Do you wish to move out and be on your own?
I moved out for about 6 months
when I was 20 years old.
But it was too tough by myself
and cost a lot of money to be on my own.
But once I earn enough money, I will move out.
How did you feel when your brother moved out?
I thought he was in the army then.
The army?
I thought he went to the army.
But he came back home after 6 months.
What did you think then?
I just wondered, "Why is he back so soon?"
Unbelievable. He never asked what happened.
(What is wrong with them?)
Let's find out why this happened.
Do you think it's more your fault that things have
gotten so bad with your brother? Or more his fault?
Both of us.
I was waiting for him to speak to me first.
It just happened.
But you could've spoken to him first.
I thought our relationship would get worse if I did.
I thought it'd be more awkward if he rejected me.
Whose fault do you think it is?
I don't know why we've ended up this way.
You don't know?
I have a brother who is 4 years older than I am.
We didn't get along too well.
And we stopped communicating as he went abroad.
I talked to him after he came back from the army.
What angered me is that he didn't remember it.
He didn't remember harassing me at all.
So I wanted to end my ties with him.
Then we briefly lived together.
That's when we became closer.
I don't know how you don't talk to each other.
Yongju! Was there an incident that started this?
It was when my brother was in middle school.
I bought some jellies to take to school.
(Jellies?)
You bought some jellies?
He took them without asking for my permission.
He took them without asking for your permission.
I was going through puberty. I got so angry that
I cursed at him through a text message.
You cursed at him?
But instead of talking to me about it,
he told mom on me.
Mom yelled at me and beat me for that.
He's upset about that.
Do you remember him cursing at you?
Yes, he sent me a text message full of swearing.
I was going to beat him up when I got home.
But then I thought mom would scold me so
I just showed her the text message.
Did you know why he sent you that message?
No. I just read that he sent me swear words
and I just put away my phone.
Did you ever read that message again afterwards?
No, I didn't.
Weren't you curious why he sent you that message?
He was going through puberty then.
What? The reason why he cursed you...
(That's wrong)
(Absurd)
What did he write?
You...
(Curse words that crossed the line)
You bas...
Animal swear words.
How would you have felt if he cursed back at you
and punched you?
If we had fought, I would've realized
that I was wrong and apologized to him.
But he just went straight to mom.
He said mom yelled at him for it.
Ma'am.
Did you know that this all started because of jellies?
- It has finally been revealed. / - You didn't know?
He didn't explain the situation.
He just told me that Yongju cursed at him
so I scolded Yongju for doing so.
- You shouldn't do that... / - To your brother.
I went through the same thing.
I paid money to borrow some comic books.
So it's natural for me to return them when I'm done.
But my brother hit me for returning the books.
Because he hadn't read them yet.
But you borrowed the books.
I got so mad.
So I cursed at him, too.
My brother also told my parents on me.
It was very hurtful.
You were mad because only you were scolded.
But what I think is that there must be
something else that started this. Am I right?
It wasn't just about the jellies.
I always thought my parents treated us differently.
- They favored him. / - Why did you think that?
For example, clothes.
He always got new clothes and I wore his old ones.
What? That's just natural.
Kids don't think that way anymore.
You two just keep blaming puberty. That's weird.
Stop acting like an old geezer!
(Good job, Dongyeob!)
(Eungsoo is sad...)
You normally eat good food before entering the army.
My brother ate meat before going off to the army.
But I just had a sandwich on the street.
- Everything has piled up. / - That must be upsetting.
What else? Tell us everything.
When we moved 3, 4 years ago,
I begged her to buy me a bed.
But she didn't.
Then I saw a bed in my brother's room.
While you slept on the floor?
Yes. So I was really hurt by that.
(Whisper)
What are you talking about?
He's really an old geezer.
- What did he say? / - I didn't hear it.
Yongju said he didn't get a bed. Eungsoo asked her,
"Did your younger son not get good grades?"
(Ha ha ha ha)
(Embarrassed)
That's wrong.
Sleeping on a bed and on the floor are quite different.
Yongju did ask me to buy him a bed,
but I just forgot about it.
When my older son asked me for one...
I don't know why, but I just bought it.
(Oh my)
This is even more upsetting.
It's because of their grades.
It's quite upsetting from Yongju's perspective.
Things like beds are very important.
One ate meat while the other ate a sandwich.
Were you busy at the time?
I think it's because whatever
my older son goes through, it's my first experience.
As a parent, I'm experiencing it for the first time.
But with the Yongju, I've already gone through it.
Yongju was joining the army for the first time.
He didn't join it twice.
You don't seem to realize that
you're discriminating the two.
Are your friends close with their brothers?
How do you feel when you see them?
It's amazing and envious that they get along so well.
I get quite jealous when
I see my friends getting along with their siblings
and have drinks with them.
Do you drink, Yongju?
- Yes, I do. / - What about you?
I don't.
(Oh...)
Why don't you drink? You can't?
I can't. My body can't take it.
I see.
Are you a good drinker?
Yes, I am.
So you've never been cursed at
by your younger brother since childhood?
My brother went around talking badly about me
to his friends.
Since then? What did he say?
Bad words.
That he's better than me.
I think the younger brother has a problem, too.
You have no respect for your brother.
But everything was oriented towards the older one.
After puberty and his body got bigger,
he'd feel like he can take his brother on.
