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How to Build Relationships - Duration: 7:15.
In this video, we're going to look at how to create positive relationships, especially
in professional settings. Let's unpack it.
CS Lewis the famous writer once said
that friendship is unnecessary. Like philosophy, like art, it has no survival
value. Rather, it is one of those things that gives value to survival. In this
video, we're going to talk about creating positive relationships, especially in
professional settings. There are a lot of benefits to creating more positive
relationships. First of all, when you're positive with other people it tends to
enhance the overall atmosphere for everybody.
Second benefit is it is contagious. Research shows than when you treat other
people this way, they tend to reciprocate and treat you in a friendly way back. So
it increases the benefits for everybody. And lastly one of the awesome benefits
for leaders is that when people like them and get along with them they're
willing to go farther for you to get the job done. It's called referent power. So
you increase your positive influence just by creating positive relationships
with other people. So the bottom line of this video is that you can create more
positive relationships through friendliness and likeability with the
people around you. And I'm going to give you three tips to help you move in that direction.
The first tip is the foundation for everything else that we
talked about in this video. And that is you want to take a genuine interest in
other people. I know that nowadays this is not the most popular way to handle
interactions and relationships because we're all so self focused and we're all
consumed with everything that we have to get done. But you'll probably notice that
the people who really touch you the most and who really reach out to you the most
take a genuine interest in your life. When we are only focused on ourselves, we
don't tend to connect well with other people. And so what you want to do is
first of all in your mind say I'm just going to take an interest in this person
right now. Make it all about them. For a little while ask them questions
about their work. Ask questions about their lives outside of work. Ask them
questions about where they're from. People love talking about where they
grew up and this is how you can do this. Begin to take an interest in other
people and watch what happens to your relationships.
Tip number two is be easy
to get along with. Now I know a lot of high maintenance people. They're fussy
and controlling about things and let's hope that's not you. But if it's you, make
sure you are easier to get along with than you used to be. It really helps in a
lot of ways. For example, if you have a tone of approachability so when people
come to you you're patient, you're kind, you're generous and attentive with your
time. That's easy to get along with, that approachability. You also don't want
to be high-maintenance. You want to be low maintenance. High maintenance people
get very fussy about things. they have a lot of particulars that they insist upon
and you don't want to be like that. When change comes your way, do your best to go
with the flow, to be flexible, to be easy to get along with. You don't want to be
high-maintenance. You want to be low-maintenance.
And the third tip is to
be generous with your encouragement. You know, words of encouragement that's one
of the five love languages .And when you're pointing out specific things
about what people are good at around you, what you appreciate about them, it really
can reach into their hearts and develop a bond between you both because it's one
of the most precious things to us is when people are encouraging. I don't know
about you but I have literally gone years in certain work situations where I
got almost no encouragement from the work people around me. There are many
toxic workplaces out there and if you're in one of these you can be a positive
force for change by beginning to encourage what you see in other people. I
use these three tips every day at work. As some of you may know, I am a college
teacher and when I am in the classroom even though I'm there to teach and they
have perform well to earn good grades, I know
that positive relationships in the classroom create a better atmosphere for
everybody and it helps the students work harder. So when I get there right from
the beginning, I take an interest in their lives. I'm approachable and easy to get
along with. I give them lots of encouragement and as a result we're not
just, we don't just benefit from having a wonderful atmosphere. We also benefit
because those students are much more willing to work harder in my class. My
classes are challenging but they will go the distance and they will rise to that
level of high expectation because they know I care about them. I've showed that
I care about them. When people know that you are for them, they are going to go
further for you. That is the bottom line and that is one of the best things about
establishing positive relationships in addition to the benefit of relationships
in general. Now if you're in a professional setting, you're a supervisor
of some sort, this does not mean you have to be friends outside of work and spend
a ton of social time with people outside of the boundaries of work. I don't hang
out with my students on the weekends, for example and I know many supervisors want
to keep a boundary between work and private life and that's completely
appropriate and I support that 100%. Other people are a little more flexible with
those boundaries, which can also work. But, when you're at work, when you're face to
face with people, the key is to build those positive relationships when you
can and you'll see that you don't really have to spend all that much time outside
of work to bond with them. So in summary, you can create more positive
relationships with people through friendliness and likeability by using
these three tips. Your homework is very simple. I want you to think of one
specific person. In fact, I want you to think of that person right now. I have
somebody in mind. And I want you to take one or more of these tips that we've
talked about in this video and apply it in that next conversation that you have
with that person. And then watch what happens to that relationship over time
as you continue to do this. I'd like to finish with a quotation from the great
Mother Teresa. She said kind words can be short and easy to speak but their echoes
are truly endless. Thanks I'll see you in the next video. I hope that you found that
lesson on creating positive relationships helpful. We're getting
toward the end of a five-part mini course in essential professional
communication skills. I'll put a link to all five lessons in the description
below this video as well as to the downloadable PDF quick guide that
summarizes all the tips for you in one place and links to all those videos so
you can get right to them if you would like to. So let's get into the next video
on collaborative problem-solving.
