breakups are hard and we've all been there.
You, me, Dupree.
Probably your dog.
the worst part about a breakup is
for some reason when you decide to finally
leave your house instead of eating ice cream
and watching Netflix for days on end.
you go to the mall and you start to see
people in relationships holding hands
kissing
just genuinely being happy with each other.
And you have to hold hands with yourself
To not go and rip them apart.
or go up to them and tell them
Love is not real
see I was in this position not too long ago
and I'm completely gotten over that breakup so
now I thought I would share my tips
for you so here's
how to get over a breakup in 4 simple steps
number one
block them.
You got to block them on all social media
so you don't spend your nights
shifting through your instagrams
Facebook's and your Twitter's
and seeing how they're living their life you need
them to just be wiped away completely from your mind
because if they end up posting pictures
with somebody else.
You're going to be a sad boy or girl
or whatever the other gender is in between
not only block them online block them in
real life so if they're like "hey let's still be friends"
you say "nah I'm chill"
you can't be friends because
it's not going to help your breakup process.
And you're so deep down in your heart gonna be like
" I love them still I just want to be with them"
and you don't want
you don't want that.
even better then that.
Just don't talk to them at all
not even friends just strangers
ghosts the hell out of them.
embody some Casper okay
block them in life.
and if you have any of their stuff left in your house.
Things that they brought over to your house
to kind of claim their territory
what I want you to do collect all their stuff together
put it in a box
get some gasoline
pour it all over it
get a match
light that match
drop the match into the box of their memories
and watch it burn.
that's what I like to call it a cleansing ritual.
Because you're just getting rid of any feelings
you may have had for that person while burning them.
if step number one doesn't help you
then you might want to move on to step number 2.
being sad
I'm a guy so you know I don't like to express
my emotions
what I do is I just shove them all the way down
and forget they exist
until they pop up randomly
and I have a mental breakdown and just
start crying for an hour *awkward laugh*
it's okay to be sad.
write your feelings out in a journal
kind of understand why you're feeling this way
what you miss about them
Pro tip: you can throw that writing into the
cleansing ritual boom
you can talk to your best friend
because they may be going through the same thing
or they have gone through the same thing
best friends are just there for you in general
just vent to your best friend
they might just nod
and not really listen to anything you say
but at least you're venting out whatever's
inside your head and getting it out into the earth
making you feel better
that's how therapy works!
it's okay to stay inside and be sad for a bit
just wallow your sadness eat some ice cream
watch some Netflix that's fine
if it's what you got to do what, its you got to do.
and that wraps up step number two
Number three
Distractions.
when sitting aside just gets a little bit too much for you
find some distractions.
go out and do new things
try some things you never
thought you could do before.
Go to a club hit on a stranger
go skydiving.
distract yourself from this feelings of sadness
find somebody else
but don't get into a relationship with that person
use it as the rebound kind of thing
do not get directly into relationship after
you've already been into relationship
it doesn't help you grow as a person =
and you won't really get over the person that
broke up with. That was number 3.
If those haven't made you feel better yet
here's number four
some extras which are some do's and don'ts
and just extra rules that didn't really apply
to the first three.
Don't hold grudges.
if they did something. Forget it.
Forgive, forget.
you know why
because it's healthy
If you hold a grudge that means you're going
to be constantly thinking about them
if you just forgive them you can forget em.
Don't seek revenge
don't go out of our way
to try and date like their bo-
their girlfriend or ex-boyfriend or best
or best friend, to get back at them.
Again it doesn't help you get over the person
you're trying to get over.
Now that is all the tips
Those are your 4 tips
Hope that was enough tips to leave you satisfied
at the end of the day just realize
it's going to take time for you to get over
that person and it's going to take time
for those feelings to fade
but if you follow these steps it's going to be a lot easier
the saying is time heals all wounds
even emotional wounds.
So take that into account
thank you for watching this video
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