some men spend so much money on women while their home is hungry their wives
and their children are hungry their future is even hungry hello you guys and
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if you've been inspired by what you hear today it's freestyle week so I'll be
talking about the sexual assault and sexual cases that that are plaguing
America today well let's just get right into it to begin on the topic today well
we'll first define what sexual assault is it is an unwanted illegal sexual contact
that is forced and without consent while sexual misconduct is an unwelcome
behavior you know sexual in nature committed without consent they're
almost similar what is common to both is the lack of consent which is defined as
the permission for something to happen or agreement to do something let's say
you went to a hospital and God forbid they wanted to cut your leg and you don't
consent to it they can't cut your leg you have to say yes you sign a document
that says you know you can't cut my leg you know
consent you want to do a procedure a an invasive one you need consent you gotta
sign yes it's okay and they'll tell you the advantages of doing this thing or
the disadvantages if you don't do it and you know they give you the option
you are the one that can make decision over your life okay you have to be 18 but
in the case of sexual assault sexual harassments if some all these cases have
been going on if you don't say yes you can do this yes you can't do this then
it's sexual misconduct sexual assault okay, good so um
watching the news about the allegations made of the powerful man being accused
of sexual misconduct and sexual assault it really had me thinking lately I think
because of my forgiving nature I couldn't even blame them right let he
who is without sin be the first to cast a stone John 8:7 I'm a Christian I'm a
sinner whether I like it or not so Who am I to judge a fellow sinner it is so
unfortunate that these things have happened and to the victims only God can
help them heal totally so that they can you know move on with their lives
like my dad always says forget about the problem problem what is the solution
right now so you know so that it doesn't happen again
what do Bill Cosby you know Donald Trump Harvey Weinstein Kevin Spacey Matt Lauer
and all the others what are they all have in common you know that
differentiates them from the other guys in this country you know these are these
guys are very rich they are very powerful
you know powerful men they are also in positions where they can call the
shots you know they are also men who have a lot of people working with them
you know fine these people have been accused and hopefully they're deeply sorry
for their offense how do we fix this it's a societal problem so how do we fix
it because it isn't only these guys problems their action you know affects
every one of us look at the president of our country now and the decision he
makes so we need to fix this problem pronto but how can we do that unless we
find the root cause so what is the root cause of the problem there are so many
sexual references and innuendos and everything we watch on TV today you know
that is very different from you know what I watched many years ago when I was
younger from unrelated adverts to video games to movies to music videos sex is
everywhere it's like a game now in our house now we try to guess what they're
advertising they could be advertising toothpaste on TV it will come up yes you
know so when kids are open to this style of living from their young age you know
being exposed to a life of nakedness fast life instant gratification you know
then self control will become a hard topic to teach
if I believe if we had clean media outlets there will be a different amount
of our men unfortunately there are many more men who don't know that there's a
thin line between a regular discussion or or a touch or a hug or even a
nonverbal action and discussion that could lead to cases of sexual assault
and misconduct you know so can we rightfully say that media is a
root cause you know deep in our subconscious thinking you know some of
the reasons women will go naked or close to it in front of camera is because of
Fame you know money money for their families or money for material things or
even because maybe they're young and their hormones are raging I don't know I
can't say for them you know I'm not in the entertainment industry but I was
thinking who makes all these dishes are decision decisions about the fashion you
know for women and how naked they need to be for a movie to sell you know and
who decides what women can and can't do in their own movies you know this is
wink wink so you know Weinstein I mean it's like women don't even have a voice
to say you know they don't want to dress in certain ways or maybe they like
dressing naked for the public I don't know you know does that make women the
root cause of why we're having these cases today some people will argue I was
thinking also you know what is the percentage of men who have movie
industries compared to women right and what is the percentage of men behind the
camera for movies or music videos compared to women you know when women
are naked what percentage of women are actually pleased about it compared to
women most likely more than sixty percent it's time for us women to stand up for
our rights no more hiding no more shame no more guilt however us women need to
hold ourselves to a very high standard so that these type of these types of men
will not use and dump us you know thank God for hashtag me too and all the
other things that's going on right now you know women are we're holding our
power you know I've been watching the news lately and I'm still waiting for a
man to say he's been sexually assaulted by a woman it will never
happen because men believe women you know after their pleasure
you know this is why it's sometimes hard for these men to think there are assaults
in women in their heads and in their minds they are having fun and they think
it should be fun for the women as well even if they do not consent to some acts
we thank God for the women who fought greatly in American history for women's
right and it's so unfortunate that we still need a revolution today you know I
was watching a show accidentally called Third rail and the incinerator that
Hollywood was to blame for why there's so much violence in America we know
today in terms of gun violence so my thinking was in the right direction you
know regarding this sexual misconduct and sexual assault cases because they are one
and the same the big question is why do men do it when they know it's not right
the truth is when you're doing something wrong for for a long time it starts to
look right do they do it because of their power you know or how much they
have I remember someone from my church and my pastor said if you want to know
the true character of a person give him a lot of money then he will show his
true pepper right some men have spent a lot of money to
fuel their addictions and they're loved for material things of this world Who am
I to judge right another pastor said if you buy a lot of something you're like
you can only use one of that thing at a time
some men spent so much money on women while their home is hungry their wives
and their children are hungry their future is even hungry and they spend all
that money on a short time of enjoyment a lot of people's future is suffering
because of our men's greed us women have our own issues but it's the men that
have put themselves out there for now so with these discussions hopefully people
can think twice before engaging in things of this nature do they do it for
fun the thing about fun is when it is not a type you know the right type of
fun when you get caught or when the fun is over
the disgrace will be such that it should have been better not to have even
started with it I'm sure these accused men are thinking of you know they're
thinking about why they started this behavior in the first place you know now
that they have a lot of time on their hands you know why do married men
do it are their wives not paying attention as someone mentioned to me in one of our
discussions what he meant was maybe their wives were too busy for their
husbands and that's why they were engaging in these untoward behaviors I
still have a lot of questions but what are your thoughts we will get nowhere as
a people if we look at the wrongdoings of our fellow brothers and sisters
because that's what we are fundamentally under all the colors and the hair
textures and accents and traditions if we understood this in the beginning I
feel we will be at peace let us remember that at the end of the day we all have
done something wrong you know that we are not proud of it will be very
hypocritical of us to point fingers at them you know I hope victims the victims
will be strong enough to forgive them you know because forgiveness will bring
forth healing you know let us respect ourselves as individuals and remember
that our actions eventually affect all the people around us you know it's not
only about you you know whether directly or indirectly it will affect
people it will affect everyone around you regardless of what religion we
practice regardless of where we're from you know regardless of who we are in the
society with power or without power let us do things you know that will make
people remember us in positive ways you know God willing we on this earth for an
average of 75 or 80 years let's not wait waste any of that precious time on
things that will not help us grow positively in some ways you have a
decision to make if not now maybe later the ball is in your court thank you very
much for staying with me till the very end I hope you've learned something
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