Transgender people, and particularly trans  women of color, face high rates of violence
  against them in the United States.
  The Office for Victims of Crime says that  one in two transgender people are sexually
  abused or assaulted in their lifetime, citing studies from the International Journal of Transgenderism.
  In 2013, the National Coalition of Anti-Violence  Programs found that transgender people are
  seven times more likely to experience physical  violence when interacting with the police
  than non-transgender people.
  In 2015, the NCAVP found that when transgender  survivors of intimate partner violence tried
  to access emergency shelters, 44% of them  were denied access.
  They NCAVP also found that 63% of trans survivors  of hate violence knew the person who committed
  the violence against them beforehand.
  The report also found that most of these problems  were compounded by other factors, like if
  the survivor was a person of color, poor,  or disabled.
  It's impossible to look at anti-trans violence  without also seeing the intersections with
  racist, classist, and ableist violence.
  In 2016, we know of 27 trans people who were  murdered.
  So far in 2017, we know of nine trans people  who have been murdered – all trans women of color.
  These murders are happening so frequently  that when I wrote this script a few weeks
  ago, that number was eight.
  Unfortunately, statistics on the murder rate  of trans people are extremely hard to come
  by because so many trans people are misgendered  in death and never even identified as trans.
  This can happen because the media doesn't  know how to report on trans individuals, the
  police don't know how to deal with hate  crimes towards trans people, or most commonly
  because the family of the dead trans person  doesn't want the public to even know that
  their child was trans.
  For transphobic families, their child being  trans is a source of a shame for them, which
  means that they'll hide it at all costs,  even when their child is murdered for being trans.
  Those NCAVP studies that I mentioned earlier  interviewed thousands of queer people who
  had survived hate crimes, and many of them  said that they didn't report to the police
  because they were afraid – and out of those who did, many felt that the police were hostile towards them.
  In several cases, trans people who reported  violence to the police actually wound up being
  arrested instead of their abuser.
  We desperately need more research on this.
  It would be ridiculous to assert that all  the anti-trans violence and anti-trans murders
  happening in the US are being correctly reported  right now.
  Let me give you a few examples.
  On January 9th, 2015, a trans woman named  Papi was shot and killed by a man after she
  told him that she was transgender.
  Papi's friend, Tiffany, another trans woman,  told the police that Papi was a trans woman
  who had been killed because she was trans.
  There's even video footage from the night  of the shooting showing Papi presenting as
  But the police spokesperson told the press,  "That was a man that was shot.
  It was always a man," and they said that  the victim's gender identity never played
  a role in the homicide investigation.
  That's just one example, but it's impossible  to know how many more of these there are.
  And even when the evidence is clear that it  was a hate crime, many states don't even
  count gender identity as one of the ways to  be targeted for a hate crime.
  In August 2016, Rae'Lynn Thomas, a transgender  woman, was shot and beaten to death by her
  mother's ex-boyfriend as he called her the  devil and shouted transphobic comments.
  But Ohio doesn't have a statewide hate crime  law for gender identity, and her murder was
  never officially investigated as a hate crime.
  Being transgender in the US is scary, especially  if you're a trans woman of color, if you're
  poor, if you're a sex worker, or if you're  disabled.
  These communities know that they're hated  and targeted, and they've seen their friends
  and loved ones get killed, beaten, and abused  over the years.
  Mic has a project called Unerased that tracks  the murders of trans women since 2010
  and is continually updated.
  If you want to learn more about the stories  of these trans people, you should really check it out.
  They found that while the average American's  risk of being murdered is about one in 19,000,
  that risk jumps to one in 2,600 for young  black trans women.
  But without well-documented, nation-wide statistics,  people still aren't taking these cases seriously.
  Lots of reporting has been happening, like  Mic's Unerased series, the NCAVP's hate
  violence tracking, GLAAD's reporting of  murdered trans people, and the Human Rights
  Campaign's tracking of murdered trans people.
  So far, all the evidence points towards a  huge problem of violence against the trans
  community, and just because there is a lack  of federally collected data on this doesn't
  mean that the trans community is safe.
  Trans people are often terrified to come out  because they know the danger it would put them in.
  They can anticipate the violent reactions of their family members, friends, and romantic or sexual partners.
  Lots of trans people are disowned by their  parents and kicked out of their homes for coming out.
  According to the National Center for Transgender  Equality, one in five trans people has experienced
  homelessness at some point in their life,  and 20-40% of homeless youth identify somewhere
  on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, despite the fact  that only about 4% of the total population
  identifies as LGBTQIA+.
  So I think it's rational for trans people  to be afraid of coming out, and obviously
  for some people, it will be easier than others.
  If you're white, live in a progressive area,  have an accepting family, aren't living
  in poverty, and are not disabled, you're  probably much safer coming out than folks
  who have to deal with the intersections of racism, classism, and ableism on top of coming out as trans.
  I'm sure there are trans people who've  had very positive experiences of coming out.
  I myself have been pretty lucky, but I know  that my experience isn't at all representative
  of what all or even most trans people face.
