SECRETARY TILLERSON: Good morning, all.
Well, I'm very pleased to be in Brussels for this meeting and discussions with my NATO
colleagues.
I think we have three important areas we want to talk about.
First is ensuring that NATO has all of the resources, financial and otherwise, that are
necessary for NATO to fulfill its mission.
Secondly, we want to discuss how we can build on NATO's already important involvement
in the fight to defeat ISIS and other counterterrorism actions that NATO can provide, and ultimately
bring stability to the Middle East.
And lastly, we want to obviously have a discussion around NATO's posture here in Europe, most
particularly Eastern Europe, in response to Russia's aggression in Ukraine and elsewhere.
And lastly, of course, we'll be developing the agenda for the important May NATO meeting
of our NATO member country leaders.
So I'm delighted to be here and it's good to see all of you.
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WE MAKE WHEN WE FIND PLANETS AROUND OTHER STARS IS THAT THOSE PLANETS
CAN OFTEN BE VERY DIFFERENT THAN THE PLANETS IN OUR OWN SOLAR SYSTEM.
CHILD'S VOICE: THE RED STRIPS ARE MADE OUT OF LAVA.
SCIENTIST'S VOICE: WELL THAT'S INTERESTING BECAUSE WE THINK THERE REALLY ARE LAVA PLANETS OUT THERE.
PLANETS THAT ORBIT SO CLOSE TO THEIR STAR THAT IT'S HOT ENOUGH TO MELT IRON ON THE SURFACE
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The Truth About Easter And The Secret Worship Of The Anunnaki
The following article is based on J. R. Terrier�s book �The Easter Celebration � History
of Its Hidden Origins�.
Easter is an annual celebration observed throughout the Christian world. However, there are absolutely
no verses in the Bible that authorize or endorse the keeping of this tradition.
Further � the Bible does not mention anything about Easter eggs, Easter baskets, Easter
bunnies, or even Lent. The author includes convincing evidence to show that these very
items were parts of the pagan rituals of the Mystery Religion of ancient Babylon.
Where did the tradition of celebrating Easter originate?
The author exposes the hidden accounts of the original Easter festival which was initiated
several thousand years ago � many years before the birth, death, and resurrection
of Jesus.
The name Easter actually comes from Ishtar / Easter who was worshiped as the moon goddess,
the goddess of spring and fertility, and the Queen of Heaven. She is known by so many other
names in other countries and cultures that she is often referred to as the goddess of
one thousand names.
[Inanna is the Sumerian name of Ishtar, and definitely the most important one. Inanna
was the granddaughter of Enlil, who in turn was Anu�s son. Anu was the highest ranking
Anunnaki and his name translated �Great Sky Father�. Anu was revered as �god of
the Heavens� and he was the central figure of mankind�s first religion. According to
the Sumerian tablets, he only visited Earth twice].
The Babylonian Connections
(John 8:44, II Corinthians 11:14, 1 Peter 5:8) Ishtar � the Babylonian goddess � is
the one for whom Easter is named. Ishtar is but another name for Semiramis � the wife
of Nimrod. This post-Flood festival was part of the false religion Mystery Babylon and
was started by Nimrod and his wife Semiramis (also known as Ishtar).
They not only instituted the building of the Tower of Babel, they also established themselves
as god and goddess to be worshiped by the people of Babylon. They are the co-founders
of all the counterfeit religions that have ever existed.
Nimrod was worshiped as the Sun God. He was worshiped in numerous cultures and countries
under a variety of names: Samas, Attis, Uti, Merodach/Marduk, Ninus, Bel/Baal, Moloch,
Tammuz � the list is virtually endless. [He was also known as Dumuzi by the Sumerians
and as RA by the Egyptians.
Millions of people are unknowingly worshiping and praying to this pagan goddess today. What
is her present-day name?
The Babylonians celebrated the day of Ishtar / Easter as the return of the goddess of Spring
� the re-birth or reincarnation of Nature and the goddess of Nature. Babylonian legend
says that each year a huge egg would fall from heaven and would land in the area around
the Euphrates River.
[The pope�s ceremonial clothes copy those worn by the ancient priests of Dagon, and
not by coincidence. According to the Sumerian tablets, when the Anunnaki god Enki first
arrived on Earth, he landed his space ship on water. He later emerged from water wearing
his �scaly fish-suit� (astronaut�s suit?). Thousands of years later, the ceremony of
the fish god was still celebrated in Akkadia, Assyria and Babylon, by the priests of Dagon�
and seemingly it still is today].
In her yearly re-birth, Ishtar would break out of this egg and if any of those celebrating
this occasion happened to find her egg, Ishtar would bestow a special blessing on that person.
Does this explain the origin of our modern-day tradition of Easter eggs and baskets and Easter
egg hunts?
The Satanic Connections
Other pagan rites that were connected with this celebration and which are part of our
modern Easter tradition are Easter offerings to the Queen of Heaven (consisting of freshly
cut flowers, hot buns decorated with crosses, and star-shaped cakes); new clothes to celebrate
this festival (The pagan priests wore new clothes or robes and the Vestal Virgins wore
new white dresses or robes and bonnets on their heads.); and sunrise services (to symbolically
hasten the yearly arrival of Ishtar�s egg from heaven � the re-incarnation of the
spring goddess).
[The Vatican is secretly perpetuating the ancient pagan rituals and the worship of their
ancient �gods� � a.k.a. the Anunnaki. The shadow religion of the world�s �elite�
is Satanism and all the positions of power are occupied by Satanists].
The Satanic Connections
Easter has its origins in the world of the occult. The Occult / Satanic calendar is comprised
of four periods of 13 weeks each. Occultists believe that numbers contain inherent power,
and many base their lives on numerology. Numerology is also a key component of astrology � another
system occultists follow closely. Thus the occult calendar is divided into 4 parts of
13 weeks each. Note that 13 x 4 = 52 weeks � our year.
In the occult system, the number 6 = man, the number 7 = divine perfection or god, and
the number 13 = rebellion against authority and depravity. So, in the occult or satanic
world, the number 13 represents the state of man�s having reached divine perfection,
self-achieved perfection, and illumination.
According to 8th century scholar St. Bede (also known as the Venerable Bede / Bede,
the Venerable), the name Easter is derived from the Scandinavian �Ostra� and the
Teutonic �Ostern� or �Eastre� � both of whom were goddesses of mythology and were
identified with spring and fertility.
Festivals for these goddesses were celebrated on the first day of the vernal equinox � March
21. Important parts of these pagan celebrations included the rabbit, red eggs, and gifts � all
of which represented fertility. Easter is steeped in the Mysteries of ancient Babylon
� an evil and idolatrous system.
The Satanic Ritual of Sacrificing Children
Every year, the priests of Ishtar would impregnate young virgins on an altar dedicated to herself
and her husband*. The children were born on Christmas (!!!), and the next year they were
sacrificed in the Easter�s Sunday at the sunrise service. The priests would take Ishtar�s
eggs and dye them in the blood of the sacrificed children.
*Inanna�s husband was none other that the infamous god Moloch or Melekh, to whom children
were � and still are � sacrificed in Satanic rituals. Satanism is the religious worship
of the Anunnaki, and the human and animal sacrifices were/are part of the rituals.
If you�re finding it hard to believe, then here is an excerpt of the Encyclopaedia Judaica,
which identifies Ishtar/Inanna and her husband as the gods to whom children were sacrificed:
�(�) The identification of Hadad-Baal with Moloch provides the background to Jeremiah
32:35, which fulminates against the bamot-altars of Baal in the valley of Ben-Hinnom where
male and female children were burnt to Moloch, i.e., Baal-Hadad. Furthermore, a series of
Assyrian-Aramean documents analyzed by K. Deller showed that Adadmilki or Adad�arru
(�Adad the king�) was actually the god to whom children, sometimes firstborn, were
burned (see below).
