it never cease to surprise me how
important trust and communication are in
relationships lately in the dating thing
and being single bloke and going out
there to meet the lady of my dreams
which is a big part of my quest around
Australia to find love and romance and
settle down and put a happy family life
etc etc and never cease to surprise me
how many ladies out there are really
struggling to find guys that are good
with their communication but also have
the ability to communicate effectively
themselves and we look around the
greater world around us communication
issues are very much a regular thing in
today's world if we just look at a lot
of the arguments that are going on
between America and North Korea and the
rest of the political agenda worldwide
without going into any conspiracy
theories you know the world could do the
whole lot higher level of ability to
develop trust and an interpersonal
sinners you through the fundamentals of
effective communication and it's exactly
what I bring to you in this video is
that effective communication are
ultimately how we build the foundations
of our trust in our relationships and
how we start to actually evolve as our
individual self and actually start to
understand our self and others at a
deeper level because without
communication we ultimately have nothing
Mozilla discard living our life in a
smoke and mirrors and throwing caution
to the wind because all else is
ultimately varying levels of
psychological abuse and what I mean by
varying levels of psychological abuse
through misunderstandings ultimately
somebody's got to get their needs met
and if everybody's not winning if
everybody in said scenario which ever
said scenario that is is not getting
their needs met then also released
somebody's dominating and influencing
that communication & moment in time
which ultimately is what I start to
understand as the foundations of
psychological abuse because
I mean if we're all on a ride to climb
to the top of our own Epiphany then
either one of us wins or all of us wins
and if if any interaction that we are
partaking within at any given time of
our life is directed more so that us
winning rather and everybody winning
then ultimately by my interpretation
that's the foundation of psychological
abuse because if we're not communicating
with the intent to understand we're only
ever reacting and responding based upon
our own getting our own needs men which
is a total eradication of how we build
trust and evolve within our
relationships around us nor any of this
camera work actually glows the sunset is
that my energy or is that that camera
that's amazing i love that I love the
artistic expression of these videos
because it just really brings me into my
own you know I'm growing up a lot of my
life I spent creating artwork and doing
graffiti as a young young bloke and what
I realized later on in my life is a lot
of that was my desire to be understood
by my mother and father because within
their destructive nature of their
relationship they didn't take the time
to listen to one another didn't take the
time to work for their issues and come
to understand one another and the more I
travel around the more I look around I
see everybody dealing with varying
levels of the same idiosyncrasies it's
like people are kind of compromising
their needs and compromising their their
truth in order to either keep somebody
else happy or to maintain a certain
level of happiness for themselves which
is only ever going to result in angst
and anxiety and in at all means over a
longer period of time which ultimately
eventually we have to heal from because
the further we stuff down our emotions
inside of us the longer it's going to
take for them surface and and to to heal
and for us to move beyond because we
removed it on the earth move you on the
pain
so we can start to step into playfulness
on whatever level that is whatever
fundamentals we see ourselves as having
fun and when we bring that to our
relationships you know we give everybody
a permission to declutter their life and
declutter their mind and move forward at
a greater level of abundant nature
regardless of their intellect leadership
skills authority of skills financial
situation et cetera et cetera and you
know I've found over the last couple
years when I've developed my
relationships based upon that thesis of
wanting to see the people in my win you
know I've had a lot let a lot of people
go have had to let a lot of people move
on with their life and go in their
direction because it's very hard for a
lot of people to grasp that concept
because of our bills and our debts and
our positions in life and some people
have just have got that level of clutter
in their life as they can't find the
mental capacity to stop and process the
philosophy that I've come to understand
through my experience through the mental
health situation and starting to heal
and resolve the domestic violence issues
in my own family you know that's fine
i'm happy with that because each
person's on their own journeys are on
there I'm mission to understand their
world and interpret interpret their own
world so even though my goals and my
dreams of a grandeur of scale to
eradicate mental health in the greater
world by 2023 I can't force people down
there down the moat or down there down
the run of the mustering stockyards of
understanding because it's not my role
it's my role to lead by example because
we've all been accustomed to the
leadership by authority that's been
prevalent in the world today and to a
large degree a lot of people have become
very structured around that yep you know
one of the most liberating and
fascinating moments in my life was when
I did quite of my life and got rid of
all my stuff and basically packed up my
life in the back of it my fault drive
and traveled around strategist at for an
Australia you know it really was it was
magic
and in doing so it was very hard because
I had to get rid of a lot of stuff that
really had high levels of sentimental
value and you know it was it was Annie
braiding quite substantially because i
was literally throwing away my life and
my memories and everything not held
sincere in order to have a light and get
out on the road you know when I was a
semilinear I working in the bush my
father sent me out so bush is a 17 year
old to make a man out of myself which
I've spent a lot of times in angst and
remorse over that moves because it's
kind of removed me from everything I
knew and trimming the deep end in a
direction that I had no desire to travel
you know met a couple of guys out there
any in gingin both those lads a traveled
extremely light like they could go away
for months on end with just a small
backpack or suitcase and to me it was
like how do you do that the idea with em
is what they say is that you clear they
would clear their mind or traveling
light year they don't have that all the
mod-cons nor the threats and all the all
the fun stuff but everybody else has got
that anyway so that I really need it and
as long as they're in a light-hearted
mindset morning to have fun and wanting
to see everyone else happy and prosper
people would share their stuff with them
anyway so they didn't have to carry all
the clutter so there'll is a win-win for
them now there's a very very transient
