Everyone has their own reason for coming to Twars
Today we are going to listen to Aditi's story
Where she is looking for a transformation
which helps her, not just physically
but also mentally
So, I am Aditi. I am 24
and I'm an architect
I was born in Shillong and grew up in Jammu
From 85 kilos I got down to 57 kilos
in a span of 2 to 3 years
This is leanest I have ever been in my life right now
I kind of grew up in a dysfunctional family
and where my mom and dad never got along well
and
so there were these fights
family issues everyday happening
me and my brother, we were young and
obviously we were experiencing and seeing
things around us and that affected us a lot
I was very aggressive and stubborn
angry all the time
like hated being myself, hated being where I was
hating on everyone
since my care takers weren't in love with
each other so I sort of never saw that
so I always felt the need to be
loved and taken care of
and never got that so I grew up hating love
the peer pressure the environment I was in
smoking, smoking cannabis
and drinking
and some times my prescription drugs also
I used to eat them, I hated my body
U know there was this time
where I wouldn't even look at myself in the
mirror naked I was like ugh, what is this
I don't want to see myself, This is so ugly
So I would always shop from the men section
where all these black excel T-shirts with
these gothic things written on top
so people thought I was cool but I was not
I was just a fat person hiding behind the clothes
I actually convinced myself that there
was no reason for me to live and that
I should just kill myself and I was convinced
and that particular night I actually was going to do that
There's no purpose of me being here, I am fat
I am underconfident, I don't receive love
I can't give love
I want to give love to people
but I can't like show it to them
I can't express my love or any feeling that I have
for people and
I always come off as to be as a rude person
all of that came down to the conclusion that
Aditi Bakshi has MDD BPD
so these were
MDD stands for major depressive disorder
and BPD stands for borderline personality disorder
I was clueless that time
but now I know what really makes me, me
I know my parents love me but yes she does find
happinnes in things that make me happy
but I want to do things for her that will
make her happy,
So I have said a lot of hurtful things to her
like I have questioned her
things that really hurt her
then as I grew up,I started realising
she has done so much for me that
no one in this world has ever done for me
And I want to take control of my life
I want to take control of myself
then unless and until I'm happy from the inside
I dont think I can make anyone happy
or even do things that I like
then squats happened
then as I say my mom got me
this ticket to fitness
and It didn't even took me a
second to quit my job
and come over to Pune
Then I was like life is going to change
In every episode
we kill an excuse
Today's excuse
I am a homemaker
I don't have time
This week's theme was life of homemaker
there are two teams
team Bala and team Aniket
One member from each team is supposed to enact
like a mother
bye kids
bye!
Take care
don't fight
They are supposed to take care of all
the home responsibilities the way actual women
take care, a woman or a man in that way
take care of their house responsibilities
of the children and at the same time concentrate
on their fitness and diet at the same time
So first it was my turn
but I want to officially declare one thing
on this platform that I am not a bad cook
I discovered this when I was a homemaker
I made a lot of stuff which I never imagined I would
first I made poha, then i made Palak Paneer
then I made chicken for everyone
and they appreciated
and they lapped it up like anything
Sumit mumma has surpassed all my expectations
I had yummy poha, I had yummy palak paneer
and delicious chicken and I'm looking forward
to the food and whatever mumma
is doing ,Sumit mumma is exceptional today
Being a mummy that day was slightly
I mean
How much work has to be done by the mothers
Had to wake up in the morning
The first thing I did after waking up in
the morning was chopping onions
So that day made me realize
most of my conversations revolve around food
like when do you want your tiffin to be ready
or are you coming home to eat
And I am like why does this woman keep talking any
to me about food like why can't we have
other conversation but now I know that's what all
I was thinking about that day
I have to make this for this person or
to make this for that person
So it literally felt like a mummy
Since I already am a homemmaker
so for me this week was quite easy
Infact it was good
because I had play the role of a
home maker for a day
and the remaining 4 days were like a child
4 days no work and a day of work
and a day of work was like a cake walk for me
I am not a home maker
I have seen my mother doing this stuff
and throughout this one week I was
constantly thinking about mumma
that she is always on her toes
she multitasks so much
she makes different food every time
and then I was like its just 4 days and
that's no big challenge, I had that atttitude
When I had to cook food for 5 people including myself
I was like damn this is a lot of hardwork
The best part of the week was when Sayeed
and Ishita had become mothers and under my macros
and diet I got to eat 3 desserts
So I have made this mid day desert for myself
Kitkat with banana is different but amazing
eating 3 desserts while in a diet
It's a very big myth that diet cannot be enjoyed
So it has shown that we can still enjoy a diet
Everyone got 2 desserts as an average
even I got 3 infact
but what happened was
we got 2 that day from Sayeed and her
and one day we got it from Venky
So I don't know what Venky was thinking that
I don't eat spicy food
my lunch was egg rice which was super spicy
and with that was spinach
a green leafy vegetable and it was sweet
No one must have ever eaten sweet spinach
It's supposed to be a bit bitter but it was
sweet so when I asked him he said he put sugar free
in it It was an interesting experience
About the Spinach, It was an accident
I cooked it and then I took off
I was also preparing for my lunch
so what happened was I put sugarfree in the spinach
you didn't tell me, I didn't know this
you made sweet spinach?
yes!
but the greatest shock was that he came home
that night and was like
why did you make me sweet palak
and I was like
didn't I tell you
and he was like no!