�The Assyrian material sheds new light on II Kings 17 where Adadmelech (to be read instead
of Adrammelech) is the god to whom the Sepharvites burn/dedicate their children (verse 31). Adadmelech
in this verse stands next to Anammelech who has been correctly related by scholars to
Anath who bears the title �Queen of Heaven,� the standard term for Ishtar in Akkadian (�arrat
�am�; cf. Sumerian nin.anna.ak = Inanna). The pair Adad and Ishtar, or the �king�
and the �queen,� are the ones to whom children are dedicated in the Assyrian-Aramean
documents quoted above.� � The Cult of Moloch, Jewish Library;
The following image was secretly taken during a Satanic ritualB in which a human body (child?)
was burned in front of a wooden owl statue dedicated to Ishtar/Inanna/Moloch, at Bohemian
Grove:
The Satanic Connections
Most of the world�s �elite� (active and former Presidents, Prime Ministers, Politicians,
Judges, etc. and even Royalty), take part at this annual ritual. Notice the fish-god
priests conducting the ritual. Here is a depiction of Ishtar/Inanna flanked by a couple of owls,
and designed to look like an owl herself (notice the legs and wings):
Most of the world's "elite" (active and former Presidents, Prime Ministers, Politicians,
Judges, etc. and even Royalty), take part at this annual ritual. Notice the fish-god
priests conducting the ritual. Here is a depiction of Ishtar/Inanna flanked by a couple of owls,
and designed to look like an owl herself (notice the legs and wings):
More Inconsistencies
Our traditional Good Friday to Sunday celebration however only accounts for Jesus� being in
the heart of the earth for two nights and one day. Were the facts of Jesus� death,
burial, and resurrection purposely distorted? Learn who is not telling the truth � and
why!
The author has investigated credible and reliable ancient sources to uncover the real origins
of our Easter tradition. Was Jesus nailed to a cross or a tree? Is the true church a
physical building � or is it something much more?
There are absolutely no verses anywhere in the Bible that authorize or endorse the keeping
of an Easter celebration. Further, the Bible says nothing about the practice of observing
Lent, dying Easter eggs, having Easter egg hunts, baskets of candy, bonnets � and so
on. Easter has long been known to be a pagan festival. America�s founders knew this.
In the children�s book Easter Parade: Welcome Sweet Spring Time (pp 4-5) Steve Englehaty
states:
�When the puritans came to North America, they regarded the celebration of Easter � and
the celebration of Christmas with suspicion. They knew that pagans had celebrated the return
of spring long before Christians celebrated Easter. (�) For the first 200 years of European
life in North America, only a few states � mostly in the South � paid much attention to Easter.
�Not until after the Civil War did Americans begin celebrating this holiday� Easter first
became an American tradition in the 1870�s� The original 13 colonies of America began
as a Christian nation, with the cry of �No king but King Jesus�. The nation did not
observe Easter within an entire century of its founding.�
Most people accept traditions as fact because they have been part of our culture for so
long. Unfortunately, most of these traditions are dark and gory Satanic rituals.
Trust me, I am just as disgusted as you are (or should be), but the truth must be known.
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Can you please help me with my marriage? - Duration: 28:33.
ANNOUNCER: THE FOLLOWING PROGRAM IS PAID FOR BY
THE FRIENDS AND PARTNERS OF JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES.
JOYCE: I CAN'T GIVE SOMEBODY ELSE THE RESPONSIBILITY
FOR MY JOY.
AND WE NEED TO ALWAYS MAKE SURE THAT WE KNOW WHO WE ARE ENOUGH
THAT WE'RE NOT GOING TO BE CO-DEPENDENT ON SOMEBODY ELSE,
AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT WE NEED TO DO.
GINGER: AS WE WALK THROUGH EACH NEW DAY,
WE ALL HAVE QUESTIONS.
THEY'RE JUST PART OF LIFE.
BUT DID YOU KNOW THERE ARE ANSWERS FOR YOU?
GOD SAYS WHEN WE LOOK, WE'LL FIND HIM.
HE'S NOT TRYING TO HIDE ANYTHING.
SO, TOGETHER WE ARE DISCOVERING LIFE'S EVERYDAY ANSWERS.
GINGER: YES, THERE ARE A LOT OF MOVIES ABOUT FALLING IN LOVE,
ROMANTIC MOVIES, BUT NOT VERY MUCH ABOUT STAYING IN LOVE.
MARRIAGE IS DIFFICULT.
IT'S NOT ALL ROSES AND CONFETTI, BUT IT CAN BE WORTH IT.
SO TODAY, JOYCE HAS PRACTICAL TIPS FOR YOU AS SHE ANSWERS
THE QUESTION SO MANY OF YOU HAVE ASKED, "CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME
WITH MY MARRIAGE?" JOYCE: RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE
VERY CHALLENGING.
CAN ANYBODY SAY AMEN?
AND ESPECIALLY THE MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP CAN BE CHALLENGING
BECAUSE YOU'RE WITH THAT PERSON ALL THE TIME.
AND GOING TO LUNCH WITH A FRIEND IS QUITE DIFFERENT THAN BEING
MARRIED TO SOMEBODY FOR 50 YEARS.
AND DAVE AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 50 YEARS, AND I CAN SAY THAT
DURING THAT PERIOD OF TIME, GOD HAS CHANGED ME A LOT, AND IT'S
PROBABLY A GOOD THING BECAUSE IF I WOULDN'T HAVE LET HIM DO THAT,
I PROBABLY WOULDN'T STILL BE MARRIED TODAY.
I THINK ONE OF THE THINGS IN OUR LIVES THAT GIVES US A LOT OF
PROBLEMS IS JUST HAVING UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.
YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMEBODY TO GIVE YOU SOMETHING
THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO GIVE YOU, OR TO MAYBE UNDERSTAND SOMETHING
ABOUT YOU THAT THEY COULD NOT POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND, ESPECIALLY
IF YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMEBODY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY ALL THE TIME.
AND I DO THINK A LOT OF PEOPLE, WHEN THEY GET MARRIED, THEY GET
MARRIED WITH THE IDEA THAT, "NOW, YOU'RE GOING TO MAKE ME
HAPPY ALL THE TIME."
AND FIRST OF ALL, YOU KNOW, SOME OF THE THINGS THAT YOU FEEL WHEN
YOU'RE DATING SOMEBODY IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT THAN THE WAY
YOU FEEL, YOU KNOW, AFTER YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR A WHILE.
AND SO, THERE'S A LOT OF EXCITEMENT, AND GOOSEBUMPS,
AND ALL THOSE THINGS.
YOU KNOW, IT'S ALMOST LIKE, YOU KNOW, THE CHASE IS DIFFERENT
THAN WHEN YOU ACTUALLY GET WHAT YOU WANT.
YOU KNOW, IT WAS A GREAT DAY FOR ME AND I'M SURE FOR DAVE WHEN
GOD SPOKE TO MY HEART AND INSTRUCTED ME THAT I WAS TO STOP
GIVING DAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF KEEPING ME HAPPY.
HE SAID, "YOUR JOY IS YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY.
IT'S NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S RESPONSIBILITY."
AND I DO THINK IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT WE REALLY THINK THIS OTHER
PERSON IS SUPPOSED TO KEEP US HAPPY ALL THE TIME, THEY'RE
SUPPOSED TO MAKE US FEEL GOOD ABOUT OURSELVES ALL THE TIME.
BUT TO BE HONEST, IF YOU DON'T ALREADY HAVE A SENSE OF
CONFIDENCE, IF YOU DON'T ALREADY FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, THEN
THERE'S NO HUMAN BEING IN YOUR LIFE THAT IS EVER GOING TO BE
SUCCESSFUL AT MAKING YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF
ALL THE TIME.
AND I CAN TELL YOU IT WEARS PEOPLE OUT BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T
FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, IF YOU DON'T HAVE A SENSE OF GOD'S LOVE
AND WHO YOU ARE IN HIM, AND IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE
AN INDIVIDUAL, THEN YOU'RE CONSTANTLY LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY
ELSE TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD, TO MAKE YOU FEEL SUCCESSFUL,
TO MAKE YOU FEEL CONFIDENT, TO MAKE YOU FEEL SECURE.
AND IT'S LIKE YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMETHING THAT THEY'RE NOT GOING
TO GIVE YOU BECAUSE, TO BE HONEST, NO MATTER WHO YOU
MARRY--NOW, I KNOW THIS IS GOING TO BE SHOCKING, BUT I HAVE TO
SAY THIS.
THEY ARE NOT GOING TO BE FOCUSED ON YOU ALL THE TIME.
ISN'T THAT SURPRISING?
THEY DON'T HAVE YOU ON THEIR MIND ALL THE TIME.
THEY'RE NOT GOING TO BE FOCUSED ON YOU ALL THE TIME.
BUT WHEN A PERSON IS--REALLY LACKS CONFIDENCE, LIKE FOR
EXAMPLE, IF A WOMAN IS INSECURE AND SHE MAKES A NEW MEAL.
IF THE MAN, THE KIDS, WHATEVER DON'T RAVE ABOUT HOW GOOD IT IS,
SHE'S GOING TO AUTOMATICALLY ASSUME THAT IT'S NOT GOOD
AND THEY DIDN'T LIKE IT.