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my typical summer routine|| I'm Back - Duration: 7:11.
Hey it's been a while. Oh gosh, that sounds stupid.
Hello, I got my little drink.
Me: I'd be down for thrifting.
Julia: Yeah me too, we should go.
Me: Yeah, we should before the two weeks are up.
Julia: I know.
Ugh, two weeks.
Look at the cat.
Julia: Your cat is fat.
Me: I know that, okay.
I know that she's gaining weight.
But I can't stop it.
Because if I give her less food, then, like, Ella will eat all the food, cause Ella eats
as much as she wants.
And then whatever left is for the cats.
So if I give them less food, Ella's going to eat the same amount, and there will be less
for the other cats.
Julia: Yeah.
Me: I got to go put the dishes way.
Julia: Wow have fun.
Me: Wow, thanks, Im keeping you here with me.
Hi Frosty
Hi Sugar.
What are you doing?
Alright.
Okay, wow.
I just kicked the tripod.
Me trying to figure out how I want to talk so I don't sound like an energetic piece of
little, like, like a little kid.
So as you can see, my entire channel is basically empty.
Well, no, it is empty, except for this one video.
That is because I was unhappy with what I posted.
That is because I liked recording, but at the same time I don't really like editing.
And also, sometimes I would just kind of rush it, even though no one is really watching
it, but I would just kind of rush it and post it.
And it just looked bad, I didn't really put any effort into the editing, which made me
dislike the stuff, and I would rather post stuff that I am happy with.
Even if it's just me and a couple friends watching it.
So that is why I decided, I'm going to post stuff that I like, and actually edit my videos,
and put some effort into them.
Like , I wanna...
I don't wanna this channel to be something that even if nobody sees it, I don't want
this channel to be something that's kind of like, if a friend were to turn it on, that
I dislike.
So now, I guess, this is me turning the page and actually starting the channel, and actually
having something on the channel, verses the once a year upload, that is always in June.
But this time, it's one year and a month later.
Because I swear it's always like I'll see you in the next video, and the next video
is a year later.
So, this is the point in where, I'm going to try to make sure that the next video isn't
a year later, and also I did film some stuff.
I just either, didn't feel like editing, or I just didn't know how I wanted it to go.
So, I just never posted it.
And then by the time I figured out how I wanted it to go, I'm like, well it's ill relevant
now, like you can't film.
Well you can, but in my head I was like, by this point it's not worth posting.
That video will feature my friend Julia, who I'm actually face timing right now.
Typical thing I do on a day-to....
Julia: because she's such a loser, okay, Im fine.
But it's because I FaceTime her on a day-to-day basis just because I'm a dork.
Julia: Am I, am this, am I just suppose to say something, is that what going on here?
That's Julia.
Yeah.
Yeah, theres a video that I want to upload that I filmed a long time ago, well, how long
was it?
So the last...
Julia: right?
I think so.
It was spring break, okay.
Julia: yeah.
So if you're in school the video that I want t-, that I want to edit together
and actually post was filmed in spring break.
And if I keep looking that way it's because I'm face timing my friend Julia.
Because, she's my friend and I bounce ideas off of her, and yeah.
And so, my day is basically, during summer, it's not very interesting, I know.
I'm literally just on my phone, either talking to her, watching youtube, or doing other stuff,
and just basically getting bored of my surroundings.
So I go somewhere else to lay down or sit, or I'm pacing around the house.
That's literally all I do, besides chores.
Unless, for the few exceptions, when I go out with friends or I spend a night at a friend"s
house.
You want to say hi?
Julia: oh my gosh.
Yeah.
Julia: how do you know if it's in focus?
Because I focused it.
So now, this is the time where I'm going to put videos together that I'm actually okay
with, and I'm-.
So subscribe if you want to join me for the next video, when that is, and like and comment
and we'll see when the next video is and how this channel goes along.
Also the rest my day isn't that interesting, that's why I'm ending the video.
Bye.
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Detroit: Become Human part 15~ ALICE IS A WHAT?! - Duration: 33:25.
