12 Ways People with High Emotional Intelligence Deal with Toxic People
There are so many types of intelligence that people have.
However, people are not aware that they own certain type of intelligence until other people
point that one out.
One of the intelligence that people can have is emotional intelligence.
This type of intelligence allows people to understand their surroundings, and it keeps
themselves from toxic relationship and toxic people.
They really have a good defense mechanism, and it is a must-have ability for highly emotional
people.
The reason is because they frequently attract toxic people by nature.
Here is how people with highly emotional intelligent deal with toxic people.
#1 - Avoiding toxic topics
People with high emotional intelligence know where the conversation going.
They also know the effect of every words expressed in a conversation.
Thus, it allows them to avoid toxic topics such as gossip, hate speech, and rumors.
#2 - Energy-saving mode
When someone established a relationship with other, they trade energies.
However, having a relationship with toxic people suck positive energy instead of trading
it equally.
In this case, people with high emotional intelligence keeps themselves emotionally detached in order
to keep themselves from depleting their energy.
#3 - Being kind and compassionate
It is dangerous act for people with high emotional intelligence.
The reason is simply because they can fall into the trap of toxic people.
However, they cannot help it.
They want all people to be happy, including the toxic people.
They show and give kindness without expecting anything in return.
#4 - Having firm boundary
It is worth noting that highly emotional intelligent people are capable in setting firm boundary
to prevent toxic people and toxic ideas coming into their head.
These people are trained to choose those who can step into their boundaries.
#5 - Trusting their intuition
Intuition plays important role for keeping highly emotional intelligent people from toxic
people because they can feel and detect bad things from that kind of people.
#6 - Self-aware
It is important to see the difference between the feeling from yourself and the feeling
produced by your empathy alone.
This allows you to determine which one that you should trust and follow.
#7 - Not being reactive
You are basically emotionally stable.
This keeps you from being attracted or driven by toxic ideas.
Toxic people cannot rock you around because you are not only setting clear and strong
boundary.
However, you are not attracted by toxic discussion.
#8 - They can see drama
Toxic people are full of drama.
Their life is basically not real, but not all people can see it through.
People with high emotional intelligence fortunately can see it easily.
They can recognize and rise up from drama set up by toxic people.
#9 - Forgiving without forgetting
Releasing toxin from yourself can be done through various channels including forgiving
other people.
However, people with high emotional intelligence will not merely forgive.
They will not forget.
#10 - Withdrawing easily
Escaping from emotional trap can be challenging for most people.
However, people with high emotional intelligence can do that easily.
They have full control over their emotion, and it keeps them from destructive relationship.
#11 - Being aware of their emotion
It is another important aspect that should be considered.
This keeps toxic people and toxic topic away because they can drive them into something
far.
#12 - Finding self-truth
Many people are struggling from finding the truth even that comes from themselves.
However, people with high EQ can do that easily by finding the source of confidence and developing
it.
Well, that's how people with high emotional intelligence deal with toxic people effectively.
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