YOU KNOW, WHERE A PERSON WHO HAS CONFIDENCE MAY TASTE IT AND SAY,
"THIS IS REALLY GREAT."
AND THEY DON'T--THEY DON'T NECESSARILY HAVE TO HAVE
SOMEBODY ELSE CONFIRMING TO THEM ALL THE TIME THAT EVERYTHING
THEY DO IS GOOD.
THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE SHOULDN'T COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER,
BUT IF YOU HAVE TO HAVE THAT, THEN IT'S KIND OF EQUIVALENT TO
A DRUG ADDICT NEEDING A FIX.
IT'S LIKE YOU CONSTANTLY EXPECT SOMEBODY ELSE TO FIX YOU,
TO KEEP YOU FIXED ALL THE TIME.
AND IT JUST WEARS THEM ABSOLUTELY OUT.
SO, ARE YOU EXPECTING THE PERSON THAT YOU'RE MARRIED TO TO ALWAYS
BE THERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU'RE HURTING, TO ALWAYS UNDERSTAND
WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH?
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING, THERE'S ONLY ONE PERSON THAT CAN
EVER UNDERSTAND ANY OF US, AND THAT'S JESUS.
AND I AM GRATEFUL THAT THE BIBLE SAYS THAT WE HAVE A HIGH PRIEST
WHO UNDERSTANDS.
IT GOES ON TO TALK ABOUT OUR WEAKNESSES AND OUR INFIRMITIES,
BUT HE UNDERSTANDS EACH OF US IN OUR OWN LITTLE BRAND OF
WEIRDNESS.
AND TRUST ME, WE ALL HAVE A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF THAT.
AND SO, I GUESS ONE OF THE THINGS THAT DAVE AND I HAD
A NUMBER OF ARGUMENTS OVER OVER THE YEARS WAS I WANTED--NO
MATTER WHAT I TOLD HIM I WAS GOING THROUGH, I WANTED HIM TO
SIT AND LISTEN TO EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY WORD, AND I WANTED HIM
TO UNDERSTAND.
BUT HE DIDN'T.
GINGER: JOYCE HAS MORE PRACTICAL TIPS FOR YOU ON
MARRIAGE.
AND NOW, LET'S TAKE A MOMENT TO HEAR YOUR VOICE.
[MUSIC]
GINGER: WE ASKED YOU TO SHARE HOW GOD HAS SHOWN YOU THAT HE
CARES ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS THAT ARE VERY IMPORTANT
AND SPECIAL TO YOU.
SO, HERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT HAVE BEEN SHARED OF WHAT I CALL
GOD'S WINGS TO YOU.
THIS IS JEANETTE FROM WASHINGTON STATE.
"ONE TIME I WAS DE-CLUTTERING AND WAS GOING TO THROW OUT
A PICTURE.
SOMETHING IN MY SPIRIT SAID, 'STOP, TAKE IT APART, THERE'S
A SURPRISE FOR YOU.' SO, I TOOK IT APART
AND FOUND AN ORIGINAL PORTRAIT OF MY PARENTS FROM THE 1940S.
HE CARES ABOUT THE LITTLE THINGS AND HOW WE LIVE.
THANKS FOR LETTING US SHARE."
WELL, THANK YOU, JEANETTE, FOR SHARING THAT, WE APPRECIATE IT.
ROMI FROM PASADENA SAYS, I LOVE THIS ONE, "I GOT
A FLUX CAPACITOR BASED ON THE "BACK TO THE FUTURE"
MOVIE CAR PHONE CHARGER TODAY!
ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS BOUGHT IT FOR ME.
IT'S JUST A TOTAL SURPRISE.
GOD CARES ABOUT SOMETHING SO SMALL, SOMETHING AS SILLY AS A
CAR CHARGER WAS IMPORTANT TO GOD BECAUSE IT WAS SPECIAL TO ME."
WELL, THOSE ARE GOOD, AND GOD DOES CARE ABOUT
EVERY SINGLE THING.
AND LET ME JUST TELL YOU A TIP ABOUT MARRIAGE, APPRECIATING
THOSE SMALL THINGS ARE VERY IMPORTANT IN A MARRIAGE.
SO, THANKS FOR SHARING THESE, WE WANT TO HEAR MORE OF YOUR VOICE.
SINCE WE'RE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE TODAY, LET'S JUST DO
IT, LET'S JUST JUMP RIGHT IN THERE AND SHARE WHAT YOU
APPRECIATE MOST ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE.
LOOK FOR THOSE GOOD THINGS, MAYBE THEY'LL SEE IT.
IF NOT, IT'S A GREAT EXERCISE FOR YOU TO WRITE IT DOWN,
AND IT'S IMPORTANT TO SHARE.
SO, USE FACEBOOK--FACEBOOK, TWITTER, USE #EA.
AND RIGHT NOW, HERE IS MORE FROM JOYCE ANSWERING THE QUESTION,
"CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME WITH MY MARRIAGE?"
JOYCE: THE NEXT THING I WANT TO SAY IS ALWAYS ENTER
RELATIONSHIPS, IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP, WITH THE IDEA
OF GIVING RATHER THAN GETTING.
AND THE THING IS IS OUR MINDSET, THE DIRECTION WE SET OUR MIND
IN, HAS SO MUCH TO DO WITH THE WAY THINGS TURN OUT IN OUR LIFE.
I'LL GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE.
I SAID TO DAVE, I DON'T KNOW, A YEAR OR TWO AGO, I SAID--
'CAUSE I KNOW HOW MUCH, YOU KNOW, HE ENJOYS
PLAYING GOLF.
AND YOU KNOW, DAVE IS VERY HEALTHY, AND SO THAT'S ALL GOOD.
BUT I SAID, "HOW DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD BE IF YOU EVER FOR
SOME REASON GOT TO THE POINT WHERE YOU COULDN'T PLAY GOLF?"
AND I THOUGHT THE ANSWER HE GAVE ME REALLY DESCRIBES MY HUSBAND
VERY WELL.
HE SAID, "WELL, I'VE ACTUALLY ALREADY THOUGHT ABOUT THAT,
AND I'VE SET MY MIND THAT EVEN IF THAT HAPPENS, I CAN STILL BE
JUST AS HAPPY AS I AM RIGHT NOW."
AND SEE, WE ALL NEED TO HAVE THIS MINDSET THAT MY JOY IS NOT
DEPENDING ON HOW YOU ACT BECAUSE IF IT IS, NOW I'M CO-DEPENDENT
ON YOUR BEHAVIOR.
AND SO, WE'RE EASILY CONTROLLED BY WHATEVER'S GOING ON AROUND US
BECAUSE, TO BE HONEST, WE HAVE NO CONTROL OVER HOW
SOMEBODY ELSE IS GOING TO ACT ALL THE TIME.
I CAN'T CONTROL HOW--I MEAN, NOW THANKFULLY DAVE IS VERY STABLE,
AND SO THAT'S BEEN AN EXTREME BLESSING TO ME IN MY LIFE
BECAUSE I GREW UP AROUND PEOPLE THAT WEREN'T STABLE.
BUT IF I WAS MARRIED TO SOMEBODY THAT MAYBE HAD MORE UPS AND
DOWNS, YOU KNOW, THEN I WOULD HAVE TO MAKE MY MIND UP,
FIRST OF ALL, IT'S NOT MY FAULT.
BECAUSE A LOT OF TIMES IF PEOPLE AROUND YOU AREN'T HAPPY,
THEN YOU TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF FIXING THEM.
AND BOY, THAT'S ANOTHER WHOLE NIGHTMARE ALL ON ITS OWN.
AND SO, I JUST HAD TO LEARN THAT I CAN'T GIVE SOMEBODY ELSE
THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY JOY, AND WE NEED TO ALWAYS MAKE SURE
THAT WE KNOW WHO WE ARE ENOUGH THAT WE'RE NOT GOING TO BE
CO-DEPENDENT ON SOMEBODY ELSE AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT
WE NEED TO DO.
CAN ANYBODY SAY AMEN OR "OH ME," OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT?
SO, ALWAYS ENTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE THOUGHT OF GIVING
RATHER THAN TAKING.
AND BASICALLY, TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH, EVERY SINGLE DAY
OF YOUR LIFE, EVERY DAY.
I DID IT JUST THIS MORNING.
YOU KNOW, 'CAUSE WE ALL HAVE A TENDENCY TO BE FOCUSED ON US.
"WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR ME?
HOW CAN YOU MAKE ME HAPPY?
HOW CAN I GET YOU TO DO WHAT I WANT YOU TO DO?
CAN WE EAT WHERE I WANT TO EAT?" YOU KNOW, ON AND ON AND ON.
