Waching daily Mar 18 2018

Overall. Short version of scandal between Vandy Vape and VooPoo

Vandy Vape ordered VooPoo 80W Gene Chip for their new product - squonk mod Pulse 80W

After long period of time of delivering the chip to the buyer, the price of the chip was increased twice and reach a 30% increase in total

After Vandy Vape rejected those terms VooPoo broke the contract. VooPoo's argument - they preparing box mod with that chip and similar features and functional. So Vandy Vape product will compete with the new VooPoo product

It turns out this isn't the first case when VooPoo increase the price on their chips in last moment to get better profit

Aside from that VooPoo emailing distributors, directly saying that their new product will be better, than Vandy Vape product

In this situation I'm totally on the side of Vandy Vape and it's not because I'm working with them. It's my moral choice because I'm against bad and dirty business

I'm on the Tony B. side - the creator and inspirer of Pulse project - Pulse 22, Pulse 24 and Pulse squonk

Me myself had issues with VooPoo - after i've done a review on VooPoo Too mod and showed that those stickers is falling off, VooPoo didn't like that a lot, they got sad and stopped to send me their products

And started to email other reviewers, directly saying that some of reviewers are lying about their product. There was screenshots somewhere, Serzh Navalisty and md Troy received such emails

At the moment I removed from viewing all reviews of VooPoo products, I need to not forget remove Demon RDA as well

And I'm officially state - I will never will review any of VooPoo products. Absolutely. In any shape. Never

In my opinion, VooPoo is thinking way too much of themselves and their business methods are wrong

So I will repeat - in this situation i'm on the side of Vandy Vape

That's it. Let's roll. We have a review to do. Intro...

Hehehey! Hello everyone! Alex from VapersMD is here

And i'm glad to welcome you on my channel

Today our guest is ThugLyfe RDA by Thug Nation Vape

This company is from California. But they manufacture their products in China, like the most products on the market

This RDA is symbiosis of solutions, that were previously known on the market, like Velocity and Plume Veil. The posts are very familiar

Overall, this RDA come out pretty interesting. I will tell a little ahead that I like the flavor of this RDA

But first, we will dive down and look in details how this RDA is done

Let's roll

As it says(in Russia) - stylish, fashionable, youthful

We have that bag as a package for this RDA - it have ornament, logo and so on

Fun fact - pay attention to those metal clamps, which tell us about the color of the device itself. This is what I call attention to details

Inside this bag we have RDA in plastic bag. Inside we have spare o-rings, allen key, BF pin, spare clamps and spare screws

But let's talk about RDA. It's made out of stainless steel and aluminum. For example right now I have SS version

And color versions have a top cap made out of aluminum and as you can see that RDA is available in 4 colors - Yellow/Black, Full Black and Pink/Black

Aside from color versions, the deck in all versions is black with steel posts

This RDA have a 810 drip tips slot, side dual airflow - one is Velocity-style, second is Plume Veil-style

The deck have two post design with 2 clamps for bottom holding of coils

Also this deck is only for dual coils and have decent juice well capacity - it's 6mm deep. The diameter of the RDA is 24mm, height with drip tip is 34mm, without drip tip 26mm

Now let's take a detailed look at it. As always we start from the top where we have a boring black delrin non-o-ring 810 drip tip

Classic fit, but due to 810 slot we can use our favorite 810 drip tips no problem

Moving forward. Now we can see the top cap. It's composite top cap, which is giving us airflow as the Velocity

On the top cap we have a logo of this RDA, that skull, and a name - ThugLyfe on both sides

Personally - I would left it only on one side, but it's the manufacturer decision

I think you noticed that hole. That hole is through on both sides and it gives us option of back airflow of the coils

Though main airflow is realized as on Velocity RDA. By unscrewing the top cap counter clockwise you are opening the airflow holes on both sides

Maximally, the holes can be opened like so. This adjustment gives insane cloud production when fully opened

If you will continue to unscrew you will get access to the coils and o-ring

Also, the top cap have spherical machining inside

Important note - these little holes will be always opened and you can't adjust it. So be aware of it

The top cap is held on the deck by 2 o-rings, and like i said the deck is black, posts are made of steel

Regarding of that back airflow holes - as you can see - it drilled right through, the air is coming out of this central insulator with oval hole - it will divide airflow on both sides evenly

