5 Reasons Why It Is Challenging To Set Healthy Boundaries
The process of boundary setting and perhaps taking space in relationship or breaks is
an important one related to our ascension process and arisement of our 5D self as every
relationship we are in is an energy exchange.
It is a key aspect of growing and arising into our soul self as every energy we engage
with is a reflection of us.
This process of sorting through relationships and setting and BEing boundaries is an aspect
of the transition and awakening into your 4D self from the 3D self.
I feel setting a healthy boundary with someone in a relationship as being about the sense
that we can no longer be in relationship with them or we need space from the relationship
because it isn�t healthy or self loving for us to do so or because we just don�t
have the reSOULance value ground to BE in relationship any longer (even as love remains).
A �porous� boundary would be one that is open to being changed if the person changes
or if the ground of the relationship becomes healthier through inner healing work, soul
awakenings, or shifts and choices that happen.
Every boundary has a door, just as every fence has a gate.
Healthy boundary setting can be done with an open heart, with love and compassion for
both the person and ourselves, and before the relationship reaches high levels of toxicity
or codependency that is harmful to both sides.
This is challenging in our culture, however, and most people struggle a lot with this and
how to BE with it.
Why is it so challenging to set boundaries with people in relationships, even when the
level of abuse and toxicity is obvious to us?
There are many possible answers to this question that could be applied in a universal way even
as every individual situation is different.
1) One of the reasons it is so challenging to set and BE in healthy boundaries is because
most of us received no modeling on how to do or be this with our caregivers AND we weren�t
�allowed� to set any boundaries with our families prior to adulthood.
We are such sponges, absorbing all the energies and emotional tones of our families as we
grow up.
By the time we are teenagers, we are so filled up with these tones and energies that part
of us begins to rebel against what we had no choice in absorbing, which is a form of
boundary setting.
Some of us continue this rebellion until adulthood and eventually our boundary setting with family
may end up being a complete push away or break from them for a phase of time or for life.
Most of us are not invited to set boundaries with our family members and we wouldn�t
anyway because of our food and shelter needs that they provide.
3D conditioning is that we are required to deal with whatever we are given or however
we are treated without advocating or defending ourselves and without the opportunity to say,
�No�.
So, we learn how to live with what we inherited and the cost to the expression of our authentic
self and the development of the ability to set boundaries out of self love is hugely
impacted.
Basically, we literally have �no idea� how to set healthy boundaries because we didn�t
�see� and �learn� how to do it from our families.
2) This leads into the second reason, which is that we don�t have enough self love or
core self worth to lead this navigation of boundary setting.
In my awakening and healing process called SoulFullHeart, core self worth is something
that emerges after much processing with the parts of us who don�t find us worthy and
yet are tasked with protecting and defending us, such as our inner punisher-critic, our
controller-protector, our inner matriarch-patriarch, etc.
These parts of us have developed as internal voices and energies inside of us because of
the energies and tones we took in from our caregivers.
It is actually an aspect of our self-defense structure to develop these parts of us that
keep the messages running that we �are not worthy of love� or �are unlovable� or
�are crazy� or whatever the message is.
These parts are actually trying to keep us safe by knocking us down first before someone
else does (which is what happened in childhood) or before we get too �big� and do unsafe
things.
I know this sounds strange, but over eleven years of working with people in subpersonality
work, I have seen this over and over again.
And, of course, I have felt this in myself.
Without an innate sense of core self worth and self love, it is very difficult to say
�no� to unhealthy frequencies.
Saying �no� means that we are saying �yes� to what nourishes us and that we feel that
we are worth it.
3) Boundary setting can be challenging because we don�t know which ones to set and which
part of us is doing it.
Sometimes it can feel like we are setting healthy boundaries because part of us has
said �no� to something or a relationship and is shutting it out, but it actually IS
necessary for us to go into it or it could lead to our next growth place to go into it.
