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This video is how to show love and affection to your husband. And I think

I've got a few tips that will really make a difference for you and your

marriage.

Hey, my friend. I want to share with you something that would make a big

difference in how you and your husband connect together. You know, something I do

is I want him to hear my voice. I wanted him to hear me talk to him and to share

my affection, my love with him. You know men, they have a lot on their plates. They

have a lot of responsibilities providing and taking care of our family and our

home. And one thing that I can do for him, is for me to verbally express to him

my love and my affection. And sometimes, there was there was actually a time in

our life in our marriage when we were struggling. We were going through a

really difficult time in our life. You know, where my husband I were both

overweight. We were both financially just having a really difficult time in it

with our finances. We were just not living the life of our dreams at all.

Like not even at all. And it was kind of like at that time, our life was just kept

going down in and not a good way. And I decided that together, we could make a

difference. And so, I began to talk to him in a way that really boosted him up. Even

though we were really struggling and we were really having a... Just difficult

life, I would talk to him as if I was seeing him in the future of the man that

I knew he could be. Even though in that moment, it wasn't actually like true but

it was what I could see him to be. I talked him about being a great provider

for our family. Now, he was a good dad. I told him that he was like the best dad

on the planet. That there was no dad better than him. And I would tell him how

much I loved the way he took care of our kids and he and the way he touched our

kids and talked to our kids and loved our kids. And I would... I would tell him

those types of things and it made such a difference. Then I would talk about how I

appreciated all the things he did from our family and how I appreciated how

hard he worked for us and all the things that he did for us and how he took care

of our home. Even though at that time, he was not really providing great for

our family and he really wasn't taking care of a lot of things in our family.

But I kept telling him that story. It was absolutely amazing because it wasn't

very long and all of the things that I would tell him began to come true. And

that was awesome. And I would tell him how super sexy he

was, I would I would just just give him all the passion by my words. I know that

my voice, he'd loves to hear my voice. And so, I

would get really close up to his ear and I would tell him all these things in his

ear and it just made him feel good. He actually stood taller. He actually,

he was much happier. And I really saw the difference and even just me talking to

him, he would actually treat my kids even just how much better and it just really

made a difference in our relationship. By the way, I spoke to him. I spoke to him as

if he was the most amazing man that ever walked the planet and that made a

difference. Something I've found that men are... They are so physical. They just want

us to touch them all the time. And you know, it's so easy for us as women to be

so busy taking care of our kids and taking care of the house and taking care

of all the responsibilities that we have. But I know that when my husband gets

touched by me, even if it's just like to rub his back or to rub my fingers

through his hair or to tickle his back or to massage his back, it makes such a

difference for him. He loves feeling that touch and that connection because

you know these guys, they work hard. They're out doing stuff all day long and

they're make it happen. And so by me touching him, he feels important.

He feels loved and that can make... Your marriage just totally connected and

stronger when you could have that beautiful physical connection. So, the

more I touch him the happier he gets. Here's another idea for you. There was

this day that my husband decided he was going to clean our garage out and it

needed cleaning like it really needed cleaning. There was so much stuff in our

garage and so like, "Okay, you do your thing on the

garage." And it wasn't part of my plan that day so he was doing it on his own.

And he he's out there cleaning out the garage and he takes everything out to

her out of our garage and he puts it out on the driveway. And I come out there and

I would... At first I was kind of shocked. I was like, "Oh, my gosh. What are we going to do?

Are we going to like have our garage on the driveway for the rest of our life?" Kind

of scared me for a minute. But then I reeled that back in and I realized, "Okay,

what he needs right now is a good validation moment." So, I took that time

and I validated him. And I'm like, "Oh, my gosh! This is amazing, I love the garage."

It looks so clean. And it's going to be so amazing when you when you put everything

back in the garage. "And oh, you did great putting all these things together and

all the tools together and all the all the gardening equipment together. You did

so good on getting all that stuff organized. And oh, my goodness. We're going to

get rid of some of this stuff. This is awesome." And I just kept validating him

and telling what a great job he was doing and complimenting him and then

letting him know how I could like... I could imagine what its going to be like in

the garage when he's done. And he just stood because I could kind of tell he was a

little bit overwhelmed. I don't know about you but if you've ever gotten into

a really big project and you weren't sure exactly how it was going to turn out

and when I walked out I could see that look in his face on his eyes. And so I

knew that the way I could touch him and make a difference was would be to

validate him and help him to feel like he can pull it back together again.

And as as I did that, he stood taller and he got his confidence back and he got

right back at it and the garage looked amazing when he was done. Now, another tip

I want to give you at the same little situation here is you know how when your

husband puts up a shelf or a picture and it's crooked? You want to just say, "Oh, my

goodness. Honey this is so amazing. I love what you've done. Thank you so much for

taking such good care of our family and I thank you for putting up this

shelf and you are such a man." Because you know what? Sometimes they just need to

know how much you love them. No matter what the project actually

looked like, they just need to know if you love them. And then you validate them as a

man. Hey, I am super glad that you watched

this video today. My husband I have a class called Royalty

and Romance. Oh! It is amazing. It's 3 days here in Salt Lake City, Utah. I would

love to have you attend our class so that you can learn so much more to

support you and your husband and having the most amazing life ever in your

romance of marriage. You know what? If you've got a few tips you'd like to add,

go ahead and add them here to the comments.

