we as a society have created Jake Paul right yeah all right
what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
problem but focus on the solution and this is my beautiful mother dr. kerry
Randazzo say hi all right so I don't know if this video is gonna be edited so
we're gonna try to do this in one take I'm in California right now my mom just
watch the new Shane Dawson episode with me what is it the world of Jake Paul my
mom she has a PhD in psychology so I was like yo girl won't you come over here
and talk to me about this and we have the positive million times because she
had a lot of questions about who Jake Paul is who Shane Dawson is and things
like that so without further ado let's get started so I put this to my mom
about the whole sociopath idea and like so first first let's talk about you
mentioned something called OD d oppositional disorder okay so explain to
these people what is why like what is this oppositional defiance disorder
that's a disorder that's not a personality disorder okay so it's just a
disorder where people act out okay young people normally they're oppositional so
it's kind of it's States kind of what it is oppositional defiance disorder they
do that like a problem with authority they don't like people tell them what to
do so a lot of young people have that even if they're not yeah if they kept
from yeah yeah yeah it's something I was telling you and I told my audience like
some people don't need a diagnosable disorder to just be a jerk we don't
always have to pathologize everybody yeah that kind of worries me
yeah no no that's one of the reasons that I make my videos and make my
channel like I feel a lot of words are overused like like have you ever met
somebody who like yeah yeah anxious or I'm depressed
have you met somebody who likes to keep their desk a certain way and they say oh
I'm so OCD here I got my desk yeah right anal yeah
yeah so so that's kind of what this whole thing seems like it's becoming but
this episode I'm gonna do another recap so make sure you subscribe and ring the
notification bell but this is me talking my professional psychologist mother I
wrote down some notes those of you who know I like a notepad so mom watching
that you were talking about positive reinforcement can you talk about a
little bit just about just this is your first introduction to Jake Paul can you
talk can you talk a little bit about positive reinforcement and Jake Paul
okay so first time I've seen his video never heard his name and more walking up
to his home right so I look at you and I said cuz he but was he born rich and you
said no he's made money off of his videos I think you said to me yeah and I
start laughing because oh and then it shows a clip of him starting fire around
himself oh god it's already in flames
oh yeah what about the mac and cheese oh and then he throws mac and cheese on his
mother's girlfriend something like that and I said how many of us would make mac
and cheese and throw it on our darn grandmother if we're gonna get a house
like that right right really jump to 30 boxes I think you did
it what a monster what we're talking about so like yeah we were kind of
laughing cuz it seems like we try to overanalyze everything and like over
there sociopath or they do something in our system all this other stuff but like
just based on how the human brain works right and how our brains are wild like
this positive reinforcement like we even if it's not me and you my mom and I were
talking about like we as a society have created Jake Paul right yeah like the
guy goes and does insane stuff he gets millions of views millions of dollars so
he is learning that oh when I do these things I get rewarded for it he said
he's taking a vacation because it's tiring thinking of the next thing to do
yeah and he's trying to up his game over and yeah that's that's just you know my
mom and I were both in recovery but that's how it is we're always looking
for more and more and more right there's never enough money there's never enough
attacks but a lot of people have these trades so kind of what we're talking
about is like I said even if it's not me and you directly but our society has
created people like Jake Paul because we feed into that something I was talking
to my mom about though like I'm the father
clearly she she's a parent because I came from her but like Jake Paul's
audience is largely children right so the fact that parents are letting them
watch it Paul parents are buying Jake Paul's merch for their kids like what is
stopping Jake from doing this like that's kind of help like he's not having
any negative reinforcement yeah why would I stop yeah if it's if I'm being
positive reinforcement means I'm adding something to to make your behavior
continue yeah right but if so so what would what would be negative
reinforcement in this scenario like he did something crazy and then stopped
watching him yeah by his murse yeah so he released a video and didn't
get any any views or any merch his brain would probably connect and say oh well
why would I keep doing it yeah why would I do that
getting negative all right Riley negative means so taken away and that's
kind of interesting so like is and this is there's a little bit of a
philosophical question is Jake Paul the problem do you think or do you think
society's the problem I think it's probably a mixture of both good because
then I heard some other stuff yeah you know his family he's divorced his father
yeah you're gonna feel bad for Jake Paul though oh I like Jake you putting here
first Jake Paul if you're watching my mother I
think she even called him cute okay so something my mom and and by the way you
guys in the comments below I'm trying to get my mom to move to Las Vegas to start
doing YouTube videos with me and here's one of the reasons why I've been
watching this she brings up and I wrote this down long as you can see Kohlberg's
stages of morality can you explain this to me what is this it just means that
and I have to get into it I mean I'm just gonna break it down really two