Parts of us (the protector-controller again primarily) actually like saying �no!�
but it can be misdirected and misplaced.
This part of us can say �no� to people who are trying to help us by no longer enabling
us or by bringing us a tough truth that we don�t want to see.
Or this part of us can say, �no� to changes that we need to make or tough conversations
that we need to have that could bring conflict and more changes.
So, this can be a confusing ground to navigate and asking, �Which part of me wants this
boundary and why?� is a very important one.
4) Boundary setting can make us look �bad� or �not nice.� For the parts of us that
care about our self-image or how others perceive us, it can be very uncomfortable if we are
judged by the person (or others) that we are setting the boundary with as mean or not nice.
We are so conditioned in our culture around �being nice� and that it is a �good
thing��..even as most relationships, if you go deeper, have a layer of toxicity and
falseness in them that has nothing to do with being �nice�.
Many people would rather preserve the self image of being nice even with someone who
is NOT nice with them and actually treats them badly.
This behavior pattern has usually been strongly modeled by one of our parents or both of them.
5) It�s challenging and nearly impossible to set boundaries with others if we haven�t
set them with parts of ourselves.
This is a crucial aspect of parts process work: learning when to set a boundary with
a part of us when we identify and feel that we don�t want their behavior to continue
because it is isn�t self loving.
We literally have to set a boundary with them as the 5D arising Higher Self sometimes in
order to be �bigger� than the part of us.
For example, we feel love for the inner punisher even as we set a boundary with this part of
us to stop beating us down with self judgments.
Or we have to say �no� to certain things which parts of us use to keep us numb to our
deeper feelings.
Our growing 4D and 5D self learns to do this in a loving way that is both strong and open.
When parts of us feel this energy of healthy boundary setting arise in us, they lean into
it.
They have been waiting for it our whole lives and parts of us become relieved because finally
an �adult� is home to say what is nourishing and healthy and what is not.
Boundary setting transforms relationships, either by closing them down for a period of
time or by opening them up to something new.
In my experience, both sides benefit from healthy and porous boundary setting, even
if one side is leading it (which is usually the case.)
Boundary setting doesn�t have to be a �one time� thing in relationships with a dramatic
declaration and big fallout, although that is often what happens if it hasn�t been
done consistently.
In healthy and authentic relationships, boundary setting is something that is being talked
about and negotiated, something that just happens organically and, in an intimate relationship,
sometimes several times a day.
And, it is porous�meaning it shifts and changes based on the current conditions.
It can be porous if both people are working on healing their hearts through inner work
and if they are dedicated and committed to serving the LOVE in the relationship.
And it feels like in relationships that are mostly based in 5D consciousness frequencies,
boundary setting is not even necessary as the Oneness connection and soul ground flows
between the relationships in most moments.
Letting go of what doesn�t nourish us in relationships (or in ANY area of our lives),
allows us to let in what really DOES�.it makes space for more LOVE to arise inside
of us
and in our lives.
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7 Signs You Might Be Drinking Too Much - Duration: 5:42.
So, work this week was the literal worst.
You deserve to kick back with a glass of merlot!
Or, maybe you'd rather hit the club for a drink or two with friends, to blow off some
steam.
Nothing wrong with that, either.
Even doctors say a glass of red wine a day is excellent for your health.
The problem creeps in when you start becoming dependent on alcohol, which could quickly
become a dangerous addiction — and be very difficult to overcome.
So here are some warning signs your drinking is starting to get out of hand.
"We're going streaking"
Booze is #bae
Can't imagine a weekend or even a day without alcohol?
That may be a warning sign.
In fact, feeling that every activity has to include drinks could be a sign you've become
dependent on booze.
Having one drink each day can be good for your health, but chugging a week's worth of
glasses in a single sitting destroys every single benefit alcohol can offer.
"Blarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!"
Binge drinking is particularly dangerous because it raises blood pressure and interferes with
certain medications.
