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They approach you so forcefully. That force made me give in a little.

There were all... just so huge.

The way they look out for others is different than in Japan.

Hey YouTube it's CathyCat, many people when they come to Japan

they experience a culture shock.

However Japanese people get the same culture shock when they go abroad

Or when they interact with foreigners who have come to Japan.

This time we are gonna go and Ask Japanese what gave them a culture shock

When they dealt with foreigners.

Look out for things that you should not do when you come to Japan. Let's ask Japanese.

Have you been abroad before?

I have never been abroad.

I have been to China.

I went to Shanghai and such.

Did you go abroad?

I've never been outside Japan yet.

Where would you like to go to? - The UK!

What part of the UK do you want to go to?

I like Harry Potter that's why I want to go.

UK and...

I want to go to Taiwan, even though it's close to Japan.

There is a model place for the movie "Sento Chihiro" from Ghibli.

When you went abroad, what surprised you?

When I went abroad, I realized how much better Japanese food is.

Especially the rice.

I thought how much more I like our rice.

In other countries, the rice is so dry and that's very different.

Different from what you imagined? - Yes a bit.

Was there any cultural difference that surprised you?

The way they catch.

If you go to a tourist or souvenir shop, without mercy

they approach you quite forcefully

That force made me give in a little.

Would you say that was scary?

It's super scary! I got captured alone.

Even though the goods are cheap they try to sell it for a high price.

Made me realize how different our public safety is too.

You said you wanted to go to the UK, what cultural difference is there?

Japanese food is so good, so maybe the food in the UK is not good...

I heard about that...

My recommend would be to ask a local about which place is good and tasty.

I see. Well then I really wanna go. - Please do. I love the UK.

Well so you said Thailand.

My family went to Thailand before.

Even though they went for only one week they gained 7 kilo.

So I thought, the food must be just as good as in Japan then.

Tasty but maybe a bit too oily for them?

Probably. They had a bit too much food there.

Have you ever been abroad?

I have. America and Italy.

America... well actually Saipan

Tropical island? - Yes that's it.

- I have never been abroad. - You will soon. Where do you wanna go?

America ... or Germany?

Wow that makes me happy. Why Germany?

Sexy Zone's Marius comes from there.

There is a Japanese idol group called Sexy Zone and member Marius Yo is from Germany.

A German is inside a Japanese idol group?

He is half Japanese. I really like him.

Made me want to visit his country.

Since you've been abroad, what has surprised you when you went there?

What surprised me.... they were all so huge.

- I admire that. - You prefer that?

I admire that a lot.

What has surprised you about abroad?

Rather than culture, I think they gesticulate in really big motions.

So when they talk, they use a lot of gestures?

It surprised me how big really.

Food portions there are so big.

I looked at the pictures my Sis took abroad.

The drinks at all the fast food stores were so big.

Could you eat all of that?

Impossible!

Have you ever been abroad? - I have! Guam.

- Why there? - End of year trip.

That sounds like a rich kids school.

Yeah that was our graduation trip.

You haven't been so where do you wanna go?

I want to see Australia.

Why so?

When I went to primary school, my favorite teacher was from Australia.

And since then I always wanted to visit.

He left a good impression then. - Yeah.

When you went to Guam did you have culture shock moment?

Counting up the money was really hard.

There was also a gun range.

A place where you could pay money to try shooting a real gun. That was a surprise.

I almost didn't believe it.

Can you buy it there too? - Not buy I think...

But you can try to shoot a gun there.

A shooting trial then.

Were you good or bad at it?

I sucked a little at it.

What things are different from abroad compared to Japan?

Japanese people are holding back a lot with people they meet the first time.

We keep our distance.

But foreigners look out differently for others who they meet the first time.

Because they are more friendly, the other person will find it easier to open up.

I think it's a total opposite to how Japanese people deal with new people.

But if people are friendly at the start, I would be happy to visit other countries.

Are Japanese people surprised when strangers are instantly nice to them?

Yes some are. Also I heard from my friends who went abroad

that the culture is so different that I need to actually experience it once.

Have you ever been abroad - We have.

Where did you go? - Australia.

I never went.

Guam and Hawaii.

If you never went abroad where do you wanna go? - Hawaii!

Hawaii!

I want to swim in the ocean of Hawaii. I really want to swim there.

Where do you wanna go? - Hawaii and America.

Now those who went abroad. What culture shock did you get?

There were barely any traffic lights. So cars and many people were using the same road.

In Sydney, Australia. A place with many shops.

There were so many people and no traffic lights, I was really shocked to see that.

Juice tasted so different that I could absolutely not drink it.

Why not? - It didn't like the taste at all.

Was it too sweet? - Way too sweet.

So people who have not been abroad. What stories from abroad surprised you?

