well the question that offended injustice when the right of the world is
only given to the man and not to the woman if you realize the way Islamic
marriage takes place unless rannilt allah as allah says in the quran this
machine furnace a cap number 4 verse number 40 allah subhana WA Ta'ala is
never unjust in elliptically and the quran surah bakra chapter number 2 was
simply 28 that the women have rights as against them when tones equitable but
the men have a degree of advantage over all the Quran say the men and women are
equal but some places they have active advantage and on the other hand the
Prophet said that every speck the mother more so there the woman I would agree
advantage but this aspect why would the men have a degree of advantage the
reason is that when marriage takes place one of the criteria beside the agreement
of what the would be has been right there is a concept matter but its
complicity and the Quran says in surah Anfal chapter 4 verse number 4 that gets
to the economic status that means my head is compulsory for a marriage reform
night so when a man is given the would be welcomed man what he wants and the
quran says in surah nisa third performer 20 you can even give a mountain of gold
so imagine when a marriage takes place it is the man who is in lost economic
engine mad now once he gives the man is suppose the right and given to the woman
to divorce and she divorces will be the man and increase about the
most explicit the girl can marry again when she marries figures on you man were
with the man married he has to give on you marry
so therefore economically the woman if occurred so based on this generally by
default the last Muhammad Allah has given the right to the man to divorce
and furthermore the Quran says in surah chapter 4
what's the motive for original kawaman allah azza that the men are
the supporters of lumen Paul has given one strength more than the other so
based on this because man is the car bomb he's the leader in the family but
not by default the right to divorce goes to the man because he's the one who
looks after the family cetera but that does not mean a woman cannot demand
arrives during the Kannamma if she wishes she can put a condition that I
too want a right to divorce because by default it goes to the man but if the
husband wants to give that right even to the would-be wife he can give some
economize the woman wants in the would-be wife wants to put the condition
and if the husband aggrieved she can put a condition suppose we'll have the right
but otherwise by default about any rules and regulation the right goes through
the man otherwise I'll have to give a talk on main fashion Islam what bans the
question any other side any questions
besides the question that is it encouraged for a girl or a boy to marry
within the film completely coke me marrying coke me on women marry men to
cook me because animal cooking so it can go shake Marrakesh a brother Fayed
marrying a Syed Carolina beloved Padma philosophy it's possible to marry the
same type of people same category whether it may be in category in terms
of ethnicity well that may be in terms of economic status whether it be done
love community because the compatibility is there because the kokanee with the
French style of living the women are the first I love living that Carol I'd never
the free style of living the person UK American person different style of
living the European may have so be willing to gel so it is preferable but
not similarly imagine an African marry a European
it's angle not it's not possible it's possible
compatibility list similarly Chinese coming in having someone from Kerala not
that it's not possible it's possible but if you want to break this barrier for a
cause for example I'm finding ammo verges non-coking then I perform airing
or non cockney I'm adding a cockney for a 90s
I could not reverse that crockery I could not get a girl from Bombay where
wonder over chest tried to go to Pune I'd return 160 miles so I not only left
the community I left the city also so what listen to Mary was watching so
it virtually criteria to break these barriers of economic status of nobility
of community there's no problem otherwise generally it's exactly same
symbol if we from your community not from a community pepper build
somewhere just from a community same virtuous will reach and restore one of
your rich when same virtues which accessible but if you find that one
person move arches and out of the community is preferable that one person
is more important than matching your community or matching your 50 or my
thing economic status that gives the worship is not the criteria otherwise
marrying in the same level as possible so that life becomes easier so when you
have a choice to choose the easy part possible accuser easy part and the
difficult but that does not mean because normally in Indian culture it's very
common cockney should marry a kokanee 99% no man should marry women I tailored
Malayala should marry Emily Ali and that very even you know they look for this
criteria more important in virtue Cupid should be a cockney I want our
children but should be a women so this is they're saying they're more looking
for their community rather than virtue so what you should be given the most
important have done some questions are the questions is it cultural or is it
promoted in Islam to give preference to younger women for marriage or to give
preference to Arjun over non-virgins or to give preference over good-looking
to average women first as a question that is it
Catherine Islam is the best liberal Aslam to marry and government has
compared well the woman to marry more beautiful women assemble a lucky woman
or Mobilier than poor with the feeble it is nuba because if you boo boo of muslim
assalam the first woman that was also married
Khadijah melody visitor she was 15 years elder to the Prophet the Prophet of 25
years old - Eva there's a tearful and later on here only one wife two days a
50/50 do until Hadees I mean like we do the shake side and only after she
expired with the Prophet Mary and after that many married he married the girls
to my anger that we feel all 32 years old
etc but that seems young any do you have an example the first marriages 15 years
older the next marriage is younger we are example that the Prophet the
first we determine a visitor for the video if you have an original who told
wives only one my first version than all the others they are not virgins they
were either wither or beautiful things that does not mean the Sunnah to marry
on one virgin then they'll be a problem when the life of the Prophet the proper
giving examples rich visually rich the other ladies that the preferred method
of a mob war the popular example of which woman he
married poor women elderly women younger woman virgin non-virgin more divorces
and never widows where you find the process according to me is noble but
it's a personal choice had the Prophet said as a mission earlier according the
hadith of say Bihari 1 number 7 in the Bacchus Mecca I did number 5 0 9 0 that
the beloved partner salah salem said that when a person marries he looks for
open would be wealth nobility and virtue and
among them work use the best so someone will say beautiful harem someone ones a
younger wife etc from one want a wealthy wife it's not harem from one one so
noble wife Johanna what among them which is the best so more important in the
virtue if you find a virtuous wife and she's less beautiful prefer to marry
beautiful wife then we'll never achieve so we'll just buy it for that beautiful
is possible then more beautiful and less purchase so all these things what you
can is move it but Islamic does not seem like which is preferable in the other
criteria as five virtues is concerned it is possible for sure what man some
questions have any questions assalamualaikum waalaikumussalam
arambula burqa - what is the duty of the daughter to her parents after marriage
should she obey them or her husband we have the question that what is the duty
of a daughter to a parents after him and should she obey the husband or the
parents I appreciate you know about the best to obey both but in their conflict
very important but natural before marriage obeying the parent most
important after marriage was important but once she gets married she was for
the film family so if there is a conflict between both where to see the
true is more in the Quran and Sunnah is it the husband or is it her parents so
based on that she makes the decision that they both are neutral both are not
against the Quran and Sunnah then you try and convince either of them that we
change the view so that you can follow both the parents and satisfy your
husband but if the conflict and both are not against Quran from nine yet so but
natural birth till grows more towards the husband after marriage little bit
more because we have a family to look after but that does not mean you neglect
your parents to disobey her parents only if the conflict is such that both on the
quran and sunnah and the choose between one of them so
accessibility for the tablet and the last year for this we have to take a
balance that needs balance please go towards her husband because he
becomes your immediate family not that your parents are not by the same time if
you can convince her husband and get a being a parent that is the best condom
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