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13 Ways Narcissists Try to Manipulate and Control You: Be Extremely Careful of No. 4

Narcissists are all around you � they work at your office, attend the same parent-teacher

interviews and are even members of your family.

Their presence in your life, however, is not the problem, their skill in manipulating others,

including yourself, for their own benefit is.

It is necessary to learn how to recognize their tricks.

Toxic people will often act �normal� for periods of time, forming relationships and

friendships, their true nature going unnoticed.

Once these relationships have been formed, narcissists will often use a variety of tactics

to manipulate and control the people in their lives.

They refuse to take responsibility for their actions or to acknowledge that they may aver

be wrong, instead using diversion tactics to victimize others.

Learn to recognize these tricks, so that you can distance yourself from the toxic people

in your life.

Shaming

A narcissist will try to manipulate you by belittling you and making you feel less valuable,

especially in front of other people.

They may do so by shaming your appearance, social class or lack of education.

Their goal is to leave you feeling ashamed, which will in turn make them feel better about

themselves, feeding into their shallow ego.

There is power in believing in yourself, and they need to stop you from feeling that power.

Gaslighting

Regardless of what accusation you may have against them, a narcissist will always have

proof, even if it they have to fabricate it, that you are wrong.

They will make you question your own sanity by instantly offering their proof, and then

assert that it never happened.

If they can convince you that what you believe your have seen is not true, then they obviously

could not have been wrong in that moment.

�Joking� Maliciously

In order to get away with putting you down, a narcissist may attempt to do so in the form

of a �joke�.

Taking this approach will allow them to claim you simply have no sense of humor if you react

negatively, suggesting you should learn to better appreciate the joke.

Don�t allow them to convince you that you are wrong for standing up for what you believe

in.

If you try to laugh it off, and play into their joke charade, you are only going to

open yourself up to more of these �jokes� in the long run.

Name Calling

When a narcissist is running out of tactics to spin a situation to show they are correct,

this will anger them.

They will then resort to name calling, in an attempt to degrade you.

They know that they cannot change your belief about the topic you are currently disagreeing

on, so instead they will criticize and ridicule you directly so that you are left feeling

incapacitated to defend yourself.

Nonsensical Conversations

Narcissists need to ensure that they are always right, and if they aren�t they will resort

to whatever means they feel are required to make it appear as though they are.

If you find that you are in a conversation that became so turned around that you no longer

even remember what you were fighting about, stop and take a step back.

Rather than accept that their attitude towards to conversation may be what requires work,

they are steering the conversation enough to avoid admitting the error of their ways.

Playing Victim

A favorite phrase of many narcissists is �I can�t win with you.� This ensures that

regardless of whether they are right or wrong, they are the victim in any situation.

They are looking to put you into a position in which you feel you need to console them

or help them to justify their inflated ego.

Don�t fall into this trap and back down or they will always get their way.

Claiming to Always Be Nice

For the most part, those who are genuinely nice people will not fell the need to shout

it out to the world, they will allow their actions to speak for themselves.

They will attempt to hide their character flaws by bragging about how compassionate,

sympathetic and well meaning they are.

Controlling

A narcissist will go out of their way to control your life.

If you live together, for example, they may try to keep you inside your home as much as

possible, away from the influence of other people.

This will leave you dependent on them for all your needs.

If you are financially independent, they will also take control of your finances to ensure

that you do not have the means to leave them, and instead require them to support you.

Twisting Your Point

While your point may have been simple, and clear, a narcissist will put their own spin

on it, accusing your of having said or meant things simply because they believe they know

what you are trying to say.

They do, however, know all, right?

By the end of a conversation they may have turned it all around so much, even you are

starting to question if you are that bad of a person for thinking that underlying reason

which they accuse you of actually meaning.

Inappropriate Behavior

Those who have been found to be narcissistic are often found to behave in ways that others

feel are questionable or inappropriate.

They are more likely to engage in ways that are seen as vulgar, or resort to obscene language

in public.

They will embarrass you, leaving your apologizing for their actions.