By the way, on one side above the airflow hole we have a piece of metal. I think you noticed that it's only on this side

If we look down inside the top cap we will see a notch by which the top cap is fixating on the deck and will prevent top cap from spinning

In case if you will put on the top cap in the wrong way it will not fit, you will need to turn it a little bit, so the key will match with that notch, so the top cap will fit and airflow holes will match

Wonderful. Let's talk about the posts. As you can see there's two clamps which will tighten the leads from bottom

These clamps have a knurling for holding the leads. On the top of it we have 2 massive screws, they are in center of the posts and they will pull those clamps up and tighten the leads

This RDA could be used on squonk mods as well. If we unscrew regular pin we will be able to screw down BF pin, which we have in the kit

Also, on the bottom we have a screw that holds negative post, a nice protruding pin, deep engraving ThugLyfe and serial number

I'm totally satisfied with the juice well - it is 6mm deep. Pay attention - guys cut those corners - attention to details, again, and it's cool.

The screws is working like so. When you unscrew it the clamp goes down and opens a slot for putting the leads and in the end we have 4 holes - two on both sides

If you coil come out wide - you will place the leads in 1st and 3rd slot

I wanna apologize in advance - I won't be showing how I install the coils in this RDA, because there is an issue which I faced during coils installation

And the name of this issue is the screws - as you can see the screws are completely wasted - and it's only 2 installation of coils

I have to say - the metal used for these screws is very soft, I strongly recommend to Thug Nation Vape to use harder material

I tried several screwdrivers but the final is one for all of them - the screws are wasted

Another important thing - don't forget - these clamps are tightening the leads from bottom. In this case the amount of force on the screws is higher, than if we tighten them from the top

It's much harder to tighten anything from bottom than simply tighten it from the top

So the amount of force on these screws are high and as result - screws are dying

Anyway, that's how I installed the coils - as you can see the leads one lead is in far hole and the other is in the near hole. Initially, I wanted to do a counter installation, but it wasn't comfortable

There was not enough space for leads and they was shifting to each other too close. It wasn't cool, so I had to throw one lead to the far hole

Anyway, I centered the coils so they would get both back and side airflow and i'm fine with it

This build is 0.08Ω fits perfectly for mechanical mod

Folks, I strongly recommend not to staff your RDAs with a lot of cotton

RDAs doesn't like that amount of cotton - use as less cotton as you can, so the cotton just barely touch the bottom of the juice well

This amount of cotton is enough for any RDA or build

And yes - don't overdrip. Otherwise you will get the leak

It's HIM! My god, it's really him! He's come to help us! It's the Captain Hindsight

Okay, my coils are installed a little above the side airflow, I think it will positively affect the flavor

I guess I will leave that adjustment and we're all done. Hit that Fire button and vapor is happening

It means it's time for face-time, where we will talk of its pros and cons

Thanks for your attention in close up, let's go up

Man, I LOVE those Gorilla bottles that drip on your fingers, on your pants, on all other body parts

Blin

Tasty

Vkusno

And great clouds

All Alex's devices do big clouds, as they say

Well build your devices correct, so they will do big clouds

Anyway, not the point. Today we're talking about this RDA

And to this RDA I have 2 complaints. MAJOR and critical ones. Which the manufacturer necessarily must to fix

Fix it and give us, if I may say, more brutal product

They've done it brutal anyway, but let's talk about cons

What the hell are you talking about?

First con to this RDA I'll give for weak o-rings. The cap is holds badly, it's very easy to take it off, guys need to pick better o-rings

Second con. And last. And the most critical. The screws. The screws are very soft, they dying way too fast and manufacturer MUST change it

I want to say directly to the manufacturer - Thug Nation Vape - guys, pick better o-rings, more stiff. And find the replacement for these screws. Give us more sturdy screws

In close up I showed what's happening with those screws. With such coil installation the force that we apply to the screws is way higher compared with top tightening

With botto tightening you need to apply more force so the leads wouldn't shift

In this situation pressure on screws is high and these screws can't endure it

That's it regarding some major cons that directly affect the workability of this device. Now let's talk about nitpicks

For those who don't understand what nitpick is - it's the things you can live with, it's something subjective - maybe even cons, but ONLY for me personally and, maybe, for someone of you

Many can live with them and simply pay no attention to it

First nitpick goes to the convenience of coils installation. As you saw the leads is shifting when you centering it, so the airflow worked correctly

