11 Comebacks for Dealing with a Liar.
Dealing with liars can be frustrating.
Even though you sometimes lie to others too, it is just complicated when you are the one
dealing with lies.
It is annoying, and it makes you angry.
There is nothing you can do unless you know some tricks to fight against liars.
In this video, I'm going to share with you 11 effective comebacks for dealing with a
liar.
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Here's the things you can do when you are dealing with a liar.
#1 - Check whether they lie.
Dealing with liars should start with the fact whether they lie or not.
Otherwise, they will not admit they are doing it, making you frustrated or you'll regret
because you accuse people for what they didn't do.
#2 - Check your evidences.
If you are dealing with liars, you need to prepare a bunch of physical evidence.
Otherwise, you are risking yourself to lose arguments.
You can prepare documents, photographs, screenshots, cut documentation, and many other things.
They are important because liars will not admit even after you show those evidences.
#3 - Determine what you are going to do.
Sometimes, lies can be tolerated, sometimes they cannot.
You decide what you are going to do with the person.
You also need to consider why the people lay from the beginning.
Is there something wrong that they don't want you to know?
Or is it because the person only wants to have fun?
#4 - Say it out loud.
If you are dealing with liars, sometimes you need to yell a little.
This won't work well on people who prefer avoiding conflicts.
However, this may work if you think of something at stake.
It can be your reputation or your relationship with others.
You need to say it out loud of their lies in front of others to let them know it too.
#5 - Remember your integrity.
When you are faced with liars, remember that you still have dignity, value, and integrity.
You need to have a higher power than others in order to win the match against the liars.
The only way to do that is by strengthening your position first.
#6 - Be calm.
You are not a barbarian, and you need to solve things in calm and civilized manner.
If things get heated up, don't get carried away because it is probably their main intention
to trigger such response from you.
#7 - Watch their reaction.
The next thing you need to consider is their reaction.
It is easy to see whether they actually lie or not.
When they lie, they usually do weird things.
They also show unusual gestures that you've never seen before.
#8 - Watch for Another possible reaction.
Another possible reaction is an expression with full of regret.
Typically, it is because they are caught of lying the first time.
It is also probably because they've asked by other people to lie.
#9 - Send a strong message.
You must not lose to liars.
You are the victim, and you need to tell them clearly that you hate what they've done
to you.
However, you need to remain powerful and calm because it will make you look reliable to
talk to.
Thus, it is possible that the person eventually tells the truth.
#10 - If you happen to yell, wisely craft the sentence.
For instance, this sentence can help you to counteract the liars: 'Well done! congratulation
on your ability to create a drama from nothing.'
#11 - Reflect.
Most people are originally honest.
They don't want to lie unless they have to do it.
There are some occasion in which people are constantly lying, but that only happens on
compulsive liars.
After your comebacks, you should consider forgiving them because eventually you'll
meet them again.
Well, those are the 11 efective comebacks for dealing with a liar.
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