future is like?
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How we all connect through the wave length Humans are gods, look at what we created-
Robotics, Electronics.
Yeah, it all is a boon!
Homo-sapeins taking civilization to the moon!
Computer search the universe, take a trip from your room!
Real soon, you'll see a baby with a laptop shoot out of a womb!
Crazy, ain't it?
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hello beautiful people so this video is
a very personal one and you might be
wondering why the hell is he even making a
video about something this personal you
know behind closed doors and all that
I want to talk about this because A:
I've never talked about my relationship
status on my channel before, B: this is
pretty recent so it's a big part of my
life right now and I like sharing my
life with you guys and C: because open
relationships are so controversial and I
want to take a little second to talk
about my experience being in one and my
thoughts on open relationships and I
might as well just say now that I don't
think there's anything wrong with them.
So this may, this video, this title may be
a huge shock to a lot of you out there a
lot of people didn't know that I was in
a relationship at all some people did
some people didn't some people will be
surprised by this video title because
they didn't know that we've broken up
and some people be more surprised to
find out that I even had a boyfriend in
the first place and I just want to clear
a couple things up I my boyfriend and I
my ex-boyfriend and I lived very very
different lives and so I didn't
constantly bring him up in conversation
with my friends they didn't always need
to and there was never a part of me that
was hiding this relationship obviously
it's a big deal to talk about it on my
channel I finally feel comfortable
talking about it especially now that
it's over and I'm not going to be as
immediately in the fire zone of open
relationship hate as it were which is
maybe a little bit cowardly of me or
whatever but I did have a lot of anxiety
about being honest about the fact that
my relationship was an open relationship
I have two people that knew about it
probably didn't know that was open you
know anyway so that I imagined the
reception's this video super duper mixed
so I just want to talk about it a bit
very recently I broke up with my
boyfriend that I had a two and a half
year relationship with so the first half
that relationship was completely
monogamous this was when I first came to
Cardiff University and it all moved very
very quickly and it was my first ever
relationship and I was all honeymoon
lovie wr8 feelings all around and it was
really really really special and I'll
always cherish that because it was my
first relationship and it was so bad I'm
special it was really special and it's
really good it was a positive
relationship but after about a year I
realized that I hadn't experimented at
all I had only ever kissed one person in
my life and I was feeling pretty
disillusioned about relationships
because I didn't have anything to
compare it to either in terms of sex or
in terms of romance or in terms of
anything I just had no basis to base
relationships or sex or romance or
anything off of and I explained all of
these anxieties to my partner and they
were really understanding about it and
we talked it out and we decided to be in
an open relationship and it was a weird
decision to make and you know open
relationships are very controversial but
we did it for over a year and a half and
honestly it was great it was a really
like by and large a really positive
relationship we did live very separate
lives we were pretty independent from
each other for the most part and we were
very non-monogamous and yet we still had
this really special relationship and so
you know stuff happen outside of the
relationship romantically and sexually
and that was all okay and it worked and
we didn't have conflict with that and
you know I'm not going to say that it's
all perfect you know sometimes feelings
get hurt sometimes there are
complications to open relationships but
they absolutely can work and they can be
really positive to certain people and
it's one of those things that's not for
everyone but it's also one of those
things where you see someone else doing
it and you go you know what it works for
them I'm happy for them I'm going to
respect them and their life it works for
them it's not my business you know I'm
going to let them live their life and
not be judgmental about that and it
worked for us and obvious then the
reason we broke up you're probably
thinking well it didn't work he broke
out well it did work and it was a great
relationship and we parted very very I
make ibly
and decided that we needed to go our
separate ways it it was kind of like
we'd been living very different lives
for a long time and we just needed to
kind of official eyes that but we're
still really really close and he'll
always be a special person to me and
yeah that's all there is to it really I
want to talk more about open
relationships and polyamorous
relationships and that sort of thing in
the future and some my future videos so
if you'd like that please let me know in
the comments below and if you enjoy this
video please give it a big thumbs up and
now y'all finally know about my
relationship life and my dating life and
one reasons I haven't talked about it
much was because I on one hand if I
wanted to talk about my dating life
which was occurring they would put it
would alarm everyone that felt that I
was in a monogamous relationship but on
the other hand if I talked about my
relationship it would you know make
everyone confused anyway it just it was
kind of a lose-lose scenario and it so
hard i am one of those people that will
always be on apologetically myself
that's why I'm making this video but
it's hard to come out to the world and
you know as a gay for one thing then to
come out to the world as having had an
AA monogamous relationship with another
thing it's really hard to do that
especially when I have close family
members that I've said one of the only
reasons they're tolerating my
homosexuality is because I'm in a
monogamous relationship and it's hard to
be like well no I'm not an amorous
relationship and so yeah now that the
relationships ended I feel comfortable
talking about it and now I am a lonely
his sad single pringle but like that's
the way life is sometimes um so there
you have it thank you guys so much for
watching if you haven't already please
subscribe to my channel I love you guys
bye
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