AND SO, I MAKE THAT A HABIT.
I DON'T SAY THAT I DO IT EVERY DAY, BUT I SPENT TIME THIS
MORNING, AND NOT JUST BECAUSE I WAS COMING HERE TO TEACH ON
MARRIAGE, BUT I PURPOSELY SET MY MIND TO BE FOCUSED ON WHAT CAN I
DO FOR OTHER PEOPLE TODAY.
BECAUSE I'VE LEARNED THAT IF I'M FOCUSED ON ME, I'M NOT HAPPY.
AND SO, THE WAY WE SET OUR MIND, THE DIRECTION WE SET OUR MIND IN
IS VERY IMPORTANT.
SO, WHEN YOU GET MARRIED, IF YOUR MIND IS SET AND MADE UP
THAT THIS PERSON'S SUPPOSED TO KEEP YOU HAPPY ALL THE TIME,
BOY, YOU'VE JUST ALREADY SIGNED UP FOR A DISASTER.
BUT IF YOU SET YOUR MIND, "I WANT TO GIVE."
YOU KNOW, "I WANT TO MAKE THIS OTHER PERSON HAPPY.
WHAT CAN I DO FOR THEM THAT WILL MAKE THEM HAPPY?"
AND IF YOU DO THAT, THEN THE VERY ACT OF GIVING
GIVES JOY IN YOUR LIFE.
WHERE IF WE GO AT A RELATIONSHIP WITH, "WHAT CAN I GET?
WHAT CAN I GET?" THEN EVERY TIME WE DON'T GET
SOMETHING, WE'RE UNHAPPY.
AND SO, YOU KNOW, DAVE IS NOT A MAN THAT REQUIRES A LOT.
HE'S A VERY STABLE MAN, HE'S VERY HAPPY.
BUT I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE, YOU LIKE IT WHEN PEOPLE GIVE YOU
WHAT YOU WANT.
AND SO, IT'S IMPORTANT TO LEARN THE PERSON THAT YOU'RE IN
A RELATIONSHIP WITH AND WHAT ACTUALLY ARE THEY MOTIVATED BY,
WHAT BLESSES THEM.
MY HUSBAND LOVES PEACE.
IF YOU KEEP IT PEACEFUL, DAVE IS HAPPY.
HE DOESN'T LIKE ARGUING.
HE DOESN'T LIKE COMPLICATED DISCUSSIONS.
HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT GETTING REAL DEEP INTO EVERY LITTLE
FEELING THAT SOMEBODY HAS AND WHAT'S GOING ON.
NOW, I COULD SIT AND TALK ABOUT THAT STUFF ALL DAY,
BUT THAT'S NOT HIM.
DAVE WANTS PEACE.
SO, I PURPOSE TO TRY TO GIVE HIM PEACE.
AND I KNOW THAT DAVE'S LOVE LANGUAGE IS TIME, SO IF HE'S
TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING AND TALK TO ME ABOUT SOMETHING,
EVEN IF IT DOESN'T INTEREST ME, I'M STILL LEARNING, AND I'LL SAY
STILL LEARNING BECAUSE IT'S NOT MY NUMBER ONE GIFT, I'M STILL
LEARNING TO REALLY LISTEN AND PAY ATTENTION.
WHERE I LOVE IT WHEN HE DOES THINGS FOR ME, LIKE HE DOES
THE DISHES ALMOST EVERY NIGHT, AND I LOVE THAT.
SO, YOU HAVE TO KIND OF STOP TRYING TO GIVE PEOPLE WHAT YOU
WANT AND WHAT YOU LIKE, AND JUST BE IN THE RELATIONSHIP FOR WHAT
I CAN GET, BUT ACTUALLY THE WHOLE ACT OF LOVE, WHICH WE ARE
COMMANDED AS CHRISTIANS TO DO, IS TO THINK ABOUT WHAT CAN
I GIVE YOU, NOT WHAT CAN YOU GIVE ME.
AND SO, THEN THE SELFISH NATURE SAYS, "WELL, THEN WHAT'S GOING
TO HAPPEN TO ME?" WELL, THEN GOD TAKES CARE OF US.
SO, LET ME JUST SAY NOW AFTER 50 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, I CAN TELL
YOU, AND I FEEL VERY STRONGLY ABOUT THIS, I DON'T THINK THE
WAY THE WORLD IS TODAY, THERE'S MUCH HOPE OF ANYBODY GETTING
MARRIED AND STAYING MARRIED VERY LONG IF YOU'RE NOT GOING
TO BE COMMITTED TO DOING THINGS THE WAY THAT GOD WOULD WANT
YOU TO DO THEM.
AND SADLY, A LOT OF CHRISTIANS AREN'T.
YOU KNOW, JUST BECAUSE WE GO TO CHURCH DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE'RE
SAYING YES TO GOD ON A REGULAR BASIS.
AND SO, ANYBODY WHO WILL COMMIT TO DOING THEIR PART TO DO WHAT'S
RIGHT BEFORE GOD, GOD WILL REWARD YOU.
AND THERE'S A MUCH GREATER CHANCE THAT HE WILL MAKE THE
CHANGES IN THE OTHER PERSON THAT NEEDS TO BE MADE IF YOU JUST DO
WHAT'S RIGHT BEFORE HIM, AND STOP TRYING TO MAKE THAT OTHER
PERSON GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT.
GINGER: ONE OF THE PRAYER REQUESTS THAT WE RECEIVE MOST
FREQUENTLY IS FOR RESTORATION OF MARRIAGE.
WE KNOW A LOT OF YOU ARE GOING THROUGH REALLY TOUGH TIMES, AND
THIS NEXT STORY IS AN EXAMPLE OF HOW GOD CAN HEAL A MARRIAGE ON
THE BRINK OF DIVORCE.
MALE: MY TURN?
DEBBIE: I WASN'T UNHAPPY IN THE MARRIAGE.
OBVIOUSLY, THERE WAS A PROBLEM OR SOMETHING COULDN'T
HAVE HAPPENED.
BUT AGAIN, AT THE TIME, I WASN'T LOOKING, SO IT REALLY SHOCKED ME
THAT THE ENEMY DID COME IN AND PERSUADE ME TO BE INTERESTED
IN SOMEONE ELSE.
SCOTT: I DIDN'T WANT TO BELIEVE IT, BUT THERE WERE
CERTAIN THINGS.
I MEAN, SHE WOULD GO DO THINGS, AND HE WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE.
SO, I HAD--I HAD THAT GUT FEELING, BUT YET I DIDN'T WANT
TO I GUESS ADMIT TO IT.
ANNOUNCER: WHEN DEBBIE TOLD SCOTT ABOUT THE AFFAIR, HE WAS
HEARTBROKEN, BUT REFUSED TO MOVE OUT OF THEIR HOME.
THEY WOULD LIVE TOGETHER BUT LEAD SEPARATE LIVES FOR
THE NEXT 7 YEARS.
DEBBIE: WE DIDN'T SEPARATE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT BECAUSE AT
THE TIME, OUR SON WAS VERY YOUNG, MAYBE TWO AND A HALF.
SCOTT: TREVOR WAS THE MAIN THING.
I DIDN'T WANT TO BE A WEEKEND DAD.
AND THAT WAS MY ULTIMATE GOAL, I'M NOT GOING TO BE
A WEEKEND DAD.
DEBBIE: SO, WE ENDED UP WITH A MUTUAL PARTNERSHIP.
WE BOTH WORKED, WE BOTH CONTRIBUTED TO THE FINANCES,
AND OF COURSE WE BOTH TOOK CARE OF MY SON.
YOU KNOW, WE DID THE THINGS A FAMILY DOES, IT'S JUST MOM
AND DAD WEREN'T A COUPLE.
ANNOUNCER: THE AFFAIR CONTINUED THROUGHOUT THOSE
7 YEARS, AND THEN SOMETHING CHANGED.
A SERIES OF TRAGIC EVENTS TOUCHED THE LIVES OF THREE
OF DEBBIE'S CLOSE FRIENDS.
IT MADE HER REEVALUATE HER OWN LIFE.
SHE DECIDED TO END THE AFFAIR AND REACH OUT TO SCOTT TO SAVE
THEIR MARRIAGE.
DEBBIE: YOU KNOW, I CAN STILL CHANGE THIS SO THAT OUR FAMILY
IS NOT FOREVER SEPARATED.
SCOTT: WHEN DEBBIE TOLD ME SHE WANTED TO TRY TO MAKE OUR
MARRIAGE WORK, FIRST REACTION WAS HONESTLY, "YEAH RIGHT,
YOU GOT TO BE KIDDING ME.