Projection

If ever you accuse a narcissist of having done something that you do not agree with,

you will find that they are going to project their errors onto you to ensure that you are

the one who is �wrong�.

This technique will in turn take the attention off their errors, ensuring they can maintain

their flawless image.

For example, if they are a cheater they will accuse you of cheating instead.

Devaluing You to Others

If a narcissist is unable to make you feel badly about yourself, you can bet that they

are going to instead bring you down in their conversations with others.

They may accuse you of actions which reflect negatively on your character, even if they

didn�t happen.

For example, they may accuse you of having cheated on your ex-partner to others regardless

of whether you had previously cheated or not.

Manufacturing Faults

If a narcissist needs you to question yourself in order to move their own agenda, they may

spin all of the things you are good at, your strengths, into faults.

This will ensure that you can�t possibly be better than them.

If you have positive feelings in regards to an achievement in your past, they will manipulate

your memories to spin them into a negative.

Their goal is to leave you feeling frustrated and out of control of your emotions.

This tactic is not going to happen over night, but rather over an extended period of time.

Generalizations

Narcissists are selfish, and their only interests are those subjects that relate directly to

them.

For this reason, if you are speaking they are not listening to what you have to say.

This is until a topic arises that either is about them, or creates enough drama to put

the attention on them due to their need to argue.

At this point, their lack of attention has left them with no details from your previous

conversation.

Instead of admitting they weren�t listening, they will speak in large generalizations,

such as using the excuse that �you are always unhappy�.

Playing with Your Feelings

Early on in your relationship a narcissist will take the time to know and understand

your insecurities.

They are not doing this so that they can support you, but rather so that they can use them

against you during an argument if they feel they need to in order to come out on top.

For example, if you make a simple accusation against them that they can�t directly refute,

the conversation may turn ito a full blown session to expose

all

your insecurities and faults.

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Clever Uses for Coffee Filters - The Work Around - HGTV - Duration: 1:00.

-You've got some

around because you upgraded to an espresso machine.

But don't worry.

I have uses for coffee filters that are going to solve

a latte of your problems.

So you cleaned this window with a paper towel

and now, you've got all this lint left behind.

If you'd used a coffee filter, it wouldn't have happened.

When you use a coffee filter, it's not going to leave any

of that lint residue behind.

And it's great for cleaning electronic screens

and also polishing mirrors.

You can also use a coffee filter to put

in the bottom of a planter.

That way, when you fill it full of dirt and add water,

all of your dirt won't come out through the bottom.

So if these hacks aren't for you,

I guess you could use coffee filters for making coffee.

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5 Non Spiritual Activities That Promote Spiritual Growth - Duration: 5:48.

5 (Non-Spiritual) Activities That Promote Spiritual Growth

BY GOSTICA

People often compare spirituality and religion as if they are the same thing, but this is

very misguided.

A person does not have to say their prayers, attend sacred services or devote any special

specific time or money to anyone in order to be spiritually connected or active.

Similarly, a person who regularly follows rigid religious practices isn�t necessarily

particularly spiritually connected themselves.

Good spiritual health can manifest in a couple of different ways.

First, there is the collective or cultural spiritual health; This is something you see

in a society, for example, the way they treat the elderly or the attitude toward impoverished

members of that society.

The ability to accept those who are different from them is also a big indicator.

The second way this manifests is in an individual manner.

This is how well you truly know yourself or your own soul.

How connected you are to your own inner space, or your base instincts and inclinations is

a pretty clear indicator of spiritual health.

A healthy spiritual connection within yourself can be cultivated by raising your personal

consciousness and being as present in the moment as possible.

Many people achieve this through traditional practices like meditation or yoga, but it

can also be achieved by getting in touch with the things you have passion and love for.

Here are 5 non-traditional ways to promote your spiritual health and well being.

Tactile arts and crafts

This includes anything from cross-stitching to oil painting to Origami.

Working with your own hands to make something original or beautiful is always a great way

to express yourself with authenticity.

We rely on very subtle inner cues to inspire us creatively, and this can be an incredibly

informative process to go through while also being downright fun.

Taking part in music

Whether you are just listening and experiencing it or playing it yourself, music is a wonderful

tool for self expression and exploration.

