TERRI: I heard someone say that when God wants to bless your
life, he sends a person. When Satan wants to destroy your
life, he also sends a person. Well, today's broadcast may be
for you or it may be for someone you know who's trapped in a
wrong relationship and it's producing torment, confusion,
misery, deception. Well, today I want to talk about
the keys to break free from wrong soul ties.
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TERRI: Hi, I'm Terri Savelle Foy and you're
watching Live Your Dreams. I pray that as you invest
in yourself today, you're captivated, and you're
catapulted to live your dreams. Well today I want to talk to you
about a subject, but I don't particularly love to share or
teach, but the Lord put it on my heart years ago. I began
teaching on this on YouTube and I even wrote a book about it.
Out of the hundreds of podcasts that we've taped, this message
on soul ties receives more comments and feedback than any
other message. I want to talk to you today about breaking wrong
soul ties. I'll admit that this is not a subject that you hear
taught hardly ever, especially in churches. I'm just praying
that this message today, it's going to open your eyes to the
truth if you're being deceived in a wrong relationship, save
marriages from being destroyed, save callings, save careers from
being destroyed and deceived by wrong relationships and even
provide the strength to end unhealthy or even an abusive
relationship. Why? So you can move on with the plan of God for
your life. You don't want anything or anyone dragging you
down. In fact, I shared this message at on of my Icing
events, the Icing women's event. The whole way to the event, I'm
praying, all day. Praying about the event, driving to the
conference and I just kept thinking, "this doesn't apply to
anybody. I bet three teenage girls are going to respond to
this message." At the end of the night, I just asked, "Does
anybody need healing from a wrong soul tie? There's still a
negative feeling about this relationship, something that's
dragging you back." 90 to 95% of the crowd came forward saying
they needed healing from wrong soul ties. The fact is, I
understand firsthand, the pain and confusion that's associated
with having negative soul ties. Well, you might be listening to
this and going, "What are soul ties?" Soul ties are responsible
for the pain we feel when a relationship ends. They are
extremely powerful. In fact, soul ties have deceived many
young people looking for love, many married adults flirting
with disaster, and many abused spouses who are just trapped in
this vicious cycle and they want to get free but they just can't,
because they have a soul tie. In fact, a soul tie is actually
defined as an emotional bond or a connection that unites you
with someone else. You literally become tied to that person in
your soul. Just to illustrate this, I remember years ago, we
were having some work done in our backyard. We didn't have our
fence put in yet. We've just built this house. We had this
big lab, this big dog named Chester. We didn't want Chester
to get loose. Since we didn't have a fence up, we had to
literally tie him to the gate. You can visually see Chester
tied to the gate. He wasn't going anywhere. He wanted to. He
desired to. He wished he could. He would pull as hard as he
could. But the fact is, that chain was pretty secure and it
was keeping him bound. You may be bound to a person. You may be
chained or tied to a person that's keeping you back, that's
keeping you bound. I want to show you how soul ties are
formed and more importantly, how to break free once and for all.
Just for fun, do you remember in high school, awards that were
given and especially the ones that were called most
flirtatious girl and most flirtatious boy? Of course,
everybody laughs at that part of the awards ceremony because
flirting is fun. It's exciting. It arouses curiosity about the
one that you're giving this playful attention to. Flirting
seems harmless. Let me just ask you, is it so wrong to flirt or
is it okay if it never goes beyond just that, just this
playful curiosity? I was reading the dictionary that said, this
was the Merriam Dictionary of 2000, it defined the word
flirting as to behave amorously without serious intent. That
doesn't sound like a big deal. If you go back even further, the
Throng Guide Barnhart 1968 edition defines flirting as
making love without meaning it. You're like, "Dear God. All I
did was wink." That's how serous it meant back then. We know
through research that whatever a person thinks about with intent
desire, it will eventually show up in there lives. In other
words, if you think about a cupcake with buttercream icing
piled about that high long enough, you will eventually have
what you desire in your hand. If you think about it constantly,
you're going to get in the car and go to the bakery, right? In
other words, you're life tends to go in the direction of your
most dominate thoughts. Whatever has your attention, it
eventually has your heart. In other words, thoughts lead to
actions. What I mean by that is the more you think about
something, you think about a person, maybe a person you don't
need to be thinking about, there will come a time when thinking
about them is no longer enough. Thoughts lead to action. You may
have heard Joyce Meyers saying, "Where the mind goes, the man
follows." So we simply follow our thoughts. When it comes to
flirting, when you think about that or flirting with someone
outside of marriage or just whatever it is, whatever gets in
your mind and stays there, it will eventually show up in your
life. So the important factor, what I'm trying to make here is
that Satan wants you surrounding yourself with wrong attachments,
wrong relationships, attachments that literally drag you out of
the will of God. I just want to make a point that I'm not just
talking to teenagers. I received more feedback from adults then
even teenagers when it comes to wrong soul ties, wrong
relationships. Think about it. Satan wants nothing more than
for you to miss out or forfeit the whole plan of God for your
life so he strategically uses people to do it. He makes them
appealing. He makes appealing to your flesh. He convinces you you
can't live without them. Why does he do this? Well, he wants
to make for a fool out of you. He wants to destroy your
marriage if you're married. He wants your kids to disrespect
you. He wants you to throw away God's plan for your life. He
wants you to feel dirty, used, worthless, insecure, devalued.