Many people doesn't like it. Many think, that if one lead is longer than the other it is burning the cotton

For me it's inconvenient, because I get used to the counter installation, i guess - when you just put the leads, simply tighten them down and that's it

In this RDA you have to center the coil, leave one lead longer than the other

You need to get used to this type of coils installation. And I think once you will start using such device you will pay zero attention to it - that's why it's a con

And last nitpick goes for boring drip tip. It's the most standard of all standard drip tips. Nothing exceptional. I like more interesting drip tips. That is why I'm using mine

I'm done with cons and nitpicks. That means it's time for pros

First pro i'll give for appearance. It look stylish, brutal, I will say it again - fashionably. Guys did a great job in terms of design, well done

Somewhere this dripper is looking like Velocity, but due to deep engravings, overall design and various colors of aluminum top cap this RDA is getting very interesting and stylish appearance. So a pro for appearance

Next pro I'll give for wonderful and versatile airflow. Due to this airflow you can get any result you want - insane clouds or intense flavor. I strongly like that airflow. And of course it's a pro

Intense flavor, decent clouds - but those two factors are totally depends on build you will install and the way you install it

Thankfully, I'm get used to it and know how to install the coils, so any device will have intense flavor

If you want to have same results as I do - watch my reviews - and you will succeed

Anyway - it's a pro for clouds and flavor

Regarding quality of manufacturing - initially I was thinking of giving it a major pro, but after testing the screws and o-rings have failed. So the quality isn't bad, but guys should fix those issues

Okay folks, that was all regarding cons, nitpicks and pros

And as always, in final we are summarize. Did I like it or not?

I liked this RDA - in terms of flavor, clouds, appearance and quality

But it all stuck at these f*^&ing screws. Which, I hope, guys will fix

Other than that I can recommend this RDA

BUT. In this place we are stuck - where to buy it?

At the moment you can buy it only in certain app called VapeBlock

That app is available both on iOS and Android and looks like so

But again, unfortunately, I couldn't register in this app, since after I filled out the form with my data it just wouldn't let me log-in. So I simply couldn't log-in and see what's going on in that app

After all forms are filled out, I tap next, I'm getting age verification, I tap continue and nothing happens

Nothing happens, no emails, no nothing. I simply couldn't log-in and see anything in that app

Though I know that price of this RDA in that app is 50$

Yeah, 50$ price tag is a little high for the average prices on the market. Especially for a product that is made in China

But anyway, it's a price from manufacturer, and the manufacturer decide what price should be set for their products

I hope this RDA will appear in online stores, maybe in some local vape shops in Russia. But anyway I liked that RDA and I can recommend it

If you have 50$ for purchasing this RDA, or maybe even less if it will be sold not through that app, then yeah - go for it.

It look stylish, it's good for matchy-matchy and it distinct from others.

On that we will finalize, friends

I want to say big thanks to Thug Nation Vape for sending me this RDAs for this review

I wanna thank YOU for your attention

Don't forget - in this corner we have a voting going - do you like this device or no(да-yes/нет-no)

And now it's time for announcement of giveaway for CIS countries

So meanwhile subscribe to this channel and hit that Like button if you liked the review. Leave a comment - what do you think about such bottom clamps? Did you ever used such system of coil installation?

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At this point I will end this video

Thanks for your attention

I wish you a delicious vape and let the vaping come into your life and stays there for long

Take care of yourself and your mods

Alex from VapersMD was with you

Vsem poka poka

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worth it - Duration: 0:21.

before we attack each other and tear ourselves to shreds like a pack of maniacs

let's just open the sack first and see what's actually in it it might not even be worth the trouble

aye

tHiS pLaNt

okay it's worth it

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I came faraway, so faraway

I came faraway, so faraway

with the breeze from the trees

down a country lane

Through the rain

night and day till we meet again

I will always be on the road

I see the light and now sky's so bright

It's time for a brand new day

Cause I'm not alone,

I can keep going on

I came faraway, so faraway

with the breeze from the trees

down a country lane

Through the rain

night and day till we meet again

I will always be on the road

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Alan Walker - Faded piano - Duration: 3:12.

You were the shadow to my light

Did you feel us?

Another start, you fade away

Afraid our aim is out of sight, wanna see us

Alight

Where are you now?

Was it all in my fantasy?

Where are you now?

Were you only imaginary?

Where are you now?