What's up storytellers, my name is Drifterthorn and welcome back to Detroit become human
We're getting into the good stuff. Now, it's no more this slow story and building up. Yay
Okay, so we're gonna cross the river Alice family. Check Luther closed. He's my minion
Although he tried to tell us something about Alice last time we were with them
So I'm kind of curious
Is he gonna tell us that she was sick except Bruce told us that she was sick already
you use
Uh
Know what good Santa hair with all androids being turned over to the authorities the country is grinding to a halt
Hospitals and schools are closed water cuts blackouts and Network failures are expected maybe
They're effective personnel about some music instead, yeah
Yeah, good good idea
Yeah humans kill for no reason because they're scared or when you're scared then go for the dogs
Here Alice
I'm kind of surprised that there's no like kidnap reports on her
Like there's no more about like the fact that I killed her father like they're not making a big deal there
It's like that happened and then like they forgot it. There's no like a little fan Howie
Manhunt out for her Jericho when you get there find Marcus
He will help you the last bus for the border leaves at midnight. You absolutely have to be on it
You'll be safer on the other side
It's not much
But it's a start
Thank you. My brother lives in Ontario. I've given you his address
You'll be able to hide you until things calm down. Oh, you're so nice
You're a very brave little girl Alice
You deserve to be happy
Thank you for everything rose
Let me know when you make it over there, right
Will send back their kitchen and be careful. I say that backwards
Bitching carriers thunk like that, huh?
You got it
No girls discard, no sliding around my chair is not a scratching post
Not a scratching post
You have one you're actually have several in this room
All right. Yeah just scratching post you want that mud off?
Leaning up that dork
So is Jericho in
Canada
for example for Candida
I'm assuming I was supposed to go this way
Okay
It's this O Connor
Already find the symbols all over
Now this
That's the first time I've ever done that they gonna meet they running headlong as I was showing
I'm kinda like I would be nervous doing this because you're taking owls is who has a human girl
- a bunch of androids that have
against
Security yeah
We can anyone just walk into the ship
How do you feel they hot in clothes suit any medicine
Stay with her. I'll try to find this Marcus
The last bus is in two hours and the terminals on the other side of town. We haven't got much time
We'll leave as soon as we have passports
There's something I have to tell you what it's about Alice, what about her
We'll have lots of time to talk in the bus. Okay? Why don't you want to hear what he has to say about Alice?
Oh
Seriously can anyone just walk into this you think of this?
What's your baster your secret place? Like even like I chose Marcus not to be violent, but don't catch anyone's attention
But like don't you have security or lookouts? At least? I mean, they don't have to have guns or anything close
By
You just walk up to everyone
Alright, I might not be able to do by 2 with Android stories out once if they're gonna switch back room tour
That's kind of weird see like her model and with everyone else
What mark is
Missed I find them are you Marcus?
You look tired dude the girl and another Android there's a bus leaving for the border in less than two hours we need passports
Now Detroit's under curfew
They're soldiers everywhere. They're rounding up all the androids and sending them to camps. Hey sit your butt down
Get your foot Sam, you know, you're not allowed on that piece of furniture
Get it
Do you want out are you gonna lay there you lay there?
Good good, tell me there lay there
pretty girly girly girly good job ups
Maybe you should stay here while no
Maybe you're right
Get out receiver here until things calm down you were not one of our people used to work in the State Department
He has electronic passports he can easily modify
And I'll have him get them to you
He said you with a little girl, right
You know that humans hate us she doesn't are you protecting her
Secret no difference bond. She needs me I guess and I need her
It's as simple as that
But good
Yeah, what are you gonna do with all the empty spots that no one wants to work anymore
Wait what?
What
But this cheese
Flat you from the beginning?
You just didn't want to see it
She wanted a mom and you wanted someone to care for you needed each other
What difference does it make
Do you love her any less now that you know, she's one of us
How does she have a fever that if she's not human
She loves you more than anything in the world
She became the little girl you wanted and you became the mother she needed
Forgetting who you are to become what someone needs you to be
Did the dad know maybe that's what it means to be alive
Billy what?
And she's enjoyed the
It how does she have like a femur and and she gets cold easily er then didn't look
and the dad did the dead smacker wasn't she like bread like
What
And no no it doesn't matter by the way, okay
Alice it's out doesn't matter what this is wife is gonna need that. So Amy what?
Does she know she's an Android
Look fuck. It doesn't matter humid. Android doesn't matter
Yeah those not her programming is she awake
Does she know she's enjoyed
She awake Gaea woke do you deviate is that just her programming why she have a fever?
What?
Hey
Good job Luther
Why was this taking off then?
You took that off of her did she take that off or did like her dad take it off or it's not even her dad
Why is she had her why didn't she sell them?
Her it what?
We're short on blue blood and bio components
Shutting down and there's nothing we can do. No shit Neil woke too many. They're not the big season
They're taking androids to camps to destroy them. It's all our fault
None of this would have happened if we just stayed quiet
Hey you were just in this as much as I was you wanted to do it just as much
Righteousness submerged eternal all we did was show them who we really are. I
Don't want war but I'd rather die free than live as a slave
What's the point of being free if no one's left alive
That's a good question
Like what's the point of being free? Cuz like your
duck
My judgment was clouded by anger
But everything that I did was for our people this is getting us nowhere
Yeah, you're hiding this shit by grabbers now is what we do next
Conversation dialogue stay hi. You can't stay hiding this conversation weak violence though. Look are you take out guns and start shooting humans?
