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Why Do narcissists Abuse Those They Say They Love - Duration: 3:59.
Why Do narcissists Abuse Those They Say They Love?
For some people, or maybe you, It seems weird that someone actually can be so abusive to
their loved ones.
However, when it comes to narcissists, it is actually common for them to abuse, humiliate,
and devalue them.
Of course it is hard to understand how someone who confess their love to you can turn into
an abusive one, especially abusing your relationship.
When it's happening, your whole world seem to crumble, and your heart is breaking.
Often times, people feel traumatized and confused after their romantic relationship with narcissist
ends.
They are wondering, we were so in love as if the world belong to both of us, but now
he cheated on me, devaluated me, embarassed me, how can I trust someone ever again?
People who has been abused by their narcissistic partner may questioning and regretting how
they could have made such a big mistake, in result, they also wondering on how they can
avoid making it again in the future.
What I can tell is, there are actually so many reasons why it happens.
Most people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder are easy to predict, most of them
have similar personalities and behaviors.
Once you know them for quite sometimes, you'll realize that they tend to follow the same
relationship pattern again and again.
And, that's something that you can learn on early stage to determine whether a new partner
is a narcissist by paying close attention to their behaviors towards you, then you can
decide everything after that.
Now, we back again to the question on why do narcissists abuse those they say they love,
here is the list of reasons why narcissists like to abuse others.
#1 - Low empathy
Being empathetic is one thing that anyone should consider.
Typically people learn from time to time about empathy towards others.
However, some people who we know as narcissists fail to recognize the need of having high
empathy towards people.
They only care about themselves, and that is why they cannot understand and feel the
pain and happiness of others.
What they seek is only their happiness without knowing that the process may harm others.
#2 - Lacking of whole object relation
Whole object relation is basically an understanding of relation between objects.
In this case, the objects are human being: you and I, she and he, they and we.
Narcissists cannot understand that the quality of between the objects are not always good.
They only want to get what they like from others.
They dislike qualities from others, and they will not see it from different perspective.
They just do not understand that each object has its own bad or good things from it.
#3 - Lacking of object constancy
In addition to failure in recognizing whole object relation, narcissists also lack of
object constancy.
It is basically a self-control mechanism.
In any kind of relationship, sometimes a person gets too emotional.
However, object constancy makes sure the person to stay at positive side of the spectrum regardless
of negative feeling you have such as anger, disappointment, desperation, and frustration.
Such self-control actually helps to reduce the risk of hurting others both physically
or mentally in heated situation.
Unfortunately, narcissists are lacking of this quality, making them violent in any conflict.
All in all, that's the reasons why narcissists like to abuse others.
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Iron Man Falls / Snow Scene | Iron Man 3 (2013) Movie Clip - Duration: 3:34.
Sir?
- Sir!
All right, kill the alarm. I got it.
That's the emergency alert triggered by the power dropping below 5%.
Oh...
Oh!
It's snowing, right? Where are we, upstate?
We are five miles outside of Rose Hill, Tennessee.
Why?
Jarvis. Not my idea.
What are we doing here? This is thousands of miles away!
I gotta get Pepper. I gotta...
I prepared a flight plan. This was the location.
Who asked you?
- Open the suit. I...
I think I may be malfunctioning, sir.
Open it, J.
That's brisk.
Maybe I'll just cosy back up for a...
I actually think I need to sleep now, sir.
- Jarvis.
Jarvis?
Don't leave me, buddy.
Stark secure server
now transferring to all known receivers.
Pepper, it's me.
I've got a lot of apologies to make and not a lot of time.
So... First off, I'm so sorry I put you in harm's way.
That was selfish and stupid, and it won't happen again.
Also, it's Christmastime and the rabbit's too big.
Done. Sorry.
And I'm sorry in advance
because I can't come home yet.
I need to find this guy.
You gotta stay safe, that's all I know.
I just stole a poncho from a wooden Indian.
Let's get you comfy.
You happy now?
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Embarrassing Mom #1 - Duration: 0:14.
Honey, do you want some sour cream on that?
Do you want a dab of sour cream?
You want Momma to dab on that?
Honey?