The dark side of binge drinking also includes alcohol poisoning, accidental injury, sexual
dysfunction, and liver damage.
But where's the pre-party at?
Liquid courage
With a little alcohol in your system, do you feel like the life of the party?
Are you suddenly the sexiest, prettiest, most intelligent, and funniest person around?
Watch out.
You might be looking at yourself through your own beer goggles.
"I'm excited, and I feel relaxed, and I'm ready..."
"to party."
There's even a little science that backs up the notion that alcohol boosts confidence.
Researchers conducted an experiment at a bar, asking 19 people to assess their attractiveness
on a scale of one to seven after drinking some booze.
Their alcohol levels were then measured, and the results were pretty interesting: the higher
their blood alcohol content, the higher their reported self-confidence.
"Alcohol."
Sadly, this liquid courage can be quickly replaced with "#shame" at your unpretty,
unfunny, very drunk behavior.
Need a little "hair of the dog"?
Fuhgeddaboudit
One sure sign that your drinking is becoming a problem is you shirk your usual responsibilities
at work or home.
"I've got a hangover.
Who knows what that means?"
"Doesn't that mean you're drunk?"
"No, it means I was drunk yesterday."
Do you call in sick repeatedly because of hangovers?
Do you find yourself putting things off because you'd rather have a drink, instead of doing
the laundry, or finishing a project?
"What's everybody thinkin for dinner?"
"We just ate breakfast?"
Maybe you're distracted at work because all you can think about is that martini at the
end of the day.
If any of these sound familiar, you've got a problem.
Friend-zone
When your relationships become affected by your drinking, that's a huge problem.
Have those closest to you commented on your drinking, or voiced concerns that something
is just not right with you?
Or do you find yourself avoiding friends or family, to dodge any confrontations?
Maybe you think you've got it all under control, and those people just didn't understand
the difficult stuff you're going through.
Do you find that you hide your drinking so no one knows just how much you're consuming?
While you might not be an alcoholic, drinking alone is certainly a red flag.
"Everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that."
Doses + mimosas
Is your drinking tied to your emotions?
Do cocktails make you feel better when you're down?
Do you drink to avoid facing the difficulties of life or a traumatic experience?
If so, you're self-medicating and this is never healthy.
"Doses and mimosas," "champagne and cocaine,
"help to get me through"
One study even found self-medicating to be the coping mechanism of choice for many suffering
from PTSD.
If you reach for a drink when you start feeling down, it may be time to unpack the real issues
behind your feelings instead of covering them up.
"Never drink to feel better, only drink to feel even better."
"That's fantastic!"
Raising the bar
If you've got a problem with alcohol, you may need more and more to get that warm, fuzzy
feeling again.
That's because your body and your brain have developed a tolerance.
As this tolerance increases, you may soon fall into dependency and eventually, full-blown
alcoholism.
Other organs in your body adapt to high alcohol consumption as well.
When you drink a lot on a regular basis, your liver adapts by producing greater amounts
of the enzymes needed to break down the alcohol more rapidly, compared to what it does in
people who rarely drink.
The liver actually becomes more efficient at metabolizing alcohol so you need more to
get the same effect.
"Shots, shots, shots, shots, shots."
"Shots, shots, shots, shots, shots."
If you don't get your drinking in check, the only way you'll feel normal will be when
you have those high levels of alcohol in your system.
You've crossed the line where alcohol is "fun".
In fact, you completely stop feeling any buzz at this point.
Get real
Hey, you may not have a problem with alcohol — and can enjoy a glass of wine now and
then.
Awesome — you are also reaping the health benefits of moderate drinking.
Cheers!
But be careful that you're not lying to yourself.
"I had no idea you could get drunk on mouthwash."
If you're experiencing any of the warning signs, it may be time to bail on the booze,
and enjoy a different way of living.
Think about it.
Giving up alcohol may be the best decision of your life.
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The Greatest Pranks Throughout History - Duration: 7:05.
