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I had the really amazing opportunity to collaborate with some super super fun
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Influencers Evan Dodie and Elle and we decided to talk about anxiety in teens versus adults and just have a general
Conversation about it as well as like it personal advice and just like give her own thoughts and so on and we're really proud of
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Collaborations like bring your favorite influencers in and kind of talk about it with them
And have a really nice like general
Conversation and give some advice and tips and so on overall the thing I really want you to get from this video
Is that age should not determine how valid your anxiety is if you feel a certain way, or if you're diagnosed?
I think now a lot of the younger generation is so much more educated when it comes to mental health
And it makes me so proud and I think that people should listen to us and know that we are in tune with ourselves
Although they can be different types of anxiety and different things can obviously trigger anxiety
Because you're obviously thrown into different situations whether you're a teenager or an adult
I think that being a teenager shouldn't mean that your anxiety is any less balanced because you're not in at all cool
Okay, I think it's a really strong message, and it isn't always talked about
Do you think other people
Would treat you differently when you talk about anxiety as the teenager versus an adult or just in general?
I actually recently chatted to my little sister Hedy because she says she has anxiety and for a while
I was kind of nervous to call it that because I was so
Scared of labeling something that I didn't label as anxiety when I was a teen so when I was a teen
I was like really nervous to pick up the phone or like talk to people like socialize
And I've just said I would never said I was socially anxious. I'm just what if said I was awkward there was me, too
Yeah, so like for her to say
I have anxiety it worries me because I'm like don't give it a serious label because it scares me
But I think you have every right to say you feel anxious if you have anxiety yeah
baby
I don't know
I feel like it's the same
Between kids and adults in terms of I still feel uncomfortable even talking about it because it makes me feel like I'm not right
In the head okay?
That makes sense and so
Now other people then talk about how they don't have it and then all those say like oh my gosh. I get stressed sometimes
I've seen this recently where people are talking about like self-diagnose saying it how?
They can be and people are saying like some of the younger generations because they're a lot more educated with the anxiety that
They're self-diagnosing. It's like what do you think do you think self-diagnosing? It's problematic. Uh? I don't think oh, man
I think there are some kids like their parents won't take them to get diagnosed even in the UK where it's free to get diagnosed
It's just a bollock it takes so many steps and for a doctor to say you have anxiety
But you're not comfortable with talking about oh. Yeah, if it's like obviously
impacting your life
Then you're allowed to diagnose yourself because I feel like if you say it and give it a name people feel it most seriously
That's very true. I have been diagnosed and when you go in it's very similar to just looking up symptoms online
I would like to say something I wouldn't actually say I have anxiety so I feel like I should just say that right now. Oh
I see I'm the same I've had anxiety attacks in the past, and I've had stages where I've had major anxiety
But at the moment I'm doing okay. Yeah, actually that's been me too. I was diagnosed last year, but I'm
How do you think
Anxieties treated differently in school versus at work you can't really say you have it at work at all
But you can say yeah, you just say school like again. I'm sorry to keep doing about else's disappear. Just like this
Yeah a reference. I have to that but like if someone's having an anxiety attack in school
Go to student services and be like I feel
And like they'll say okay, you can just sit in the room be calm for your friend which is
Like what do you need if something like terrible's happening to you you need a pal to go with you?
They just don't get it. They think it's like everything
It's not really taken seriously like all of that problems all the things are going to having an anxiety attack. They're like
Oh, it's just being a teen. You know. It's just like yeah, I remember
No real problems like
Seriously, I have a question
Do you find that it is much more likely that teens these days are getting anxiety?
Because of the implementation of social media into the daily lives I actually wrote that down, that's a good question in fact
I think that's a huge thing. Yeah. I think it worries me. It's difficult because it has it's
amazing benefits and also yeah
the negative muscles you people can argue that social you can help people with it because
They get resources when I was in school. There was an having social media and so when I left school
I was now doing different things, but with social media as soon as I think school
I'm still looking at my friends stuff on Facebook and saying they have more likes them in Instagram and
Stressing out about how no one really likes me even when I'm not at school and now I could be bullied at home
From online as opposed to just being bullied in school. There's no escaping it sometimes. I've never had issues with that. I just know that
I agree here's some advice if you are getting bullied. I think the best thing is to reach out to someone
Yeah, but it is tricky trying not to be a grass or whatever so
I also used to accept the bullying names and make them part of me because they lost the power
So like it was like you were laughing at yourself - yeah
Wasn't fun for them because I wasn't reacted they used to call me like scooter and all these other names
And I am scooter I signed my name is scooter and my homework and they thought it then it became a cool thing
I was really yeah
I I don't know I can't strong will against that type of thing because I was bullied by my brother all my life
So I thought it would be easier in school you feel like when influencers talk about having anxiety
They aren't taking this seriously. It's just like oh my god. Yeah. Yeah, because I feel that way very strong
How could you have any anxiety when you're like?
