When You Start to Enjoy Being Alone, These 10 Things Will Happen
Earlier on the previous video, we have discussed some reasons on why people prefer to be alone.
There are 5 main reasons ranging from introversion, mental health, lacking of social skills, protective
walls, and possible lacking of social interest.
However, it is important to realize that some people actually prefer to be alone because
of personal choice.
They believe that being alone brings some unimaginable benefits that not all people
can obtain.
If you are wondering what they are talking about their benefits of being alone, there
are at least 10 things that make living alone a great solitary activity.
#1 - Recharging
What's so important about recharging anyway?
Basically people have some sort of social battery.
It depletes after some social interactions.
Both introverts and extroverts have similar battery, but introverts get their battery
depleted quicker than the extroverts.
When the battery is depleted, there are some problems that may occur ranging from nausea,
anxiety, fear, weakening, and confusion.
It also makes them feel depressed.
In order to recharge this social battery, one needs to stay away from the crowds.
They need a quiet place to recharge, so that they will miss the events with people.
This recharges the energy back, and it allows them to interact with others with better performance.
Introverts typically need more time to recharge than extroverts.
However, being alone is the best way to keep energy recharged.
#2 - You will reflect
Reflection is important especially to look at the real you from inside.
It is not you through the mirror, but rather a mental representation of yourself.
If you enjoy your time alone, you will understand how good you are or how poor you are in certain
position.
This will allow you to know yourself better and you absolutely can fix the faults you
have and improve what you already have.
#3 - Getting in touch with your emotion
When you are in a social setting, you are constantly thinking or experiencing what other
people have to offer.
You see what others do, feel, and think, and you forget that you also need attention.
Your emotion may need attention from you, and you only can do that through self-reflection
in private manner.
#4 - Doing things you enjoy
If you spare your time alone, there is no one who tells you to do things you don't
like.
Sometimes, you don't like your work because it is only to make money for surviving in
this harsh world.
You are getting tired, and you basically don't do what you enjoy.
Fortunately, you can enjoy what you do if you take your personal time.
#5 - Becoming more productive
It is possible because being alone reduces distraction to its finest.
Thus, it helps you to get your job done in quick succession.
#6 - You enjoy your relationship
Be it a relationship with nature, be it relationship with human being, be it a relationship with
objects, you will enjoy it more.
The reason being is that being alone offers a very slow time frame which you can use to
see the details, the beauty, and the emotion of the relationship.
Thus, relationship becomes more enjoyable.
#7 - Becoming more independent
It is no brainer that being alone gives you a perk to be independent.
Being alone gives you opportunity to do everything by yourself with the help of others.
Additionally, you also do not feel the need for constant interaction to make the job done.
#8 - You make yourself happy
Sometimes, you push yourself too hard to please people around you.
Fortunately, you don't have to do that especially if you finally take a day off.
#9 - You won't have to apologize
It is known that asking for forgiveness is not easy as it sounds.
It requires great effort, and it takes away energy so bad.
That is why it is essential to know that being alone reduces the chance for you to do that.
#10 - Stop looking for validation
Sometimes, it is essential to take people's consideration before doing anything.
It is also important to take some evaluations after doing something.
However, it turns out to not be a good habit because it prevents you from progressing faster.
All in all, that's all the 10 good things that will happen when you start to enjoy being
alone.
Really cool information isn't it?
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