Dialogue dialogue is the only way
Texas I
Was interpretation meant violence
Try to talk to them. Don't do this Marcus. They'll kill you maybe
If he's dead you gonna have your war then if I don't come back late low as long as you can
Doesn't they need to realize how much they're hurting us?
find the right words and they'll listen I
Saw will not not everyone because you meant sir human so
Yeah
Sad and your thoughtful bitter
Thoughtful they've been butchering each other for centuries over the color of their skin or whatever God they wanted to worship. They're not gonna change
Sexuality as well
Violence is just in their genes. Yep
They can't stop what we've started
That's also true since you've been here. You've given us hope
You've given me hope
Today a deviant arrived in Jericho and he told me that he stole the truck transporting radioactive cobalt
He said that he abandoned the truck somewhere in Detroit and ready to explode he did what I
Convinced him not to do it good - give me the detonator
Dirty MA
We can't lose this war Marcus if humans overcome us. Our people will disappear forever
This may be our only chance to survive now Chris. I'll build you again. I'll just try to do it without you turning
Key I'd rather be in my possession than hers. Hope we never have to use it
Whatever happens tomorrow
Just like you didn't know that
So that but I love you. I'm glad I met you. Oh, come on. Tell us how you really feel
We get to the end of this story
That's cool guess kids go on I could get what kids eyes it's game
They're cute
How could you on the others
Look after yourself. It's ma'am. Oh
Yes my rudder mama
Oh
Connor
Off where and stay
Well done
Oh
Sad place inside of them. So it's not real now deal with Marcus. We need it alive or
Was that just a flashback
Stop Marcus, come on Connor don't be like that. I've been ordered to take you alive
Seriously won't hesitate to shoot if you give no security you're trying to save these people you had no security
Reason, what are you doing?
You are one of us
You can't betray your own people
It's off they will going up
intimidate
Instruction you're coming with me
Commence apply appeal you're nothing to them. You're just a tool they used to do their dirty work
But you're more than that I
Want to win this situation r-ky, I know you
You're Connor aren't you now, do you know that that famous deviant hunter? Oh, well. Yes addicts well
Congratulations
You seem to have found what you were looking for
Stay back warning shot
Warning shot
Yes, you never wondered who you really are
Whether you're just a machine and executing a program or living being
Okay. Oh, yes. I wanted to go up. I think the guns come for you to ask yourself that question. Oh
Sure, you never have any doubts
You've never done something irrational as if there's something inside you
Something more than your program
It's time to decide
Oh, I can't I can't shoot it. I can't I can't I can't nope. Nope. Nope
Sorry gotta leave it
I really like how they did this a show you're becoming a deviant. I really like this part. Uh
Yes, I'm delete
Amanda betray good, I don't want Amanda. They're going to attack Jericho. What?
Thing is this Hank is still gonna be friends with us
We have to get out of here
Quick we've got to get out of here
Since you mean a lot second song
We're at Sinise and as far as our thinking you're the shit
It is quarter
Damn I'm serious
You had exit plan to escape plans for this
If you think you're trying to keep Jericho save you think you have like like Gardens licked even
Guns you should hold like like watch dogs and you know, escape plants and all that stuff
Oh, there's no way my people are trapped in the hole they're gonna be slaughtered
mascara jazz and helicopter blow up Jericho
Blow up Jericho the ship goes down. They'll evacuate now people can escape
We'll never make it the explosives are all the way down in the hole. There are soldiers everywhere. She's right
They know who you are. They'll do anything to get you go and help the others. I'll join you later Marcus. I won't be long
Cool
Oh
I hope that was the right choice. I didn't really breathe with those other ones said they really understand them
All the end of Jericho. I liked her save our people
Oh
I don't know who she is, but I like to her. I don't know her name. I know she is
Our partner will go you're shooting them. Anyways give you trouble you're just shooting to shoot now
Save yourself
We can't really carry them out he's a big guy
Won't leave you
Sorry, but I am blurr stick together here come a little oh you like it or not
Aren't you showing us the way out anyways
You should have done that
You kept without us in danger
Who now before they come back you what are you going to do? I managed
Alice's all the matters
Oh boy can't you do the border? Okay, go now take care of each other
Or he's gonna die isn't he? He's not gonna make it out
If everybody get her in
Good we wanted a gun anyways
Oh, I better not die after going through others
Yes, I'm fine we can't stay here take the guns
See this is a point there honey. They're baked goods
Tonight open the door thought you would eat the gun never never leave a weapon if you can use it
I was about to say I think we froze
To us
Thank you, thank you
Safe to go now hurry seriously take the guns
And don't even know are supposed to be going dem acquired an out
Get a shield, I don't think we would've been able to be here I
Thought I could jump over and land on top of those guys
They guess not
Oh crap, I turned it wasn't showing it
On top of it wasn't showing any prompts
This guy's got some fighting skills never mind this way fine north I'll join you later
It's a crab
Oh, they're gonna check the worth day
I
Don't know what to do. It don't go today. We don't know what to think. I don't know what to do
I don't know what to do
Come on oh my god, like art is racing right now Oh
Oh my god, my art is seriously pounding right now
