hello everyone i hope you are well
I try not to do too much noises when moving too much
I proposed you about
two months ago to send me your questions via a
google form that is in info bar that I think about withdrawing because you have not been
very many to use it I've also proposed to send me your
questions with the hashtag #askursula in comment and the same I've not received
a lot so I do not think to continue to do that but I will try
to offer you regularly on instagram to send me your
questions because there you have been very many to send me a lot of questions
so it was so cool so I will try to answer a
maximum of questions in this video and mainly questions to which
I never answered I'll put you in info bar and right here
links to previous videos questions - answers that I have already done
like that you can see because there is certainly answers to your
questions that are in there I'm super hot so sorry if I'm
a bit shiny huh! Oh yes and I know that some people will ask me
There I just take off my twists to do my twists out
I do not have a lot of volume today but I gain as the week progresses
but on the other hand it is very well defined and I made you a video
on my hair routine of the moment on IGTV my new instagram channel
you actually have the icon IGTV on my instagram profile
it's the icon that's all the left the round icon and you can find
all my videos on it so it's videos that I do in English and that's
too nice because it's actually really good to redo classic videos
like tutorials but in English is ... I do not know that makes me...
It gives me a really fresh start and I enjoy again doing
tutorials so it's really great so I invite you to go and see if
it interests you. I will start with the questions I received in comment and
on the form: what is your sign astro? do you believe in astrology?
so my astrological sign is scorpion like the new Drake album
who is also scorpion. David is also scorpion anyway we are born
two days apart and I do not really believe in astrology because when
we study a lot psychology , neuroscience you really see all
the particularities that has in beings humans and all the peculiarities of
personalities of human beings. When I look at astrology in comparison
it's way too general and actually we can really end up in
almost all the signs. How to go to others, how to impose yourself?
so the person really send me a little explanation of the situations in which
she would like to have my opinion. I would many know your opinion Ursula and
which personal development book do you think you would recommend to me?
for my case ? So the book that I would advise you because
I think about it right now it's the Amy Cuddy's book I posted it on my Instagram
"Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges" by Amy Cuddy
I talked about it during one of my meetings at the reading club
so I actually do meet-up. I did not say it on youtube but it's on instagram
and I often talk about it on my instagram. I do meetings with you, those who are
in Paris or who can come to Paris once a week all summer and
we meet and we talk about personal growth we get
discover each other our development readings personal and we draw or paint or
so I also suggest you to do some coloring for those who do not want
to draw or paint is really cool and it's so cool
to be able to meet you spend a great time and it's so cool
in short, it is a book that I have almost finished that I find hyper
interesting because it learns to to have more self-confidence but especially
have more control over yourself and to impose yourself in the eyes of
others but just in self-imposed in fact
when I saw the cover on which it is written " the postures of power
an infallible tool to transform your life and show them who
you are " I told myself this is going to be how to impose oneself on others
how to try to change thoughts of others have power over
other things like that while that's not at all that's rather how in
having power over yourself you're able to influence others and to
to be able to get what you want and you can actually really show
what we want to show who we are compared to my own experience I
would say that it really is with time that I learned to emphasize more about
things that are important to me there are lots of things that do not depend
on us there are plenty of things on which
we have no control and it does not matter and it's pretty good we could not
not control everything manage everything so I'm always say I'm trying to make a
maximum on my side and have good consciousness with myself by telling myself
you did what you wanted to do you said what you thought you tried
if it did not work it's actually I think like you that it should not work and
it does not matter sometimes there are people we lose in our lives and
finally it happens at the good moment and we meet others
people behind things are changing permanently life evolves
permanently and that's what's beautiful too. We have to adapt in fact and
you must be more sure of your decisions, your choice and seem convinced
and me often what was missing before that was that I was not
necessarily convinced of what I thought I did not believe that my idea was
a good idea so inevitably when I spoke with someone, the person
saw that I doubted actually this is really the idea of presence being able
to be really present in the situation, connect with yourself and
connected with each other I think it's the most important in my opinion
I hope my answer will help you. Hello Ursula
I would like to know how you started your professional activity on
youtube and your work on your own in detail please what are the
advice you can give me for me start in entrepreneurship I did
already two videos where I'm talking about my professional activity
so I'll give you the links right here first video where
I explain why I started my youtube channel a little bit how it happened
how I turn that into professional activity and in the
second video I explain a little more how I work daily
advice I'll give you to get you started it's to be clear on your
project so that's super important also on how you can pick up a living
because it's nice to have a a project but if it's not a project
that is profitable Well, it may be just a passion or
a hobby so have a business model. I'm not sure that entrepreneurship is for
everyone so maybe try to meet people who are a little in
entrepreneurship or in this state mind of mind at least and see if that match
with you your way of being and way of working and then start
as quickly possible even if you can work besides it's really good
at the beginning and gradually go on a full-time activity
when you have managed to get in more money and do not hesitate to
to inform you in fact. Start, try as soon as possible your activity to
know if it can work or not and do not hesitate to change and change
your project if you see that it's not profitable or that it's not going to be
how to regain morale, motivation following a disappointment ?