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hey guys are you gonna say hey we're in Dollar Tree we're in the

big one today oh you guys stay tuned in because sorry is going to get a hundred

dollars and she is gonna buy whatever she wants in Dollar Tree that video is

coming up next I think it's gonna be up a really soon I'll put it on the screen

yes Valentine's Day goodies we saw all of this already

I believe oh this would be cool to give like your friends who love dinosaurs

we can give one to Grady he likes dinosaurs yes and so do you so

do i oh these are the new and you can use this for like other than Valentine's

Day you know there's love a cupcake look yep you sure do further once again

these are really cool if you don't know you put the little plastic beads on and

then you put wax paper on top and you earn it Oh check this out it's a

double-sided container

so I think you screw off the table and these grow up the bottom I was pretty

clean there's some different colors these plates you guys this could

definitely double as decor cool I like the way that looks together what do you

know what do you see a teddy bear here

and then they have some kitchen towels over here let's see there's the teddy

bear and what else yes lots of green what is this I don't

know Oh does that say look I would supposed

to spell look super glittery you did was good work sorry is so funny and we saw

this before that's what a money bank with is this a cloud what is this Oh

hippo

hang on the opposite wall we have some spring goodies some garden stuff bamboo

wind chimes

I don't see anything that's new maybe they have some new little fairy

figurines these look no the rabbit oh those are from last year

monkey links I think they're just little plastic monkeys that you can kind of

hang together oh there's our new little building blocks the Jumbo ones I'm not

sure if this is a good deal or not because you only get eight pieces

there's two different ones new action figures

yes looks like there's three different ones to choose from have some slime I

don't really like this slime we did a video one of these a long time ago and

some cool little plastic snakes

are you scared these are new lightening wheels perfect little girl you got my

lady

let's down here let's find something good you have this one like all the way

back there I don't see the rest of them it's all the flowers and the hearts but

now they have a little dinosaur I think this would be cool for her to paint you

want this in the crafts section by the way these are new they're like super

super big maybe not that big but they're pretty big you only get six in a pack

and typically I think you get it oh here's the other pack no that's not it

here it is right here you get 45 pieces fuck you guys Wow it comes with ten

sticks of modeling clay some little stencils a mat a rolling tool and some

little accessories this would be really cool to put together and then we saw

this one last time

one dollar I don't really see anything new just a lot of stickers we already

have tons in a teacher's corner and I found some card stands I think they're

for the like there Jess what does that mean

yes what does that mean thank you watch Arielle if we watched Ariel The Little

Mermaid that's what it's called yes yes so you can use these for different

things like maybe in your office or something or on top or look there's a

clip you can put these on your bins hmm oh and there's a bigger Center right

here a commission very good desk swag that's pretty cool oh did you guys

at the girl balls desk the core video that I did let's check out the

books what do we see what do we see

easily yes he did and he was funny and he was funny

look at these little note beds so there's that one

and this floral one right here and I'm pretty sure it's all one more where is

it right here that's cool these are gorgeous little notebooks it's

more fine apples stop you have like an iridescent finish to them girls cried

I think that's it I always say this but I think I'm gonna grab some they might

come in handy for saris number lesson twins yes for school work and they have

your mini planners I hope you guys are still into those but there's a ton of

yellow binders in black oh this is new adhesive spring look we have the crayons

this would be a cute little kids headboard it's like put ten of them

together or something new hoops yes well it's a unicorn one doesn't want to focus