He even wants you to stay bound to someone, tied to someone
maybe because of what you've done with them. Even though you
know that they're not right for, you to stay tied to them through
your soul. We know from John 10:10, the Bible tells us what
Satan's plan is for our lives. It's very clear. The thief comes
only to kill, to steal, and to destroy your life. Here's the
thing, you have to remember Satan is very subtle. He's not
going to show up on Friday the 13th in a red costume and a
pitchfork saying, "I'm here to destroy your life." No, we know
the Bible even says he comes disguised as an angel of light.
He comes smelling good, looking good, feeling good, sounding
good. He appeals to the five physical senses. Just to
illustrate that, you think about a disgusting, little mouse.
Would he step on a trap having full knowledge that it's going
to kill him? Probably not. The trap has to be disguised, by
what? The cheese. The cheese looks good, it smells good, it
tastes good. It appeals to him so much that the mouse gets so
focused on the cheese that he doesn't even realize there's a
trap behind it. That's exactly how Satan works. He causes you
to focus so much on this distraction, this wrong person,
this temptation, this person that makes you feel good, that
sounds good, that looks good, but you don't even realize that
it's a trap. The way he does that many times is through
getting us to form wrong soul ties. I want to talk you real
quick about how soul ties are formed. There's three ways.
Number one is through close relationships. Any time you
spend hours and hours with a person or even a group of
people, a bond is formed. All the times you spend eating
together, traveling together, working together, texting each
other, on the phone, you're forming a tie or a connection
with that person or even a place. I want to point out real
quick that not all soul ties are bad. You can have good soul
ties. You can have soul ties to the church you attend, the place
your employed, to your school. You can have soul ties with your
coworkers, your family members, your children, or classmates.
The thing is God created soul ties. Do you remember in Matthew
18, it says, "If any two of you agree as touching anything, I
will do what you ask?" Well see, when two come together in a
good, Godly soul tie, the power of God intensifies. Do you
remember how David and Jonathan ... do you remember how it says,
"The soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David." That
was a good soul tie. You may have friendships like this or
you may have friendships that don't lift you up. They don't
help you go to the next level, in fact, they pull you down. And
every time you're around that person, you start going
backwards. Well see, there may be some people that you could be
tied to from all those years of hanging out, but now in order
for you to move on with your life, to live your dreams, you
know you have to let go. Soul ties are formed through close
relationships. Number two, the second way they're formed is
through vows, commitments, and promises. In other words, soul
ties can be formed with the words of your mouth. We know
from the Word of God that words have such power over our lives.
Even just making statements like in a boyfriend girlfriend, or
husband-wife, ex-husband-ex-wife, relationship
saying things like, "I will never stop loving you. You will
always be the only one I give my heart to. I will never get you
out of my heart. I will never love anyone the way I loved
you." Those words are so powerful. In fact, do you
remember how the Bible says that we are snared by the words of
our mouth. A snare simply means a trap. It's a hook. We can be
trapping ourselves into this negative soul tie. You're trying
to break free. You want to break free. You want to move on with
your life. You're tired of thinking about them, but
something just feels like it keeps pulling on you and
preventing you from fulling going forward. In fact, you may
be doing everything you know to do to break free from an old
relationship, but something keeps pulling on you. In other
words, you still feel tied to that person even though years
have gone by. You haven't even seen them or spoken to them.