how to feel more productive exercise reading routine etc ?
I will say to regain morale after a disappointment is not to focus on it
to focus on the rest on everything that goes well we in our life, what we have
want to do on our projects on the future often we stay in
a bad mood because we are too focused on the past and on what
happened think about what you can learn from
this situation that "went wrong" in any case in which we were disappointed
for the sequel to try to change our habits our way of being
to recognize the pattern in which we are
regularly to try to get out of it
once we start it's more easy to find a rhythm and
aand then we often want to go after what we started
so I would say try to get motivate and empower
to start quickly no matter the activity so
for example if you work from home have
everything available on your desk allows you to start quickly rather than
having to take the material out of things ... that's really
effective and that's what I'm telling you to do in any case to
to be productive for me it's really a question of practicing actually
not so much reading even if there are books will teach you how to be
more effective how to think better but it does not
really play on productivity & the motivation. it comes
really from you and knowing why you do things how you
want to do them how you can improve them and doing it
really everyday. What are your tips to improve in drawing?
I had talked about it in my two videos one on watercolor and one on gouache
I will give you links. how to force yourself to be interested in
uninteresting conversations of your colleagues in business without being
obliged to be hypocritical? Simply not interested in it doing just
something else or to say it's not a subject that interests me
a lot and try to launch another subject. I'd like to get into
professional photography like marriage family... I'm aware that this is
an activity that works a lot word of mouth where to start and
how to have some visibility on social media? Thank you Ursula
for your answer continue like this. Thanks to you
Start with instagram I think it's the easiest to post what you do
post what you know how to do also it's not bad to send
private messages to people with whom you would like to collaborate people whose
you like their work too to try to connect with them
Put comments on photos of others ... Try to interact
because it's also really a platform that is made to interact
and it's really with time actually that you have visibility. Could you
we make a video about basics of oral English or advice from
links I think it would help thank you so I have a question also on
instagram on how I learned English I have one moreover
I think right after in English about how I learnt english. Mainly
I learned at school actually at middle school, high school, college, university
I still had English and then even in science it's important to
to know to read English and well understand at least for lack of good
speaking it is importance because all scientific readings are in
English then what helped me a lot is to go to the United States for a
month and half because I have family there it allowed me to improve my
listening and my listening comprehension and since then I watch a lot of videos
in English so series youtube videos with the
subtitles or now I can even watch without subtitles because I'm
really used to understanding it's really what
I would advise to do if you want to improve yourself in any
language watch a lot of videos and
series films in this language with subtitles it's better but
do not hesitate to put the subtitles in the language not only
to put subtitles in english it's good to do both and then
I discovered a youtube channel in English where there is a little like
course i will put you the link in info bar and there is also a girl who told me
about a youtube channel that the same I will also put in info bar
I had downloaded the application duolingo but honestly I do not use it
but I know it's an app which is not bad for learning from
languages. I know there is babel too I think
there are different applications I do not use them it is really watching
videos and now doing some English videos that helps me a lot
because really to speak well we have to talk because even though
we know what that means having the words in mind to say them
quickly it's super difficult and even the pronunciation with the mouth
just form the words to pronounce well it's really about
practice I think I'm not going to do another video about it maybe
I'll do it later when I'll really have improve my English on IGTV
a video on IGTV in English where I will talk about it but not right now
how to find the strength to give up your work to follow your dreams ?