I said sorry the mistake is mine
And today in the battle of the week
we are going to make the contestant homemakers
and that too in 3 different levels
towards the end of the week
it's always battle of the week
so theme of the week was life of a homemmaker
so we all were contemplating
about what is the battle is going to be about
so we were guessing whether we have
to do what mom's do and had lots of
discussions
battle was explained
It was into three different levels
A random chit system was there
everybody picked up their chits
and according to that people were
categorised into level 1,2 or 3
For level 1 there were 2 people
for level 2 there were 4
and level 3, there were 4 again
so when it was the selection of level one
It was think it was Ishita and another one
from their team was Shalini
So according to our macros they were
supposed to cook breakfast
when the time began
and that now you have only 1 hour
to make the breakfast
I divided my work into making poha for 2 people
and making omlette for 3 people
What I did was I made poha for
2 people at the same time
I measured it and divided it in half
and I was done with it
Then when it came to eggs
I made all the omlettes seperately
and it was just quick
so I think that's exactly why I finished
early because I had compartmentalized
my work and that's how I usually like to work
and I think her she was making
something for the first time
and we were like even today we are going to cooking
make gourmet food because she was cooking
the Okonomiyaki and I was like
it's a very tricky dish
That's why I was even shocked
that why is she making that
When i started tapping it,making it
it didn't form well because till then it wasn't
fermented well ,I had to wait
had to keep that in the fridge
my 10 minutes got wasted just like that
so then when I started cooking that on the
stove it was taking more than the actual time
and we had it done at a cheaper cost
compared to the other contestants
Gourmet chef's yeah!
Level 1 done
It was cooking breakfast and I had a doubt
If level 1 was breakfast level 2 might be
lunch and yes it'll happen
So the thing that was in our minds
about team wars
that I think was broken by level 2
because in level 2 there were 3 people from
my red team Namrata,Sayed and Deepti
and from the blue team was Venky
The twist was he was supposed to cook lunch
and wash clothes by our hands
and Sayeed came up
Venky you have clothes as well as cooking
you need time for cooking so you cook
I'll vouch for you too
just help Namrata in the cooking
He knows macros for his team
and there was Namrata from our team
and she is fast in cutting vegetables
he told you both can help each other
but you know what happened inside?
every single thing she was the one who was helping me
Ishita and Sumit were standing outside
monitoring how I am doing and he wanted
to make sure that I salt and not sugar free
So it's like we were 10 of us and each of
them gave 4 clothes, 40 and then bedsheets it was
all like overall 45 clothes and we were thinking
it's okay the washing machine is available
and then suddenly we get to know that
there's no washing machine
the washing machine was removed from that place
and the work had to be done by hand
time limit for water was 40 minutes
so we had to clean everything in 40 minutes
and the area was not clean in the first place
so we had to clean that area and there was
no hole for the water to go out
so it was like, the more water we are consuming,
the more the level of water
It was very difficult for us
we were floating and we were drenching in
water and she was fighting with clothes
so we got the idea that it wasn't team versus team
and that everyone has to work together
So this week my mum sent a parcel for me
and I was expecting something from home
and today I just opened the bag and
there was a letter from my mother
handwritten on a small piece of paper
and I don't think my mum has ever written me a letter.
I had written my mum a letter
It was so special to see that because my mum
and me are not open and she is a reserved
person not the most communicative person
So mumma's letter was basically that she
watched all my episodes and missing me
and that I hope you are happy and yeah it
was very special and that I recieved
it during mummy week and I've been thinking
about her a lot and ya
for the task we had to do all the cleaning
and my mother expects me to clean the room
and I think the biggest fight that
I had with my mother was about my room
and how unclean my room is
so that day I was literally missing her
and saying mumma I had to clean the entire house
I had never done this much sweeping
in the past 31 years
I did that in 2 hours
I was a part of cleaning up the entire house
I was really missing my mom that day
And it was really special at the same
day the letter had arrived
I've been really thinking about
her and missing her and Mumma miss you
First of all I'll just remember this and
go back home and thank my mom
This is incredible what she does
I had no idea what she goes through everyday
Now I have that feeling what she goes through
and just want to thank all the moms in the world
seriously I salute to all the homemakers
be it mom, be it dad
be it grandmom whoever runs the house
It's a very big task
Mumma,I love you
I miss you
The first 2 levels of the battle
of the week are done
but the 3rd level is still remaining
you can catch that in the next episode
while our contestants have no idea
what is going to happen in the last level
one simple hint for you
happy Diwali

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