well the hula hoop with the unicorns on it and I strike one emoji one everything

so sparkly over here I found something new it'll her like a tray I like I

like smile and there's one more hello

these are new

look at this big colorful gym come on camera this would come in handy for like

some type of chandelier DIY but a buying bulk it's cheaper found some new decor

pieces I think it's plastic it is these are

plastic we have little hanging hooks on the back

yes you are you guys know I have to reach in the back

I spotted these gorgeous LED candles check out the pattern the texture

excuse my nails these aren't new we're gonna share it again

check out these fancy candles oh and it's glass the foam are bang cozy

sweater are you on the phone oh this smells pretty good but it doesn't smell

like basil and thyme it's new and cute

I think you saw these penny conquer glitter candles all of these are ones so

if you're 1 11 or 111 get some candles full Pearl trim I always buy things like

this for DIYs but I'm sure it's cheaper just to buy this trim in bulk

look at this charger that's new we always see this style right here of the

smaller dots boom there's more I came back to this charter and there's like

look over that glitter oh my goodness I have never seen pearl string beans

string of beads at Dollar Tree oh my gosh

I'm getting all of those even there's only like five yes and you broke it get

some of these cracker oh my goodness

oh my goodness this is such an amazing little score

just big size of conch only people who DIY and do like home-improvement stuff

get excited about that if you guys see these at Dollar Tree get them especially

if you're a lady with hair because oh my goodness this is such a life saver and

it's one dollar you just stick it in your drain hole and slowly pull it out

and bam your sticker

elmo's got the moves I see some new hair accessories looks

like something out of Claire's

I love this little section over here it's like new toys and fun stuff sure

these go in the door and they have the Rhinestone iridescent

gym shoes what's over here sorry what do you see some trading cards and

more bracelets get this hand sanitizer okay not so exciting that's Wonder Woman

and some stationery items of my favorite the list bags you guys right now after

you watch this video go watch my DIY with this probably because they're not

really squishy they're like little gummy sticky thing is something lollipops

I love using the lollipops like this and like the big ones as decor pieces so

pretty some body wash mango tango mango pickle yes

no not mango potato but mango tango this is new got to be thickening the pomping

mousse I don't need that oh look more got to be stunned I think

they sound us as Sally's this is the messy fine putty there's more hairspray

got to be this is new we go mmm this was randomly placed over here

our raw vegan cookbook how much is this 15 no $13 US dollars

these are such little awesome finds who I turned the corner and bolero has

shampoo and conditioner now coconut oil sea salt and argan oil and avocado these

are the balloons that I used in my latest kids DIY looking for the three

who knows already turns 3 in May give her some cute little headband sorry I

don't think we will but these aren't too bad I like them because they don't have

the plastic what was it oh yeah those are met your alphabets my friend

somebody's angry these fours somebody's crying okay alright why do I always

prematurely speak because look at all of these headbands that have the soft

inside hold of these okay less and learn okay this one's broke but oh look at

this one I'm always laying up they don't have it

and then boom it pops up I don't think these will I think this will start to

hurt her but that's a nice little pad

became friends did you name him or her didn't give him the name silly yeah

hello silly nice to meet you yep alright so we're back in the car and we're gonna

share the goodies we picked up we've got a lot of stuff so we're gonna try to

move pretty fast and video welcome welcome welcome if you missed the first

part of the video start off with these happy birthday crowns the lady that was

checking us out oh she's so sweetly said oh is she having a party I was like no

I'm buying this for the material I would not recommend you doing that but because

I make dollar tree DIY videos it's good for me to have supplies like this on

hand like fine book I in bulk I know you're tired to hear me say it so we

have these two you want with the Pearl trim and apparently and which one do you

have I have anything my show then the gold

trim I'm so cool right princess little paper

Tiara so I picked up this set because of the metal part right here it's either

metal or plastic nice little bear I have this foam and kneeling pad and a rose

tonight midnight sticky it smells like wood that yes thank you

smells like flowers

grab this set of plastic wine glasses I can't get the money okay

and this drain I mean somehow I don't know how but my hair ends up in the

drain I'm like babe the sink is clogged I don't have to call him anymore just

stick it in there my hair comes right out you just put like a sink

strainer in there - that word for crap time during foam roller we're sorry -

roll it around as a paint I have this raw cake book this was too nice not to

pick up some more paint I don't know why I thought about this today but this is

like mess free paint because right now I'm doing the liquid paint squeezing it

out and then she it just gets everywhere I picked up these little weight you can

and and we picked up some educational workbooks sorry his Missouri four

of these mirror with a black frame

all right play-doh and I prefer this play-doh okay the Crayola one real the

one and the play-doh work it's softer and I love the dares

stencils or stamps on the top I also picked up this right here it's pretty

cool if I had this around for the fall time uh I could have made us we're

cool-looking pumpkin I don't know if you guys can see money budget change sure

pirate hook or what is it is this apartment look yes or four projects yes

my bathroom I picked up these paper cups

little counting blocks my battery

which shape is there a rhombus a dinosaur would shape Valentine's Day

card for me pancakes cut

I picked up six bags up so for $6 we got 600 I think you can find the pearls for

$8 in this 50% off but they don't have the holes I don't think of course I

grabbed the Rose art creation here we got back we have ha ha are you

excited to make something you can make something yummy

grab two bubbles there in the flower container and sorry can take the bubbles

but I want this container and I want did it get cake doesn't it look like a

little perfume bottle

okay

now they can see I picked up three more healthy diamond the giant diamond ring

gauge a family two of these gorgeous faux marble candle butterfly did you

break it

there's a hanging butterfly or one winged butterfly if you want we ended up

die you'll have to count sorry broke it when we were in the store

headband money money we just six for a dollar that's pretty good

it's baby daughter 6 for 1 dollar 1 6 2 packs of head that's a lot of headbands

lot of headband fully have one head one hand and I thought this pack right here

was cute with the little words oh you like polka dots

pick up two of these little bead sets one in the heart and the other one is a

cupcake where different face go to cases of goo gone

oh you're covering my face and okay you can speak from me

one bottle of adhesive spray shells in a glass jar and here's the cupcake one

that I was talking about four packs of diamond rings in pattern is so pretty

when Grandma goes like this what is she having you said it early is a

flash our teeth yes I hope you guys are checking out our dollar tree DIY series

you like do you like my DIYs what you do what they're pretty cool right yeah you

guys enjoyed hanging out with us today

yes tap to go for notifications and we'll see you Thursday

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How and Why Trailers Spoil Movies - Duration: 7:45.

Hi my name is Derek Lieu and this is: The Art of Making Trailers.

Why do trailers show so much of the movie?

Focus group testing!

Thanks for watching. Don't forget to like, comment–

Just kidding.

Not about the focus group testing; that part is true.

But because I'm a trailer editor I'm less interested in why trailers show so much,

and more interested in how to avoid making a trailer which FEELS like it's showing too much.

"I'm not machine,

I'm not man,

I'm more."

Like I said, focus group testing is a huge part of the big budget movie trailer industry.

Trailers for blockbuster movies go through rigorous testing to maximize their appeal.

The marketing department gets a bunch of people to watch trailers, and/or TV spots currently in production.

Then they ask a bunch of questions all the way down to how much people liked the individual shots.

The long and short of it is, these focus groups typically preferred trailers...

...which show more of the story over trailers which show less.

Therefore, we get a lot of trailers which show more.

And this is why it's not going to stop anytime soon.

