"Her Men."
I'm 19-year-old Park Haemi from Gwangju.
Girl, girl, girl, girl.
I'm the second daughter of 4 girls.
My younger sister who's in 9th grade
is doing something terrible.
Korea practices monogamy.
You only get one partner.
But my younger sister wants to
make many men hers at the same time.
"Sis. I think I'm in love."
You're good.
"You're already in love with 7 men."
"But I can't help it.
He's so handsome, charming
witty, and funny.
He can sing so well, too."
Look at Mingi. He looks so happy.
Stop drooling.
(Here's another man who's in love)
You love her too much.
Those men that my sister is into are...
Male idol singers.
(Indeed!)
EXO, BTS, Wanna One,
ASTRO SEVENTEEN, VIXX,
PENTAGON, BTOB and Kwon Hyunbin.
She's a die-hard fan of 9 idol groups.
She is in love with too many groups.
"Mom, BTOB made a comeback.
Can you buy me their album?"
"How many have you bought so far?
If you buy all of them, we'll go bankrupt."
"Oh, come on! Why can't I get one? Why?
Buy me one! Buy me one!"
She's so good.
She's so good even without practice.
I almost put my hand up to slap you.
- She's so good. / - She is too good.
She spends lots of money when new albums come out.
This is the youngest daughter.
"Sis. What is this album?"
"Hey! What the frick! You're dead meat!
Don't touch it! Get out of my room!"
She cusses and screams when we touch her things.
This is just the tip of the iceberg.
Please help my sister.
What do you think about this, Nayoung?
I think being a fan of 9 groups is too much.
Right. How can she like so many at one time?
I'm an expert on being a die-hard fan.
I think it's a spice we add to our lives.
But people usually switch over to new things
after a year or two.
But she just keeps accumulating new groups.
She likes all of them at the same time.
- This is... / - Right.
Let's bring her out.
Please come on out.
(Who's concerned about her younger sister?)
(Park Haemi)
(Welcome)
Your sister is a fan of 9 idol groups.
Does she really like all of them?
She was 10 when EXO debuted.
Your younger sister?
That's when she became their fan.
Then she started to like EXO, BTS, Wanna One,
ASTRO, SEVENTEEN, BTOB,
PENTAGON and Kwon Hyunbin.
- Only handsome idol groups? / - Yes.
I'm so sick of it.
PRISTIN isn't one of them?
No.
She likes male idol groups.
Why doesn't she like 2PM?
I don't know.
(Oh no)
As her sister, couldn't you be understanding?
Why are you so concerned about this?
Many groups are active around the same time.
When she watches music programs,
she hides the remote.
So that nobody can change the channel.
She has to watch the same clip more than 10 times.
So we can't watch TV at all.
Each new song has its own unique way of cheering.
Really?
She says that she has to learn them,
so she screams like she's at a concert.
In front of the TV?
She yells out those cheers.
- Every cheer is different. / - Really?
The members' names were called out for us.
During the intro?
Ok Taecyeon, Nickhun.
(Tried to keep the rhythm)
They must all be in 3 syllables.
(World-class synchronized cheer.mp4)
Jeong Hoseok.
Park Jimin.
Kim Taehyeong.
Jeon Jungkook.
BTS!
(I wish she wouldn't do that at home)
I like Block B, but when their new album
is released, I just listen to it once or twice.
But when a new album is released,
my sister spends $200-300 a month
to buy their album and posters.
She also buys other products like cheer sticks.
Right. Each group has their own cheer stick.
They all look different.
She has to buy beauty products and ice cream
that is advertised by her favorite idols.
Since she needs money,
she'll lie to our parents to get spending money.
I hope idols don't do refrigerator ads.
- Get a new refrigerator? / - That's right.
Does she get mad when her younger sister
touches her things in her room?
She yells and cusses.
As soon as the youngest goes in?
F you! Don't come in here!"
"Frick!" Like that?
Yes.
(Oh my)
- All she did was go in there? / - Yes.
One time, Mom wanted ice cream,
so she opened the refrigerator.
I guess there was an ice cream that
my sister's favorite idols advertised.