Pranking is a time-honored tradition that dates back to about an hour after the first
humans climbed the evolutionary ladder just enough to be jerks.
Probably.
One Neanderthal shaves another's head without him knowing, and the rest is history.
As time went on, humans have taken pranking to a different level.
A clever, ingenious, almost artistic level.
Whether invoking the anger and confusion of thousands, or just screwing with one person
at a time, here are just a few of the best pranks throughout human history.
Burger King's sinister Whopper
Pity the poor left-handed people and their... inability to hold hamburgers?
That was the basis of Burger King's 1998 fast one on fast food lovers.
The burger joint everyone loves when their local McDonald's is being fumigated published
an ad on March 31, 1998, announcing the "Left-Handed Whopper," designed exclusively for lefties
— who had apparently struggled against the tyranny of a right-handed world for far too
long.
According to BK, it was all in the placement of the burger itself, which had to be rotated
180 degrees so lefties could eat more comfortably.
Reorienting the south end of your lettuce would effectively crush the right-handed food
conspiracy….
Somehow.
Of course, thousands of customers showed up to order the thing, and right-handed people
demanded their own hand-specific Whopper.
All of this despite BK's marketing VP reminding us all that you need two hands to hold a Whopper,
and like, a circle is a circle.
A day later, the company announced the Leftie Whopper was bogus.
Because these are things we still need to tell people.
Welcome to the end times.
Eat 'em if you got 'em.
William Buckland's crappy message
Anyone who thinks college kids are a bunch of immature morons these days just hasn't
been paying attention.
There have been juvenile jackwagons putting things where they shouldn't be since the first
bell rang.
Case in point: WIlliam Buckland and his epic, disgusting prank for the ages.
The Oxford student, presumably bored with his unending geology lectures, decided to
let out some steam by gathering buckets upon buckets of bat guano, something only scientists
and Batman really had access to.
In a moment of artistic genius, he spread the bat doodie across the Oxford lawn, spelling
out G-U-A-N-O with actual guano.
Oxford officials were less than thrilled, and cleaned up the mess immediately.
But after a short while, since animal poop is, y'know, fertilizer, that part of the grass
grew taller and faster than the rest.
"GUANO" was spelled out quite visibly in the grass.
The letters reportedly lasted for a pretty long time.
And honestly, using a fancy word for poop just makes it even better.
I gotta go make number two.
Or whatever the heck you have to say.
I'll be right back to dinner."
Thomas Edison's "food creator"
After creating a bunch of world-changing inventions, Thomas Edison had become famous enough that
people thought he could invent literally anything.
Artificial light?
Check.
Sounds on a wax cylinder?
Check — until some future dude comes along and totally breaks it on TV, of course.
"Oh ffff…… s***."
In 1878, the newspaper New York Graphic took advantage of Edison's reputation and put out
a fake news release claiming he'd invented a "food creator," which is just what it sounds
like.
The newspaper stated that the machine could manufacture "meat, vegetables, and wine out
of air, water, and common earth."
And while food made of dirt doesn't sound too great, people happily fell for it, as
well as other newspapers that picked up the story.
Edison: the man to finally end world hunger… except he didn't invent a food-creating machine.
He didn't even say he would.
The next day, the paper published a summary addition to the story, admitting it was an
April Fool's Day prank.
Because world hunger is hilarious, right guys?
"Wzzzzzzz."
Richard Nixon's 1992 run
In 1974, Richard Nixon did a bad, bad thing, and quit his job before anyone could fire
him.
Eighteen years later, Nixon announced that he'd decided to give it another go, and told
NPR's "Talk of the Nation" show of his plans to reclaim the White House.
This shocked, well, everybody.
For one thing, Richard Nixon was just shy of 80.
For another thing, he wasn't eligible to run for a third term, based on a little thing
called the 22nd amendment.
For another thing, he was Richard Nixon.
Even more hilarious was Nixon's soothing new catchphrase: "I never did anything wrong,
and I won't do it again."