Atlantis

Under the sea

Under the sea

Where are you now?

Another dream

The monster's running wild inside of me

I'm faded

I'm faded

I'm faded

I'm faded

I'm faded

These shallow waters, never met

What I needed

I'm letting go - a deeper dive

Eternal silence of the sea - I'm breathing

Alive

Where are you now?

Where are you now?

Under the bright but faded lights

You set my heart on fire

Where are you now?

Where are you now?

Where are you now?

Atlantis

Under the sea

Under the sea

Where are you now?

Another dream

The monster's running wild inside of me

I'm faded

I'm faded

I'm faded

I'm faded

I'm faded

Titulky by MrPyroCZ

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welcome to micro tech today I will show you how to download videos from YouTube

so let's get started at first go to youtube.com

and then open the video you want to download

after that click to the address bar and copy the link

and now open a new tab and go to en.savefrom.net

after it loads successfully paste the link in the blank box

and now select the video quality and press download, you can download mp3 also

our video is now downloaded, let's play the video

if you liked the video please do subscribe to our channel and don't

forget to share the video with others thank you

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Kotion Each (Cosmic Byte) GS420 | Unboxing + Review | Budget Gaming Headset? - Duration: 8:06.

How's it going guys!

Informal Techy here, up with some unboxing!

So today we're going to be unboxing and reviewing the Kotion Each GS420 Headset.

So now we have with us the Kotion Each Pro Gaming Headset GS420.

So it has colourful backlighting.

That means it has LED's.And here it's written "3.5mm Adapter Included For Mobiles, Tablets".So

without any problem you can use it with your Mobile or Tablet or some laptops which have

only one port for the headset.

Coming to the left side we see what are all on the cable: Volume Control and Mic Control,

USB for Switching on the LED's

The Headphone Jack and the Microphone Jack.Coming to the back we have some specifications.

At the bottom we have the website of Kotion: www.kotion.cc

So that's pretty much it on the box.

Now, moving on starting the unboxing.

So now let's take it out.

Here we have some bubble wrapping to protect the headset.

We have the headset itself and the cable.

It's pretty nice.

And here's the adapter for connecting to our mobiles or tablets.

Then we have the manual.

Coming to the headset.

So here's where the LED's come, even this side.Then this is the foldable mic.

It is pretty strong.You can extend this It makes a nice sound That's basically what's

in the box. So you get the headphones wrapped in bubble wrapper.

You get the adapter to connectyour mobile / tablet.

And at last we have the manual (Chinese/English Manual).

Coming to the Design of the GS420, it has padding for the ears as well as the head,

So that you don't feel any pressure being applied It feels pretty much all sizes so

that anyone can wear it. It's study and flexible.

But the only disadvantage It can be a bit difficult for portability.

But in this price range it is acceptable.

So on the cable you get a volume control And the switch for the mic.

Now it's in the on position.

Swipe it here:OFF, (reverse) ON.

Here's the volume controller, it's a rollable one.

There are three things at the end of the cable:

USB port for the LED's, the headphone jack and the microphone jack.

You can use the adapter given inside the box to connect the headset with your mobile or Tablet.

It converts into a single 3.5mm Jack.

Let's come to the mic test. Now whatever you are giving is being recorded through the mic of the GS 420 headset

The audio quality being recorded is pretty decent. It's the best in this price range.

Let's come to the LED Test.

Let me just connect the USB to the USB port of my laptop.

Wow, those are pretty nice.

Now this comes with 7 main colours. You cannot set the colours (That's a Demerit) but at this price range, it's okay.

The colours change pretty well but what I noticed is after sometime

like 5 minutes or so they go out of Sync.

That's one of the problems that I noticed.

Let's move on to the final verdict.

The price of this gaming headset is 1000 INR, which roughly translates into about US $30.

At this price range you are getting a Decent Microphone, Sturdy Headset and even LED's.

So I definitely recommend a Gamer with low budget, or anyone who wants a Decent Headset to definitely try this out.

That's my opinion Guys!

This is the end of the video, So as always, Smash That Like Button, Hit That Subscribe

Button, This Is Informal Techy, Signing Out!

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Practical Tips to Stop Kids from Lying | Parenting A to Z - Duration: 10:42.