normally you have so much desire to realize your dream or you have so much
want to start an activity that you have trouble keeping up with
doing something else besides if you have really the impression that it takes
to give up is that you may not have to not stop knowing that you can always do
several things at the same time actually you do not have to be 100%
on an activity to be able to do it what is more difficult is to find
really ways to do it because you have enough income
money and you can really support yourself
on what platform do you watch your series David and you? Not on a
specific platforms in fact in general we type on the internet the series
and often we come across sites that propose the series maybe one day we
will have Netflix for now it's not the case but it looks cool
Netflix but there are not any series on it so here we are
watching on the internet on the sites which works. I go to
instagram questions wait I think I can all
get them at once they make so many new features on instagram that sometimes
I think it's not easy I'm a little lost but it's great
at least there is always something new and that's what's missing with youtube. There is
really very little news features in general and we get
bored a little eh (laughs) Hi I really like what you do
doing often wash and go can promote hair breakage? if you
have made a long question I believe that I do not see the whole question, it's not
great. If you can find the right products and you do not need to rehydrate
too often of your hair, to re-manipulate your hair too often during the
week there is no reason that it ruins your hair. You are the sweetest of all
bloggers that I follow. But it's too adorable. Thank you
When are you having children with David? I had several questions of this type
there and I'm often asked this question I will answer you
an answer that I have already answered but it's ok huh First I find that
it's an inappropriate question to ask on social media but
also in real life to your entourage. Avoid asking this question
because in fact you projecting on the other your waiting to see a baby
because you say when does that mean that the person
wants to have children and that assumes that the person can have children
you do not necessarily know what the person lives, what she is going through
what she also thinks simply what she wants
so do not ask the question like that. At the limit you can ask:
Do you have couple projects? In addition I saw youtubeuses talking about that
youtueuses who can not have children and
to have people asking them all the time: are you going to have a
child? it's horrible actually so yeah just try to put yourself
in this person' shoes and try to do not assume things that you do not
do not know and you do not know the answer. Do not actually project on them
your expectations it puts pressure on the other which should
not exist I think. To answer, we do not immediately
because we do not immediately want to. I want to be ready and I want
the day we will have children if we have children if we can have children
and if we feel like it, I want that is really a choice and a pleasure and
something we're going to enjoy fully because it will be
what I want and it will be chosen and not to please
to anyone, no we will not do children to please you and
then it's not you who are going to take care of them. You will see the day we have
decided to have a child. We'll tell you one day maybe
or afterwards because I like to share my experience but
share what I learned and share which could be useful to others
we're not the type of person to show off just for it I think that the same if we have
children. It will not be having kids to show that we have children and for
put them on the front of the stage it's not at all our way of thinking
so that's it if one day it happens. You'll see. No questions but I saw you
once in Paris you are wow. it's too nice too, thank you. What are your favorite care
skin care for the body? so I really like shower gels
a little fruity, scented I like a lot of that so it's not necessarily the
most natural shower gels in terms of ingredients
but I like having shower gels who smell good and I like oils
for the body I really like avocado oil for example for the body
Argan oil it was a bit my two types of care
I prefer. Why do not you answer to messages and kisses I love you
I answer the messages. I answer I think about 90% of the messages I get
whether it's comments, private messages, emails if I do not have
answered your question it's either I did not had the time either I do not have the
answer because I do not know everything I do not know everything I can not
answer all your questions either the answer was just before
or right besides, really not far. I have not necessarily time to say to
each person the answer is just above
the answer ... I try to do it often because I know that sometimes you do not see
the Q&A videos are also to do that for you to send me
really all the questions that you want and I really take the
time to answer it. Could you give some advice to live on paris? Tips of all kinds
I think the difficulty when you live in paris, to live in paris
is that it's expensive everything is expensive in paris we made choices, to know what
is important to you and how you want to spend I would say. After there are plenty
of things also that works a lot by the network or by knowing someone
try to interact with people even if people are not always very
welcoming very nice at first do not hesitate to really
be interested in people to try to create links and network
I really like taking the bus in Paris because it's super nice except
when it is super hot because we do not have air conditioning so it is better to take the metro
what's cool is that there is a lot of choice, we can do a lot of activities
We can meet lots of different people so that's what
I really like living in a big city
must be very responsive too when we lives in Paris because everything is quick, everything goes
very quickly for example job offers apartments,
roommates ... that sort of thing. Where would you like to spend the rest of your life?