How friendly foreign people like you are.

I am friendly? Glad to hear that!

Foreigners don't take off their shoes.

(to sneaky picture person) PLEASE NOT NOOO

Well that surprised me.

Their eye colors. Foreigners have different eye colors!

Those were our questions, thank you!

Ok culture shock. We asked about Culture Shock in Japan.

Japanese people what culture shock they got.

I would like to ask a couple of culture shock things that foreigners do

IN JAPAN that kind of surprised or shocked me a little bit.

Not what surprised me in Japan because we talked about that before

actually things that foreigners do here that you shouldn't really do here

I was surprised about it. Let me list this down.

One thing: Take pictures without asking. It's kind of rude and really shocking.

Generally Japanese people will always ask you before you take a picture

because it's actually kind of illegal to just take pictures of people

without asking them. There is actually a law against that.

Some tourists think "Hey I am in this country now, I'm gonna take it all without asking"

Don't do that. Always ask when you take pictures of people.

It's very much their privacy. Even when we are shooting out

on the streets for TV or Ask Japanese, there are many people who will cover

their faces when they even go past the camera. Because they don't wanna be in shots

they really protect their privacy so don't go take pictures of people

It's so rude!

I am sorry I don't use the word "hate" much but I hate that, it's so rude.

Next thing: Cutting in line. I am shocked to find some people think they

can cut in line just because that person comes from a different country.

OMG never ever do that.

It will not only make YOU look bad, it will make ALL foreigners look bad.

People will look at this, and thing "foreigners they all do that. They cut in line."

Even if you try to be the best person, you will look bad if someone else

does the same. So please don't cut in line!

This is one of the foundations that Tokyo is build on.

If everyone was going and cutting in line ...

Tokyo would not work. It wouldn't function.

There couldn't be a Tokyo like it is now.

Haggling for a bargain. You don't really see that. You see elderly ladies

... I've actually never seen anyone trying to haggle for a price. Sometimes you see

elderly ladies who try to get away with something but generally don't haggle.

And I've seen it a couple of times when foreigners tried to haggle with the shop staff

to get the price lower for something... and there is a massive cue behind and...

everyone just thinks "You are not cool."

You ... insert swearword here.

Because everyone is waiting, you can't really haggle and

the staff is even sometimes not allowed to give you a discount so

Don't haggle. It just makes you look bad.

And everyone is gonna think that people from your country are all like that.

The next thing is kind of connected. It's a very touchy thing.

I know in some countries you have less large personal space.

In Japan you have moments when you are squished against strangers, that's fine

generally there is a certain amount of personal space after that.

Unless you are riding the train in Japan which apparently overrides every law.

Try and value people's personal space. Don't go too close to people.

Also when people take pictures, people dressed in Harajuku fashion

and ask, love that.

Some people just go and put their arm around you or around your waist.

You don't touch people in Japan, so if you take a picture with a Japanese person

that is not your friend and you start touching them...

They will feel very uncomfortable and to be honest I feel uncomfortable

when people just randomly go "Hey can I take a picture?"

I am like "Yes" and they suddenly touch me and I am just like "Whoa!"

Whoa what'S going on? So that's a culture shock I get

Obviously in Western Societies it's ok but it shocks me a little bit.

Just a couple of things to look out for when you come to Japan.

I hope that helps you. Let me know the culture shock that you get

Maybe with foreigners who come to your country.

Try to be nice to each other.

And... why is there a pumpkin in the picture?

So let us know about your culture shock.

Anyways, have a nice day guys. See you soon on Ask Japanese!

For more infomation >> CULTURE SHOCK for JAPANESE! What shocked them when traveling ABROAD and meeting FOREIGNERS? - Duration: 11:58.

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30 Affirmations Tactics For Going No Contact With An Abusive Narcissist - Duration: 5:21.

30 Affirmations Tactics For Going No Contact With An Abusive Narcissist

Staying away from abusive narcissist is required even though it is extremely tough.

Luckily, we have 30 affirmation tactics to fight against them.

These affirmations tactics can help you to regain your sense and composure when you may

being emotionally manipulated by someone, at least, this can prevent you or make you

think before deciding to reconnect with an abusive partner.

Withouth further ado, let's see the whole lists of affirmations tactics for going no

contact with an abusive narcissist.

#1 - Silence

Silence is protection against most psychological violence since you will stop the cycle of

unnecessary interaction.

#2 - Know the right

All people have right to be free from abuse.

You have the right too.

#3 - You have the power

Narcissists try to grab your power.

Be sure to take it back as normal person have more than narcissists.

#4 - You have strong will

Your will determines how brave you are against narcissist.

Fortunately, you have bigger than theirs since they are really afraid of counterattack.

#5 - I'm stronger than trashing threats

Be sure to say this when they start talking empty.