  The point of all of this isn't to frighten  you if you're trans – the point is to
  show cisgender people why trans people might  not want to or might not be able to come out.
  And let's not forget that coming out isn't  a singular, one-time event.
  After someone comes out as trans, they'll  probably come out a thousand more times.
  If they generally aren't perceived as the  gender they are, they'll probably have to
  come out to every new person they meet.
  They can have been out for years, but they  meet someone and have to politely correct
  them when they misgender them.
  When they date, they'll have to decide between  telling people they're trans right away
  or waiting until a few dates into the relationship.
  And if they date men, they'll have to deal  with the fact that men can react very violently
  to a trans person coming out.
  Straight men who find themselves attracted  to trans women often feel like their sexuality
  is being "attacked" or like they've  been "tricked", and they feel like they
  have to defend themselves from that.
  Sometimes men try to keep their relationships  with trans women secret, and if that relationship
  is exposed to the public, they snap.
  Men who date trans women are often mocked  by other men, which can make dating a trans
  woman a source of embarrassment for a man.
  Of the trans women who we know have been murdered  in the last few years, many of them were killed
  by an intimate male partner.
  Ty Underwood is a trans woman who was murdered  by her boyfriend in January 2015.
  He shot her as she was driving away, and then  she crashed into a tree.
  He publicly denied dating her even though  there was evidence of them having a relationship,
  leading prosecutors to believe he killed Ty  when he thought their relationship would be exposed.
  Even when trans people date women, though,  they're not completely free from violence.
  I've known a trans person who came out to  a girl they were seeing, so the girl slapped
  them, said she had been tricked, and stormed  off.
  Lots of trans people who date women have similar  experiences of being mocked or attacked in
  some form because of their identity.
  It's just that men tend to be more violent  in their reactions.
  Like, almost all of the trans women murdered  last year were either killed by a man or nobody
  knows who killed them.
  These kinds of people, the ones who react  violently to finding out that someone they
  like is trans or doesn't have the genitals  they expected, often hide being the excuse
  of it just being their "genital preference".
  The thing about that is that genital preferences  are not all inherently transphobic.
  If you just prefer vaginas over penises, or  vice versa, that's fine.
  But when someone's genital preference is  so ingrained in them that they have to attack
  a trans person they're dating, either physically  or verbally, that's clearly cissexist.
  The constant stigmatizing of trans people,  especially women with penises and men with
  vaginas, leads to these people feeling justified  in their violence against trans people.
  They think to themselves, "Well, genital  preferences are okay to have, so my anger
  at this trans person is completely rational."
  It plays into the awful anti-trans narrative  that trans people are constantly trying to
  "trick" cis people or somehow set a trap  for them.
  In reality, trans people often stress out  over when and how they should tell a potential
  partner about their genitals.
  It's kind of a weird thing to bring up the  moment you meet someone, but it can also be
  unsafe to withhold that information for very  long.
  There's a web series called Her Story that  I think illustrates this really well.
  It's a fictional story, but one of the writers  of the series, Jen Richards, is trans, and
  the show does a good job of showing people  what dating can be like for trans people.
  It gets the audience to feel the fear that  trans women feel when considering if they
  should tell their partner or potential partner  that they're trans.
  So I think in the whole "genital preferences"  debate, it's important to recognize that
  sometimes those preferences are transphobic,  and sometimes they're not.
  But by constantly and loudly saying that all  genital preferences are okay to have, you're
  unintentionally supporting these folks who commit violence against trans people using that same logic.
  In fact, "trans panic" is actually a defense  that people have cited in court to justify
  their killing of trans people.
  In 2005, Gwen Araujo was beaten to death by  four men who said that Araujo had provoked
  their violent response by revealing that she  had a penis.
  Two of the men were convicted of second-degree  murder, but somehow they were not convicted
  of hate crime charges.
  In 2013, Islan Nettles was murdered by a man  who claimed he flew into a rage when he discovered
  Nettles was transgender.
  He pled guilty to manslaughter and got only  twelve years behind bars.
  He was not charged with murder or a hate crime.
  Violence against trans people in the United  States is real, and it's no wonder that
  trans people are afraid to come out or to  tell other people about their genitals.
  Some folks like to argue that because trans  people have it better here than in some other
  countries, that we don't have any problems.
  But hatred against trans people is alive and  well, and often fueled by excuses like trans
  panic or genital preferences.
  I don't want to scare any trans people out  there into staying in the closet, though.
  Coming out is your decision and it's a very  personal one, but sometimes you have to balance
  that decision with your safety.
  That doesn't mean it's always bad, though.
  Some trans people live long, happy lives.
  Our stories don't always end in tragedy,  and as we keep fighting to clear up misconceptions
  about us and gain better visibility in the  mainstream, things are only going to get better – I hope.
  Anyway, this video is a part of my Feminism  with Riley series that I'm doing in collaboration
  with Everyday Feminism, a website dedicated to helping you stand up to and break down everyday oppression.
  Thanks so much for watching, and I'll see  you next time.
     
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