What is it? It's the words. The words of your mouth that were
spoken can keep you locked into a negative soul tie. In fact,
God created the whole world with what? His words. Words are
powerful. You may be watching this like I said for you or
maybe for someone you know. I believe it's going to give you
the solution to help them break free. In fact, when we come
back, I want to talk to you about the most powerful and
painful soul tie that is formed and that is through physical or
sexual intimacy. I also want to offer you the powerful, vital
keys to help you break free and move on with the plan of
God for your life. No more struggling, no more being
pulled back. It's time to move on. I'll be right back.
ANNOUNCER: Are you suffering from a relationship
that recently ended or perhaps needs to end?
Are you unknowingly or adversely bound to
someone else through a negative soul tie? Terri
understands the pain and confusion involved in unhealthy
relationships. More importantly, she understands God's power to
set you free. You'll discover as you read Untangled: How Soul
Ties are Formed, how to identify possible negative soul ties in
your life and much more. In the two CD series, Breaking Soul
Ties, Terri shares intimate details of her personal journey
to conquer negative soul ties and lead you on a path to
freedom and hope. Together, this is a must-have package for you
or someone you love, one who needs to understand the powerful
consequences of soul ties and the steps to break
free. To request your copy of The Untangled Package,
call 800-795-5597 or visit us at Terri.com.
TERRI: Hey, welcome back. We're talking about
breaking wrong soul ties. I mentioned earlier, I don't
even like teaching subjects like this. In fact, I just want to
teach you to get a vision for your life, but I know that I
could not be doing what I'm doing today if I hadn't dealt
with the past. God may be speaking to
you right now because you're so ready to move
on with your life, but you just feel like something
keeps pulling you back. It could be that you have wrong soul ties
from someone in your past. It may be someone right now. That
you're being deceived, you're being distracted, and you know
it's not God, but it has such a hold on you. You just want the
wisdom and the strength to break free. We're going to talk about
that. I discussed earlier how soul ties are formed. Three
ways. Number one is through close relationships. Just
spending time with people, you develop a soul tie. Number two
is through vows, commitments, and promises. Just things you
say with the words of your mouth. "I'll never love anyone
as much as I love you." Those words can keep you tied to a
person. The third and the most powerful is physical or sexual
intimacy. Here's the thing, soul ties are formed anytime and
every time there's intimacy in a relationship. If the
relationship has moved into the sexual arena then the tighter
those ties become and the harder it is to detach when the Lord
compels you to stop. In fact, a relationship could've ended
months or even years ago, but you just to fill this heaviness,
this longing, or this yearning, even like an obsessive desire to
be with that person. Why? Because your souls are still so
firmly tied to each other. In fact, you could even be in two
different cities and still be consumed with thoughts about a
person. You can't seem to get them out of your mind. You're
tormented day and night about them. You can't resist calling
them, texting them, checking on them. You're creeping on them on
Instagram. You're looking at every post. Every song you hear
reminds you of them. It takes you back in time. Certain smells
remind you of them. Places you drive through your city and you
see a restaurant, it just reminds you of where you were
with them. You can't get them out of your mind. That's all
evidence that a soul tie has been created and it must be
severed if you want to be free to live your life. Like I said
before, the more intimate you become, the tighter that bond
becomes. I've even read different things about how
sexual sins are the most painful and the most powerful in keeping
you locked in a wrong situation. They require the longest amount
of time to recover than any other sin. Isn't that amazing?