There was a picture of them on the wrapper.
She didn't want it ripped?
Mom ripped the wrapper to eat it
and the idol singer's face got ripped.
That's heartbreaking.
So my sister...
What did she do?
"I bought this to keep the wrapper.
How can you rip it? Go buy another one."
She yelled at mom like that.
She yelled at your mom?
Mom went out, but it wasn't the one she wanted.
It was another member? Oh no.
My sister said, "This is wrong. Buy another one!"
She must really love them to be like this.
Let's meet her sister now.
Hello.
Hello.
Do you understand your sister's concern?
There are people who are worse than I am.
I don't know why this is a concern.
Most people like one or two groups.
Why do you like 9 groups?
- I just do. / - You like all of them?
I relieve stress by watching their videos.
I first got to know Xiumin in EXO.
He was so cute, so I became a die-hard fan.
(Good choice)
(Welcome to the die-hard fan world)
Then I was watching BTS videos.
V is handsome
and quirky. So I became his fan.
(Became a fan of another popular idol singer)
My friends were listening to SEVENTEEN's song.
Joshua was so handsome, so I became his fan.
ASTRO.
Do you like Cha Eunwoo?
Then I started to like BTOB, too.
My favorite member is Peniel.
(Adding more groups to the list)
(She's no longer nervous)
(A full screen of idol singers' pictures)
I don't know who's who.
Unbelievable.
This is like the year-end concert.
- Right. / - Idols' Track and Field.
You like everyone on here?
This is like the year-end concert.
(I'm not on the list)
We were talking about 2PM member Hwang Chansung.
He's handsome, too. What do you think about him?
(He's a handsome idol singer, too)
I don't know who he is.
- Oh my. / - The beastly idol singer.
I told you. We were popular 10 years ago.
Right.
(I'm cold...)
(I didn't mean to hurt you)
Isn't it hard to be a fan of all these groups?
Yes, it is.
When many groups come back at the same time...
Right.
That must get crazy.
I don't have much money,
so I don't know whose album to buy.
When fans get in a fight,
I don't know whose side to take.
That's right.
(So don't get into it too much)
Let's test her to see how much she loves them.
We brought some idol singers' character drawings
that only die-hard fans can distinguish.
(Q1. Who is this?)
I don't know what that is.
What's his name from which group?
This is it? You won't even give us a name?
(Can you tell who it is?)
- Isn't it Nickhun? / - I don't know.
How can we tell who it is?
Nayoung, do you know the answer?
No?
I don't know who it is.
Who in the audience knows the answer?
(Someone raised her hand!)
In the back.
- Who is it? / - Peniel.
Peniel?
- Peniel. / - Peniel?
Do you know who this is?
EXO's D.O.
D.O.?
(This is D.O.?)
Please show us the answer.
(She is correct)
She was right.
It does look like him.
I can tell by the eyes, mouth and hair.
Really? No way.
(Speechless)
Okay. Next picture, please.
(Q2. Who is this?)
It's Chanyeol.
(EXO's Chanyeol's character?)
What's the answer?
She's right. Chanyeol.
It does look like him.
It does?
I can see what features they took from him.
Why can't us adults tell who it is?
(Q3. Who is this?)
I think I know who it is.
- Xiumin. / - White hair.
Kai.
Kai had white hair for their song "Overdose."
That's why.
- Kai. / - Kai.
You know all the details, too.
Do you know all the birthdays of the ones you like?
- Just some of them. / - Just some of them?
Xiumin's birthday is on March 26.
Chanyeol's birthday is on November 27.
Baekhyun's birthday is on May 6.
Hwang Minhyun's birthday is on August 9.
Taehyeong's birthday is on December 30.
Do you know when your mom's birthday is?
You don't know?
I did when I was in the lower grades,
but not now.
What about your sister's birthday?
I don't know.
Do you know who she is?
I don't think she knows who this is.
(It's not that bad)
(Try to tone it down a little)
I support being a die-hard fan of something.
When a child is a die-hard fan of something,
she can relieve stress through that.
So she is nicer and happier.
But the problem with her is that
she has become very sensitive
and aggressive towards her family.