Yeah exactly so Jane and also there are a lot of people like using mental health words as
Clickbait almost like you're like a lot of people will use the kind of joke way to
Say that they do have it, and it's like deep down, but people just see it as a joke
I think you should always take someone seriously if they say it yeah, I don't think age should be
Considered at all and I think it's a very common thing in school and with influencers
And I just think people
Judge someone on the outside and their age or whatever and they just like assume like this doesn't make sense so this person is anxiety
but first is like it's not a
Lifestyle, it's not a certain thing that provokes is like your head
So on Twitter it needs to Mickey's tweet, and it's like me being like awkward right in socially awkward
And then in June I got a shit ton of hate because one of the tweets
It was like me at a party was back from a few months ago
Where I was just like me at a party and this mean
Corner of me under a good table and stuff and then some typos to be like it's not funny to make fun of social anxiety
Were you like that at school? I mean not that it really I'm just curious no
The thing is that was me and I personally look at that, I'm like relatable there's someone else there's representation
I think I kind of see things like for example if someone was like
Whoa I'm so Spacey or like tried to make this drink Monte realization
Oh, I don't know like how it could be relatable
I would be really upset because I yeah like you don't know how bad it is
I try and make something out of it I try and say
Like that is good and having these problems like that in madness is key like it can come across as like
Glorifying it and like maybe making it this magical thing
When really all I'm trying to do is for the people who have it trying to like say, it's okay
You know it can be alright and just like knowing someone else has it. It's just sometimes very reassuring mm-hmm
I know even when I was growing up just like hearing other youtubers be like they're shy because I feel like I was the only
Person I was like wow that's really interesting
People were like you look so happy in your Instagram stories and like yeah, I'm not gonna film an anxiety attack. That's triggering
Yeah, yeah it probably feels less when people are like
I never see it yeah, and then when I do show that like we don't see that. That's
Yeah, I think the best thing when you're going through something is just to put out the most positive version of yourself
It's kind of like hold back on it and like keep it for myself and for my friends and for my diary and then like
Once I've come out of it
And I feel better I can reflect on it and use it for other things I used to be like quite the emotional tweeter
I'm having such bad anxiety act like I don't even know he's like or like good like Taylor my world is falling apart Matt and
I felt like a lot of people would be like saying me and I was like no
I don't want with this negative energy
It doesn't make you feel better, and it doesn't make anyone else feel better, and I've just like learned just
Yeah, either a private Twitter or Jerry our friend. Oh cool someone calling someone is so much better than texting. I think because
They might not respond it might be busy if you call someone like nothing get the humans voice just subtract saturation
You simply be like feel better
But like sometimes just the text doesn't and also I feel like typing like you can make everything seem so much
Why someone's romantic and heavy and you can feel guilty as if you call them. It's like you can both. Talk it out
Do you feel like treatments different for teens versus adults Wow yeah bereavement?
Yeah, I street how you how many teens have put in therapy adults like given medication
I feel like at this point all the medication is that like nothing is really done right, and there's so many side effects I -
I had like a lot of people
Sometimes act and you're like saves them like for me it depends a help. Are you there, but yeah there?
I go medication could be extremely helpful. There's always another I think that's always another option
I think definitely is right therapy
definitely I'd say therapy is about that emotionally and if someone shut you down for being young then go get dis rails because
That's not that if it's affecting your life and your being
I think another important point in general is just like you don't have to have a mental illness to go to therapy
Oh, yes, so yeah like honestly you like prevention like told me about process before it sticks
and I think
Therapy when you're young is very important. Especially if you don't have any mental illness in school because it's really good to process things
Healthily before they get stuck in your head and become a problem
Do you think adults are more judgmental living his idea joining teens March. I think adults especially
To to I think another argument is sometimes it's harder for teens because when they tell their friends a lot of them don't know how
To handle it or how to help versus with adults sometimes. They've had life experience or they just know what it is
I feel like it's talked about way more online
And this is one of the big events of it being online look at that our negatives
for a log mental health being online
I feel like the stigma is way less because people talk about it all the time and so it's more understood in
Might have literally always saw pics of clubbing really that's the game really children. What was so
Fun brain was like these cool online games that matches math
People like why do you just play stupid games in your pants like you make a shot
And I had like dancing gifts, and they sold buttons to people young yo pets
This is intentional comedic relief
Some great content today should we like sum everything up or something and each of us goes down the line and me like you like
One thing that we want them to get in this video, that's a great
I think that age does not distinguish whether or not you have anxiety there you go there
Shouldn't even be like team versus adult treatment aged is not defined it there
IMO the best thing you can do is just talk to people whether it be your friends or someone close to you or just
Someone that would be able to help like a therapist or counselor because that's the best way of helping yourself
I've even heard people be like online friends I
Used to Skype people all the time I become a Google hangout
And you know have to be like hey view of anxiety let's talk of that like your
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