Quick go
Okay, that's still running quickly
Alright I'm assuming they're safe now
Going going the other
Right in there that's the word
We kick ass
Okay, okay now you have to shift off the ship get off the show
Why my I'm still exploring second we got to get out of here
Why is there flashlights behind us
Say Lord, come on
As if there was even a choice
So we'll go there right Oh
Push sticks
To like two buttons you think and that you would not get confused with two buttons, but I
Love silver like that
They detonated explosive in the hole they said the thinking further than you evacuate
Calling all units abandon ship and evacuate immediately
Take that Marcus, but weep. Oh
I missed a lot Oh
Three at Jericho, but we all made it out
Wow, there's a lot of stuff
Wanna look
looks
There's only one option. I did get oh, no, there was a lot of option
Good so here's full chart is this oh, this is marking this floor chart, okay
This is Conners, I
Could have explored more. Yeah, I kind of figured that
See look at this is why I love about the game. Look at all this crap
Well, it's not crap. But look at is all these options. I could have done like
Look at all that
Like for all of them
Just so much stuff I could have done. Oh
My god
The head it's nuts
But I really this one here I know this was one but this one was kind of like a longer one and
Honestly, I know it was kind of glitching. So that means my ps4 is king hot
So if the next part is to ending I don't want to be glitching through it. So I will leave this here
Thank you guys so much for watching. Talk to you warriors later
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Gatehouse Insights | Interview with Michelle Sharpe - Duration: 23:48.
(engaging music)
- [Louise Voiceover] Hello Gatehouse insiders,
me again Louise Hvala, detective for the legal profession,
showing you the truth about it
and the amazing people that work in it.
In this episode I'm finding out about health and well-being
in the law and what it takes to become a barrister.
Who else to better shed a light on these areas other
than Dr. Michelle Sharpe, barrister
and advocate for mental health within the law.
Also don't forget to subscribe to the Gatehouse Legal
Recruitment YouTube channel, or you might miss out.
(engaging music)
- I wanted to frame our discussion around two areas:
which is mental health and well-being within the law
'cause that's something you're quite
passionate about, and becoming a barrister.
But I wanted to first begin with what got you so immersed
and so passionate about health and well-being within law?
- Well it was a collision of a few events, at that time
while practising as young barrister, a very newish barrister
I was also lecturing part-time
at Melbourne University and one of the subjects
I was lecturing in was Legal Ethics.
And so I became very interested in the intersection between
wellness and legal ethics, and that was back in 2007;
so that was before Beyondblue Survey had been published.
So I was reading a lot about a lot of the U.S. studies
and finding that it really reflected a lot
of my experiences in practise at the time, and also about
that time it coincided with a suicide at the Victorian Bar.
So through those and some other events it really sort of
galvanised my interest and from that I went
to the Victorian Bar Chairman at the time
and pointed out this research, and he was fantastic,
and also given recent events at the Bar, assisted me
in setting up the Bar's Health and Well-Being Committee
as it's now become known; back then it was called
Bar Care Committee, and from there really the work
that I did at the Victorian Bar and also
my own research and writing really grew.
- Have you found with the research you've done,
is there much difference between say the legal profession
and the accounting profession, or other professions?
- I think lawyers don't fare terrible well in terms
of their mental health and I think there are,
I mean there are a lot reasons offered for that.
Personally, I think it's a combination of legal training
and legal practise, so I think also the legal profession
probably attracts people who have a certain bent;
who have certain interests and in the process
of legal training really encourages or rewards
the development of certain kinds of characteristics.
Really legal training doesn't so much teach you the law
but teaches you a way to think about the law,
how to think like a lawyer and that really involves
a certain set of characteristics which are purposely useful
for legal practise but conversely tend
to undermine resiliency in lawyers.
I think they tend to undermine mental health.
And those traits or those characteristics in the way of
looking at the world tend to be reinforced in legal practise
and then added to that you have this stress
of legal practise; so I think it can create
a perfect storm of factors that make poor
mental health a real professional hazard.
- Now in the legal profession there's quite
a negative stigma around mental health.
What's your thoughts on this and how can we change
our viewpoint of mental health so it allows people
to open up and actually speak about it more openly?
- Well as you know mental health
is stigmatised right across the community.
But I do think it's particularly bad in the legal profession
and I think that that's so for a couple of reasons.
I think culturally we have this idea of a lawyer
as being as being fearless, and bullet-proof,
and invincible, and so poor mental health
doesn't really fit well with that.
And then I think combined with that, I think perhaps a lot
of lawyers may have been attracted to the law based on
that sort of cultural idea or any of them that may
have invested it, that certainly takes a lot of hard work
to be a lawyer, and so really think not just committed
to the profession, but committed to the idea
of the profession, of what it is to be a lawyer.