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XIAOMI TRAVEL BUSINESS BACKPACK REVIEW /// THESTYLEJUNGLE HANDS-ON REVIEWS - Duration: 4:29.
hey guys today we are doing a review of XIAOMI travel business backpack
so this bag costs 58 New Zealand dollars or around 40 US dollars so we purchased
it from gearbest.com and we were using it for around 2 months already so here
is what we think this bag has 26 litres capacity and it should fit 15.6 inch
laptop so the reason why I decided to buy this particular backpack is because
it's perfect for travels that's what it says on the website and this is why it's
called travel backpack I can put my camera here a couple of lenses laptop
and I thought it should fits drone as well but it is not the drone that I have
is DJI phantom4 it doesn't fit to this backpack so I guess the smaller drones
for example DJI spark or DJI mavic will be perfect for this size but if
you're looking for a bag for bigger drones this is not your choice so this
backpack is made from polyester with some special durable cloth it says that
is anti scratch and it's super durable but what I noticed is that if you use it
quite actively you can see all the wrinkles on the surface and they're not
sewing back to original form actually I don't feel like it is really durable you
can wash it obviously you can use it while it's raining but it is not super
high so the product actually design really well I really like how this
different materials are organized here you have like a city backpack with a
nice denim like style and here you have this surface that is waterproof to
actually can fit different outfits so for example if you're using it for work
or for study you can mix it with some formal clothes and if you're going like
I go outdoors just in a t-shirt it still looks pretty nice people have a strap to
attach this backpack to other luggage items for example with your suitcase
there are a lot of pockets here so you can put some smaller items over here
over here there are two big main compartments
with a lot of different smaller pockets for for example for your smartphone for
some cash obviously for laptop or chargers for tablets so it's actually
pretty good designs and really well thought through you can use it as your
camera bag as your laptop bag if you're going for example for short holidays and
you want to put some clothes inside it's still really good for that it has some
straps inside so you can close different kinds of baggage and divide them what I
notice is that is actually really comfortable to use this backpack so it's
not super heavy it fits to my body really great and I really feel
comfortable with it do I recommend to buy this Selmy backpack
yes I do because it's actually really great in terms of price and what you get
for this price it actually really good products for a pretty reasonable price
so this was our review of this backpack and I hope you liked it tell us in
comments what you think about this format of videos if you like these
product reviews we'll do them more often thank you for watching please subscribe
to our Channel and we'll see you soon bye bye
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Is Puppy Biting Normal? - All things Pup With Dr Kate Adams and Tracy Everitt Bondi Vets [1/2] - Duration: 4:23.
I'm Dr Kate Adams from Bondi Veterinary Hospital
and today I'm here with the very lovely Tracy Everitt.
Tracy is a dog trainer from Sit Stay Dog School and she actually runs the puppy classes here
at Bondi Veterinary Hospital.
I get so many questions about pups so I thought
'You know what, I'm going to get Tracy in and I'm going to have a chat to her about
all of those really common questions that you guys want answered.'
Thanks for coming, Trace.
You're welcome, no problem.
And we should actually apologise, we're actually just before a puppy class this morning
- and it's a Sunday morning and it's like… ridiculous o'clock.
.. 8 o'clock, Sunday morning..
we're all a bit tired.
- A little bit.
So, Trace, one of the questions that I get asked all the time is 'Is puppy biting normal?'
Yes, Kate, absolutely.
Puppy biting is really normal.
So it's quite normal for new puppy owners to be really worried about this.
And obviously it's a good thing to be worried about it because those teeth are super sharp,
like little needles.
So, pup biting IS normal, but you do need to do your best to teach your puppy how to
interact appropriately without biting you.
And I kind of imagine.. you know, these guys don't have hands like us.
So the reality is that the way that they're exploring their whole world is through their mouth..
Absolutely, that's quite right.
So everything is in the mouth.
It's a sensory experience for them as well as the fact that they are walking around with a mouth full of tooth ache.
Because they are teething at this time as well.
So their mouth hurts, they're being exploratory
and they're just trying to learn what they are meant to do.
So there you go guys.
Puppy biting: completely normal.
Yes.. sad but true.
With puppy biting it's all about toys, replacement and redirection.
Making sure that they learn to bite on appropriate items and not bite on you.
You're also teaching them the control bite inhibition where you can say 'ouch!' when
they bite you too hard but it's really important that you don't use any stronger verses like
smacking the puppy's nose or spraying them with water guns or anything like that, because
that can really break down your early relationship with your puppy.
So that's a good point, Trace.
Actually disciplinary action when it comes to biting is a no go.
No absolutely not.
A lot of people think that just a quick tap on the nose or on the bottom is going to be ok.
But what you are actually teaching your puppy is to be afraid of hands.
And that has got potential - long term ramifications for your dog's behaviour in lots of different
situations.
So you do have to be very careful about what you do with your puppy in this early developmental stage.
Because everything you do actually has consequences.
A bit like with children.
Very much so.
Very much so.
You've got a lot of learning to do in a short time and everything you do as a new
puppy parent has a big impact.
That's very true.
Thank you Trace.
No problem.
Up next we're going to be coming back to Tracy and having a bit more of a chat about
puppies and in particular about toilet training you pup.
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