Robert Zemeckis, the director of Cast Away

(which has a trailer notorious for showing the ending of the film) said this:

"We know from studying the marketing of movies, people really want to know...

exactly everything that they're going to see before they go see the movie; it's just one of those things.

To me, being a movie lover, and film student, and a film scholar, and a director I don't.

What I relate it to is McDonald's.

The reason McDonald's is a tremendous success is that you don't have any surprises.

You know exactly what it's going to taste like.

Everybody knows the menu."

I know several trailer editors, and none of them gleefully or maliciously put the best shots in their trailers,

But they know it's a delicate balance between showing cool looking shots, and not showing too much.

So what exactly constitutes showing too much?

Is it showing the most impressive shots?

Is it showing any shots from the last third of the film?

During my PAX West panel about making game trailers...

I asked one of my guests, Jake Rodkin from Campo Santo, for advice to fellow game developers.

He said:.

"In a shot that people are seeing when they don't know the entire story of your game...

...and they don't know the entire context.

An audience member is just going to look at it and say: 'That looks really awesome.

I want to do that in the game.'"

The most important word in that quote is "context."

Which led me to this conclusion:

People feel spoiled when the biggest questions posed by the trailer are then answered.

Now, trailers should leave you with a lot of unanswered questions.

So when you're done watching you need to seek out the movie or game for answers.

"Unfortunately, no one can be TOLD what The Matrix is..."

But there are some basic questions you do want answered in a trailer.

What is the premise?

Who are the characters?

What do they want?

These need to be answered.

Otherwise the audience won't be interested at all.

What I think crosses the line is when the trailer answers the how, why, and what then questions.

Let's look at some examples.

Cast Away is a film about Tom Hanks getting marooned on an island.

"HELLO!?"

This premise naturally leads to the question: "Will he get off the island?".

At 2 minutes into the trailer we find out:

Yes, he does make it off the island.

This is a pretty cut and dry example of showing too much.

There is literally ONE big question posed by the trailer.

It's kind of mind boggling that showing the end was even a consideration.

Then again Cast Away made over 400 million dollars at the box office.

So I guess people didn't care that much.

Another thing to consider is: maybe people just didn't want to see a movie...

...where they know Tom Hanks might die at the end.

This goes back to what Robert Zemeckis said about the audience wanting to know what they're getting.

Another type of trailer which feels like it shows too much.

Is the kind which keeps on saying:.

And then...

A good example is the trailer for Angelina Jolie's film: Unbroken.

The trailer opens with an American military plane firing its machine guns at an enemy.

And then...

We flashback to the soldier as a child where he gets in trouble, and is beat by his father.

And then...

We see the boy trained to be a runner, and winning a race as a man.

And then...

We see the man get to the Olympics.

And then...

We see the man win the Olympics.

And then...

The man joins the army.

And then...

The man get shot down.

And then...

The man is adrift at sea.

And then...

The man is picked up by the Japanese.

And then...

The man is in a prison camp.

And then...

This trailer posed these questions:

"Will the boy become a great runner?"

"Will the man survive the war?"

"Will they survive being adrift at sea?"

"Will the man survive the prison camp?"

Three out of four of these questions get answered.

The important lesson here is:.

The audience for a trailer is trying to understand what the story is about.

The more time spent on any one plotline, the more likely...

...the audience will expect the entire movie to be about that one plotline.

This is why these trailers feel like this show so much.

By the end the audience has seen three or four stories when they came in looking for one.

Another one of my favorite examples of a trailer showing too much is for Wes Craven's thriller Red Eye.

The trailer starts with a fake out setup where it pretends to be a meet-cute romantic comedy...

...between Cillian Murphy and Rachel McAdams,

But it turns out it's a thriller where he's quietly holding her hostage on a plane.

"As fate would have it, my business is all about you."

The question here is: "Will she get away?"

105 seconds in, the trailer is tense and, intriguing but in the following 15 seconds...

She escapes the plane,

runs through the airport,

drives a car down the freeway,

fights killing Murphy in an apartment,

and then there's a rocket launcher for some reason?

I laugh every time I see it because that 15 seconds is basically saying:.

AND THEN AND THEN AND THEN AND THEN AND THEN AND THEN AND THEN AND THEN...

To this day I'm amazed how quickly the trailer squanders all its built up suspense in such a short period of time.

And then...

So, aside from not answering the big questions...

How does a trailer avoid looking like it's showing the entire story?

Well, how about not asking the big questions in the first place?

Take a look at the trailer for The Matrix.

All of these shots are from the very end of the film.

Neo has learned kung fu.

He knows there is no spoon and all that,

and he is going to use his newfound skills to save Morpheus and the crew.

Why don't these shots feel like spoilers?

Because here are the questions the trailer asks.

What is The Matrix?

Who are these apparently not human villains?

What is the real world, and what is the fake world?

Notice, none of these questions are: "Will Neo learn to become The One?"

Virtually no time is spent showing Neo as the ignorant, bumbling John Anderson.

Therefore, we don't know that him becoming Neo is a pivotal moment in the film.

We also don't know Morpheus gets captured, and needs to be saved.

Therefore him jumping out the window, and dangling from a helicopter,

doesn't feel like something is being spoiled.

For all we know this is from the middle of the film.

My guiding philosophy for trailer editing is:

"It's more important to avoid the appearance of showing too much...

...rather than avoiding what might be considered spoilers."

I think of what questions I'm posing to the audience,

and to what degree I'm answering them (if at all).