I think that's why he treated his brother harshly.
I told my friends about what my brother said and
they took my side.
I talked to them about him because I was frustrated.
Why did that friend tell your brother what you said?
That's what I'm talking about.
Where did you hear that from?
I think from his friends.
Why did your friends tell your older brother?
(That's strange)
I don't know. I told so many friends at the time.
(It's a serious matter, but it's funny)
Their father is here as well. Hello.
That's their father?
How do you feel after listening to them?
At first, I didn't think much of it.
I thought they were just going through puberty.
I never imagined that they would have
this much of a grudge inside them.
I am quite surprised and perplexed right now.
Did you ever think to talk to two of them
and try to get them to make amends?
When they were young, they relied on each other,
cared for each other. We were really happy then.
I thought they would resolve this after puberty
so I was waiting for that day.
How were they when they were young?
They had so much to talk about.
They talked and laughed all night.
Whenever they went out and Yongju was struggling,
his brother always looked after him.
He did?
They held hands and ran around.
They never spent time apart.
You're talking about your sons, right?
They were so affectionate towards each other.
My younger son loves to hug and kiss.
Whenever he was around his brother,
he would hug and kiss his brother.
They were very close.
In order to see how close they were in the past,
we prepared some pictures from their childhood.
They must've looked so cute.
How cute.
(How cute)
They are really close together.
Yongju is busy looking at his brother.
In love with his brother.
(So cute)
- Look at them kissing. / - How cute.
(So affectionate)
- They were so close. / - They're always together.
You two were so close in the past.
How do you feel looking at these pictures?
- It's amazing. / - Sure.
How do you feel, Yongju?
You even kissed your older brother.
You two couldn't stay away from each other.
Back then I loved him so much that
I wanted to do everything that he did.
- He was the best? / - He was the best.
It's time to stop being bad sons.
It's foolish to think that reaching out first,
makes you a loser.
Why don't you call out to your younger brother first?
Like you used to as a child.
Come up on stage and do it.
That way you can get closer to each other.
Yes! That will make the two of you get closer.
Share that love you got from your mom.
(Will these brothers make amends after 8 years?)
The older one must go first.
Hold his hand.
Shake hands.
Hold his hand.
(Yongju feels awkward and refuses)
Make eye contact.
Look at each other.
(So awkward)
Look at each other.
You two are brothers. Look at each other.
Call out his name.
You know his name, right?
Maybe not his number, but his name, yes.
Exchange your numbers, too.
Yongju.
You're Yongju. That's a great name.
Answer him. Yes, bro?
Yes, bro?
That's good.
(Why was it so hard to call out his name?)
Why don't you say what's on your mind?
I'm sorry for acting so immature in the past.
Wow.
Now that we're older
let's stop breaking our parents' hearts.
Let's start being good sons to them.
He's so mature.
(His older brother sincerely speaks)
I never hated you.
I just felt awkward with you.
Let's have a meal together.
Give him a hug.
- How great is this? / - Wait a minute.
Put up that picture again.
(This picture?)
Pose just like the picture.
It's not hard to pose like that.
You have to go all the way when you can.
This moment will never come back.
Please dim the lights.
(Answer us)
This is it. Yes.
Do it.
(We should've stayed close)
Look at your brother.
(Quite similar)
Next picture please.
(Here's the real one)
Kiss on his cheek. On his cheek.
(They just spoke to each other for the first time...)
This is a masterpiece.
Give him a kiss.
1, 2, 3.
(Will he do it?)
(Stay close from now on)
Please come up to the stage, sir.
He's crying over there.
The entire family is in tears.
He's shedding tears.
You've been apart for no great reason.
What was so hard about that?
He's really crying.
(They've found happiness after 8 years)
(Touched)
(Please be happy from now on)
How do you feel?
I'm seeing something that I haven't seen for years.
I hope the two of them become close from now on.
I will do my best not to treat them differently
and listen to my younger son more.
Let's be happy and love each other more.
I love you.
- Eunwoo. / - Is it a concern or not?
I paid more attention than anyone else did.
My younger brother is studying abroad in China.
Do you miss him?
He came back today.
I couldn't go greet him at the airport.
He's getting emotional thinking about his brother.
This is brotherly affection.
Why? Did he forget how to speak Korean?
(He's strange)
I don't think she favors one son over the other.
She can't help but put the older one first at times.
Even if mom seems to favor the older brother,
if he takes care of his younger brother more,
I think they will become a harmonious family.
Please tell your brother that you love him.
- Where do I look? / - Whichever camera.
It doesn't matter. It won't be aired anyway.
Donghwi. I love you very much.
As an older brother, I think it's a concern.
I also think it's a concern, too.
You don't think it's a concern.
I was so scared of my older sister as a child.
But now that we're older,
no matter how many friends I have with me,
none of them
could replace my sister.
I don't think it's a concern.
If you understand her and think it's a concern,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
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(Announcing the result)
Did they get more than 100 votes?
(Surpassed 100 votes!)
They made amends in the end, but
it's still a concern from mom's perspective.
("Non-communicating brothers" 128 votes)
(They got 128 votes)
Love shot! Love shot!
(This is a video sent by their friends)
Love shot. Love shot. Say something first.
(They may still feel a bit awkward)
(But we hope they love each other from now on!)
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