Something about music can move us in psychological and emotional ways like nothing else can.

Clear vibratory tones have even been used as part of traditional medicinal practices

since ancient times.

Music truly connects the body and mind to the soul.

Do some writing

Writing is a unique form of expression in the sense that you can use it as an outlet

for extremely intimate and private thoughts in the first person, or you can use it as

an extension of yourself, expressing things through metaphor or symbol in a different

narrative.

Either way, it is thoroughly cathartic and useful for documenting and being able to see

the progress you�ve made over time.

Exercise and movement

All human beings need movement in order to thrive.

Even if you are injured or out of shape, some form of (appropriately safe) exercise is nearly

always recommended by medical and spiritual healers.

Movement and physical activity not only promote a healthy body and efficient function of joints

and muscles, but it also encourages your brain to release more of the chemicals that make

us alert and keep us content.

Getting out and exercising doesn�t necessarily have to mean going to the gym or doing push

ups or running a mile, it can be low impact and soothing, swimming in a cool pool or hiking

a beautiful mountain trail.

This promotes a full activation and connection between mind, body, and spirit.

It also gives us time to reflect.

Do nothing at all

In these modern times of technology and media, many of us are left with almost no time in

the day during which we have no external stimuli engaging our senses.

This might be fine for the most part, but truthfully one of the best things you can

do to enhance spiritual growth is to spend some time totally alone with just yourself

and your thoughts.

Simple introspection without any distractions will do wonders for a person�s relationship

to their spirituality.

Some do this through a meditative practice, but it can also be done just by withdrawing

into a quiet place where you�re comfortable and safe to question and work on yourself

without fear of judgment or disturbance.

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Reaction starts at 0:25!

IT'S STARTING TO TRIGGER SOON!

HALFWAY TRIGGERED!

ALMOST PREPARING TO TRIGGERED!

ITS GOING TO TRIGGER! GET READY FOR TRIGGERED!

TRIGGERED!!!!! ( I GOT TRIGGERED! )

AH!!!! AH!!! ( TRIGGERED ) *hits his table*

OH MY GOD!!!!

OH MY GOD!!!! x2

NO WAY!!!!!

OH MY GOD!! NO WAY!!!

*hits his table* ( my sister and my brother comes )

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9 HACKS TO BOOST YOUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL IN 2017 | 4K - Duration: 3:45.

Hi!!

if you're new to this channel

you can find vlogs, tutorials,

there's also a web serie "Behind The Vlog"

if you're vlogger you could be interested!

a web serie "Expat Life"

so if you're an expat or if you're going to become an expat

you could also be interested

you can also find challenges

and a lot of other videos!

I let you take a look

if you clicked on this video, it's probably

because you have a YouTube Channel

and you want to get a lot of

subscribers, to grow a lot

to get millions of views

to become a millionaire etc

if this is your real goal

I can't help you sorry

aha

because as you can see

I don't have 50 000 000 subscribers!

on the other side, if you want to boost

your YouTube Channel

there are some tips I can give you

and I think they work very well

in 2017

some things I've been doing for a few months now

and I went from

a few subscribers (10/20)

to more than 500

for me it's still a small step

try to upload regularly

daily is probably the best if you can

at the same time everyday!

answer the comments in all your videos

after all, if you share it to the world by making public videos

keep this sharing thing in the comment section !

of YouTube

encourage your audience

to subscribe

to watch more of your videos

(example) - if you're starting a vlogging channel, check this web serie

behind the vlog

it's very useful

you can learn how to start your vlog

how to prepare your videos

and a lot more !

if you like travelling, I advise you to check this playlist

it's in the description below

you can find vlogs I made during my trips

in malaysia

singapore, hong kong, thailand,

vietnam, new zealand, in France

and of course in Taiwan

since I leave here in Taiwan !

trust me you'll like them!

don't forget to be energetic

in your videos

otherwise your viewers will probably fall asleep

or choose another video

be careful to the music!