How much context the trailer gives or withholds affects the audience's experience.

Balancing the line between telling too much or not enough is extremely tricky.

But dancing on that line is what makes for the most engaging trailers.

Thanks for watching.

Let me know in the comments below your favorite trailers...

...which tread the line of exciting without making you feel like you saw too much.

I hope you enjoyed this look at the art of making trailers.

If you want more videos like this please like, and subscribe.

And, have fun!

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Lost/Stolen Device | Cybersecurity Insights | Episode 10 - Duration: 2:50.

Hey!

Josh here from Absolute.

Today, we'll cover something we all experience

but rarely talk about: missing devices.

[Music]

Isn't it amazing how businesses have evolved?

Our workforce is global.

Laptops, tablets, mobile phones are all scattered around the world,

the term 'user' now includes

customers, partners, contractors, among others,

and data...

data hides 'out there' on endpoints that

regularly go out-of-sight.

35% of endpoints contain sensitive corporate data.

What happens when one of these machines goes missing?

Well, we can begin by answering 4 questions:

1) Where is it?

Some may say that isolating or scanning or

quarantining a device is the real first step,

but that assumes you have visibility to the machine.

So, pinpointing the device's location is the true first step.

2) What's on it?

Buried within these devices are regulated data,

like health information, financial records,

or personal data.

A sure bet to be in non-compliance when the device goes AWOL.

So, we need to scan the device with lexical crawlers

to confirm or disconfirm any sensitive data.

3) What's protecting it?

Here, we need to see if any of our protective technologies,

like anti-virus, encryption, security agents and apps,

are working or if they have failed.

By extracting this kind of asset intelligence,

you can set priorities to act quickly.

4) What can we do to it?

Every scenario calls for a tailored response based on the circumstance.

This is why it is so important to have flexibility to reach any device

- on or off the network -

with any command, script, playbook

fine-tuned to the moment.

With so much movement and complexity,

you can bet your sweet bitcoin that some of these devices

Will.

Go.

Missing.

In a real-world with a boundless workforce,

paired with distributed data, devices, and apps

the recurring episode of missing machines is just part of the game.

But we can ask ourselves those four questions:

Where is it?

And we can Track & Trace

What's on it?

Extract Asset Intelligence

What's protecting it?

This puts the finger on the pulse of Endpoint Cyber Hygiene

What can we do to it?

We can automate our response for a rapid recovery.

Be sure to like this episode,

and subscribe to our channel,

because next time we'll discuss another heart attack problem:

Data Privacy

I'll see you then!

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Assertivness - Achiever Mindset Day 3/10 - Duration: 3:53.

Assertiveness

Whether you are an employee or self-employed, you constantly work with others

customers, colleagues, employees and outsourcers.

You have a choice of one of four ways to interact with the people you come in contact with:

I'm Julie Silfverberg With Success Partners

As I was saying you have a choice of one of four ways to interact.

You can be: passive, aggressive, manipulative or assertive.

When you're passive it often means waiting for others to take action before you can move on a goal.

This leaves the fate of your goals in the hands of others.

The passive person has such low self-esteem that they either automatically agree with others or run away.

When you're aggressive it usually means that you move without considering others' feelings or ideas,

which can cause resentment if not immediately, well then over time.

Aggressive behaviour is competitive; the goal is to win. You win but others loose.

Not a great solution over the longer term.

When you're manipulative it means getting what you want

through devious means and making others feel guilty.

It's indirect aggression, also called passive aggressive.

Manipulative people fear exposure if they are direct.

They feel it's safer to control and manipulate rather than confront and fear being rejected.

When you're assertive it involves having respect for the people you work with.

It is rooted in high self-esteem and is most likely to give you the results you desire.

You don't wait for others to act, you don't act without consideration for others

and you don't try to indirectly control and manipulate them.

Instead, assertive people negotiate to reach win-win results.

It might surprise you to know that you use all four patterns at some times, we all do.

These behaviours are established from an early age

and you may not even be aware of using them.

But with some awareness and determination, you can change these behaviours…if you want to.

Identifying the best behaviour to use in various situations

can contribute substantially to your ability to achieve your goals.

The way to encourage assertive behaviour in yourself is to

Be very clear about what you want

Feel positive about your goal

Take initiative

Thinking through what you want and plan the steps.

This might seem time consuming, but the rewards are great.

As Covey says: "Sharpen the saw."

The way to successfully behave assertively with others involves

4 Key elements:

1. Knowing clearly what you want and being prepared to state that directly and simply.

2. Maintaining your position steadily without giving in to manipulation

or the negative behaviour of others.

3. Acknowledge that you hear manipulators' statements and continue with your point of view

or request without becoming defensive or aggressive.

4. Negotiate to achieve a win-win when there is conflict,

compromising to get the best realistic position is the right thing to do to achieve your goal.

That's all for today, until next time

I'm Julie Silfverberg with Success Partners

Be sure to like and comment below

If you found it interesting or useful share with your friends or colleagues,

I'd really appreciate it and they might too.

Bye for now

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What is eco-anxiety? - Duration: 11:20.

Its really cold in new york, so i'm gonna film next to this radiator and try to keep warm

[whoosh sound effect]

Climate Change can be really overwhelming.

Especially when I'm really plugged in and I'm trying to follow the waterfall of news

and science every day.

As each new paper on ocean temperature increases, or ice sheet loss, or UN report is published

this sense of doom and hopeless kind of settle on my brain like a heavy layer of dust.