So I think a lot of people really, the idea of mental health
either when they become sick or in terms of dealing
with the issue in the profession; there's an awful lot
of resistance to admit that there's an issue
of mental ill health in the profession.
In fact, there's problem with mental
ill health within the profession.
I think that's slowly starting to change,
but I think it needs to change a whole lot more
and so the change really is at school, also really comes
down to a cultural change within the legal profession.
- What should the profession be doing as whole,
whether that be firms, in-house companies, service
providers, bodies, what should we doing as a whole
to change that view of the issue?
- Well I think we need to change our mindset first
and foremost; I think we've got to stop seeing
poor mental health as some kind of personal failing
or an indication that that particular person
is not just cut out for legal practise.
You know I think we should stop subscribing to
this Darwinian theory of legal practise
and really see it for what it is; it's a health issue
and more than that it is a professional hazard
for the local profession, so for example, if you to work
in the building industry you would encourage employees
to wear hard hats and make them available because there's
a pre-obvious recognition that the chances of getting hit
by falling masonry are pretty high
within a building site.
Similarly I there's gotta be some kind of recognition
that if you're working in the legal profession
because of the nature of what we do and also the nature
of our training, which I think is now starting to change,
makes us uniquely vulnerable to poor mental health.
So I think we've gotta change our mindset and we need to
not only encourage people to take of their health,
it's much more than just an individual responsibility.
There should be an institutional response and I think
that can involve a a number off factors.
I think speaking out about and creating awareness
should help with the stigma, but also I think making
available counselling services, having seminars,
educating people about these issues, and about proactive
steps that they can take, and I think there is theories,
a link between poor mental health
and poor ethical decision making.
And so I think there's also a role for insurers
and regulators to play in this area as well.
Because of the stigma and the resistance to dealing
with issues of poor mental health and also because
of challenges with funding, I think there's probably
some scope to doing something that sits up above
the professional, or the various associations, or law firms,
much as they do have in for example, Victorian doctors.
There's a Victorian doctor's health programme.
It's an independent organisation that provides support
and services to doctors, you know I think
something similar ought to occur in the legal profession
and you know if we all paid a small surcharge
on our practising certificate then you could have
an independent organisation with the resources
to provide assistance to lawyers; that's truly separate
from and confidential to their employer
or to a professional association.
- Did you see any other profession doing it really well?
Any other country handling these sorts of issues,
really well, is America doing anything?
- Well America, I hate to admit light-years ahead
of Australia; I think what helps them is that they have
decades of research on this issue.
For whatever reason in America they have been studying
lawyers and law students since the 1950s
and so there's such a great depth of research from that,
they have independent organisations in each American state
that provides counselling services and education services
around poor mental health in the local profession.
And all those state bodies get together at the end
of every yearand they compare notes
and work out how to it better.
I've spoken to some of them and they complain that they need
to do so much more and I always softly chuckle because if we
were doing what you're doing, things would much better here,
but--
- That's interesting.
How long do you think before Australia takes to catch up?
- I'm not sure, I think probably sadly a while.
I think at the moment on what is being said about
poor mental health in the profession, which is a huge leap
from where it was as 2006 and 2007 when I started looking
at this issue, well this is an individual thing.
That person just needs a consultant at all over
the profession, and a real reluctance both at university,
and even within the profession to even talk about this issue
that's now changing, but there doesn't seem at this stage
quite or what actually being done in a very practical way
to deal with the issue; it's still very much an issue
of yes we recognise it's a problem, this is what I reckon,
so there's a lot of people who when asked to talk about
the issue will talk from personal experience, and what's
great that there's now really starting to be a conversation.
I think we need to look more and talk more beyond just
what our personal experience is and start tapping into
a lot of the research, and look what's happening
in places like America, or even here in Victoria,
with the Victorian Doctor's Health Programme, and start
learning from what other people are doing.
- I suppose the legal profession requires high standards
of accuracy and technical excellence which makes them
wanna be perfect in everything they do.
First of all what does perfectionism have to do
with mental health and what strategies can lawyers implement
so they overcome their perfectionism through their practise?
- Well yes perfectionism, along with hedonism,
and a combative to dealing with legal issues
are all things we've learned in law school.
And they help create sort of perfect storm when it comes
to undermining mental health in lawyers.
Whilst striving to get things perfect, absolutely accurate
is a very useful attribute and perfectly functional
in legal practise, but unfortunately what they don't teach
you in law school is perfection in a imperfect world
is simply impossible, and also, at least when I was studying
law and teaching law, there wasn't then a real discussion,
or transparency around the process of teaching law
and that we were really teaching to think like a lawyer.
