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10 REASONS WHY COMPULSIVE LIARS THINK IT'S OKAY TO LIE.

Compulsive liars frequently lie with no purpose and they do that because it is their habit.

Even though they are caught in lying frequently, they will keep doing that anyway.

There's no way that they can be stopped as their mind is wired to tell the opposite

most of the time.

Psychologists are observing this condition, and they come up with 10 reasons why compulsive

liars do that.

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Here's the 10 reasons why compulsive liars think it's okay to lie according to psychologists.

#1 - To be in control.

Someone who control the truth, control life.

It is what happens, and liars want to control the life through false truth.

Yes, they lie to control the story of their life without doing anything right.

They just want to get the credit, forgiveness, or achievement without struggle for it except

by creating their own vision through lies.

#2 - They never think of lying.

Compulsive liars are addicted to lies, and they really don't realize that they are

lying.

They really think they tell the truth while in fact they clearly tell lies.

It is amazing that they have such trait because they really believe on what they've said

wrong to others.

If they eventually find out the otherwise, they cover it with another lie.

#3 - They think it is okay.

Psychologists have made clear conclusion about why compulsory liars think it is okay to lie.

It turns out, the main reason is because they don't have a feeling of empathy.

They don't care about the effect of their lies towards others.

They think the lies, since it is not the truth, won't affect the real life.

That's why they continue lying.

#4 - They want it real.

Another reason that probably unexpected is because they want the lies to be the truth.

They believe that a firm belief on affirmation through lies will make different reality to

happen.

#5 - It feels good.

It is another unexpected reason because only a fraction of compulsive liars feels so.

They enjoy telling lies because it makes them feel better.

It is fun to make others listen to them especially when others believe in them too.

#6 - To protect themselves.

This is probably something that non-compulsive liars do as well.

However, compulsive liars typically protect themselves from different lies that they have

made earlier in their life.

In order to safe their face and probably their life, they will lie over and over again.

#7 - It's too late to stop.

People categorized as compulsive liars basically have been lying almost for the entire of their

life.

That's why stopping their action will be something difficult or even impossible.

#8 - They don't want to look miserable.

The next thing that will make the liars continue to do what they are really bad at is because

they want to look cool always.

They cannot give up their face towards other, and they will try their best to look great

by lying.

#9 - They are sick.

Compulsive liars are basically sick people.

They have something wrong in their brain, making them behave like that over and over.

Because of the damage, they cannot differentiate the truth and the lies.

#10 - Being delusional.

The last thing is that they don't like the life they are in.

They prefer different narrative in their life, and that's why they keep lying.

People around them completely realize this condition, and sometimes they instead support

the liars by accepting the truth.

Well, it is really difficult to debate with liars anyway.

However, delusional liars actually need support from professional to get their life back on

the track.

All in all, those are the 10 reasons why compulsive liars think it's okay to lie.

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On Bullies and Human Rights: YouTube Trolls #TeamDignity S1E19 - Duration: 9:04.

In an earlier video I talked about bullying on the workplace but what about

cyberspace? I'll address that in today's video.

[MUSICAL INTRO]

Hello Good People! My name is Janiece and

welcome to "Dignity," the channel that illustrates how human rights impacts our

daily lives.

If you're new here, "Welcome!" I invite you to check out the playlist

marked "Most Viewed," and I ask you to please consider subscribing.

I'm going to start

this video off with a story about myself.

This goes back to when I was in law school.

I dropped off some work at a printer

and when I returned to pick it

up at the assigned time, it wasn't ready.

I was frustrated

and the clerk asked me

if I could come back in a couple of hours.

My response was,

"I don't have a choice now do I?"

And he didn't say anything to me but he looked me dead in the eyes.

And like they say ,

"The eyes are the window to the soul," and what I saw

was pain masked

by a stoic look.

I remember that because

I felt so badly

about treating that man that way.

I didn't treat him fairly,

I did not acknowledge him as a person of value, in other words,

I didn't acknowledge his dignity as a human being.

What was going on with me,

had nothing to do with that man or anybody else that I spoke to in that

manner, but I do know that since that time I have looked at myself to

understand why was it that I would behave this way. So you might ask, "how is

that bullying, and what does that have to do with cyberspace?"