That's right.
I once left my phone in
my sister's room, so I went in to get it.
As soon as I went in, she yelled at me.
- As soon as you went in? / - Yes.
Just gave me the finger, too.
(The finger attack to her 11-year-old sister)
The finger.
(Her sister's welcome)
She gave you the finger?
She knows her English.
She cussed at me, too.
She also called me other names.
Sometimes, she kicks me.
(She's a bit sorry)
When she came here today,
she brought her collections that she cherishes.
Please bring them out.
What are these? Idol singers' products?
I see cookie boxes, too.
(Before you touch them...)
(You want me to wear gloves?)
Careful, careful, careful.
Must we wear these gloves?
- They might get dirty. / - Okay.
I feel like an investigator.
(Getting ready to touch the products)
Please no flash photography.
If you look here...
I'm too scared to touch these.
(Taking out a poster)
Be careful.
Don't rip the poster.
(As if they're touching a national cultural asset)
(A delicate touch)
In order not to rip it,
you must hold it up like this.
She looks very nervous.
It's time for "Authentic or Not."
What is this?
EXO's "Power" poster.
Power? Power of music.
Wow, they look so handsome.
Where did you buy this?
At the time, I was living in Jindo.
- I bought it in Mokpo. / - You went to Mokpo?
Mokpo?
(It is an authentic EXO poster)
- It's in different length. / - Here it is.
Isn't that the ice cream that your mom bought?
Ice cream. Ice cream.
Is this the one?
Do you carefully rip the wrapper, eat it
and then take off the wrapper?
Or do you take off the wrapper first
and grab the cone as you eat it?
I take off the wrapper first.
- She does that first. / - I see.
I can see that. It's quite clean inside.
She took the ice cream out before it melted.
Yunhwa, let's eat the remaining part of it.
These don't have their faces on them.
What are these for?
They just happen to be in there.
(Just randomly placed in the box)
They just happen to be there.
For no reason.
They were brought in by mistake.
Can't you just accept her hobby and let her be?
Then it wouldn't be too much of a problem.
I have to worry about her because
she's always in her room watching their videos.
Mom tells her to eat, but she won't come out
because she's busy watching them.
If Mom doesn't step in, she won't eat at all.
Really?
It's summer break right now, so she doesn't
shower often and stays in her room all day.
It's so bad that I don't want to be near her.
One time, she didn't bathe for a week.
When I tell her to eat,
she says, "Later."
So I tell her to eat with the rest of us.
Then she puts her phone on the table and eats.
It's very heartbreaking to see that.
Yes.
She likes to be by herself,
so...
- She's getting emotional. / - She's upset.
She doesn't sleep much either?
No, because she's busy watching their videos.
Sometimes, she'll be up until 2 or 3 a.m.
When I tell her to go to sleep,
she says, "Mind your own business. Get out."
- She yells at you? / - Yes.
She yells, "Get out!"
Don't you scold her for yelling at you?
I do. I tried taking away her phone.
I even spanked her, but it's all useless.
She's older now, so she won't listen to me.
She doesn't even go to school often now.
- She doesn't? / - She doesn't.
When I woke her up in the morning,
she said she'll go to school.
Then she went after the second period.
Now, she refuses to go to school all together.
What does her father say?
He tells me to leave her alone
and not to stress her out.
I think her teachers have given up on her, too.
I transferred to this school 3 months ago,
so it's hard to adjust and I don't have many friends.
What was it like at your previous school?
I was ostracized by my classmates.
They singled you out?
You were hurt by that.
I'm always by myself when I'm at school.
(She bursts into tears)
My classmates avoid me.
They don't want me on their team during PE.
They make it obvious that they hate me.
They just don't like me.
Now I understand why her dad left her alone.
Why he didn't want her to be stressed out.
I knew about this.
I saw her crying in her room.
So I asked her, "Why are you crying?"
She just yelled at me to get out.
She won't talk to me about it,
so it's very frustrating.
May I ask why you were crying then?
I was so tired from being at school.
Mom came in and nagged at me.
She always tells me to study when I'm bad at it.
So I was crying in my room and
my sister asked me why I was crying.