Basically, everyone agreed that Nixon was not, in fact, the one.
"And once I'm swept into office, I'll sell our children our children's organs to zoos
for meat!
I'll go into people's houses at night and wreck up the place!"
Except it wasn't Richard Nixon talking to NPR.
It was a comic named Rich Little, impersonating Nixon well enough that tons of people were
fooled.
Amid the panic, NPR admitted that the whole thing was an April Fool's Day joke, but not
before renewing America's boiling hatred for a dying man.
Classy.
Kjell Stensson's color TV
In 1962, Sweden had one TV channel, and it was in black-and-white, so the whole country
was basically purgatory...
Until a goof named Kjell Stensson came along and promised to revolutionize the TV experience
for all.
He went on TV and announced, using a jumble of baloney science-speak, that he'd figured
out how to make a standard black and white TV display color, using a simple, household
object.
All you had to do was place a nylon stocking over the boob tube and zap — pretty, pretty
colors.
Also, you had to tilt your head just right, all so the light appears at just the right
angle for color to appear.
Kids reported watching their parents running around the house destroying pantyhose by the
drawerful so they could watch whatever the heck they watched in 1960s Sweden.
And thus, an entire generation of children learned that their parents were just as dumb
as anyone else.
The original prank call
"Yea, Hello, is Mike there?
Last name, Rotch."
"Hold on I'll check.
MY CROTCH!
MY CROTCH!
HAS ANYONE SEEN MY CROTCH LATELY?"
Prank calls are a dime-a-dozen, and they're almost as old as the phone itself.
In 1884, less than a decade after the invention of the telephone, some guy in Providence,
Rhode Island decided the very best use of this fantastical new technology was to mess
with people.
Which, really, is a great use of any new technology.
"Ahhh!
You F***!"
"Arrrrgh!"
This hero, whose name has been lost to history, dialed up local undertakers and alerted them
that various people were dead, so they should please bring candles and coffins over right
away.
Of course, nobody was actually dead — it was all, as 1884's The Electrical World put
it — a "grave joke."
That kind of puts your typical "ordering delicious pizza for people who didn't want pizza" to
shame, doesn't it?
This was the first known crank call, over a hundred years ago, and it was a doozy.
Because someone solemnly showing up to your house with a you-sized coffin is probably
one of the best pranks in history.
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Trump Slams Freedom Caucus We Must Fight Them - Duration: 1:19.
Trump Slams Freedom Caucus We Must Fight Them
by Tyler Durden
It appears negotiations between the Trump/Ryan camps and the conservative Freedom Caucus
over Obamacare repeal have not only gone nowhere but are back to square one, or perhaps zero,
because moments ago Donald Trump, who had taken a modest sabbatical from his favorite
social network, lashed out on Twitter against the conservative group that scuttled last
Friday's repeal vote, saying "The Freedom Caucus will hurt the entire Republican agenda
if they don't get on the team, & fast.
We must fight them, & Dems, in 2018!"
After this antagonistic tweet we doubt that relations between, already on edge between
the two camps, will improve.
And with Paul Ryan speaking out against Trump negotiating with the Democrats, it appears
that any renewed attempt to repeal Obamacare remains on indefinite hiatus.
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台湾游｜台湾竟然有那么美的地方？！ - Duration: 5:55.
Hi Hi Welcome back to my channel
this place called - Jiu Fen
is a place of shooting one of Taiwan Movie A City of Sadness*
a super old atmosphere place
I do apologize that I am caught a cold while recording Voice Over (heavy nasal sound)
and this is GoaMei Wetland, I do believe you should heard it before
is a famous sunset view at Taichung
have a *tidal creek * marshes *sand *gravel *mudflats support in the wetland
and diversity of habitats
between this here is famous of bird sanctuary
ermm.. but i never saw a bird
here I am now in Gaomei Weltand
a lot of crab
super cool
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and now was evening
the weather
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The Real Reason We Don't Hear About Tonya Harding Anymore - Duration: 5:51.