well, we do not know David and I, a big city preferably
I think Paris frankly I think we could quite live in Paris
all our life without problem. We really had a big crush
for New York but finishing my life and stay all my life in New York I do not know
I think it might be for a period of time
I think there are certainly other places where we could live
I would like to continue traveling quite regularly
Hello Ursula, I wanted to tell you that you're awesome
kisses. Thank you it's very kind. Do you ever think you're bored of being an influencer
would you work again in science?
I think we have so much possibilities and it not boils down just to
create content in fact. Contents are a way to communicate with you
to interact with you and to be creative. I think in the future there will be
many other ways to communicate with people I like that a lot and
that I do not think I'll be tired of but maybe the way I'll do it
will evolve. I do not think to work again in the sciences not at least
the job of researcher no but if there are new jobs that are created
and that would mix a little more science, communication, creativity that yes
no problem because I still love as much neurosciences
I still read as many books of neuroscience I love psycho too so
I also learn a lot about these and so that's for sure I could very
easily rework in this kind of domain but I would still like to stay
independent that it's really the main ... the main condition
for me it is to be independent so I think that all
consulting job that would fit me too. We do not know how that
will evolve at all . Have you planned a next trip with David? I love your
vlogs. thank you very much. In addition we had seen each other at one of the meetings
our next trip is going to be Amsterdam at the beginning of September so it's going to be a bit of a holiday
we can not wait it's going so cool we went separately already
I went there with my parents so it's not the same type of
vacations and here I really want to visit the city and then it's
a city that I find really beautiful but I do not remember it very well
so I can not wait to go back and I think it's going to be super cool so I
will do a vlog that's for sure. Do you change your summer habits? food ? hair
Or other ?In summer is clear that I eat many more fruits and vegetables
also it's true more salads. The fruit we have plenty of choice in summer so
it's just too good I love them fruit and for hair I use
slightly more nutritious products because my hair tends to become dehydrated
fast enough. Yesterday I was watching again your videos on the bullet bullet
where are you? there you still optimized? so my bullet journal
in progress it is this one in general I finish it in about six months. I still have that in fact
I've soon finished I started it in February
I'll make a video I make you a video when I start a
new bullet journal and it's usually at that moment that I
thought about how to optimize it and analyze what I did before
to think and put news things up yeah I will do it again a video
when I will have a new bullet journal. I see that you do not publish too much on your
blog, it is too much? I can not take the
time to write articles because I like making videos too much
I do not delete it because I say to myself that there are post that could be useful for
some people who happens to fall above
I do not know by what miracle and if I have article ideas I will write them
certainly but it's clear that at the future I'll really more
focus on videos. It's happening to you to have the head in fire when
there are plenty of ideas that boils you in the head ? Yes Yes Yes yes Yes
what I'm trying to do is note it allows them to go out
from my head and when it's just before sleeping
I try to do some meditation
how to get my hair done like you since I can not wear
my hair out? for me it's really a matter of habit as I already said at
the beginning when I went back natural when I started having
volume, a lot of hair, I was not at all comfortable with the fact of
wearing it out. I felt like everyone was watching me it was too much, too much
hair etc ... while then I had less than today
really you have to force yourself if it's really the hairstyle you want to wear
Are you going to do more videos on afro hair? how to style it and
how to deal with it? I've already done a lot of videos on
hair on my youtube channel if you do have not seen them feel free
to watch them because there are a lot. I have addressed a lot of topics I also
wrote articles on my blog so it's true that now when I
redo hair videos it's for you show either a new routine