The pain of severing wrong soul ties, it's excruciating to say
the least. I speak from experience. This wasn't just a
little message I thought, "Hm, I'm going to Google soul ties
and teach a little message." I taught this based on what I went
through in my life. It's painful and it's probably the hardest
thing I've ever had to recover from. I want to offer you the
hope that it will subside. The pain will not last forever. In
fact, one of my prayers and I pray this for you too, if you or
someone you know is in a situation like this ... do you
know I've actually prayed for a supernatural amnesia of the past
where you stop reliving it, you stop rehearsing, reminding
yourself of it, rewinding that tape. A supernatural amnesia
where you don't even remember. No matter how painful it is in
your unique situation, I want to help you with some steps to
produce total freedom from anything or anyone to which
you've been tied to in your soul. I'm going to share with
you a few keys real quick. I can't go over everything. I'm
going to share a few that I know can help you right now. Number
one, the first step is decide to please God more than anyone
else. Decide to please God more than anyone else. That is vital.
The reason why I say that is because you cannot live your
life displeasing God in order to please somebody else. That would
be one regretful life. You talk about misery and torment for the
rest of your life. If you choose to please someone else and
displease God, you will regret. It may be you don't want to
appear mean or hurtful. You don't want to hurt them so you
just let them continue to control you and manipulate you.
I understand. I've been in that exact situation. You have to
come to a place in your life where pleasing God is the most
important thing to you that. If He says is time to end the
relationship that you're pretty tied then you end it. No matter
what they say to manipulate you. You can hear something like this
and be like, "Yeah, that's easy to say." That's just it. You
can't do this on your own. You need God on your side
strengthening you. In fact, I've mentioned a couple times, this
message may be for someone you know. You keep seeing them get
into this relationship. It's clear. It's black-and-white to
you. You're going, "What are you doing. You don't need to be with
them." They have such soul ties that they can't break free. I'm
believing you're going to get the wisdom to be able to help
them, to minister to them. The thing is you will never regret
obeying God. As painful as it is right now, you will never regret
it. One day, the pain will not be there. Number one is decide
to please God more than anyone else. Number two is you have to
build yourself up in the Word of God. Build yourself up in the
Word of God. The Bible says that faith comes by hearing. You've
got to have daily doses of God's Word in order to develop that
inner strength to sever a wrong or a sexual soul tie or any
ungodly soul tie. You cannot do this on your own. That's
why you need the power of God's Word going into your spirit and
building you up daily. Let me just point this out. Nobody can
make you make the right decisions. Only you can make the
decision for your life. Other people can tell you what to do.
They can plead with you and beg you to get out of this
relationship. It's not right. We see what it's doing to you. Only
you can make that decision for yourself. I was reading the Word
of God. There's a scripture that talks about how the entrance ...
let's see where is it? It's Psalms 119:130. It says the
entrance of God's Word brings light. That's no different than
using this flashlight. If you were in a room that was pitch
dark and you turn on this little light, what happens? All of a
sudden you see things you didn't see when you were in the dark.
The Bible says the entrance of God's Word brings light. Every
time you hear the Word of God, like watching this broadcast
right now, a light goes on. It goes off on your spirit. It goes
off in your mind and all the sudden you begin to see things
you never saw before. You start to see why you are tempted by
this person. Why maybe this particular temptation keeps
coming in your life. Why you keep yielding to that person
when you know they're wrong for you. That's what happens as we
hear the Word of God. That's why hearing the Word is so important
during this time of breaking soul ties, because ungodly soul
ties this is what leads to confusion, misery, torment, and
disobedience. Isn't that powerful. If you're experiencing
any of those four things in your life right now, maybe this will
clear it up for you. It helps you see the
black-and-white of it that I'm in a wrong relationship. When
your soul has become tied to another person through the
principles of sin, maybe it's an adulterous relationship, it's an
ungodly one, it's an abusive one, we've literally opened
ourselves up to the lies of Satan. He's working especially
hard to keep you locked in this situation, hopefully to destroy
your life. The thing is, he's going to lie to you over and
over and over and try to convince you that you cannot
live without this person, especially after what you've
done together. He'll remind you of all the good times, the
romantic times, the gazing into each other's eyes. He will
torment you day and night with anxiety over the thought of
living without them. In fact, just hearing those words may
just bring anxiety into you right now and you're thinking,
"I can't live without them." He'll persuade you to believe
you're trashy, you're worthless if you consider getting out this
relationship after the intimacy you shared or even what if they
move on to someone else. Just the thought of that sends chills
up your spine. That's why hearing God's Word, the truth
must be a priority in your daily schedule. Here's the thing about
God's truth. It overrides all of Satan's lies, because he will
lie to anybody who will listen. You have to stop listening,
right? The thing is it's not going to be overnight. It takes
hearing the truth over and over and over until you can almost
scream because you're so tired of hearing it, but you do it
again and again and again. When you have a wrong soul tie, your
mind is going to be consumed with thoughts about them. You
have to fill every available moment with the truth. That
means you get your hands on messages like this. You listen
while you drive, while you do laundry, while working out,
loading the dishwasher, taking a lunch break. I'm not
exaggerating. You have to read and highlight and read again
until that light comes on. What you've got to realize is that
every time you do this, your gaining inner strength that's
going to help you break free. You may not see yourself getting
stronger. You may feel just as connected to that person as
you've always been, but something's happening on the
inside of you. If you keep at it, you will break free. I heard
Joyce Meyer say this years ago. She said, "Things will never be
right around you until their first right in you." Work on
this. Of course, the third key, I don't have time to get into
this. It's to wean yourself from that person. Wean yourself. I
mean, literally like when you wean a baby off of a pacifier.
