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People do greetings in America, Germany and Japan as well
All of you live in Japan and would you greet people?
Greetings are something like a job to me...
Oh, what do you mean?
Well... it's hard to explain
Come on! Let's try! You think you can do it?
How about you?
I do greetings to my professors in my school
Like, "Ohayougozaimasu" (Good morning)
Right, right. How about you in your office? Do you feel pressured to greet them?
There isn't a pressure
The best way is to greet people first
You go first yourself
For example, we are in an office. I'm a senior and you are a junior and we see each other in the office
Following a Japanese theory, a junior should greet a senior first. That's a basic rule in our culture
These days, some people don't really care. But some still do
And the people who do care will think; "Why don't you greet me? You're a junior."
I think you can also go first. From a senior to a junior
Ohayo! (Good morning) but there is some pride involved; a senior doesn't want to go first
In my case, I also had some similar experiences in an office
In that environment, people always coming and going
Normally, a new employee should greet first like; "Hi! Nice to meet you!"
That was what I expected but there came nothing. The new employ skipped it.
I was like; "What? Seriously? You don't greet us?"
But I didn't tell him that he should do it! Hmmm, more like, I couldn't say it... "Why didn't you say it?"
If it becomes a normal in that environment, after a month, I probably wouldn't talk to that person. No interest, you know?
That's because you chose to skip to greet me. I wouldn't think I would want to get to know you. That could be happen
Especially elders tend to care about something like that
So if you were in an office, you shouldn't get too close to them too quickly
For example in this class, if I was a new employee
I'd go with; "I'm Okada nice to meet you"
I'd keep continuing for a week and then one of you would start to greet me back
And from there, we would start to have a conversation one by one
It takes a month to slowly getting to know my seniors. That's what I recommend
There are people I don't greet in my office. Because even if I greet them, that person wouldn't say anything back
After a while, I decided to stop doing it to that person anymore. But that's okay, that's fine
But sometimes you have to be careful if there is a person who gets upset without greetings
"Why don't you greet me? Who do you think you are?" Seriously though, this is happening in an office!
"Why don't you greet me?" That person is angry
That person thinks a junior must greet a senior first all the time
What do you think?
I'd greet that person formally at first and then after while, i'd start getting them more friendly
My work place doesn't have many workers so greeting them in a friendly way is okay
I see. What do you think?
Can I ask a question?
Sure!
Almost no one greets me in my office. You think there is no chance of becoming friends with them?
Easy answer. That's because you don't greet them
Do you? Do you greet them FIRST?
That sounds like you don't, am I right?
Yeah, I don't...
That's why
For example, there is a guy
His name is A
A is in an office and he thinks; "Why would no one greet me?"
He works with 20 other employees, but they don't say hi to him… Others are greeting each other
A didn't know the reason
He works his part properly
The problem is, A didn't say any greetings to the others first
What if A greets B "Ohayo!"
These processes are very important! You shouldn't skip them or you'll fail!
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