Hey hey, my friend! Welcome back! This is Parenting A to Z, I'm Kelly Bourne, and

this week we're diving right into lying. Why our kids lie -- we're gonna take a look

at why they lie in the first place, how to deal in the moment, and then some really

proactive steps we can take moving forward to help send our kids up

for success.

So first off the top, I just want to take a bit of a perspective check. A

bit of a reality check. Because isn't it funny how we get

so upset at our kids and so down on our kids for not mastering something that we

ourselves have maybe not yet mastered?! Because we all lie, right?! We all tell

little fibs every now and again -- heck sometimes we tell big lies, don't we! So I

think it's just important to realize that we all do this. Kind of

normalizing it as something that everyone's working on. And also realizing,

like nine times out of ten, your kids aren't headed for the big house,

right?! They're not headed for the big house. They just need some skills

and some options for when the going gets tough. So

they know they don't have to try and sweep their misdeeds under the rug. That

they can face them and that things will be okay. And the other thing -- we need

to understand *why* they lie before we can do anything about it. Before I can

offer any tips or tools we need to understand why they're even doing it in

the first place. And a lot of times, it's no different than the reasons that

we lie. We're afraid of getting punished. We're afraid of being embarrassed. We're

afraid of being found out. It's really fear-based. We're worried about

what will happen if they find out. What will happen if they know... The other thing

to keep in mind, is that sometimes it's not fear-based at all. For little

kids especially -- our little little kids. Sometimes lying is just part of fantasy.

It's part of make-believe. One of our little guys is in this huge fantasy

phase right now where you never know what is gonna come out of his mouth.

He's not being malicious, he's not trying to cover anything up, he's just telling

stories. He's just being a storyteller. And I think that's where lying can get a

little bit tricky, is walking that line of when it's okay to be making up tales

and when it's not. And then as far as how to deal, one of the the biggest things

and the best and most effective ways you can squash lying before it even starts

it's trying to avoid those "gotcha" moments. And this is one of those things

that I think we're all guilty of doing from time to time. I know I still do it!

I teach this, I preach this, and practicing it can be so so so hard in

the moment. When we notice the lamp is broken, and we notice the toilet hasn't

been flushed for the 50,000th time. What can we do? "What happened to the lamp?!"

"How come the toilet's not flushed?", "What's going on here?!", "Where's this

missing book?!", "Where's my earring?!", "How come the toilet..." "Why is everything

clogged?!" We can go into this, like, trying to "catch" them and it kind of it

can turn into a bit of an interrogation, can't it? With us asking questions and

trying to get them to confess. And what does that do for them? It just

puts them on the defensive, right?! It immediately puts them like -- "Oh my god!

I'm in trouble! What can I say to get out of this right now?" And one of

the easiest ways you can avoid that is if you notice there's been a mistake or

you noticed your kids have done something, if you notice they've broken

that mirror, it's instead of saying "Who broke the

mirror?" or "What happened?!" Is just saying "The mirror's broken."

"The toilet's clogged." "My earring's missing." Sticking to the facts of what's going on

and letting them know that you know your earring is missing, or the toilet is

clogged, or the mirror's broken. And then giving them a chance to say what

happened without already feeling like they're on the defensive. And then I'm

sure the next piece for a lot of you, is what if you say that you notice the lamp

is broken or the earring is missing and they're immediately lying

and you know they're lying. What do you do then? Be honest. Just be

honest about it. This is where I think a lot of our knee-jerk

reaction is to punish and come down on them even harder but if you are open and

honest and say, "You know what? That just doesn't sound like the truth. It

doesn't sound like the truth -- is there something that's not making you feel

safe enough with me to tell you the truth? Is there something that you're

worried about that you can't tell me the truth?" It breaks down that wall and it

breaks down that barrier, opening that little crack of light for them to then

fess up. For them to then say, "Yes, this happened..." or whatever

the truth may be. So whenever we can just kind of bring it down and open that door

and allow them to tell us, feeling like they're safe and not feeling like we're

gonna like -- not like for real that -- but come down on them. (coughing) Excuse me, sorry

guys -- the better. And I know that's hard and I'm not sitting here pretending that

that's how it goes down in our family all the time, because it definitely isn't.

I can definitely let those knee-jerk reactions get the best of me.

But I find when I can keep the door open, when I can keep my cool, that's when I'm

more likely to get that truthful response from my kids -- when they feel

safe to tell me the truth and know that I'm not gonna have a hairy fit over it.