Ask anyone who is old enough to remember when star figure skater Nancy Kerrigan's right
knee was struck with a "blunt object," and they could tell you a million stories about
the woman accused of being involved in the attack, former rival Tonya Harding.
But how much could they tell you about what happened to Harding in the years since?
Probably not a whole lot, as that's a name you only hear about once every four years
when the winter Olympics rolls around.
What has the former U.S. National champion been up to in the years since her figure-skating
scandal captivated the world?
Here's why you don't hear much from the disgraced athlete anymore.
The Kerrigan scandal
Although Harding has maintained her innocence for more than 20 years, her alleged involvement
in the 1994 attack on competitor Kerrigan and the media frenzy that followed devastated
her career, especially once people involved in the conspiracy started to sing like birds
about the grisly details of what her former husband had planned against Kerrigan.
"They asked me if I would be willing to cut the Achilles tendon.
You know, I said no I think that's a little drastic."
In July 1994, the U.S. Figure Skating Association voted to strip her of the gold medal she won
at the U.S. National Championships and ban her for life from the association.
That meant she could no longer compete in an event sanctioned by the federation or serve
as a sanctioned coach.
A few weeks later, Harding was hit with three year's probation, a hefty fine, and a community
service sentence after pleading guilty to conspiracy to hinder prosecution.
The four remaining defendants accused in the act were each sentenced to prison, including
her ex-husband, Jeff Gillooly, who received a two-year sentence.
By that point, one thing remained crystal clear: Harding's career as a figure skater
was pretty much over.
Consistently inconsistent
Even if you remove the drama from the Kerrigan attack, Harding's success on the ice, much
like the media attention she so often attracted, was all over the place.
It seemed every time she started to shine, something would happen to set her back from
earning legendary status.
Although she became the first American woman to land a triple axel at the 1991 U.S. National
Championships, she finished a disappointing fourth place at the Winter Olympics in Albertville
the following year.
The same held true at the 1994 Olympics in Lillehammer, where she finished in eighth
place after a disastrous performance that included drama over an alleged broken shoelace.
Harding's personal drama was likely one of the main contributing factors to her erratic
performances at both Games.
As her former coach Dody Teachman put it, "Her problems that she had off the ice sometimes
would show up on the ice … She went from an abusive childhood to kind of an abusive
relationship [with Gillooly]."
Moving on
If you've ever wondered why Olympic athletes jump at the chance to make appearances and
land endorsement deals so soon after their Games have wrapped, it might have to do with
the fact that fame for Olympic athletes can be fleeting.
By the time the 1998 Games in Nagano rolled around, people within the world of figure
skating were worried far less about Kerrigan and Harding and much more on whether U.S.
skater Michelle Kwan would be able to keep the coveted gold medal out of the hands of
the American rival Tara Lipinski.
In other words, attention spans are short, even with the most dramatic of characters
like Harding.
Guilty in the court of public opinion
Maybe it's because she never served time in jail, or maybe it's because she always maintained
her innocence, but to this day, a cloud of guilt hangs over Harding's reputation.
Part of it surely has to do with the way media told the story; public opinion is also likely
a factor.
Harding's name will always be associated with scandal, and a certain group of people will
always think she did it, and she's become the butt of many pop culture jokes.
"Mission accomplished.
I did him Tonya Harding style, with a HAH! HAH! And a kick!"
For what it's worth, Harding still thinks she was the victim because the press and Kerrigan
herself weren't very kind to her in the fallout.
"For her to treat me like that, like I was nothing.
Like she was above me.
I mean That was... rude."
A disastrous comeback
In 2002, Harding was one of a handful of low-grade celebrities who competed on the FOX reality
series Celebrity Boxing.
For her match, she battled and won against Paula Jones, the government employee who sued
President Bill Clinton in 1994 for sexual harassment.