AFTER THIS LONG, YOU KNOW, WHY?
YOU KNOW, WHAT'S GOING ON?" DEBBIE: DURING THAT TIME,
IT BECAME AWFUL.
I WOULD SAY ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE.
I SAW A SIDE OF MY HUSBAND THAT I DIDN'T EVEN SEE WHEN I WAS
INVOLVED.
SCOTT: THERE WAS REALLY A LOT OF RESENTMENT, AND THE ONLY
THING I COULD REALLY THINK OF WAS, "MAYBE SHE'S GOING TO TRY
TO BUILD ME BACK UP AGAIN AND KNOCK ME BACK DOWN."
ANNOUNCER: SOON AFTER DEBBIE TOLD HIM SHE WANTED TO WORK ON
THEIR MARRIAGE, SCOTT HAD AN AFFAIR IN RETALIATION FOR ALL
THE PAIN SHE HAD CAUSED HIM.
SCOTT: YEAH, THAT'S WHAT I DID.
WHETHER IT WAS--WELL, I MEAN, I SIT THERE AND SAY WHETHER IT WAS
RIGHT OR WRONG.
IT WAS WRONG, DEFINITELY WRONG.
YOU KNOW, I HURT HER MORE PROBABLY THAN SHE HURT ME.
ANNOUNCER: THE HOSTILITY AND REJECTION HAD GOTTEN SO BAD THAT
DEBBIE WENT TO SEE AN ATTORNEY.
IN THE MEANTIME, SHE MET A NEW FRIEND WHO WAS A CHRISTIAN.
SHE ENCOURAGED HER TO FIGHT FOR HER MARRIAGE.
DEBBIE: YOU KNOW, SHE SAID, "GOD REALLY DOESN'T WANT YOU
TO DO THIS.
HE'S REALLY FOR MARRIAGES.
AND IF YOU HANG IN THERE, HE IS GOING TO HELP YOU."
AND YOU KNOW, I KNEW GOD, AND I BELIEVED IN GOD, BUT I DIDN'T
KNOW A PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH GOD.
I DID NOT KNOW THAT I COULD RELATE TO HIM EVERY DAY.
I HAD THEN MET A PASTOR, AND HE SAID TO ME, "YOU DO NOT NEED TO
HAVE YOUR HUSBAND'S, YOU KNOW, AGREEMENT IN THIS.
YOU AND GOD CAN SAVE THIS MARRIAGE."
SO, HE GAVE ME HOPE.
SO, HE BEGAN TO TEACH ME THAT THERE WERE PROMISES WITH GOD.
WHEN I HEARD THAT, THAT WAS LIFE-CHANGING TO ME.
I THOUGHT, "THERE'S PROMISES, I CAN HAVE THEM.
I CAN--THIS IS FOR ME."
SO, I BEGAN APPLYING GOD'S WORD IN EVERY SITUATION.
ANNOUNCER: THOUGH DEBBIE DIDN'T KNOW IT AT THE TIME, SHE
AND SCOTT HAD BEGUN A JOURNEY OF HEALING AND FORGIVENESS THAT
WOULD TAKE 2 1/2 YEARS TO COMPLETE.
IT WAS A DAY BY DAY PROCESS WHERE SHE WOULD MEET SCOTT'S
HOSTILITY HEAD ON WITH KINDNESS.
SCOTT: SHE WAS JUST BEING TOO NICE, AND I THINK IT--I THINK IT
WORE ON ME, YOU KNOW?
HEY, WHY NOT, YOU KNOW?
IT'S BEEN 7 YEARS, IT'S BEEN, YOU KNOW, A YEAR NOW SHE'S BEING
VERY NICE.
ANNOUNCER: IN 2009, THE COUPLE RENEWED THEIR VOWS,
WHICH ALSO MARKED THEIR 20TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY.
DEBBIE: AND THIS TIME WHEN WE GOT MARRIED, IT WAS--WE LEARNED
TO KEEP GOD FIRST AND PUT EACH OTHER AHEAD OF OURSELVES.
ANNOUNCER: BUT THERE WAS ONE FINAL ACT OF FORGIVENESS THAT
STILL NEEDED TO HAPPEN TO BRING COMPLETE CLOSURE.
SCOTT: I'M GOING TO APOLOGIZE TO HER ON TV.
I DON'T THINK I EVER DID FOR MY ACTIONS THAT I DID, MY AFFAIR.
I'M GOING TO APOLOGIZE TO HER, AND JUST WANT HER TO KNOW THAT
I'M SORRY, THAT I SHOULD'VE BEEN MORE--I SHOULD'VE BEEN MORE OF
A MAN, AND DID THE THINGS THAT I NEEDED TO DO TO KEEP US
TOGETHER.
SO, DEBBIE, I'M SORRY.
DEBBIE: THAT WAS AWESOME.
GINGER: WHAT A WONDERFUL, ENCOURAGING STORY.
AND YOU KNOW, THEY ARE ABOUT TO HAVE THEIR 27TH ANNIVERSARY.
CONGRATULATIONS.
MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED OVER 30 YEARS NOW,
DAVE AND JOYCE OVER 50.
SO, THERE'S A LOT OF ACCUMULATIVE EXPERIENCE THERE
THAT WE CAN ALL SHARE WITH YOU.
AND THERE'S EVEN MORE IN HERE.
JOYCE AND DAVE HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT, LIKE EVERYONE HAS
WHO'S BEEN MARRIED 50 YEARS.
AND JOYCE SHARES IT IN THIS PACKAGE.
THIS IS A CD AND A DVD ALL ABOUT MARRIAGE.
IT'S AVAILABLE DIGITALLY OR A HARD COPY, AND WHAT YOU'LL
GET IS JOYCE TEACHING ABOUT MARRIAGE, AND THEN ALSO YOU WILL
GET MORE OF YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED AS SHE DID A QUESTION
AND ANSWER SEGMENT.
THAT'S ON DVD, SO THERE'S JUST A LOT AVAILABLE IN HERE.
YOU CAN LISTEN TO IT, YOU CAN WATCH IT, AND IT IS AVAILABLE TO
YOU FOR ANY AMOUNT.
JUST CALL RIGHT NOW, DON'T WAIT, GET THIS TODAY.
JUST GET ON THAT ROAD THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH WITH YOUR
MARRIAGE.
AND THIS MAKES A GREAT GIFT.
SO, DON'T FORGET TO PICK IT UP FOR A FRIEND, SOMEONE IN YOUR
FAMILY, SOMEONE YOU LOVE.
AND IT'S SO EASY, CALL, GO TO THE WEBSITE RIGHT NOW.
ALSO, COMING UP NEXT WEEK ON "EVERYDAY ANSWERS."
JOYCE: BUT YOU SAID JESUS SET ME FREE, WELL THEN WHY AM
I NOT FREE?
YOU SAID I'M HEALED BY THE STRIPES OF JESUS,
SO WHY AM I STILL IN A MESS?
YOU SAID THAT HE WOULD GIVE ME BEAUTY FOR ASHES, BUT WHY IS MY
LIFE STILL FALLING APART?
GINGER: DON'T FORGET TO ASK US THOSE QUESTIONS, #ASKJOYCE
IF YOU'RE ON TWITTER.
WE LOVE TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS.
NOW, HERE IS THE CONCLUSION OF "CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME
WITH MY MARRIAGE?" JOYCE: NEXT BIG MISTAKE YOU
CAN MAKE IS PLANNING TO TRY TO CHANGE THE PERSON.
ESPECIALLY LIKE IF YOU NOTICE SOME THINGS BEFORE YOU GET
MARRIED, AND YOU'RE THINKING, "OH, I CAN CHANGE THAT.
I CAN--WELL, I'LL WORK ON THAT."
WELL, LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING, I TRIED EVERY WAY THAT I COULD
TRY TO GET DAVE NOT TO LIKE SPORTS.
NO REASON OTHER THAN SELFISHNESS.
I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT THEM, I DIDN'T GROW UP GETTING
TO DO ANY OF THAT.
MY FATHER NEVER LIKED ANY KIND OF SPORTS.
WE DIDN'T HAVE THEM ON TELEVISION, WE DIDN'T GO TO--I
MEAN, NONE OF THAT WAS PART OF OUR LIFE.
AND SO, IT'S JUST NOT ANYTHING THAT I REALLY AM GOING TO PUT MY
TIME INTO.
SO, I DIDN'T WANT HIM TO LIKE IT.
BUT I CAN TELL YOU THE TRUTH, THE MORE YOU TRY TO GET SOMEBODY
NOT TO DO SOMETHING, THE MORE THEY'RE GOING TO WANT TO DO IT.