And then moving on from there, when you've had that conversation and

they fessed up or they've told the truth -- or maybe you're still working through

that phase -- is to focus on solutions. What can we do moving forward to make it

so that the earrings don't go missing and the toilet's not clogged and the lamp

isn't broken? The same goes too for the truth-telling piece. If it was hard for

your kids to fess up, if it was hard for them to tell the truth, sitting down and

talking about what would make that easier next time? What would make you

feel more comfortable coming to me and telling me when these things are

happening? Of course this is gonna be very age dependent -- you're not gonna

be able to do this with your two two-year-olds, but

for your older kids who are more into the lying phase, absolutely you will be

able to have those conversations. And then the last thing I want to touch on

too, just for anyone who's still really struggling with this or their kids are

struggling with this and telling the truth and you've tried other angles, is

just to get curious in the moment. And again, I know it's so hard, it's so

hard -- I know, I'm closing, I feel you guys. I know how hard it can be to maintain a

sense of calm when you're really upset and you feel like your kids are lying or

manipulating you. But getting curious with them and just

asking questions and sticking to "what"

questions is a really big tool. Because as

soon as we start getting into "why" -- "Why did you do this?!" and "Why were you there?!"

"Why weren't you doing what I told you to do?!" It can bring up the defenses. But if you

can really sit back, put on your curiosity hat, and try to look

at it as more of a conversation than an interrogation, that's another way

to kind of open that door even just a crack so your kids can see that you're

on the same team and have them feel safe in in coming to you and sharing when

maybe they they were out of line or they had a little misstep. So that they know

that you're on the same team. Because if we come in guns a-blazing firing the

punishments they are probably not gonna feel so safe coming to us in the future

when they really need help. So that's just something else to keep in mind. And

then really quickly, just a few "big picture" items to always kind of have in

your back pocket, just in your day-to-day life with your kids, for encouraging a

sense of truthfulness, is embracing mistakes as opportunities to learn. And I

know I say it over and over and over again, but this is so so important. I

can't say enough how important this is for our kids to know that they

can fall on their face, that they can make mistakes, that they can have the

biggest screw-ups of screw-ups, and come to us and we'll be there for them. Not to

sweep it under the rug or take care of it for them, but to help them work

through it themselves so they know that they can face the big things with us.

That they're not alone. That they can always come to come

to us. And the way to do that is for them to know that mistakes are okay. And the

other piece with that too, is that if they know that mistakes are okay, they're

gonna be less likely to try and cover them up with lies. Not only are

they going to be more willing to come to us with the truth, they're gonna be less

likely to try and sweep them under the rug. Another really really big one is

acknowledging their courage when they do come forward with the truth. This is huge.

Saying, "Wow! Thanks bud, that took a lot of courage for you to tell the truth." or

"That was really brave of you to come and tell me when I'm sure you were probably

a little bit nervous or a little bit afraid." Thanking them and acknowledging

their courage and coming forward will be one of

the best ways to encourage them to do it again next time. Because they feel

safe. And that doesn't mean that they won't

have to deal with the consequences, but they will feel safe and coming and

facing it with you rather than having you coming down on them. And then the

last thing too, is maybe again depending on the situation and the age of your

kids, is backing off a little bit. Allowing for a little bit more privacy.

Because if you are constantly up in your kid's grill, all up in their business and you

want to know everything they're doing, they'll probably lie just because they

want you off of their back. So again, this won't apply in every situation, but if

you feel like you maybe have been a little bit, I don't even want to say it

but like "helicopter-y" or in your kid's business, just notice.

Because they may be lying just to have some privacy and to have something that

is theirs that they don't have to feel like they have to share with the entire

family. So the bottom line, I guess guys, is that if we want our kids to come to

us, to be truthful with us, to be honest with us, even in the trickiest of

situations, they need to feel safe. So just try your best to be

really really honest with your feelings, be really honest with the facts, avoiding

those those "gotcha" moments, and just and come in peace. And really try to

come in peace. Allow your kids time to explain, acknowledge their courage in

coming forward, and then work together on solutions moving forward so

situations like that are less likely to happen in the future. So I know it's a

big topic, it's a tricky topic, but I hope that helps. Of course if you're

looking for any more in-depth parenting resources or support join us over in the

Parent 'Hood, we'd be so happy to have ya! But yeah, take care guys. I hope

that helps. And I'll see ya in the next vid!

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