So you've never told them about your hardships?
No.
I knew about this, too.
In Jindo, she went to a small school,
so I just told her to try to get along with them.
You didn't know how hurt she was, right?
No.
(I'm worried)
I am living in a dorm by myself
in Mokpo to go to college.
I moved out 3-4 years ago so
I didn't know how serious her concern was.
She's always been introverted.
Even on holidays, when everyone got together,
she would play with her phone in the corner.
Even now, when I go home, she says hi
and then she won't say anything else.
There are four of us,
so our parents can't give us much individual attention.
I should've been there for her as her sister,
but I wasn't.
She went through so much by herself.
Hold her hand.
I couldn't do anything for her.
We should've listened to her,
but no one really cared.
I'm sure she struggled so much by herself.
- So you feel bad? / - Yes.
When she's having a tough time,
idol singers' songs and lyrics
could be comforting to her.
She's in 9th grade now.
As a gift, I told her that
if she is able to buy the ticket in time,
I will pay for her to go to EXO's concert.
She was so happy when I said that.
Every time she sees me, she reminds me of it.
Thinking about it,
she just needed our love and respect.
My family wasn't so harmonious when I was young,
so I got addicted to reading comic books.
I liked reading comics and drawing them.
One day, my mom said, "You're reading comics.
I used to draw comics myself, too."
And she drew me something.
I still remember what she drew me.
I think that's what I wanted to hear from my mom.
Do you know why your daughter likes
those idol singers?
No, I don't.
(Disappointed)
Which idol singer would you like
to introduce to your mom?
SEVENTEEN's Seungkwan.
Seungkwan. He's a great singer.
She mentioned Seungkwang, so you should
actively ask her about Seungkwang.
It's Seungkwan. Kwan. Not Kwang.
(Beware of the pronunciation)
It's not Seungkwang. It's Seungkwan.
(I was on a roll...)
(Right then)
I hear that Seungkwan is a good singer.
(Mom has mustered up the courage)
Which song would you like to recommend for me?
Hmm...
Very nice!
(Ha)
It's not SEVENTEEN's song, but...
"Nosedive" by Chen and Dynamic Duo.
That's what I would like to recommend to you.
"Nosedive."
Do you know what they like?
No.
- Work harder. / - Learn more about each other.
You should know if you're their fan.
- Mom is shy doing this, too. / - Right.
Let me say something as a die-hard fan.
She is a die-hard fan, but she's gloomy
and sensitive because of it.
It's because she likes too many things.
Why is everything so complicated?
You become happy when
you dig one thing deeper and deeper.
Right now, she's tired and sensitive because
she is into too many groups.
You are here today because
you're a fan of too many idol groups.
But I'm heartbroken because it seems to me
like you're going through something very hard.
I went to a small school, too.
It's easy for everyone to turn against you
- for no reason. / - That's true.
You seem to be very fragile like glass.
I'm like that, too.
I don't look like it, right?
You're more like bulletproof glass.
(You made me feel better)
So...
As of today, could you try to
go to school with more confidence
and not be hurt by others?
Try to courageously become friends with others.
Think of it as training done at school.
I wish you would come out of your room
and talk to us more often.
Try to like those idol groups a little less.
Is it a concern or not?
She doesn't seem happy at all.
So I think it's a concern.
I think it's a concern.
I think it's a concern.
I think it's a concern.
I think it's a concern.
If you think it's a concern, please press the button.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Please say a word to your family.
Haemi.
I will try to like them less, talk to the family more
and go to school.
You don't have to worry about me anymore.
How beautiful.
Please say something to your mother.
Mom, I love you.
That's the best.
(I love you, mom)
Ma'am.
She's crying.
Don't think that your daughter is strange.
This trait of hers will change the world later.
- Please show us the result. / - She's crying.
"Her Men."
She must've been so worried.
Did they get over 100 votes?
Out of 200 votes. "Her Men."
135? 145?
135 votes!
Hey.
Give your mom a hug. She's crying so much.
Yes, give her a hug.
(Hug)
Some people will think Dad made her cry.
He didn't even come today.
(That's possible)
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