I MEAN, THAT WHOLE PRINCIPAL IS FOUND IN THE BIBLE ABOUT
THE LAW.
THAT'S WHY THE LAW CAUSED PEOPLE TO SIN MORE, NOT LESS.
AND GOD DID THAT ON PURPOSE TO SHOW PEOPLE THAT THEY NEEDED
A SAVIOR.
SO, THE MORE YOU TRY TO MAKE SOMEBODY NOT DO SOMETHING,
THE MORE THEY'RE PROBABLY GOING TO WANT TO DO IT.
AND ACTUALLY, TODAY, DAVE LOVES ALL KINDS OF SPORTS THAT HE
DIDN'T EVEN LIKE WHEN WE GOT MARRIED.
I MEAN, HE'S ADDED THINGS THAT HE DOESN'T EVEN PLAY.
LIKE, NOW HE WATCHES TENNIS ALL THE TIME, HE DOESN'T PLAY
TENNIS.
YOU KNOW, HE'LL WATCH A BOWLING TOURNAMENT ON TV.
AND YOU KNOW, THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANYTHING.
BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?
NOW I'M JUST--HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY WAY WITH WHAT I'D LIKE
HIM TO BE INTERESTED IN.
BUT YOU KNOW, DAVE IS NOT--HE'S NOT A REAL AGGRESSIVE MAN.
HIS PERSONALITY IS NOT REAL AGGRESSIVE.
HE ALWAYS SAID, "YOU'RE ALWAYS AHEAD OF GOD," AND I SAID,
"YEAH.
AND YOU'RE 10 MILES BEHIND HIM."
AND SO, HERE WE HAVE THESE TWO PEOPLE THAT ARE MARRIED,
AND I'M JUST REAL AGGRESSIVE AND HE'S NOT AS AGGRESSIVE.
AND SO, I TRIED TO GET HIM TO BE MORE AGGRESSIVE, AND I WOULD SAY
TO HIM, YOU KNOW, "YOU NEED TO BE MORE OF THIS, AND YOU NEED TO
BE MORE OF THAT."
AND YOU KNOW HOW AWFUL IT IS, HOW IT MAKES A PERSON FEEL IF
YOU'RE CONSTANTLY GIVING THEM MESSAGES THAT THEY'RE LESS THAN
WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO BE?
"YOU NEED TO BE THIS.
YOU NEED TO DO THAT."
ESPECIALLY IF IT'S NOT SOMETHING THEY EVEN KNOW HOW TO DO.
AND I'LL NEVER FORGET THE DAY HE SAID TO ME, HE SAID, "YOU BETTER
THANK GOD THAT I AM THE WAY THAT I AM BECAUSE IF I WASN'T,
YOU SURE WOULDN'T BE DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING."
AND SO, I JUST WANT TO REMIND YOU TODAY THAT THERE'S A REALLY
GOOD POSSIBILITY NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK, THAT THE PERSON THAT
YOU MARRIED IS REALLY PERFECT FOR YOU.
I DIDN'T EXPECT ANYBODY TO CLAP, BUT THAT'S ALL RIGHT.
[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]
JOYCE: YOU CAN'T PRESSURE SOMEBODY TO
BE SOMETHING THAT THEY'RE NOT.
NOW, YOU KNOW, WHAT WE FOCUS ON IS WHAT DEVELOPS MORE AND MORE
IN OUR LIFE.
SO, IF I FOCUS ON WHAT I DON'T LIKE ABOUT SOMEBODY, THEN PRETTY
SOON THAT'S ALL I SEE.
AMEN?
BUT IF I FOCUS ON WHAT I DO LIKE, MOST OF THE TIME YOU'LL
FIND OUT, NO MATTER HOW BAD YOU THINK YOUR RELATION IS, MOST OF
THE TIME YOU WILL FIND OUT IF YOU FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DO LIKE,
THERE'S PROBABLY A LOT MORE THAT YOU LIKE THAN WHAT YOU
DON'T LIKE.
I LOVE THE FACT THAT DAVE IS PEACEFUL.
I LOVE THE FACT THAT HE'S EASY TO GET ALONG WITH.
I LOVE THE FACT THAT HE JUST LETS ME BE ME.
IF I WENT TO DAVE AND SAID, "WHAT--" WHICH I'VE DONE.
LIKE, "WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO CHANGE ABOUT ME?
YOU KNOW, IF I CAN CHANGE SOMETHING, WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE
ME TO CHANGE SO YOU COULD BE HAPPIER?"
HE SAID, "NOTHING, I LIKE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE."
AND SO, IF YOU WOULD HAVE ASKED ME THAT QUESTION 30 YEARS AGO,
I PROBABLY HAD A WRITTEN LIST ALREADY.
I MEAN, 'CAUSE I ACTUALLY REMEMBER TIMES WHEN I SAT DOWN
AND MADE A LIST OF EVERYTHING THAT I THOUGHT DAVE NEEDED TO
CHANGE FOR ME TO BE HAPPY.
WELL, I KNOW THAT THERE ARE THINGS.
I MEAN, DAVE COULDN'T POSSIBLY LIKE EVERYTHING ABOUT ME.
I KNOW THAT BECAUSE I ALREADY KNOW WHAT MY WEAKNESS ARE AND
SOME OF THE THINGS THAT NOBODY WOULD WANT TO PUT UP WITH IF
THAT WAS ALL THEY FOCUSED ON.
AND I KNOW THAT THERE ARE THINGS ABOUT DAVE THAT I PROBABLY DON'T
CARE FOR, BUT TO BE HONEST, IF YOU ASK ME THAT NOW, I WOULD
HAVE TO THINK A REALLY LONG TIME TO COME UP WITH IT.
YOU KNOW WHY?
NOT BECAUSE IT'S NOT THERE, BUT I DON'T FOCUS ON IT.
AND SO, IF YOU THINK ABOUT LIKE A--SAY A POLAROID CAMERA, I
COULD TAKE A PICTURE OF ANYTHING IN HERE TODAY THAT I WANTED TO,
DEPENDING ON WHERE I FOCUSED THE CAMERA.
AND THEN WHATEVER I FOCUSED ON WOULD DEVELOP IN MY LIFE.
AND I'M TELLING YOU THE TRUTH, I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT THIS
A LOT LATELY.
WHAT YOU FOCUS ON, YOU FOCUS ON YOUR PROBLEMS, PRETTY SOON
YOU'RE GOING TO THINK THAT YOU'VE GOT THE WORST LIFE IN THE
WHOLE WORLD BECAUSE ALL YOU'RE GOING TO SEE IS YOUR PROBLEMS.
BUT IF YOU FOCUS ON YOUR BLESSINGS, THAT GIVES GOD
AN OPPORTUNITY THEN TO WORK ON THE PROBLEMS.
AND SO, IF YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEBODY,
AND THEY DO A LOT OF THINGS THAT THAT YOU DON'T LIKE,
PRAY FOR THEM.
PRAY ABOUT THOSE THINGS.
AND MAKE SURE WHEN YOU PRAY, THAT YOU DO IT WITH AN ATTITUDE
OF HUMILITY.
I NEVER GO AND SAY, "GOD, THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE IN DAVE."
I'LL PRAY MORE LIKE THIS NOW, "GOD, I WOULD LIKE THIS TO
CHANGE, BUT MAYBE IT'S NOT EVEN THE PROBLEM I THINK IT IS,
IT MAY JUST BE MY ATTITUDE.
AND SO, FIRST OF ALL, I WANT YOU TO CHANGE ANYTHING IN ME THAT
NEEDS TO BE CHANGED.
AND IF THIS IS SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO CHANGE IN DAVE, THEN
I'M ASKING YOU TO CHANGE IT, AND TO HELP ME FOCUS ON ALL
THE GOOD THINGS, NOT ON THE THINGS THAT ARE AN ISSUE."
GINGER: WELL, WHAT YOU HAVE JUST BEEN WATCHING IS AVAILABLE
RIGHT HERE.
AND YOU'VE ONLY SEEN PART OF IT, SO THERE IS MUCH MORE IN THIS
RESOURCE.
IT'S SIMPLY CALLED "MARRIAGE," AND IT'S SO HELPFUL.
IT'S ON CD AND ON DVD RIGHT HERE.
YOU CAN ALSO GET IT AS A DIGITAL DOWNLOAD
FOR ANY AMOUNT RIGHT NOW.
DON'T WAIT, PICK THIS UP.
THERE IS HOPE FOR YOUR MARRIAGE, DON'T GIVE UP.