lifestyle I guess you can call it but
they would some of the coolest blokes
I've ever met and now we're absolutely
fascinating to UM to associate with some
spin Thomas I learned so much about
lateral thinking and lateral quality
from those guys and they really learn
taught me the liberality of the idea of
being liberal in your approach to your
philosophy in life because from your
philosophy you could philosophy you
could have a grand your scheme or a
picture or an image of how you want it
to your life to be and anytime anything
did not add up and move in that
direction you could quite prevalently
chop and change your geography ography
demography there is your social group
your job you Korean whatever it was to
actually is more a car
wait and a customer to your philosophy
in the way that you want to live your
life which is for them predominantly fun
and playful and happy but I connect with
people where they're at and work hard on
the ideas and lateral thinking and
solving problems in a lateral way
because it was what really motivated
those guys from their experience in life
and it's definitely become a big one of
mine because those guys grew up in a
fairly similar upbringing in
relationship to mine except avail from
the lower socioeconomic groups whereas
you know I grew up with with the
fundamental a lot of nice stuff mum dad
had a beautiful house of what not they
didn't have any time or any patience for
one another or any anything in between
really that this had nice stuff and are
arrogant about it to a large degree and
yet that's taught me some fun type some
real fundamental skills and my own
ability to have a desire to communicate
effectively and work through issues and
now speaking to some ladies recently in
traveling around straley our meeting
dating women or oh this I the country
i'll see how much that clustering of
stuff in our life as in physical stuff
also our Queens to mental clutter as
well and starts to really slow in an
ev'ry at our mindset and our ability to
process information down at it quite a
catastrophic rape and so the more vivid
our experiences are in life and the more
on the condemned and negative end of the
spectrum of our experiences that could
possibly be the mental clutter that and
cost of that emotional turmoil within
our mindset really limits and inebriated
our ability to have a high level of
emotional resilience you know when I
deed costed my life and jump to the back
of my for driving travel grants trail
you know the biggest burden I had to
deal with it was my emotional turmoil
you know like it was cool travelling
from Beach to Beach and chillin out on
different beach and gone surfing day to
day was amazing because all I had to
worry about was where I was going to
have something to eat where I wanted to
camp out the next night and where I was
going to make
new friends and so I see a lot of people
in you know the world's a particular
particularly women not being able to
process their emotions constructively
and move into conversations and move
into relationships effectively because
of the leftover residue of emotional
turmoil from past relationships past
experiences no debts and bills that just
a crew overtime and so many people are
getting caught up in that grind that
hassle of having to keep up otherwise is
that overwhelming burden of the rising
floodwaters threatening to take you out
and it really limits people's ability to
step into playfulness to step into
happiness and abundance of a mindset and
dance wholeheartedly like nobody's
looking you know one of the greatest
provides I've taken in my life is the
ability to dance in the rain like no
one's looking at any given time of my
life and anytime I can't find the
ability to do that like even now turn on
the camera and speak into it on a
beautiful little park like this or
around people like I start to question
what's going on for me emotionally
because I always like to keep my
emotional bank account pool and by
regulating my emotional bank account and
understanding where my emotional turmoil
as that and really understand those
fundamentals of my life and my lifestyle
shows me where I can improve the trust
issues in my relationships and the
communication issues in my relationships
it shows me where I can move into a
higher level of wholeheartedness with
people and build a deeper connection you
know we're mom and dad over the years
probably the best thing I've had to do
is to really learn how to step into
those conversations with them
effectively and to really empathize with
their emotional turmoil is aggressive
and as arrogant and obnoxious they can
be at different times at the base level
beyond all the turmoil that comes from
their marriage and from their
relationship mum data absolutely
beautiful people and they've got a lot
to offer the world yet those experiences
of being in a relationship for 21 years
and
physically and domestic physically and
psychologically abusing each other to
the end extreme as ultimately really
costs them quite substantially and it's
really hard for them to open up new
conversation it's really hard for them
to open up their emotional truth I'll
see that in so many you know women and
men today in the world we're not opening
up new conversations around trust we're
not open opening up new conversations
around communication or how to
communicate effectively because vastly
we don't understand our emotional state
a lot of people don't have the time or
the capacity to stop and understand
emotional state because they're getting
their needs met in one way or another
which is where my fundamental
understanding of psychology abuse comes
in because the we've only just started
to develop anti-bullying laws or start
to break down this concept and
understand it yet you know if we don't
start to open up our emotional wounds
start to understand the bullying our
life is psychological this is going on
and what is pushing us to do which is
ultimately to open up and to evolve into
a new fundamental trust development and
communication to a high level of
effectiveness then we'll just continue
to perpetrate one another and to
fundamentally and emotionally beat each
other down and become more hardened
build up more emotional armory and just
persistently start to deteriorate our
own emotional intelligence over time
which is only ever going to leave us
disillusioned in angst and anxiety and
anger and regret and torment which so
many people are you're going to go look
at the increasing suicide rate mental
health domestic violence and divorce you
know like a younger generation or
tomorrow screaming for us to open up new
conversations
so I hope you liked this video and
you've got any questions about this
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because together we'll build a higher
level of romantic revolution where we
all get our needs met we all learn to
effectively communicate and build crust
as one another and move to a high level
of emotional resilience which will bring
us into playfulness and wholeheartedness
because where the fun starts is where
the quality of life lives remember live
bold brash and unrestricted because
foretold is not the truthful capability
but the zest a person sales courageously
into the eye of the storm alright bye
for now peace
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