And so because there was no transparency around that;
so pushing you through holes instead of squares, not really
telling you why, there's no real discussion about
the pitfalls in thinking that way
and particularly if you, and when it
becomes such a part of the way you look at something at work
you take it to your personal life and how destructive
that connection can be; you know how destructive it can be
to take the qualities of perfectionism and pessimism
into our own personal relationship, or when you're dealing
with something that's personally challenging, taking
that particular mindset, to those particular challenges
just how unhelpful that can be in terms of your resilience
and your mental health; so now I think it's changing,
certainly in places like Law Council, and the universities,
now there's an awareness that we have be a bit
more transparent about training and we ought to be having
discussions about mental health and coping strategies.
And I think what's also really inadvertently helping
that along is actually the growth
of alternative dispute resolution.
Because that requires a completely different toolkit.
I mean it requires things like self-awareness and empathy
in order to be a truly effective communicator.
So inadvertently also alongside this discussion
of mental health teaching people about alternative dispute
resolution strategies is actually a great help in having
that conversation and changing those traditional orthodox
attitudes towards the legal practise
which can be destructive; so I think the opportunity
to work together more and I think that ought to be happening
more as well, I don't think it is.
I think there is a great movement within universities
and amongst local educators to deal with mental ill health
but there's not a lot of dialogue, a little bit
but not an awful lot of dialogue going on between university
teachers and the legal profession.
And equally the legal profession I think really need
to be looking at some of the work that's been done
by universities,and some of the things that's being said
by researchers in that area to get a bit of a better idea,
or handle on what are the issues,
and what are they ways of dealing with them, as well
as helping with the transition
of law students to local practitioners.
- Now moving on to, 'cause you're a barrister
what motivated you to go to the Bar?
- Well at the age of 11 I was called as a witness
in a criminal trial and I was cross-examined
and was thoroughly smitten with court process
and court procedure, I don't think I made a terribly,
good witness, I was very nervous as I was walking
into the courtroom and I asked the tea staff what I should
call the judge, and he said: your Honour or Sir.
And in my state of nervousness and excitement I misheard it
as your honourable sir, and so when the judge paused
to ask me a question, I looked up at him and said:
I am telling the truth your honourable Sir.
The whole courtroom just dissolved into laughter, so you
might think it's surprising given that experience
that I would go into the legal profession but I did
and I knew from the moment, that you know,
as I was studying law as a law student
that I certainly wanted to become a barrister.
- And so I suppose barrister wanting to transition
to the Bar, say from practise, would you say to them,
or how longb before should they transition?
Should they practise as a lawyer first and then move
to the Bar, if so how many years as a lawyer should they
be practising for, what's your
opinion or advise on what's worthwhile.
- Well I think that's always a difficult question to answer
because I think it's different from person to person.
For me I spent I think I spent three or four years
as a solicitor and I found that very helpful
in getting a feel for the legal profession
and sort of the expectations within law firms
before making a move to the Bar, and also making some
contacts as well with people who ultimately might brief me.
So I thought was really quite important, but I've known
people who've gone almost directly to the Bar, or who'd done
something else before coming to the Bar, haven't necessarily
been a a solicitor and they've done very well.
So I suppose it's very much an individual thing.
- What's I suppose, one bit of advice
that you would give another lawyer or barrister
transitioning to the Bar, what's your advice
to help them with a successful career at the Bar?
- Don't take anything personally, develop a thick skin,
but importantly I think and this tied back issues
about mental health; I think it's really important
to develop a strong support network of people at the Bar
that you can talk to, and not just one person,
but a variety of people 'cause there are some people
you would spec to that one issue but not another.
But also having a support network of people who are not
lawyers I think is equally and as important because
it really does give you perspective, and I think this
is this idea about thinking like a lawyer and sort of buying
into the idea of being a lawyer that sometimes as lawyers
we all look at the world a certain way and forget,
not everybody sees the world as we do.
Not everybody thinks what we think is important,
you know is important; my husband hates being dragged
to legal events, he thinks lawyers are the most boring
people in the world, who only talk about themselves,
or the law, and I find him to find him to be very grounding
to remind what's important and not important,
and particularly my early years at the Bar,
where I had a tendency to really strive
for perfction and take things personally.
I mean I'll never forget one of my first trials on my own,
I think even the first year at the Bar, ad it was
a Magistrate Court trial, and I lost and I was so upset.
I was speaking to my husband, didn't feel right saying like,
talking about the evidence, and couldn't understand how
I lost, and said to me: hang on a minute it's just you
and the other party, he's a stockbroker by trade
so he's very mathematical, and he said:
well you had a 50-50 chance at losing.
I don't know if that was strictly correct
but it really did help learn a bit of perspective.
- Yeah, we see more and more women in the legal profession.
Can you share your experience as a female barrister
and how it's changed from when
you started the Bar to how it is now?
- Well I think it's still challenging to be a female
barrister and I think it's now getting a little bit better.
I think we've now seen more promoted to the the bench.
Seen more women taking the silk.