Well bullying is bullying whether it takes place face to face or in cyberspace.

And there's a lot of it going on here on YouTube. In fact, today marks one year

since I launched this channel. And I've observed a lot of trolls out here in the

YouTube community. But before I continue, I want to share something with you

written by Donna Hicks a doctor who is an associate at Harvard University. She's

an expert in dignity and she became an expert through her work in

conflict resolution.

"Dignity is our inherent value and worth as a human being;

everyone is born with it.

[It's the] glue that holds all of our relationships together,

is the mutual recognition of the desire to be se en,

heard,

listened to,

and treated fairly;

to be recognized,

understood,

and to feel safe in the world" As I said before,

I didn't treat that man fairly. And by

not acknowledging his dignity, I undermined my own.

There's a lot of that going on here on YouTube.

I'm witnessing a lot of criticism, a lot of disparaging

comments because people do not like what other creators are, are saying, what they

stand for, how they choose to live their lives. Some trolls even established channels for the sole purpose of

disparaging other creators.

[Pause]

Let me continue with what Dr. Hicks has to say about dignity.

"It''s an expression of who we are it derives from our doing our best to live as an ethical human being.

we live with a nourishing sense of

gentle dignity as we become honest with ourselves kind towards, others and

respectful of life in all forms."

I did the work of becoming honest with myself and it's a lifelong

journey. I haven't finished. There are times when I want to lash out at people

and I do a little exercise and I ask myself, "What's the earliest time that you

remember feeling this way, and what was going on?" There's usually some kind of

connection to what I'm feeling in the present and how I felt in the past: some

kind of transgression; some kind of injustice;

someone was undermining my dignity. It was around 1999 when I was a hearing

officer for the city of New York and presided over quasi-criminal cases

concerning suspended special education students. I had a case of first

impression involving cyberbullying a math teacher shared an email address

with her students so that she could tutor them after school. A former student

who had the email address sent her messages criticizing he appearance,

mocking her religion and made reference to Nazis.

No one knew who the perpetrator was so

as current students decided to befriend the individual. Subsequently, he admitted

to her that he indeed had been sending these messages.

That was at a time when email was all the rage and the

latest form of technology.

Since then, 14 states impose criminal sanctions

including jail time and fines on individuals convicted of cyberbullying.

You might argue that you have a right to free speech and that's true.

A cyber bullying law in New York State was ruled unconstitutional on freedom of speech grounds.

In addition, the Universal Declaration of Human Rights Article 19

acknowledges an individual's right to free speech.

However, Article 29 articulates our duties and limitations as individuals.

Item 2 thereof reads, "In the exercise of his rights and freedoms everyone shall

be subject only to the limitations as are determined by law solely for the

purpose of securing due recognition and but for the rights and freedoms of

others and of meeting the just requirements of morality, public order,

and the general welfare in a democratic society.

I want to bring your attention to,

"for the purpose of securing respect the rights and

freedoms of others."

This is a critical matter in the YouTube community in that

the laws have since changed since 1999 and they're in the process of changing.

Not only are YouTube Trolls undermining own self-respect and dignity, but also

putting themselves at risk on criminal legal liability.

I'm asking all the

trolls out there who are attacking of the creator's digging in their past for

any obscure, innocuous so-called transgression to bring to the fore to

try to bring someone down, to lash out at others, to use the likeness and image of

their family members, their children, their husbands other loved ones, in order

to try to make a fool of them and tear them down. Gather petitions or to galvanize

others to close down a channel because you don't like what somebody has to say

my question to you is, "Why do you keep watching?"

YouTube is the second largest search engine to Google.

There are plenty of

channels out here.

You can find something that makes you feel good

or that you can learn from.

But to engage in an exercise of tearing one another down?

We're only tearing down ourselves when we do that.

One more thing that she said about

dignity. "It rest securely on how we are viewing and holding ourselves."

What comes out of our mouths is a reflection of ourselves.

Our criticisms of someone else

is really a criticism of ourselves.

And I'll leave you with this last quote.

"Whenever we honor someone's dignity, we strengthen our own."

Until next time, be well and

remember to live your life with dignity. Bye, Bye!

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