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Hey Dan here and in this video I want to share two statistics that drive me
freaking nuts when I hear people talk about them and I think have a really
negative effect on society now if you're new here I'm Dan this is Dreams Around
The World and generally I make videos about becoming your best self and
creating the most awesome life possible in this video I want to talk about two
statistics that I think the way they're shared and the way they're talked about
do hold people back and stop them from creating the most awesome life possible
the first one is this one you've probably heard is 9 out of 10 small
businesses fail this is something that's thrown around a lot often for no real
purpose often to discourage people of starting a business 9 out of 10 fail and
of course the way most people think is like oh well now I know 10 that's gonna
be me and of course entrepreneurs think 1 out of 10 boom this will be easy and
go for it so maybe it isn't that bad but here's
the problem with that stat um what drives me nuts about it is those sort of
statistics are just looking at an overall population right there were this
many businesses started and this many fail and I think the 9 out of 10 is
within like 10 years it's not the first year or something like that
but the thing with that is how many jobs does the average person get so the
person thinking about starting their own business who's saying all nine out of
ten fail how many of their jobs have they done for life probably none of them
if they're thinking about starting their own business right you do a job you
might work it for two or three years and then you change to another job does that
mean you failed at the first job what about relationships what are some sudden
high-note of 10 relationships fail well yeah that's kind of what dating is you
go through a relationship and then you find the best one for you or you get
desperate in your mid-30s and then you settle down and you have your successful
marriage I'm going to talk about marriage in a second by the way then you
have your successful marriage in that is we don't look back and maybe you do say
those were failed relationships but you never say I'm not gonna have a
relationship because 9 out of 10 of them fail that would be stupid and so yeah
probably a lot of businesses who fail but a big part of that is getting in a
business for yourself is a learning curve the same way plane
sport or getting a job and finding the right job for you or finding the right
relationship or person for you is also a learning curve so I really hate that
that statistic is thrown around because I think for a lot of people they look at
it as if 9 out of 10 fail that means 9 out of 10 entrepreneurs fail and never
succeed as an entrepreneur and I think that is probably very untrue I'm sure
that there are entrepreneurs who succeed in 10 out of 10 of their businesses and
there are people who maybe fail in the first one or two and then their third
hits and I know there are people who fail in their first 10 and business
number 11 is are successful in either way looking at the statistics like that
like nine out of ten are failures I think it's a really dangerous way of
doing it now as I said fortunately most entrepreneurs we're a little crazy so we
see a stat like that and they nine out of ten fail either I'll be the one or
all right I'll start 11 businesses boom I'm guaranteed to make it work
the second statistic that's worth thinking about is around marriage though
this varies a lot by country but there's a statistic you hear a lot in North
America that is 50% of marriages fail yes but not 50% of people who get
married end up divorced a lot of those statistics are skewed by people who get
divorced two three four times usually the lawyers who are actually doing the
divorces have the highest divorce rate as it would be but that creates a really
distorted view right the number of first marriages that fail is not 50% it's
lower I don't know what it is similarly and maybe depressing if you're in this
situation if you're going into your third or fourth marriage the odds of
your marriage failing statistically not necessarily for you personally are
higher than someone going into their first marriage because perhaps perhaps
there is some kind of a pattern there now all the statistical stuff aside
another thing that bugs me about this is that it really can discourage people who
would otherwise be hopeless romantics who would jump into marriage of doing so
because they'll look at those numbers and say I can't beat that and I did
another video on this where I was talking about the overall approach to
life and about thinking okay I want to design an incredible life for myself I
want to do things differently than most people so why would marriage not be the
same right but at least for me these sort of statistics always threw me off
or I was like that does not sound appealing 50 percent basically that
means every marriage fails ever and it's a hopeless institution so why am i
spending a video ranting about two of these statistics because I'd like to
encourage you to think more about the statistics you hear there's a lot of
other ones out there that I won't bring up because I don't need those kind of
debates in my comments that are often misquoted and used to either hold people
back or start fights or make points and the truth is statistics tend to be quite
complicated especially if you haven't studied statistical analysis or
something like that but fortunately you do get forced to study in most
first-year psychology programs but whether you are an emotional person or a
highly logical person there's no way that the statistics you hear don't
change your opinions and form attitudes towards things in life whether it is
starting your own business or travel or marriage and I think it's really really
important to be aware of that and start to filter the things coming in one way
to filter statistics from stopping them from really penetrating your brain and
influencing you too much is to actually break them down and get into the details
like why is this the case and analyze what is actually going on but behind the
statistics another thing you can do is look for positive examples that disprove
the rule say 80% of marriages fail say that was true but you really wanted to
get married you know what I would spend my time on finding those 20% people who
have a happy good marriage okay maybe that's 10 percent of marriages that stay
so finding that 10 percent and learn from them and find out what they did to
make it work don't look at that 80 percent and say I can't do it look at
the small group that's making it work and then learn from them and then just
decide that is how my life is going to be so there's definitely value in big
picture in looking at statistics or numbers over countries or over the world
to understand how things work but please please don't let them decide for you
what's possible for your own life start with what you really want and then work
backwards and figure out how to do it and if you take that approach it almost
guarantee you're going to have a a lot higher chance of succeeding than
whatever those kind of government numbers will tell you thank you for
watching if you're new to the channel consider subscribing and if you do
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catch you in another video soon bye and so I hate that that statistic is
you
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