new products or a new technique and then there are mostly full
other topics that interest me so I do not want to be specialized at all
do not want anymore to be specialized in hair because I'm not sure
that it is really what represents me best as a person
hello I have the impression that you never do protective hairstyle? Why this
choice? I've done it only once since I came back to natural and it was the
first year because I love wearing my
natural hair, I do not have the patience to make
protective hairstyles because it's still super long and I want to show that you
does not have to do protective hairstyles you can wear
natural hair permanently out and have them in good health
how do you do to know where you are going? What direction will you take in life
to go forward I think because that I can not see your question
in full
I know I'm going in the right direction when I'm in total adequacy with
myself when I know why I'm doing things, how I want them
to be and how I want to see them evolve
what is your favorite literary genre? so my favorite literary genre is
everything that is essays, ideas books actually texts where there are
thoughts or thoughts and mainly the books about personal growth
psychology, neuroscience ... I like to learn and I like to learn in books
did you consider a trip to Guadeloupe? Not at the moment. Personally
I would like to travel everywhere. When will I come to Montreal?
Same I do not know but I hope I can come one day. Do you know
Mayotte are you planning to go there one day? I do not know but I would like
go there. What are the instagram accounts that you prefer those
which gives you the most visual pleasure I really like wonguy974's account
who makes beautiful pictures of Paris mainly but not only he
travel a lot everywhere very often at sunset or sunrise
golden hour light is beautiful it's super inspiring and then I love
following the hashtag #watercolour #gouache I came across
jessillustrator who makes beautiful paintings very often with gouache
sublime I love her style and the account beautifuldestinations
that I love which is beautiful for the destinations for landscapes after there are
plenty of girls that I love following fo their style their look etc ...
sorry there are really a lot of questions
I did not realize that there was so much
a few actually on insta. how do you almost always keep smiling?
I'm not always smiling I'm not perfect I'm not someone who is
always happy etc. I try to focus as much as possible on
the positive I am someone honest and very transparent in terms of
emotions when I'm not well that's also see on my face I do not know
how to pretend so everything is see and after I try to be like
actually I want people to be with me I'm also trying to convey what
I want to see. Your favorite drink?
passion mango smoothies it's too yummy. Favorite cuisine?
I love Asian cuisine Thai especially
I love some some african specialties i love for example the
okra I love okra-based sauces even if I'm a bit allergic
I really like plantain and rice this is the basis
what is the best leave-in that you are used for your hair? I am more about
hair milk. the milk of the range jamaican black castor oil shea moisture
it's really my favorite my hair love this product
There is Anne-Cecile Madame Patachou who asks me: why are you so nice and beautiful
haha responds to that now. Good luck (laughs) I like when people are nice to me
so I try to be so too. Magnificent it's very nice thank you I do my best
thank you for your question to which I
look ridiculous there by answering (laughs) The three favorite products that I use for my shampoo?
my favorite shampoo the one who impressed me with all those
I used it is Olafro shampoo because i was really great for
my scalp super soft but at the same time hyper effective if you have
dandruff and I think any type of dandruff
that's what's really great hard to say that the three products
but I always use a shampoo, a mask and hair milk sometimes
I use a conditioner instead of the mask but hey I prefer
masks that's good I'm going to stop there I really answered really
a lot of questions and again if I didn't answer your question
I had maybe answer them in an other video
Here are the links
and in the info bar. Thank you a lot for all your questions
I hope you like it. If you do please tell me in comment. Feel free to ask your
questions with the hashtag #askursula
I'm going to take go the google form because there no many people using it
or not? I don't know. Tell what you think
I don't know
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