That should give you a pretty good idea of what the quality of the show and the subsequent
reviews were like.
On the bright, if ironic, side: Harding wound up competing in a number of professional boxing
matches afterward, she finished with a 3-3 professional record, which isn't very good
at all.
Harding revealed that while pugilism wasn't a full-on secondary career for her, it did
help to keep the lights on for a while.
A low-key lifestyle
She may no longer be competing on the ice, but Harding seems to have found some peace
and happiness by living a much quieter life.
In 2010, she married Washington native Joseph Price; the following year, they had a son.
She now resides in Oregon, where she's made ends meet by working on cars and doing landscaping
work and takes comfort in the fact that she still holds at least one positive piece of
history.
"It's part of history that will always be with us.
But I'm also noted as the one and only American woman that did the first triple axel."
But her story lives on
Harding might now regard the scandal that plagued her career as a minor blemish in her
life story, but it still remains prime fodder for explosive drama, which is why A-list actress
Margot Robbie is set to play her in an upcoming biopic.
This all goes to show: you may not see or hear much from Harding anymore, but you'll
certainly continue hearing her story for years to come, and it'll probably revolve around
the same narrative.
"She's the princess and I'm a pile of crap."
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Seth Green is barely in his 40s, but he's been entertaining audiences for more than
30 years.
He started as a child actor in the '80s, with work on TV shows like Tales from the Darkside
and The Facts of Life, along with movies like Can't Buy Me Love and Woody Allen's Radio
Days.
But he truly became a star in the '90s, appearing in classics like Buffy the Vampire Slayer,
the Austin Powers movies,
"But…"
"Shh"
"I'm…"
"Shh"
"All I'm sayin…"
"Shh"
and Family Guy, providing the voice of true idiot Chris Griffin.
In the late '90s and early 2000s, it seemed like Green was in every cool thing that came
out…but he seems to be missing in action lately.
Here's what he's been up to in recent years.
"This is gonna be awesome!"
Robot Chicken
Stop-motion animation is extremely grueling, time-intensive work.
But it's a labor of love for Green, who's been churning out episodes of Robot Chicken
on Adult Swim for more than a decade.
He writes, produces, directs, animates, and voice-acts on the show, for which he's won
two Emmy Awards.
It's basically a sketch comedy show for and by nerds, making fun of movies, TV, superheroes,
comics, and cartoons via very short stop-motion and claymation sketches.
Green has also spearheaded a few specially themed episodes, targeting things like DC
Comics villains and Star Wars.
"You… don't want to get caught in one…"
"Small claims court?"
"No!"
"Ahh!
What was it?"
In 2016, the show won the award for Outstanding Short Form Animated Program for its 2015 Christmas
special, beating juggernauts such as Adventure Time, SpongeBob SquarePants, and Steven Universe.
So if you're wondering why you haven't seen Green on camera, it's because he's been spending
a lot of time playing with toys.
Voice over work
While a lot of actors supplement their careers with voice work, or fall back on it when offers
for onscreen roles aren't as plentiful, Green has always done a ton of voice acting — starting
when he was a teenager, on the syndicated cartoon "The Comic Strip" segment - entitled
Karate Kat.
He of course has lent his vocal chops to hundreds of characters on his show Robot Chicken, from
original characters to celebrity impressions.
Of course, his voice has also appeared in more than 200 episodes of Family Guy since
1999.
He's got an impressive vocal résumé, in other words, and he's highly sought after.
Green provided the voice of Rocket Raccoon for episodes of both Avengers Assemble and
Hulk and the Agents of S.M.A.S.H.
And that memorable Howard the Duck cameo in the post-credits sequence of Guardians of
the Galaxy?
"Why do you let it lick you like that for?
Gross."
That was Seth Green.
He can also be heard as Leonardo in Nickelodeon's Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles reboot.
Basically, he's a king of cartoons.
Secret Star Wars series
There's an unaired Star Wars TV series that already has more than three dozen episodes
produced.