THANKS FOR BEING WITH US, WE'LL SEE YOU NEXT TIME.
CC BY ABERDEEN CAPTIONING 1-800-688-6621 WWW.ABERCAP.COM
[MUSIC]
ANNOUNCER: THE PRECEDING PROGRAM WAS PAID FOR BY
THE FRIENDS AND PARTNERS OF JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES.
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ผักกาด ย้ายชาแนลชั่วคราว SYN [F].FoREVeR - Duration: 4:24.
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Браслет с Подвесками Своими Руками / DIY Metal Bracelet with Pendants [eng subs] - Duration: 3:07.
Greetings to all!
Today I want to show you
the making of a very simple
but a pretty bracelet with pendants for every day.
I will also be grateful
if you put your thumbs up
and share this video on social networks).
To make a bracelet we need:
a large chain
of 15 cm in length,
connecting rings,
three flat hats,
one small pearl
and 7 metal pendants
Since the chain is quite massive,
I will accordingly use large pendants.
As you can see,
they all have different shapes:
rounded, square,
some flat,
others large.
You can take any that you like most.
In addition,
we will need a toggle clasp,
I have it in the shape of a flower,
two pins with a ball and a pin with a loop.
We begin to attach the largest pendant
in the form of a month
on a chain consisting of 15 links.
Count 7 links
and on the 8th
we catch an open ring with a pendant.
Close the connecting ring
with the help of the tool
To attach the second element
I use a pin with a hat,
String a metal cap,
followed by a large cube
and the cap again.
I use the tool again
but only for the twisting of the loop
I put the ready element into the ring
and attach it
through one link of the chain.
The next pendant is also fixed
to the left of the center...
The fourth detail with a large hole
and here
I can not use the previous pin any more.
A pin with a loop comes to the rescue in this case,
we squeeze the loop a little
on each side with a tool.
Our pin will not be strong
stand out at the end of the bead
and most importantly will attach the element.
After measuring 0.8 mm,
cut off the excess.
We bend the pin approximately 90 degrees,
round it with tools
and attach the pendant,
skipping one link after the cube.
The rest of the elements
I also attach on the right side.
The last step is lock attaching.
From one end of the chain
I fasten a wand
and on the other end
the second part of the lock
in the form of a flower.
I have made such a beautiful bracelet!
I wear it separately
and also like to combine it
with other bracelets.
It will also looks great in pairs with any clock)
It is all for today,
I wish you creative inspiration
and see you again!
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3D SuperHero Bad Baby Crying Lollipop Finger Family | Finger Family Song Collection - Duration: 19:34.
Daddy finger, daddy finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
Mommy finger, Mommy finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
Brother finger, Brother finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
Sister finger, Sister finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
Baby finger, Baby finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
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Essence of Murli 01-04-2017 - Duration: 6:48.
Om Shanti !
Today's Murli Date is 1st April 2017
Essence: Sweet children, throughout the day, your intellects should only have thoughts of service.
You have to bring benefit to everyone, because you are sticks for the blind.
( Become stick for blind means, we impart Baba's knowledge to them whereby the third eye of knowledge is awakened. This way they see and feel new world )
Question: What main dharna do you need in order to achieve a high status?
Answer: Only when you have full control over your physical organs will you receive a high status.
When your physical organs are not under your control, your activity is not correct,
if there are too many desires and you have the habit of being greedy,
you will be deprived of a high status.
If you want to receive a high status, follow the mother and father fully. Become conquerors of your physical organs.
Song: Show the path to the blind, dear God!
Essence for Dharna: 1. You must not have any perishable desires. Bring benefit to yourself and others.
2. You have to forget everything, including your body, and return home.
Therefore, check that your intellect is not trapped anywhere.
Blessing: May you be an easy yogi who finishes any situation by putting the dot of a full stop to it.
The essence of all points is to become a point. Remain stable in the point form and the queue of question marks will finish.
Whenever you have a question about anything, put a full stop.
In order to put a full stop, the easy slogan is:
Whatever happened, whatever is happening and whatever is to happen will be the best of all,
because the confluence age is the best of all.
When you say, "It is good", it becomes good. By doing so, you will experience an easy yogi life.
Slogan: Love is the easy method of remembrance. To become merged in love is to be an easy yogi.
To the sweetest, beloved, long-lost and now-found children, love, remembrance and good morning from the Mother, the Father, BapDada.
The spiritual Father says namaste to the spiritual children.
We spiritual children convey to spiritual Baapdada, our love our remembrance, our good morning & our namaste namaste
Om Shanti !
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Consequências das ações de Maduro na Venezuela - Duration: 0:37.
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Judicial Watch Releases New Huma Abedin Emails, Including Hillary Funeral Plans - politics - Duration: 5:19.
Judicial Watch Releases New
Huma Abedin Emails, Including Hillary Funeral Plans
Conservative wachdog Judicial Watch today released another 1,184 pages of State Department
records, including previously unreleased Hillary Clinton email exchanges which according to
the legal organization revealed "additional instances of Abedin and Hillary Clinton sending
classified information through unsecured email accounts and contributors being given special
access to the former secretary of state."
The records contain 29 previously undisclosed Clinton emails � of a total of which is
now at least 288 emails that were not part of the 55,000 pages of emails that Clinton
turned over to the State Department.
This further appears to contradict statements by Clinton that, �as far as she knew,�
all of her government emails were turned over to the State Department.
Two of these emails are now available on the State Department�s website.
In one notable email exchange from February 23, 2010, ambassador and long-time friend
to Hillary Clinton sought to map out her - and Bill Clinton�s - funerals in 2010 because
�planning is best done when they are still with us."
Capricia Marshall, who was chief of protocol for the State Department when Hillary Clinton
served as secretary of state, wrote to Huma Abedin, Doug Band and Cheryl Mills on Feb.
23, 2010, saying �everytime someone significant passes, I am flooded with requests� about
the Clintons� arrangements.
�Planning is necessary and best done when they are still with us,� she wrote to top
Clinton aide Abedin.
�As well, Hum - I would make the same suggestion to you - for her it will be a little different
... And once affirmed it will be very hard for someone to deny the type of ceremony she
wanted � as well I understand that the President can request certain arrangements for her that
she/her rep cannot (ie if you want the motorcade to go through DC � stop somewhere),� Marshall
wrote.
She told the aides she needed to contact the military to prepare for the funerals � �as
Protocol has a lot to do with planning, notification etc.�
* * *
Another email exchange between Abedin and Doug Band revealed tension between Clinton�s
top personal aide and the former secretary of state�s chief of staff, Cheryl Mills.
The rift was revealed when Chelsea Clinton asked Band if he could arrange a White House
tour for a female Haitian-American sailor from the USS Comfort.
I don�t want to get cross wise with cdm [Cheryl Mills] on anything Haiti related,�
Abedin replied.
Three minutes later she wrote again.
�HAVE YOU MET CHERYL MILLS,� Abedin asked in all caps about Hillary Clinton�s former
chief of staff when she was secretary of state.
�You have no idea.�
Band replied, �Good point.�
�She will kill the tour if she find out i set it up �,� Abedin wrote back.
�Wow,� Band replied.
* * *
Among the other emails, is a February 2010 exchange in which Jake Sullivan, then-Deputy
Chief of Staff to Clinton, sent to Clinton�s and Abedin�s unsecure email accounts information
that the State Department has classified as the material includes information �to be
kept secret in the interest of national defense or foreign policy; foreign relations or foreign
activities of the US, including confidential sources.� The redacted information concerns
�former GTMO [Guantanamo] detainee Binyam Mohamed� and Mohamed�s request for �various
classified intelligence documents� that contained U.S. intelligence information related
to his detention before he was taken to Guantanamo.
In other emails, Clinton�s �final� schedules with specific details concerning her whereabouts
were transmitted by Lona Valmoro to the unsecure emails accounts of Clinton Foundation officials
Doug Band, Terry Krivnic Margaret Steenberg and others, and forwarded to Abedin�s unsecure
email account.
In April 2010, Sid Blumenthal sent two email memos to Clinton containing information now
classified.
Clinton forwarded this material to Abedin�s unsecure email account.
The classified information, which Clinton asks Abedin to print off for her, concerns
the change of government in the Kyrgyz Republic.
In a statement by Tom Fitton, the Judicial Watch President said that �these emails
are yet more evidence of Hillary Clinton�s casual and repeated violations of laws relating
to the handling of classified information.
The Justice Department should finally begin an independent investigation into the Clinton
email matter."
But why, when every day there is a new daily dose of dripping red meat - or rather make
that Russian salad - involving Trump's ties to Putin to keep the media and authorities
more than busy with constant speculation that Trump is a Kremlin spy.
