Let's meet with his son-in-law
who is six years younger than his daughter.
- Hello. / - Hello.
You must be in an awkward position. Have you
told your wife to look after the baby herself?
Of course I have.
She said she's weak because she's a woman,
- Did she say that? / - and it's time for men
to look after babies because they're strong.
- That's what she said. / - I see.
You could've given him allowances at least.
I once gave him an allowance,
but he gave it back. We opened our son's bank account.
- He sent the money to his account. / - Oh my.
He's such a great grandfather.
(He's an affectionate dad and grandfather.)
How did you meet your wife?
- We worked at the same company. / - I see.
- She was my superior. / - Then...
What did you like about her?
Exactly. I want to know what her charms are.
I liked the way she controlled me.
My goodness.
(Leading the way is the best thing about older women.)
- She gives him orders, too. / - He must like it.
Did you find it attractive?
You fell in love and ended up marrying her.
Haven't you thought she's trying to
control you even at home?
After we got married, I tried to win the upper hand,
but it wasn't easy.
(He's destined to let her lead forever.)
Let's meet with her mom this time.
- Hello. / - Hello. Welcome.
Hello.
You look after your oldest daughter's children.
It must be hard. How do you feel?
Our oldest daughter is the complete opposite of her.
- She tries to do things on her own. / - I see.
- Even though she's working? / - Yes.
- She comes home around 7 p.m. / - Okay.
It takes one and a half hours to travel both ways
- between her house and mine. / - That's far.
- Oh my. / - It's tiring to take a bus every day.
It's more tiring than doing household chores.
When I come home, I need to eat and take a shower,
- but she calls me. / - Who?
She calls me over.
- Your youngest daughter does? / - Yes.
Then I have to go to her house.
There are so many things to do there.
I change diapers, clean her house, wash dishes
and clean the bathroom.
I have to wait until my son-in-law comes back.
I go back home only when he comes back.
What does she do while you're cleaning the house?
She watches TV and chats on the phone.
That's all she does.
Why do you do all that for her?
She's been spoiled since she was a child,
and she's not good at household chores.
She never works at home, so I have to do it for her.
You should leave it until she does it on her own.
- It became a habit when she was a child. / - Yes.
- You and your husband caused it. / - Yes.
It seems absurd to us,
but she must have her reasons. Let's hear her.
If they leave it, I would clean the house,
- but they clean the house before I do. / - Okay.
So I miss the chance to clean the house sometimes.
- You miss the chance? / - Yes.
Then why would you call her over to your house
when she's about to take a rest
after working at your sister's house?
I have my reasons for that.
After I gave birth to my baby,
I was diagnosed with Carcinoma in situ.
I had the surgery just a few months ago.
The doctor told me to be very careful,
so I stayed in bed. When I moved a little,
I bled so much that I was taken to the emergency room.
Since my mom and dad know I had the surgery,
I think that's the reason they help me
with the household chores.
It's understandable.
You said your parents know about
- your recent surgery. / - Yes.
You didn't ask them for help before the surgery, right?
I asked them for help before that, too.
What?
It was the same before that as well.
- What's that? / - That's ridiculous.
(It means that it was only an excuse.)
- It's just an excuse. / - That's ridiculous.
As I was listening...
She means that she was born with a weak body.
Listening to the first and second stories,
I feel like I just lost a few years of my life.
(I feel like I just lost a few years of my life.)
After she had the surgery, the doctor said
that she could get back to her daily activities
and that she could eat anything she wanted.
She must've taken that as an okay,
and went out for a drink after the surgery.
- After the surgery? / - Oh, I see.
She went out drinking instead of watching her child.
While she was out, her baby became sick.
- I guess he had fever. / - He had fever and coughed.
So I called my daughter.
I told her to come home early since her son was sick.
She said he was fine before she left.
She didn't come home.
So I took my grandson to the hospital.
- To the emergency room? / - Yes.
Why didn't you go home when your baby was sick?
Since it was late, I thought he was trying to
- make me come home early. / - You thought he lied.
When he said he'd taken my son to the hospital,
I apologized to him.
My goodness.
Why did you drink when you just had a cancer surgery?
I met my friends from college who are single.
We met after a long time, so we had a few drinks.
We drank until late night.
I didn't want to leave first.
I didn't want to be different because I have a child.
You didn't want to ruin the mood?
- I see what you mean. / - I didn't want to say
that I have to go home early because I have a child.
But you called your dad over when he was drinking.