#6 - I'll defend myself whatever happens

Remember you are strong and have more power than them.

#7 - I never give up

Staying away from narcissists is difficult, but you need to try harder.

#8 - My life does not depend on empty promises

Beware of hovering tactics which incorporates false promises.

#9 - I choose my life

This powerful affirmation is for making sure you still have control over yourself.

#10 - Loneliness is better

It is bitter, but it is better than being abused all the time.

#11 - I deserve more

You definitely deserve more than a punching bag.

#12 - I decide whom to communicate

You have right, and you can choose.

You can choose people to share your feeling.

#13 - My mental health is priority

Make sure you always consider your health.

It is not act of selfishness, but it is to safe yourself from inevitable damage.

#14 - Staying sane is more important

Confused people drive you crazy.

That is why you should consider your sanity before it is taken over.

#15 - I trust my own reality

#16 - I know and trust what I feel and experience

#17 - I validate myself

Those last three validations are important to say every time narcissists use gaslight

strategy.

#18 - I'm worthy, beautiful, brave, strong, and fearless

Another set of affirmation, and you can put that on tape so that you can hear your recording

every time you need it.

#19 - I'm getting stronger each second

This is another important affirmation to keep you on ground.

#20 - I made him, or her leave me

This is the best affirmation considering the fact that it is your biggest aim.

#21 - I will survive

This affirmation charges you with positive energy as you still have life to live.

#22 - Take no shit

You should make sure you are not taking any negative affirmation, and that is why you

should say the words before they start attacking you.

#23 - My success is their karma

Do you want to have sweet revenge?

Make sure you say those words and practice what you are capable of.

#24 - I'm the light

It is easy to kill narcissists.

Just leave them behind, and they only can be angry with you.

#25 - They miss controlling me

That is why you should not feed them what they want.

#26 - They do not love me

That is the reality, and you should make sure you remember that by saying this sentence

over and over.

#27 - Remind me I'm worthy

You should think that you are worthy all the time.

You are basically previous and valuable.

#28 - I care about myself

Treat yourself as wounded victim.

Anyway, you are the victim of narcissists anyway.

#29 - My best friend is me

When it comes to dealing with narcissists, there is no other better person except yourself.

Be friend with yourself, and trust yourself for this matter.

#30 - I love myself

Loving yourself is the best way to avoid distraction and delusional information from narcissists.

All in all, that's the 30 affirmations tactics for going no contact with an abusive narcissist.

Really cool information isn't it!

Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!

Don't forget to subscribe to our channel and watch all our other amazing videos!

Thanks for watching!

For more infomation >> 30 Affirmations Tactics For Going No Contact With An Abusive Narcissist - Duration: 5:21.

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Stray Kids "Grrr 총량의 법칙" Performance Video - Duration: 3:12.

BEWARE

Grrr my mind is a mess

I don't care who they are

I bark like an aggressive dog, I'm angry

Get rid of apathetic empathy

It doesn't matter how they look at me

I don't like them all, I feel so suffocated now

I'm in a war against me between my ups and downs

Adults' interventions make it uneasy

My condition, talk, behavior

They all get reversed though I know they should not

I want you to understand me

Even I don't know what will happen

I keep on barking today

Don't talk to me

It doesn't matter who you are, I bite you, tear, tear you up

Don't talk to me

You're suffocating, you all are

Don't confront me

When you get bitten, you'll get all chewed up

Don't confront me

You're suffocating, you all are, all are

I can't even sleep well

Since when pillows that are supposed to be comfortable

Have become a pile of books, I want the power

To wreck this situation, thousands of push-ups are useless

I'm just a phase of change

Apathetic adults see me as a punk

Their tries tire me

I'm thirsty, you guys should all fail

My condition, talk, behavior

They all get reversed though I know they should not

I want you to understand me

Even I don't know what will happen

I keep on barking today

Don't talk to me

It doesn't matter who you are, I bite you, tear, tear you up

Don't talk to me

You're suffocating, you all are

Don't confront me

When you get bitten, you'll get all chewed up

Don't confront me

You're suffocating, you all are, all are

We rolling, we rolling

Until we completely go out of breath

We growling, we growling

We're changing into monsters again

My anger won't be solved, like a question with no answer

Though I know I'm not sane, please understand me

This time of my life which is going to be once

Let it slide even if I show irritation

How, how much more do I have to wander?

How, how much

A million kilometers

Wow wow what is this?

Wow wow

Ten million kilometers

Answer me, you all answer me, it's suffocating me, grrr

For more infomation >> Stray Kids "Grrr 총량의 법칙" Performance Video - Duration: 3:12.

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Америка пытается трансгендерность психическое заболевание выдать за норму - Duration: 1:59.

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