Called Star Wars: Detours, it's an animated comedy set in the Star Wars universe.
Producers wisely signed up Green, who's both a notable voice actor and, as the many Star
Wars sketches on Robot Chicken prove, a huge fan.
The problem with Detours?
Disney.
According to Green, there are "39 finished episodes and around 62 finished scripts."
But it was made before Disney bought LucasFilm and decided to make more Star Wars movies.
Green, who plays none other than Obi-Wan Kenobi in the series, says it's "on hold," but that
it might actually likely come out now that a couple new Star Wars movies have been released.
Bombed sitcom
Meanwhile, Green doesn't always hide behind clay, action figures, and comic book characters.
He attempted to return to regular live-action acting work in 2013, starring on Fox's three-camera
sitcom Dads.
Created by two writers from one of Green's other shows, Family Guy, and produced by Family
Guy creator Seth MacFarlane, Dads was largely loathed by critics.
The series, about two friends who run a video game company and take in their elderly fathers,
was called a "racist, sexist, unfunny disgrace" by BuzzFeed, and "the worst new comedy of
the fall" by E! Online.
Audiences stayed away, too — it finished the 2013-14 season at #111 in the ratings.
It performed so poorly that Fox cut back its initial order of 22 episodes to 19…before
canceling it entirely.
Cartoon creator
In addition to controlling the Robot Chicken universe, Green has his hands in multiple
cartoons.
Since Green is a big pro wrestling fan — he even once hosted the Slammy Awards — WWE
chairman Vince McMahon approached Green when he had an idea for an animated show: Camp
WWE.
It's set at a summer camp, where McMahon is the director and WWE stars past and present
are counselors and campers alike — except they're, like, little kids.
Green created and produces the show and some of the Wrestler Babies are portrayed by the
wrestlers themselves, including Sgt.
Slaughter and Ric Flair.
When he's not producing for WWE, he's an executive producer on SuperMansion.
It's a show about a once-mighty superhero collective whose members are getting old and
their powers aren't quite what they used to be.
Appearing on Crackle, it features the amazing voice talent of Bryan Cranston and Keegan-Michael
Key.
Wedding bells
In 2007, Green was signing autographs for an event at Golden Apple Comics in Los Angeles
while Clare Grant, a filmmaker and actress who's also part of the web video collective
Team Unicorn, was there to take photographs.
They met again at Comic-Con and realized how much they had in common — they liked the
same geeky TV shows, comic books, and toys, and put in the same elaborate order at In-N-Out
Burger.
Green says they really fell in love during a two-week Robot Chicken touring roadshow.
They had their wedding in May 2010 and their reception was decked out with action figures
for every guest to take home.
Ah, what sweet nerd love.
What's next for Seth Green
Green seems to be content, and rightfully so, with cranking out Robot Chicken and Family
Guy episodes until somebody tells him to stop.
Plus, he still surprises TV viewers by getting out in front of the camera on occasion.
He's also been cast in the highly anticipated movie, A Futile & Stupid Gesture, the story
of Doug Kenney, co-founder of the highly influential National Lampoon magazine in the '70s and
the generation of comedy stars it created.
Looks like Green only accepts the coolest projects of the decade.
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Señor Sol | Rimas infantiles para niños | Música para bebés | Canciones preescolares | Rimas en 3D - Duration: 50:35.
Oh, Mr sun, sun, mr golden sun,
Please shine down on me.
Oh, mr sun, sun, mr golden sun,
Hiding behind a tree.
These little children are asking you,
Please come out so we can play with you.
Oh, Mr sun, sun, mr golden sun,
Please shine down on me.
Oh, Mr sun, sun, mr golden sun,
Please shine down on me.
Oh, mr sun, sun, mr golden sun,
Hiding behind a tree.
These little children are asking you,
Please come out so we can play with you.
Oh, Mr sun, sun, mr golden sun,
Please shine down on me.
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