Hey guys, Nick Drossos. Welcome to Code Red Defense, today we're going to be
looking at how to talk to your attacker whether it's verbal or physical and this
is very important because what you say, what your body says, he's going to be
reading and he's going to be feeding off okay. I always tell people that when
you're going to defuse a situation the first thing is obviously you want to
keep your hands up I don't want to say look man I don't
want to fight and yet I'm in a fighting stance. What does my body say is that I want to
fight. So, what I'm saying I'm also... I'm saying must also be congruous
with my body. So if my hands are up and I'm trying to defuse a situation, I always
tell people what's the key in trick of the defusing a situation: be honest.
Really defuse the situation, don't only do it out of strategy, really try to talk
your way out of a fight. I worked in clubs, I saw people fight over the dumbest things,
stupidest things and I've seen people
take beatings over the dumbest and stupidest things. I saw a guy that got is ass kicked
and all the other guy told them apologize. Freak you, I'm not going to apologize.
Guess what... 3 guys jumped him and beat him up until we had to jump in okay. So when
we're talking to your attacker listen to the words.
I'm listening to the words but I'm also studying his body language but I'm also
staying aware of my body language. I like to keep my tone of voice... I don't want to be
like look man I don't want to fight... Look man I really don't to fight, I'm sure we can talk about it.
My voice is stating neutral. As i'm talking to him, I'm studying his body language, at
the same time I'm not allowing him to get any anything and I you know I'm talking in a
way that I'm trying to control the situation, I'm trying to defuse, it's very
simple. I'm either going to allow him to control the conversation or I'm going to
control the conversation which means, who ever controls the
conversation also can control the fight. If he pushes me, I just played into his trap.
I play into his game. However, if he pushes me and I'm going to keep my voice
right now I'm drawing him in, I'm setting up my first strike, the verbal psychology
I'm going to lower his guard I'm going to raise his ego and I'm going to get... I'm
going to set up to throw my first strike. I can't do it if I'm, freak you man... Once I
do that, I'm escalating the situation, he's also preparing for me to hit
and counter or for him to go preemptive. So your verbal as well as your body is very
important. So I hope you guys enjoyed the video. If you want to learn more
self-defense, we have an hour-and-a-half video I'm just verbal defense. We'll put the
link in the description. Go click on it, go check out this hour and a half
action-packed video and I want to thank for watching, I'll see you guys on the
other side. Stay safe and stand strong.
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