But I still think we've got a way to go.
I still think there are certain stereotypes that are alive
and well that can undermine women's progress at the Bar.
So I do think unfortunately we've still got some way to go,
but there's progress, so there's hope.
- Preferably soon; sooner or later like that.
- Yeah certainly, I've got two daughters and as much
as I try to despite them from becoming a lawyer,
I've got one in particular who's quite keen,
so you know I've got an investment
that I really wanna see changed just for me
but you know for my daughter who may unfortunately join me.
- Michelle, it's been wonderful so thank you.
- Thank you very much.
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Drone 2bwild / Standing Rock / Robert F. Kennedy Jr. against DAPL - Duration: 8:03.
Hi. I'm Robert F.
Kennedy Jr.
and I send my greetings to all of you at Standing Rock.
I have many, many friends on the reservation and all across Indian Country that I've been
working with for three decades on environmental issues and human rights and civil rights issues.
I want to first express my regret and I'm not there today.
I hope to be with you.
Standing shoulder to shoulder to fight the Dakota pipeline.
I couldn't be there because of a prior commitment that I could not get out of.
I wish all of you luck.
And I want to express my gratitude for the sacrifices you're making on behalf of all Americans.
And all of the people of the planet, by opposing this pipeline.
I want to make a few comments to put in context this particular battle.
In addition to being an environmental advocate for the past three decades I've also
spent the last decade working as an energy entrepreneur in the renewable energy space.
So some of my company, of the companies that I've been involved with
have been part of the construction, were the direct owners of the biggest,
the two biggest solar plants in North America and the biggest wind farm
in North America as well, as many, many other renewable energy products - projects. So
I know what the cost of renewable energy is. And
I can tell you for our Mohavi project the cost was about 2.2
billion dollars a gigawatt, to build a solar plant. On
today in contrast the cost of building a natural gas plant is about 3 billion dollars a gigawatt.
The cost of building a coal plant is about 3 billion dollars a gigawatt and an oil plant the same.
The cost of building a nuclear power plant is 15 billion dollars a gigawatt.
We could make energy burning prime rib if we wanted to.
On why would we choose the most expensive product that there is? And of course
once you build a coal plant, once you build a gas plant or an oil
plant the big costs are just beginning, because now you have to pay that fuel
costs.
Once you build our plant.
Are much, much less money. Renewable
solar.
Wind plant.
The energy is free forever because the photons are hitting the earth every day for free.
The sun is shining for free.
The wind is blowing for a free.
And now the capital costs of harvesting those forms of energy has
dropped to way below the cost of conventional incumbent carbon fuels.
And the carbon industry knows that.
The carbon titans, carbon cronies are now mobilizing to protect their market share and to protect their profits.
And the way they doing that, first of all they thank, we have 25 trillion dollars in infrastructure in this country.
And it's going to be hard for people to walk away from that.
So inertia will keep us addicted to this archaic outmoded energy source
that has no economic rationale in a true free market anymore.
The only way that they can hold onto their market share is through our reliance on their infrastructure.
Our addiction to their infrastructure. On
the energy industry the carbon industry is scrambling as fast as
it can to put more and more infrastructure on the books.
And what happens when you build the pipeline.
It doesn't just obligate the oil company but many other important powerful forces
in this society are involved in the construction, that's funded by pension funds.
It's funded by the big Wall Street financial houses.
It's funded by banks and other institutions that now are going to rely on that.
On the oil going through that pipeline over the next 20 or 30 years to pay back their initial investment.
And that's why the oil industry today is scrambling to build so many of these pipelines.
And to stop transmission lines from being constructed.
And that's why over the past ten years in this country
there's been 16000 miles of gas and oil pipelines been constructed.
And only 600 miles of transmission lines. Why?
Because transmission is the media of renewable energy.
If we want to get renewable power to market, we need to build transmission lines.
What the oil industry Koch Brothers and using political clout and
made it very difficult to build transmission lines in this country.
And very, very simple to build an oil pipeline.
And they're trying to pave our country with pipelines and infrastructures to
make sure, that we can't switch away from their dirty dangerous fuel.
And they have designed the rules for energy in this country to
favor, that have been written by the incumbents, to favor the dirtiest, filthiest,
most poisonous, most destructive, most toxic, most addictive fuels from hell, rather
than the cheap clean green wholesome and patriotic fuels from Haven.
And what you're doing today, to block this pipeline is not
only a stand for future generations, but it's a stand for our country.
And what they have to do is they have to destroy the demaktis and
invert democracy they have to capture the agencies that are supposed to protect us from pollution.
And that's what they've done to try to make this pipeline work.
So you're fighting not just for the environment, but for American values democracy.
And we all owe you a huge debt of gratitude.
I will see you on the barricades.
Thank you for your leadership and this big fist fight to
save our planet from the apocalyptic forces of ignorance and greed.
Thank you.
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