A lot of the things I do start to feel really tiny and miniscule and it is silly to even

pretend that something I did would have any measurable impact on global climate.

A few years ago, I started hearing this referred as 'eco-anxiety,' and I really wanted

to explore that further, so invited Dr. Ali Mattu who runs The Psych Show and also happens

to be a Clinical psychologist over for a chat.

Okay, so let's start big picture, shall we?

What is eco-anxiety?

Ali: It's really about fear and hopelessness about what's happening related to the climate,

how that's going to impact you, how that's going to impact your family, your friends,

and generations to come.

Dr. Ali Mattu: It's really about fear and hopelessness about what's happening related

to the climate, how that's going to impact you, how that's going to impact your family,

your friends, and generations to come.

I think what elevates it from normal fears and stress that we might all have about our

planet, to something that's much more about anxiety, is that hopelessness, feeling kind

of stuck in your worries, and not knowing what to do, or feeling like there's nothing

that you could do.

Miriam: I've also heard eco-anxiety referred to as climate anxiety, climate change distress,

ecological grief among other permutations.

But they're all basically getting at this same idea of distress, worry, and hopelessness

connected to your global or local environment.

Ali: So there's no real psychiatric definition for eco-anxiety, it's not considered to be

any type of disorder, but it is a new term that's come up to classify a lot of these

type of fears.

And it's probably most similar to something like generalized anxiety disorder, where we

have a number of different worries about events in our life, day to day things that we have

to do, and a lot of these worries keep us from making decisions.

Miriam: Even though eco-anxiety isn't an 'official' diagnosis - it is worth exploring

for several reasons.

The hopeless and worry associated with eco-anxiety can stop us from doing the, yes, hard, but

incredibly necessary work of reducing fossil fuel use and preparing for the consequence

of climate change.

But it's pretty easy to argue that we should be more worried about climate change.

The impacts we're already seeing are devastating.

Ali: Well, that's the funny thing about climate anxiety, is in some cases, we want people

to be more anxious about it.

It's always hard when it comes to public health, and preparedness, and emergency responses,

to get people anxious.

It's a really difficult thing to do, because we are really wired to respond to what's happening

right now, not what's going to happen 1 year, 2 years, 5 years, 10, 20 years down the road.

So when there's a blizzard coming, or a tornado, or there's danger of fires, or drought, or

all of that kind of stuff, but it's down the road, it's not immediate, it's really hard

to get people anxious.

And we want people to get anxious, so they prepare and they act on it.

Climate or eco-anxiety is associated with the very real trauma experienced by people

living on the front lines of climate change: like individuals living in areas with poor

air quality, or in the risk for hurricanes, or experiencing extreme heat events without

access to air conditioning.

Ali: People might not think of it as eco-anxiety, but people who were in Michigan and didn't

have access to clean water had a lot of anxiety related to their environment.

Anything that happens in the environment tends to impact our most vulnerable populations

the most, so definitely kids, people who are pregnant, the elderly, people who live in

parts of cities and towns that might have lower real estate value, people who don't

have the means to be able to easily move or just go away for the weekend.

It's those type of communities that are hardest hit by natural disasters, or by changes in

water supply, or by drought, or extreme heat, or extreme cold.

People in those communities might not label it as eco-anxiety, but you bet they're experiencing

higher rates of anxiety, of hopelessness, of PTSD.

We saw that with Hurricane Katrina.

Years down the road, we'll probably see that with Puerto Rico, absolutely.

Miriam: But what can we do about this?

For people who are experiencing it, or if you're experiencing eco-anxiety yourself?

Ali: So you're not alone.

That's normal, it's healthy.

The thing to know is what do we do about it.

Sometimes people struggle with worries and there's nothing you can do about it.

You turned in your paper, the professor's going to grade it, the teacher's going to

grade it, there's nothing left to do, and then it's more about acceptance skills.

But that's not where we are with climate change and the environment.

There's a lot that we can do.

So number one, is definitely having some type of disaster preparedness kit in your home.

And that's for whatever you're likely to experience in your environment.

And so we're here in New York City, so, yeah, we might get a super storm, or we might be

cut off from access, like if something hits New York, subways are down, tunnels are closed,

bridges are closed, so we might be stuck in this environment for a long time.

Or if you're in an area that might be prone to a fire, or if you're in an area prone to

tornado, or hurricane, things like that.

What do you need to have ready in your home, and include things that are going to help

you to emotionally cope.

So a lot of us use music, or apps, or things like that to help us to emotionally cope,

like maybe you go on YouTube and you watch a funny Ellen video, where she's pranking

someone, and that cheers you up.

But if internet is down, if power is down, what's a version of that, that you can have

with you to help you cope?

Is it going to be a book?

Is it going to be some kind of board game?

Is it going to be printed out photos of loved ones, of family, of things like that?

So have some type of kit, but that also includes an emotional element to help you cope with

the intense emotions that you might experience.

And then number two, it's also about having a plan with your family, with your loved ones,

and something that is going to get you connected, also, with your local community.

So when Hurricane Sandy hit here, if you were below a certain part of Manhattan, you did

not have power, and you might not have access to water too.

And what we saw happen over there, is a lot of people who were in lower Manhattan were

connecting with friends and family that were more uptown and did have power.

So when it comes to any type of climate-related disaster, being able to connect to your larger

community is critical, absolutely critical, just in terms of being able to get access

to a safe shelter, being able to get access to power, or to water, or to things like that.