That means to deprive. You have to literally deprive yourself
from that person, that wrong soul tie, until you no longer
miss it. I wish I could explain more about that. I want to get
the special package we put together this is my book
Untangle. Its breaking wrong soul ties and pursue your
purpose. It comes with the audio teaching on breaking soul ties.
If you or someone you know is in a wrong relationship, an
inappropriate relationship, an ungodly relationship, maybe even
an abusive relationship, this is the most intimate message I've
ever shared. In fact I didn't want to teach live at a
conference. I actually went in a studio to record this, because I
wanted to share intimately from my heart. Like I said earlier,
this comes from personal experience. When God dealt with
me about how I had to develop that inner strength to break
free. I share spiritual keys to break free. There's lots of
Scriptures in here for you to start declaring out your mouth
every time torment entries your mind. Every time those memory
surface, you just start speaking the Word of God. There's also
practical keys. I'm going to encourage you to get a trash bag
and walk through your house and go room by room and get rid of
the reminders. Get them out. You have no idea what those negative
emotional attachments are doing to you. Just one whiff of their
cologne or perfume and it can take you back in time. There may
be pieces of clothing that every time you see that shirt, you see
that dress, it reminds you of that person. There may be text
messages that it's time to delete. There may be gifts that
were given to you. You can sell. Make some money off your junk,
off your past. I believe God's speaking to you or maybe you
have a child, you have a friend, a coworker, a relative that you
clearly see they're in a wrong relationship and it's time to
break free. Get this special package for them. Just say, "All
I'm doing is asking you to read it and listen to it. And after
you're done, let's just talk about it." It's a very gentle.
In fact, I've had someone comment, "Thank you for being so
gentle, but giving me the keys to break free." Here's the
thing, anytime God removes something or someone from your
life, it's always for your benefit. Remember that. When
something ends, God always has a new beginning. I believe this is
going to help give you those keys to break free and to move
on with the plan of God for your life. The apostle Paul said
this. He said, "This one thing I do, forgetting those things
which are behind and reaching for those things which are
ahead. I press towards the mark." He knew, I've got to let
go of the past so I can pursue my future. That's why I always
say, "Let's stop looking at all the years you've lost.
Let's look at the years you've got left and start
living your dreams." If God's speaking to you today
then just obey what he's telling. Don't put it off
another day, another week, another month. Let's get
free today so you can live your dreams.
ANNOUNCER: Are you suffering from a relationship that
recently ended or perhaps needs to end? Are you
unknowingly or adversely bound to someone else through a
negative soul tie? Terri understands the pain and
confusion involved in unhealthy relationships. More importantly,
she understands God's power to set you free. You'll discover as
you read Untangled: How Soul Ties are Formed, how to identify
possible negative soul ties in your life and much more. In the
two CD series, Breaking Soul Ties, Terri shares intimate
details of her personal journey to conquer negative soul ties
and lead you on a path to freedom and hope. Together, this
is a must have package for you or someone you love, one who
needs to understand the powerful consequences of soul ties and
the steps to break free. To request you copy of The Untangle
Package, call 800-795-5597 or visit us at Terri.com.
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