minutes a developmental stage that we all go through is from childhood really
young uh-huh to adulthood that we move from one stage of moral why we do right
and wrong uh-huh what is right and wrong how we grow up and why we follow rules
and sometimes we get stuck in a stage so you're not because you're antisocial
yeah yeah because I explained to my mom the whole antisocial personality
disorder and stuff like that but like what we're kind of talking about is like
Jake is pretty much a adult child right so my mom just so you know specializes
in addiction do you see this a lot with people with addictions like they say
that yeah when we start drinking and using like we stop maturing emotional
emotional yet stunted and he sees that's why I said he's a little cutie because
he's probably in his early 20s yeah he's like 21 but his spirit or his emotional
just from looking I'm not making a diagnosis he seemed younger than his
stated age yes Yeah right so so yeah and that's the thing too like when we're
talking about these things it might not be some diagnosable disorder but there's
a reason why he isn't acting like an adult right is that kind of mixer I
should he have to yeah what should he have to
so when we were talking about this and like and by the way save some of it
because we're gonna make I'm doing three videos with my mom told them we're gonna
do another one about sociopaths my mom has interesting stories anyways but you
knew about you know kind of the dialogue or the storyline that was like easy a
sociopath but there was one scene where they talked about one of the Eckstein
ten members like pretty much stole a YouTube account
change the passwords and Jake was talking to Shane and he said that he
gave somebody his second account like Ryu is that like you said oh that's nice
like right he in fact he was talking about how he gave people homes money to
join him and I'm like that's a giving person if anything he might have a
little what we call codependency yeah you know he enables people until they do
you think like yeah so yeah but like what I try to do all of you know this
cuz you subscribe to me all of you know like I try to take these situations and
try to teach the audience about it like do you think maybe Jake gives people so
many things just so people hang around with him actually has friends I don't
know that I couldn't tell by looking at how do you do you know do you know of
people who do that of course yeah so like that's something just he said I
want my parents to be proud yeah so he's looking for you know he does a lot of
his things as he wants people to be proud of them yeah so yeah something
that just everybody should look at Mike's I know I've had personal
experience with that in the past like oh well if I just buy my friends things
then people want to hang out with me you know what I mean so there might there
might when I diagnose in any codependency up in here but there might
be some of that going on but the last the last thing so I explained to my mom
you know the Katie Morin situation she's a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
save some of it for the next video but like what we were talking about does it
seem in your opinion did it seem like Kati Morton might have had some bias
like deal did you feel did you feel that she was she
had a preconceived notion like we're going with this sociopath kind of
storyline was she trying to do think that there was a little bit of bias and
she might have been putting him in that box
based on some things like oh he said this or he said that well I don't want
to cut her down because I really didn't see that much of her yeah but she was
looking for tendencies yes so of course I mean she wasn't going in a blank slate
going let me just see some quality she said oh he exhibited this yeah I did see
this or I was waiting for this so so maybe we have to watch when we're
evaluating somebody that we have what we call a blank kind of a slate yeah
so let me ask you this this is just interesting it just popped in my head so
like my mom does some assessments for the judicial system for people but like
do you think like does it alter her opinion like Jake Paul like I know you
didn't know who Jake Paul is like Katie Lauren as a youtuber she knows who Jake
Paul is do you think she's automatically going to have a bias because she already
knows who he is because like in the courts I'm like do do like what a
psychologist have any kind of bias like if there was a celebrity who was on
trial like does that make sense we could we have to watch where we're coming from
constantly yeah so we have to watch what we call transference and
countertransference in the world and knowing you and evaluating yeah so we
just have to keep everything in Jeff
so so yeah like we're saying it's not saying that Katie did have any kind of
bias but it's just something to kind of be mindful of like those of you who have
been watching my entire series on this like I love Katie I think she's a great
therapist and everything like that but it's just something to kind of take into
consideration that there might be some bias going on like but it does seem to
me and I will make more videos on this it does seem to me like Shane's just
starting to understand and I think this is a growing experience for Shane I've
just got tosses in here where he's starting to realize that you don't have
to slap a diagnosis on everybody you don't have to put all us like what does
it pathologize yes everything is this disorder like some people are just
raised a certain way some people are jerks some people have different morals
you know all sorts of stuff because one thing that my mom and I were talking
about off-camera it's like it's kind of a serious thing to throw a disorder
especially a personality disorder on somebody but yeah anyways that is my my
mother's reaction to the world of Jake Paul so thanks and yeah we comments down
below let us know what your thoughts are and if you like this video give them a
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