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It's hot again
It is July
We're making a video for you here
Instead of being in a pool
Cause I don't like the sea
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That was our first About Life video
The Pool VS Beach one
And we're here again with another About Life video
Today we're gonna talk about long distance relationships
Cause why not
You know what? During the summer people go on vacations and ot all couples can be together
We're not talking about the kind of relationships when you generally live together but now during the summer the one goes in their village for three months and you won't be seeing each other
We're talking about long distance relationships..
I wish I stayed in my village for three months
Long distance relationships that are actually long distance
When these two -or more- people live away from each other permanently
Yeah, fine
To begin with, what's your stand?
Do you believe long distance relationships are possible?
Yes
Would you be in one?
As long as...
I would
As long as the relationship is not created only in the distance
For example, if you've never met someone in person, you can't have a relationship with them
Or if you know you won't be seeing that person often
For example, if one person lives in Greece and the other lives in Australia, there's a chance they won't be seeing each other for a whole year
More..
And let's face it, you can't have a relationship solely on Skype
Yeah, I agree with that, cause I don't like Skype
Video calls on Facebook Messenger
You know what? I'd never have a relationship with someone who's in another country
I mean starting a relationship with someone in another country
But if I'm dating someone for, say, five years, and thay have to go to Australia for a couple of years
Well, I don't know if a long distance relationship can alawys work, but you don't have to break up because of the distance
Why break up with someone just because they're leaving and tou won't be seeing each other cause they're far away?
No
Yeah, but they might come back
What if there's two people dating for years, both living in Greece, and suddenly someone has to go live in Australia forever? They have to break up
They're gonna break up inevitably in time
They won't be like 'I love you, I wanna be with you, but I'm gonna be in Australia and we won't be seeing each other for more than a year so let's break up'
Neither one will wanna break up
They'll be like 'Okay, let's keep talking, we still want each other, okay'
But yeah.
In time, something's definitely gonna go wrong
Yeah, but you can't meet people and let them go just because you have a relationship with someone who's in another country, which is not going to work
How is such a relationship going to work?
In this kind of relationship, the people are definitely over 19 years old
That means that definitely, for sure, not that you don't if you're younger, your relationship is sexual
Yes
You can't live a year away from your partner and do nothing with them
Hug them, kiss them or anything more
Skyping is not enough at all
Yes
You're right, but imagine there's two people in love, they can do nothing but separate though
I don't know if you could really do it, you're thinking too theoretically
You say this kind of a relationship can't survive
I don't think a relationship of this kind can work either
Yeah, I know you don't wanna break up
But you'll say that if you want that person to be fine, if you want you both to be fine, you'll break up
You're gonna break, aren't you?
I think that in this situation, even though I'd understand why we had to break up, I wouldn't be able to get over it, at least easily
Not easily
We'd have to stop talking
Harley, son, stop snoring
We'd have to stop talking to each other for me to stop caring
Yeah, okay
There are other kinds of distances too, like when you're in different cities
Not meeting very often, let's say once a month
Even that gets a little tiring after a while
It can be like this for a year, maybe two
After that, how much more can you do it?
When two people start dating while they're living apart, and they only see each other once in a month, or once in two months, maybe a weekend every two months
Usually, after about a year or so, the one will do something to go live with the other
If it's a serious relationship
They'll do something, anything
Maybe change jobs
Or try moving someplace else
But still, the relationship shouldn't start from the internet
For example, there's two high schoolers who meet over the summer and start dating
But one of them has to live, cause they were there for vacation
Maybe they're gonna try going to college in the same city so they can live together
Something like that
Or if they're older, there's no jobs anyway
The example was random
Yeah
Although I'm not in favor of choosing a college in order to be with your signif
Yeah, but if it occurs by chance...
If it occurs, of course, it's great
If there's a college that's convenient
Now speaking from experience
Tell me
We wanna go to college in the same city, but we did so anyway
I mean I wanted to go to college in my city no matter what
And he wanted to go to college in my city too
Very nice
I'm gonna beat his ass if he doesn't pass the exams to come here, but he will and everything's nice and good
Yeah
We're long distance now
Isn't that what I just said though?
Yeah, I'm saying that from my own experience, it can happen
It can, obviously
And we didn't change our minds for each other
And if you are older, there's no place you can find a job, so whether you're in your city or your partner's city nothing changes
Same thing
You won't have a job anyway
Yes, that's true
Stop snoring, Harley
He's really snoring
[Pun in greek]
You can hear him
Harley!
He kicked the bucket
I am in favor of long distance relationships, depending on the distance of course
I am in favor of long distance relationships, as long as there's regular face-to-face contact
Let me tell you, during the school year, we meet on weekends
Not every weekend
Yes
About once a month
But Christmas, Easter and summer we're together more often
I mean, for many days in a row
We won't just meet for a weekend, when it's the holidays
Yeah, that Christmas you spent together was wonderful
We haven't spent any Christmases together (yet)
That's what I mean
Yeah, I know what you mean, I get what you're saying
I mean that there are many ways and periods during the year when you can meet, but I'd never start a long distance relationship if I only knew the person from the internet
Yeah, guys, there's no way
Don't do it, there's no reason
Even if they really are who they say they are, but if you ever see them in person, you might not be a match
You might not have anything to talk about, maybe there's no chemistry
Exactly, there might be no chemistry between you
They might not be what you were expecting
Cause when you're chatting on the internet, you have time to think of your replies, maybe take secod looks at what you're about to say
Maybe what you're saying is not what you actually want to say, but what you think the other person wants to hear
Face to face, things are way different
That sure isn't good for a relationship
Think about sharing everything, your whole soul, with someone who wasn't worth it?
What for?
Meet at least once
And then...
You need more, not just once
Once is too little
You see someone once and then what? You start dating?
Well, maybe you go on one date, then you start talking, and then maybe you start dating
While you keep meeting in person though
Do you wanna date someone you met on a school trip in another city and then never see them again?
And just date, for two years
We've seen that too
There really is no reason
Also, make sure you're both at the same place
...that there's the same amount of interest and contribution from both parts
Same amount of attraction, too
And want the same things
Be on the same page, basically
Talk about whether you're together exclusively, or what you have is casual
That kind of things
Talk about it
Tell them if you just wanted to hook up, period
Or that you wanna hook up again, or keep hooking up until you see how it goes
Or you wanna hook up and then start dating
Or start dating all along
Before you hook up
Yeah
I might never want to hook up
But start dating
I might wanna hook up all the time but without being anything more, just have fun together
Combing our hair, going to the hair salon
That's not what I mean, and you know it
In long distance relationships there has to be moderation, honesty, no jealousy
Do what you want, know what you want, and inform the other person about it
That's what I know
ALSO KNOW THE OTHER PERSON, YOU HAVE TO HAVE SEEN THEM, TOUCHED THEM
Like, this is Peter, hey Peter
Hey!
Hello Paul
We have the same name day
That's it anyway, this was our advice
That's what we had to say, comment if you have any disagreements or questions, not because we're experts, just so we can talk to you
Let's exchange views, cause two opinions are better than one
Well, three opinions, cause it's me, you, and her
Cause all of you are only one person
I mean the one person who posts the comment and the two of us who reply
And we reply to every single comment, so...
I think that the reason why we don't have a lot of comments is that they think we're gonna be snobbish and not reply
Yeah, that's the problem
So that was the video
We hope you liked it
And that it helped you
And see you on the next video


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