So it's not something you can do alone.

No way.

And the other thing is to definitely talk to people about all of this, and to talk to

people about your fears, about your concerns.

There's more research coming out now, about how there are network effects, where if you

talk to someone you work with, you talk to someone you go to school with, how that actually

impacts the whole network of people that you're connected to.

So this is a real tangible difference that you can make.

And it's actually critical to any type of preparation, and policy change, is actually

just having these conversations, because they do have ripple effects in your social network

and everyone you're connected to.

Miriam: Climate change is really scary and it is probably going to keep getting scarier

unless something extremely dramatic happens right now.

But there are a lot of reasons to stay hopeful.

Ali: I have a lot of hope and optimism about all of this.

What I'm constantly reminded about is, if you look at our evolutionary history, the

greatest period of growth of the frontal lobe, of the part of the brain that helped us become

the species who we are, the most advanced part of our brain, the greatest period of

development there happened during a period of massive climate change on our planet.

And I think being able to cope and adapt to environments is so inherent in who we are

as a species.

We live all over the planet, and it's probably because of massive climate change that we

are the species who we are.

But now we're much more of a intra-dependent global community, where one thing in one part

of the world does impact something in another part of the world.

And we're just not wired to be able to negotiate those type of social situations.

That's really hard for us.

It's really, really hard to scale up the type of helping behavior and community support

that is so a part of our DNA.

And so this is the challenge for our generation, for the next generation, for the generation

after that, is how do we overcome our tribalism and tap into that ability to adapt to change

at a global level.

Miriam: And that feels to me like a pretty great way to wrap up this vide.

Thank you so much for watching and a thank you so much to Ali for stopping by on my channel.

I cannot thank him enough for all the insight and ideas that he gave to me and his help

in making this video.

We had a conversation that was almost an hour long that I've kind of quickly edited together

and is now available to patrons at any level over on my Patreon.

So if you're interested in watching that click the links on screen or down in the description.

And if you want watch more of Ali, which I highly recommend you do, go over and subscribe

to "The Psych Show" – I recommend starting with his video "Why I give psychology away."

Awesome, I think I've got everything.

It has been a while since I've done one of these but, go watch Ali, subscribe to my channel,

like, comment, I'll be hanging out down there, and I hope that you have a great day.

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Temptation Prince Edward Island | 22 Minutes - Duration: 1:39.

[voiceover] Here's an exclusive sneak peek at the new season of Temptation Prince Edward Island.

Two couples embark on a journey to decide

if they are meant to be together.

I love Sheila, but is she who I'm supposed to be with for the rest of my life?

I mean, she's pregnant for me, but, I don't know...

I love my boyfriend. I just, really wanna hump other people.

[voiceover] And now it's time for their first date with temptation.

Hi.

Uh, hi. This is weird. I know, right?

I never dated anyone else before. Me either.

Well except when I cheated on my girlfriend.

Same.

What part of the island are you from?

Cornwall.

No way my Dad's from Cornwall. Oh yeah, what's his name?

Jeff Arsenault. My mother's an Arsenault.

Oh yeah what's her name? Judy.

Oh. My Dad has a sister named Judy. Oh yeah, what's her name?

Judy Arsenault.

Oh wait you're not Uncle Barry's daughter Kate are ya?

Oh you're not Aunt Judy's son Kevin are ya?

Aw jeez we're cousins.

Not again.

[voiceover] Temptation Prince Edward Island. It's harder than you think!

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New Book: "Refuting Rabbinic Objections to Christianity and Messianic Prophecies" - Duration: 1:52.

Shalom.

Have you heard about the latest phenomenon in Israel?

For the last 2,000 years, it was nearly impossible

to share the Gospel with us, the Jewish people.

In fact, back in 1948, there were less

than 50 Jewish believers living in the land.

But today, our number has grown to over 30,000.

This growth caused the rabbis to try and fight back,

to drag our people away from Jesus,

through videos, threats, and intimidation.

But in the last five years, our evangelistic videos

received over 25 million views in Israel alone,

in which we are defending the messiahship of Jesus

against the attacks of the Orthodox Jewish rabbis.

For almost 2,000 years, Jesus was

the best kept secret in Judaism.

But no longer.

One of the catalysts behind this phenomenon

is Jewish apologist, Eitan Bar.

He collected these rabbinic objections to Jesus

and now, in 2019, released his new book,

"Refuting Rabbinic Objections to Christianity

"and Messianic Prophecies".

I was one of those who came out of darkness

to see the light of Yeshua,

and now, I'm able to use these resources

to bring that light back to my people.

But this book goes way beyond Jewish apologetics.

It will be a blessing to you

and reveal the true roots of our faith.

It will arm you with new abilities

to share the Gospel with others.

You can really help us today by sharing this video

so more Jewish people will hear the good news.

Join the revolution.

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It Helps You Relax Your Brain Oddly Satisfying Video Relaxation - Duration: 10:01.

It Helps You Relax Your Brain Oddly Satisfying Video Relaxation

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Final Episodes: A BTS Look at Season 9 | The Walking Dead - Duration: 1:48.

♪♪

This could be our last chance.

Kang: In the second half of the season,

we continue to build on this idea of civilization

and how they interact as communities,

how they trust each other.

We're going to see whether they can come back

to being united as a group.

Gurira: There's a lot of work to be done.

And there's mystery

and there are threads that have to be tied.