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News Conference: Gonzaga Final Four Preview - Duration: 29:13.
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The Ultimate Phone Screen Enlarger? - Duration: 2:26.
Hey guys, welcome to another video.
As always, today I've got another product of the future to show you.
What I mean by product of the future in my videos is that these products are not yet
released on the market.
The product that I'm about to show you guys today is designed to expand the screen size
of your smartphone.
With time, the size of our phone screens have been increasing dramatically.
But a phone has its limitations.
Smartphones need to be small enough to fit within our palms.
So, say you want to watch a movie on the go, or watch football, baseball, cricket or any
other sports, you have two options, you either need to deal with the small screen of your
phone, or own a tablet with a larger screen for a better, more immersive experience.
Unfortunately, tablets are expensive.
But now, we have a third option, which is getting a Superscreen.
Superscreen might look just like a tablet, but in reality, it is nothing more than a
screen extension.
All it does is it pairs up with your phone using the Superscreen app, and then turns itself
into a larger version of your phone.
What I mean is, by using Superscreen, you will now have the same exact phone with a 10.1 inch
screen.
Superscreen supports multi-touch and orientation control, so you can customize everything on
your phone, run every apps and games and watch movies, all on a bigger screen.
The company promises that the larger display will not affect the image quality, which is
something that I was very concerned about.
They say that everything will be in full HD and nothing will look choppy.
The price?
$99 to preorder on Kickstarter as of today.
However, it is estimated to retail for $299, which is ridiculous to me for just a 10 inch
screen.
With that kind of money, you can buy a pretty decent tablet.
If you want to check out Superscreen, link is going to be on the description.
Thanks for watching.
Hope you enjoyed today's video.
Let me know what you think of this product in the comments.
Subscribe to catch more of the future gadgets, and I'll see you guys next time.
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Верхняя #одежда1 ТМ ZUHVALA Магазин женской одежды Feya - Duration: 2:12.
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(ENG)Incheon City Tour인천시티투어 & Chinatown Mukbang | Kaya Vlogs - Duration: 8:16.
Hi guys. (So windy~~~) I'm going to do oneday tour with Incheon City Tour bus.
Waiting for this bus take off. It will depart every half an hour.
Taking off~~
I'm here at Incheon art platform. Which located in old downtown area.
some interesting exhibitions are going on here. I didn't even know about this. so happy to be here.
I live near by. but I didn't know this place exist
As you see that some interesting buildings are here. These buildings are from 1880~1890
It seems like japanese style.
I can feel the modern times.
Arriving at Wolmido
Found huge ship!!
Can you see that car? That car is this much but look at that ship!
These sashimi restaurants have funny names
(Funny Silly name)
I just turned on pokemon go.
If we walk this way along the shore
So many poke stops are along the road.
I'm gonna walk this way and catch pokemons one by one!!
How much is for one fishcake stick?
(pupa)
It's a very famous ride in Wolmido. It called "Disco pangpang"
It's weekdays. not that much poeple today.
but that would be so many poeple on the weekends
I'm waiting for a bus to China town.
Hong doo byung?
be careful It's really hot.! Ok. Thank you~
I just bought.. what does this called? Hong Doo Byung. I just got this.
It's so hot.! Let's eat this!
I chose Cream cheese one.
It's so warm and tasty.! so good.
Look at cheeeeese~!
Juicy Dumpling
2 meats, and 2 of shrimps?
I never tried white jjajangmyeon. Shall we try this?
one white jjajangmyeon and.. two minced meat dumpling, twd shrimp one.
How to eat yummy.
bite on the side just a tiny bit
make tiny hole
suck meat juice with your mouth be careful It's going to be very hot.
bite it and enjoy.
Don't cut it!
bring this to your own plate.
and make hole on it with your chopsticks
like this?with chopstick?
White jjajangmyeon.
noodles in here under the meat&vegs
Hi ~ I'm here at Chinatown. (Trying to make video for Instastroy)
failed XD
2nd try
(Old)Noodle road(Kal gook soo) in Shinpodong
This place used be So many of Kalgooksoo(Noodle) restaurant.
It's all dissapeared and now only few shops left.
This place seems closed long time ago.
Shinpo international market Dak Gang jeong(Sweet and spicy fried chicken)
This place renovated old japanese style house and opened a cafe.
Hello.
one hot americano and.. one cappuchino please.
Thank you.
She got so many!!
Snorlax
Psyduck
Squirtle
Pikachu
Bye . See you again. :D
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How to Crochet a Wig Cap - Duration: 7:38.
Hey everyone, I'm Liz and today I'm going to show you how to make a wig cap to add to
your crochet dolls.
You can use these wig caps to sew onto the scalp of your dolls, to prevent the color
of the scalp from showing through the hair of your doll.
Some things you'll need for this tutorial are:
a crochet hook.
I'll be using a size E (3.5 mm) Some Aran or Worsted weight yarn in the same,
or a similar color to the doll's hair.
I'll be using Black Aran weight yarn from Red Heart for these dolls.
And Plum Wine worsted weight yarn from Caron Simply Soft for these dolls.
Just make sure to get as close as possible to the color of hair you'll be using.
You'll need a doll to sew the wig cap onto.
You can click the link at the top of the screen for my curvy doll tutorial, or look in the
description below for my upper body doll and my basic doll tutorials.
You'll also need a pair of scissors to cut off your yarn
A yarn needle to sew in your ends, and to sew the wig cap onto your doll.
And if you like you can use a stitch marker or bobby pin to keep track of the first stitch
of your row.
And after you've made your wig cap, you'll need to add yarn to it to make up your doll's
hair.
You can find all my doll hair tutorials in the description below
So I'm going to begin by creating a magic circle.
If you want you could start by just chaining 3 and slip stitching because the hair is going
to cover up most of the wig cap when it's finished so you probably won't see the hole
in the middle of the wig cap.
But I just prefer to do double magic circles, so that's what I'm going to do.
So to create a double magic circle, I'm going to wrap my yarn around my fingers twice to
create 2 loops.
And then into those 2 loops I'm going to pull up a loop.
And chain 2.
And that is going to count as my first stitch.
Now I want to have 6 stitches total so I'm going to single crochet 5 more times into
my 2 loops.
So I've gotten to the end of 5 more stitches.
So now I'm going to close my magic circle.
First I'm going to pull on my tail a little bit, so that I have 1 bigger loop and 1 smaller
loop.
Then I'm going to find that smaller loop, and pull it from the side that's closest to
the tail, until the other loop closes completely.
And then I'm going to pull on my tail until this loop closes.
Ok, now I'm going to begin to increase each row until the size of my circle is about the
same as the top of the head of my doll.
I'm going to increase 6 times per row.
So in this row, I'm going to increase every stitch of the row, since I have 6 stitches
total.
First I'm going to find that chain that counted as the first stitch in this row.
And I'm going to single crochet into that chain.
Then into the same stitch I'm going to single crochet again to increase.
And I'm going to continue to increase every stitch until the end of the row, so I'm going
to single crochet 2 times into each stitch.
Now I've finished my first row of increase.
I'm going to increase for 2 more rows.
In this row I'm going to increase every 2nd stitch, once again so that I'm increasing
6 times in the row.
You can continue to increase for as long as you like.
In the next row you would increase every 3rd stitch, then in the next every 4th stitch,
then every 5th and so on.
Just continue to increase 6 times per row until your circle is about the same width
as the top of your doll's head.
So I've done the 1st st.
Now I'm going to single crochet 2 times into the 2nd st.
And I'm going to continue to increase every 2nd stitch all the way around the row.
Then I'm going to do another row of increase, and in the next row I'm going to increase
every 3rd stitch of the row.
Ok, I've done my last row of increase, and now my circle is about the same width as the
head of my doll.
Now I'm going to single crochet for a couple of rows to lengthen the wig cap.
I'm going to go on for 6 rows, but you can make the doll's wig cap longer or shorter
depending on the look you want.
Ok, I've gotten to the end of 6 more rows.
So now I'm going to end my doll's wig cap.
So to do that, I'm just going to slip stitch to the first stitch of my row.
And then I'm going to cut off a long tail of my yarn, and I'm going to use that tail
to sew the wig caps to my dolls.
Now all the wig caps are sewn to all the dolls.
I hope you enjoyed this tutorial.
If you did, push the like button or share it on social media.
If you want to see my curly doll hair tutorial, click the link at the end of the video, or
check in the description below.
And if you want to see more tutorials like this in the future, subscribe to my channel
and I'll see you all next time.
Bye!
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