all day and night I'll just be imagining what they're touching what they are hitting or
what they are jumping off of or when you know when they're not with me
I know you guys and welcome back to my channel my name is Laraddiji if you're
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you know in New York City area so anyway today it's all about the School of
Fraternal Twins this one this is one of the four sections of my channel so feel
free to explore the other sections after this you know video there's tons of
information that might speak to you you know if you'd like to see more of me
I'll be making an introduction to this section of my channel regarding my
fraternal twins so let's get to it I've always wanted twins and I
definitely remember asking my boyfriends back then if they had twins
in their family twins don't run on my side of family but I kid you not that
was a requirement for me in a husband I don't know why actually my husband
doesn't have twins run in their side of the family either but you know we had
faith but the question is why did I want to win so badly anyway maybe it's just
because you know I was fascinated about the fact that more than one baby can
share a room and sometimes they can look-alike or not or maybe it's
because I secretly wished I was a twin myself and I keep hoping I will reunite
with her one day because we were separated at birth but my mom was very
positive there's only one of me when I asked her bummer anyway I've been
lucky to assist and care for more than one baby when I was growing up you know
in my extended family mostly my cousins and I definitely looked forward to having
my kids you know I'm most grateful that we were blessed with fraternal boy girl
twins unassisted you know in 2024 after a couple of miscarriages you know
everyday was full adventure so I wanted to document the journey of raising them
they were growing up you know changing right before our eyes you know
with the challenges of raising twins I mean and the challenges of their growth
and development you know from creeping to crawling to standing to running we
started giving each day a different name you know for instance it could be a day
where everything happened opposite of the usual norms you know it could be a
poop day where the twins blessed us with you know different colors of pooped
poops throughout the day you know it could be a fussy day where they just
cried most of the day God has been good to us as we've been able to take very
good care of you know the twins and raise them you know so far without
babysitters or daycares I know there are advantages and
disadvantages to this but you know it was a choice we made which we've never
regretted so now they're able to talk and they can understand you know you know
what we tell them they're three years old I can't personally wait for them to start
school when I'm alone with them I definitely have high blood pressure
mm-hmm you know I'm always wondering what they're doing when I can't see them
physically you know like when I'm in the living room and they're in the kitchen
or when I'm in the kitchen and they're in the living room you know sometimes
when even when they are my parents house you know when they're in children's
Bible study I sometimes have sore throat on my weekends off you know from from
shouting don't do this and don't do that and on some days when I go to work
I'm actually happy to be out of the house but then I start missing them
again you know you moms out there you know how
it feels then I'd tell my husband to send me pictures or videos
you know just to keep me company at work you know there was a time I had a camera
installed actually when there was two babies and I was able to see them and
talk to them true you know true that but I accidentally broke it so oh well
their behaviors with us their biological parents right sometimes have me it has
me wondering how babysitters do it you know with all the kids and all those
personalities honestly I'm not surprised you know when babysitter's slip up
because it there's a thin line between an all moment you know oh he's so cute
to get your annoying face out of here you know I'm not advocating violence
against kids just that a lot of self-control should be a requirement to
being a parent you know this is exactly why the twins are still with us
you know today because they sure are a handful and we didn't want to ship them
to babysitte's or daycare we're not ashamed of it do you know what happened
in California exactly you know so it just got me thinking to what should be
the requirements to being a parent you know the requirements that people don't
tell you about before even teenagers start having kids I said the first one already
one you have to have a lot of self-control and you have to be very
patient and you have to be very disciplined you have to be ready to
serve you know you have to be wise the good thing about having these qualities
you know before you have kids is that if you don't you know just like iron you
will bend or be bent by a baby in a good way though if you're not one who has
soft control or you're one who doesn't have patience or maybe you're not
disciplined and you're not ready to serve or maybe before kids you you know
you might learn you might learn it the hard way you know
what I mean is babies will be babies and they don't know what they're doing so
you have to be the adult in all situations and this would be until they
are able to stand on their own as adults this is why I appreciate my parents the
most you know when I started having kids that's when I realized you know you guys
did a lot you know since I was a kid and now I can understand what they went
through you know when they had my brothers and I
so when our parents um need help walking or eating or you know when they
need help in the restaurant because they have
dementia or they're sick or they have weak strength you know they're not you
know how they are anymore or you know for one reason or the other
do it with love because they did it first with you when you were younger
okay when you were babies my parents are always telling me to bring the twins
over you know so they can spend the night but I just feel bad for them
sometimes because all day and night I'll just be imagining what you're touching
what they are hitting or what they are jumping off of or when you know when
they're not with me and I still have high blood pressure even when they're
not with me I imagine after god I you know definitely thank my parents for
their endless support and time the first three years I think would have been much
worse you know but you worked it out together
to make it bearable you would never hear my husband and I say having you know
twins is crazy or hectic to me it's challenging you know just like
every other baby and one just needs to be wise when taking
care of wrong young children you know as they're growing up we're also growing up
with them you know we're learning from them you know so as to teach them
seamlessly the importance of patience reward obedience truthfulness actions
consequences favor and grace you know now that we have a new addition to the
family I hope you'll follow me on this journey as
we consider me continue to learn more about their personalities and their
interactions and you know growth as individuals I want to ask you senior
mom's out there what did you wish you knew earlier on when you were having kids I'm
gonna wrap it up here yeah if you new to this channel there will be more about
the twins in the upcoming weeks about our adventure with them so far you know
they're now three years old I'd love to hear from you know from you so hopefully
you'll join me next time when I talk about one of the experiences we had with the
twins you know me and my husband thank you very much for staying with me till
the very end I hope you've learned something new today and that's all for
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soon don't forget to love your neighbors as yourself
that's the most important thing I'll say and I'll keep saying it in all my videos
remember to rest in peace we all need to be living in peace stay blessed
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