You have to lean in and go, "Wait a minute."

♪♪

The door has opened for real,

and what Negan are we gonna see?

♪♪

I know. You don't.

[Whistling]

Suddenly, they've come across this new threat.

[Groans]

You are where you do not belong.

The Whisperers are a villainous group that's more animalistic.

It's more like a virus, and you can't tell who's who.

[Thunder crashes]

It's chilling, and it's really a completely different vibe.

Whisperer: You die now.

They can be anywhere.

[Whisperers growling]

And you'll never see them coming.

We're ready to regroup and go back into the battle.

♪♪

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Patch Adams Describes His Six Qualities - Duration: 4:49.

I mentioned that at 18, in my last hospital, I decided to never have another bad day. I think I even mentioned six qualities that I would be.

Who I am, would be: happy, funny, loving, cooperative, creative, and thoughtful. And by being focused on who I am, I think I've done that now for 54 years.

And boy, was it the right decision for me. And to tell you the truth, I think it was the right decision for anytime I've done something with a group.

You know, the current model of the capitalist system, and a lot of tribal system, is hierarchy: a ruler, a boss, a general, but this has not given humanity a great record.

With those six qualities, my idea was you showed up at a place called 'hospital', and those six qualities radiated from the people who live there.

And they are so seductive, in the 12 years we saw patients. I can't say all of the staff tried to live all of the qualities. We didn't go over it like that.

It was because we were so close, and because of the goofiness, and because we were friends.

A lot of the people were not philosophical, they didn't say, "Patch, let's just do it." And so, the 'just doing it' was being those six qualities.

I found on the clown trips exactly the same thing, that those six qualities make things happen in an egalitarian way.

That with those six qualities people want to be fair, they want to do their share of the work, and their share of the contributions of many kinds.

And that they care for the environment, and they care for the fellows. We needed a place where women would be safe from predatory men, and that work was equal.

And so, I think, when we reopen the hospital, I have the right, for the first four years, if somebody isn't being those six qualities, that I can say: "Look, why don't you go."

After four years I want to have no say in anything, and the people who've stayed can then decide if they like that. But I've worked these now 46 plus years for that design - the design of how we are with each other.

Because, I think, it's so seductive to step in an environment that is that way. I've seen it change the roughest and craziest of people into something that is kinder and softer.

And so, I want for at least the first four years for that to be our style.

In the same way hierarchy, and elitism, and frenetic life, and unhappy wards is the style of the current hospital, and hence people burnout and had those other consequences that I don't want at our Hospital.

Remember, we're a project really to help change the world. And so, I'd like people to go: "Wow, it's really nice here with these qualities."

"Why don't I take those qualities out there?" Because the same qualities, if you go out in the public world, anywhere in the world, they're seductive for community.

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BIRD COMMON KINGFISHER FISHING/ Птица Лови Риба/ Vogel Angelt/ Pájaro Pescando - Duration: 2:13.

Hey guys! How are you doing?

Today we will share with you a very short video

about a bird that we have seen chasing fish

when we were going to our fishing spot.

Here is a very short footage of its fishing.

I recorded it catching fish.

On that day, guys,

the bird caught more fish than us.

It is a good angler for sure.

If you like the video, guys,

please give us a Thumbs up and stay tuned

for our next fishing adventures!

See you next time! Bye, bye!

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Steel tube suspension TEST (no suspension at all) - Duration: 5:51.

Hey folks, great you're watching again!

Welcome at useless experiments

part 6!

See our test car

Do you see how high it is?

That's because we exchanged

the springs with steel tubes on your request

Hey! Let's see how it drives

Comfortable..

This is undoable

I think our car is a bit over positioned

it's supported on 4 rigid points

they can't adjust to the ground

You've noticed it didn't have enough ground pressure

on its front wheel to drive away

Comfortable it is..

I think I'm broken before this car breaks

if we're going to test this to the end

this is undoable

This car is hard to keep under control

Steering isn't good

but it braking is a lot worse

it's starting to bounce

ABS is trying to correct it

You can't drive with it

I tried to stop on that crossing

But it took 10 meters extra to stop

Do you want to go for a drive, Dirk?

Haha, yeah I want to try that too

I would say so

Let's see if I like this

I would fasten your seatbelt

is it that bad?

See that! It looks like an offroad vehicle

What a fun it is!

I almost hit that white pole , dude!

It's terrible

You can't do anything; no steering, no braking

and accelerating also won't work, it goes like this;

It starts bouncing and you loose control

it's terrible

it's a drama

I think we should drive a bit faster.. on the dirt road

Dirt road!

There a lot of holes

Where are you standing?

Well.. we should go through this

And I think we won't go any further then..

here

of course we do!

You think you do

I will go right through it!

pay attention how fast I fly through it!

I dare standing next to this pool

I think I won't get any wet

Hand me that camera

Well.. I can imagine how this car must feel like

The left front wheel is cripple

well.. at least it's destroyed

Look at that

We've welded it very tough

but it took some serious beating

oh boy, it's terrible

You're shaken real good in there

Suspension on your car..

it's even more important than shock absorbers

Without springs it start bouncing real bad

You can't control it

You can't steer, can't brake

It starts coming loose and hopping

It goes in all directions

And the direction it goes, it goes.

can't do anything to stop it

Steel tube suspension; not a success

But do you have a good idea

for an experiment for next time?

Put it in the comments below

and we might do your test next time

Thanks for watching, see you next time!