that can help a lot to keep your viewers awake

but above all, that can

encourage them to keep watching your content, your channel etc

try to get the best audio possible

you can be amazingly beautiful, have a 50 000$ camera

be in the most insane place in the world,

if your audio sucks

nobody will keep watching your video

more that 10 or 15 seconds

simply because it's so annoying to watch a video

with a really bad audio

so buy an external microphone

try to avoid windy and crowded places

and no excuses!

it's so cheap now to buy a microphone

you don't need a 500$ microphone

a 50$ one, your audio will be perfect!

let's talk clickbait!!!!

it kind of works!

you'll get a lot of views

but since YouTube prefers watch time rather than views

the people that came to see your clickbait video

if they don't find the content they clicked on your video for

they won't come back to your channel / other content

without forgetting that your watch time now sucks

so your content is unlikely to be recommended to viewers!

so if you're using clickbait

try to work on the title

but don't forget to put the content in the video!!!

otherwise, bad idea

try to diversify your content

you'll reach more people

your audience will become bigger

and maybe the people that came for your laundry tutorial

will keep watching your content, like your vlogs etc

so diversify your content

= bigger audience = chance to get more views and subscribers

obviously, the most important thing

but if you have a YouTube Channel, you probably know that already

keep providing content that you like

don't do a video about fidget spinners

if you hate it!

so find a subject that you like

so we can feel that you're passionate about it

because otherwise, nobody will want to watch your video

and then it's useless

now tell me what you think about this video

in the comments below

you can also give me a like

and subscribe to watch more videos like this one!

btw, don't forget to watch the vlogs!

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BEST COLORFUL '' NAIL ART DESIGN '' FOR BEGINNERS - Duration: 3:17.

hello all.. today we will be creating this

colorful nail art design

we will do that in two ways

for this nail art design

we would need a base coat

I am making the colors lighter but you can use the darker

colors also

add some more lines

and you are ready with your nail art design

now we will make the second nail art design

now you are ready with your nail art designs

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Ahri's Ears - crafting fox ears [Eng subtitles] - Duration: 7:11.

I continue with Ahri's ears

First, I'll show you some examples

This is the original picture of Ahri

the same that you can see in League

her ears are completely black here

And I also think that this picture was very nice

I could imagine crafting my ears like that

we need

a heat gun

for heating up the Worbla

some Worbla

white felt

black plush fabric

I'll write more detailed information in the video description

and we also need an air brush

which I will use to paint the felt pink

I don't own an air brush, so I will use the one that belongs to my mother.

I made some templates for the ears

Here I have a board that I found in the garden

Now I take my Worbla

and draw the form of the templates on it two times.

Next, we need the heat gun, which is why I have this board here.

Now the ears look like that.

Now I take the white felt and cut out two small pieces.

Then I will glue those pieces on the ears with glue.

I've glued the felt in the ears.

I used this extra strong glue

that I also used for crafting my battle axe.

I use this glue for most of my crafts

because it is a lot stronger than regular glue.

Next, we put the plush fabric on the ears.

Therefore, you have to watch out for the direction of the fur.

The fur always "grows" into one direction

This one grows upwards, so I place the template like that.

This would be the direction that the fur on a ear would naturally grow to.

I'm not sure if you understand what I'm saying...

I just had an idea.

By the way, you have to cut out the plush bigger than the template

because you need to fold the edges in later.

Fold it in just a little bit, so it looks more natural.

But before I glue the plush on

I'm going to paint the felt with the air brush.

BUT

I will see my mother next week, not earlier.

So... we'll meet again in a week.

Welcome back!

Time passed by and my mother painted the ears for me today.

You just saw that in the video.

And now I'll glue the plush on.

This is really simple.

I just take my glue again

and put some on the back of the ears.

Now I need some hot glue.

With the hot glue, I'll glue the edges in.

I forgot something...

Now I have to loose a part of the plush from the Worbla again

because I forgot to put the wire in.

Here I have some wire from the DIY market.

We need a bent piece of wire.

Now I glue this piece in the ear.

Normally, you do this at the beginning.

And that's what it looks like :)

For more infomation >> Ahri's Ears - crafting fox ears [Eng subtitles] - Duration: 7:11.

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