The Words 'I Love You' From the Perspective of a Narcissist
You may not know that words actually mean different things expressed by different people.
If you hear "I love you" from narcissists, you should note that they actually have special
intention that may blow your mind.
Knowing how they think will help you to first identify whether the person you are dealing
with is narcissists.
Second, it helps you to know the reality before you.
Narcissists always have hidden surprise for people around them.
That includes an attempt to hurt your feeling.
Here is some of them.
#1 - I love the way you work to make me feel like your everything
This is the first real meaning of narcissist.
They actually express love just to make you say the same thing.
Expressing love is always followed by an intention to get answer or responses.
All people actually demand the same thing.
However, for narcissistic people, it actually has another intention to put other people
in their trap.
#2 - I am the focus of your life
Narcissist say "I love you" for convincing that there is a pure love that demands the
same feedback.
Thus, it actually gives a sense that this person wants to be the real partner forever.
Those with desperate intention to get love and affection can fall into this trap easily.
They will idealize the narcissists because they are the savior.
The victims then make the narcissists as the focus on their life, and this is when narcissists
win over you.
#3 - You want me to be happy
After saying I love you which is typically followed by the same expression, there is
an exchanged deal.
That is, a responsibility for you, as the victim, you satisfy their needs.
You need to make the narcissists happy by any means.
This also includes harming yourself to the point that you cannot stand anymore.
#4 - I'll never be expected to do the same
Do you remember that narcissist love to project things?
They basically do not love you.
What they express basically refer to the other person, and that is you.
From the perspective of narcissists, you are the one who express I love you first.
Thus, there is no responsibility from the narcissists to express or reply the same thing.
#5 - I love you as a property of my own
They love you because you can be used as one of their properties.
You are valuable because you provide constant energy supply to the narcissists.
If they don't say they love you, the narcissists will not be able to suck your energy.
#6 - I love you as my punching bag
You are the best property of mine because you will always be there when I'm sad.
Indeed, narcissists only think you as the object of their emotional instability.
They love you just because you can be used when they are hurt.
They will verbally abuse you when they need to release their anger.
We know that narcissists demand perfect condition.
However, it is just impossible, and it makes them disappointed.
This triggers rage that will be transferred to you close to them.
Well, that's the meaning of words 'i love you' from the perspective of a narcissist.
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