- Yes, I did. / - Right.
He drank a lot already.
- He needs to cut down on it. / - Gosh.
- I can drink on his behalf. / - I see.
- This is "Selfish People Special". / - My goodness.
(It's frustrating to have a conversation with her.)
- This is "Selfish People Special". / - My goodness.
(Be ready for "Selfish People Special".)
I'm speechless.
Mamamoo members, you are women as well.
Now that you've heard her story,
how do you feel?
I have a soft spot for my parents.
I've been seeing them work so hard since I was a child.
Even though I've grown up, when I hear about them,
I start to cry. That's how I feel about them.
As her parents worked very hard to raise her,
she should let them take a rest now.
That's how people normally feel.
Right. I hate her. I hate her so much.
Show her your scary face.
(I hope you will become mature.)
- Did you see that? / - Gosh.
I feel so...
I'm so frustrated, I feel like I'm going crazy.
Whenever we say something, she gives an excuse.
- She thinks nothing's wrong about it. / - Exactly.
I don't know what to do.
- She feels like a wall. / - Don't clench your fists.
It feels like we're talking to a wall.
She doesn't understand what we say.
From my perspective,
- you should change first. / - That's right.
- You should be strict to her. / - You should let go.
Why don't you let her look after her son?
I don't think I can trust her with him yet.
- Why not? / - Why not?
He was born in the seventh month.
- He was only 1.18 kg when he was born. / - Oh my.
The doctor said
- that he might not be able to walk. / - Really?
He's learned to walk and use his hands.
So those matters have been resolved.
However, he's not good at speaking yet,
and he hits his head on the wall when he's upset.
- When things don't go his way? / - That's right.
I don't think she can take good care of him yet.
My water broke and my labor started so suddenly,
- and I gave birth in my seventh month. / - I see.
I had to recover when I wasn't ready.
By the time I came home with my son,
I had to remove a toenail in my right foot.
- A toenail? / - Yes.
I had to remove it forcefully.
Because of that, I couldn't walk for one month.
After that, I scraped my right heel.
A few months later, the skin in that area got thicker
and I had a surgery to remove the bulging skin.
So I wasn't in good condition.
That's why I asked my dad for help.
If you had been in good condition,
would you have looked after your son on your own?
- No, I wouldn't have. / - See?
- You just made excuses. / - Usually,
moms are very affectionate and attentive.
How can you leave your son to your dad all the time?
I don't understand that.
I'm a mom. It's not like I don't care about him.
However, I'm not strong enough to look after him.
My dad can help me with various chores.
I take care of the details.
When my baby starts moving forward in a lying position,
- it means he's bored. / - I see.
Whenever he does that, I tell my dad he's bored
and that he should play with him.
You tell him to play with him?
(Everyone becomes angry.)
You can play with him by yourself.
I play with him a little as well.
Goodness, she's so peculiar.
(My head hurts.)
The husband we met before
seemed to take advantage of his good wife.
And you seem to take advantage of your parents.
- I feel that way. / - It seems
you still have the strong image of your dad
and think you can always rely on him.
You think you can rely on your dad forever.
Don't you feel different from how you were in your 20s?
Yes, I feel different.
See? That's because you aged.
Likewise, your dad isn't as strong as he was before.
I think my dad is still very strong.
How does the oldest daughter think?
How is your dad's health?
- My dad has hypertension. / - I see.
He's been taking medications for a long time.
- He's taking medications? / - He one
fainted at home before.
Fortunately, the doctor said he was okay.
- He needs to take good care of himself. / - Right.
He also had a knee surgery,
but fluid kept accumulating there.
- His knee? / - Yes, his knee.
He was hospitalized
- and had a surgery. / - It's that bad?
It tends to relapse,
so he needs to have the fluids removed regularly.
He shouldn't work his knee too much.
He needs to use his knees a lot to watch her baby.
That's right. It would be better if he doesn't do that.
However, my sister is...
(His own daughter is smiling.)
- I hope / - When she told us...
she'll help him from now on.
When she said that he fainted, you tilted your head.
Didn't you know that?
I was in the US when he fainted.
I didn't know that he had fainted.
- Did you hear that for the first time? / - Yes, I did.
- What about his knee condition? / - I knew that.
His knee keeps getting fluids.
I think he has already fully recovered.
(Does she mean she'll keep asking for help?)
Think before you speak!
- He said he was okay. / - He even sent you abroad.
He said he was okay, so I thought he was.
(She has no idea of how I feel.)
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