"A wife who is still legally single."
What an intriguing title.
You've registered your marriage, right, Seulgi?
- Of course. / - You must do it immediately.
He could take it back.
We did it the day before our wedding.
Hello.
I'm a woman who is 8 months pregnant.
I met a nice, sweet guy 2 years ago
and got married.
But I think I was deceived by my husband.
He's been a heavy smoker since we dated.
Honey! Quit smoking if you want to marry me.
Or I won't marry you!"
"Sure. I can always quit smoking."
But he didn't quit after I accepted his proposal.
That's how it goes.
Honey! We're getting married in 2 days.
If you don't quit, I won't walk down the aisle."
That's strong.
I'll quit after the wedding.
Please trust me this once."
After we got married...
"I'll quit when you get pregnant. I mean it."
I'm 8 months pregnant now.
Once the baby comes out...
Once the baby is born,
I will quit for sure. Trust me."
How frustrating.
The problem is that he hasn't
kept his promise to quit smoking,
so we haven't registered our marriage yet.
I really want to do so.
Please let this vicious cycle end.
Promising to quit smoking.
I'm curious to see what Jiho has to say.
How do you feel? You have a daughter.
It's not that.
I really don't know what to say.
Do you still smoke?
Yes, I do.
- You're smoking a nicotine replacement? / - Yes.
Your wife isn't coming out here today, right?
No.
I told her before we got married.
That you're going to smoke?
I told her, "I will do anything for you.
But please understand me exercising and smoking.
I will try to drink less instead."
Did she okay it?
When we got married,
I asked JYP to sing at the wedding.
Park Jinyoung.
He agreed as long as I quit smoking.
Really?
So I said yes.
After he sang at the wedding,
I haven't seen him that often.
(Wah wah wah wah...)
(Smoking was more important to him)
I've been clean for 5 years now.
It's hard to do it unless you quit all at once.
It's not easy to quit gradually.
I really hate cigarettes.
The #1 requirement for a husband is not smoking.
Fortunately, my husband has never smoked.
That was a big plus for me.
Besides smoking,
what did you look for in a husband?
Since I'm short
I wanted to marry someone over 6 feet.
Is he over 6 feet tall?
No. He's 5'8".
What happened?
I was blinded by love
and he looked over 2 meters tall to me.
He was just like Seo Janghoon to me.
Let's bring the wife out here. Please come out.
(Who is concerned about her smoking husband?)
She's going to walk out instead.
(She's 8 months pregnant!)
She's pregnant.
(Kim Suhui)
Here's a blanket.
Stretch your legs out.
She has a baby in her belly.
The baby might be cold.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello.
I'm still legally single because of my husband.
I'm Kim Suhui from Hongseong.
Hello.
You're here today because of your husband.
How much does he smoke in a day?
I don't know how much he smokes exactly.
Because you're not with him all the time.
But when he comes home from work
he reeks of cigarettes.
- From his head, too. / - That's unpleasant.
Secondary smoking is even worse.
She's more sensitive because she's pregnant.
Was your ideal man before you got married
a non-smoker like Park Seulgi?
Yes. My ideal man was a non-smoker.
I don't care about how much he drinks.
That's how much I hated smokers.
Then how did you meet your husband?
When we met, I asked him, "Can you quit?"
He said he was never asked to quit before,
but that he can quit anytime.
He's so eloquent.
Only words.
That's what he said.
I was never asked to quit before.
I can always quit for the woman I love."
That's called rubbish.
(Low-grade rubbish)
We've had many concerns about smoking before
but he doesn't seem to be that bad.
He hasn't shown his will to quit so far.
He hasn't quit for more than a day.
I thought he'd quit once I got pregnant,
but even now, he isn't willing or trying to quit.
He said he'd quit when I'm close to term, but no.
He is still smoking.
You really haven't registered your marriage?
Yes, I think that's my ultimate weapon.
You're really not going to register it?
But you can't avoid it forever.
I've decided to put the baby under my name.
If he doesn't quit?
I have no choice because he hasn't quit.
Since we didn't register our marriage,
I told him that the baby will be under my name.
Was he shocked?
- He doesn't think much of it. / - What did he say?
- After I said it... / - He doesn't believe it.
He said that he's glad that we're both Kims.
Oh, his last name is also Kim?
(Sigh...)
That's what he said?
Yes, he is glad that we are both Kims.
Let's meet her husband. Hello.
Hello.
We hate you.
- We don't want to say hello. / - We hate you.
- Sir. / - Yes?
Do you understand your wife's concern?
Only halfway.
- Only half? / - Why?
My co-workers who also smoke...
Their wives are understanding.
My brother smokes, too.
My sister-in-law is understanding, too.
But my wife won't permit it.
It's because you made a promise.
Why did you promise to quit then?
You should've been like Oh Jiho and said
you can't quit smoking
but you'll do everything else.
It's because you made a promise.
It's my fault.
I had never tried to quit smoking.
I thought I would be able to quit easily.
Do you regret making that promise?
Yes, a little.
It's like going to event halls.
(It's hard to quit)
- So you've never tried? / - No, I have.
- You have? / - Yes. For a day.
After I got married.
Did you have withdrawal symptoms?
When I quit, after about an hour...
- You got aggravated? / - Yes, that first.
All I could think about was smoking.
How much do you smoke a day?
I smoke two packs a day.
That's a lot.
(That many?)
I've smoked for 15 years now.
How old are you?
I'm 34 years old.
So you started around age 20.
Do you chain smoke, too?
How do you smoke two packs a day?
No. I care about my health.
So I don't chain smoke.
He cares about his health?
(I can't sit still...)
Oh gee.
You promised that you would quit smoking
if she agreed to marry you.
I made so many false promises before that
I'm not even sure if I really made that promise.
(How can you say that?)
So what about before she got pregnant?
Before she got pregnant...
Did you make a promise out of habit?
No. I always think I can quit someday.
I've smoked and drank a lot in the past.
I have nothing say regarding that. I've quit now.
I used to smoke 2-3 packs a day.
What efforts have you made to quit?
- I've tried many things. / - Like what?
I've tried nicotine patches.
Nicotine patches?
I've tried eating candies.
That's not really trying hard.
Eating candy is...
I went to a nearby health clinic to get help
and they gave me all those things.
But they have certain schedules and
I was too busy to go to those appointments.
Maybe you should try electronic cigarettes.
I've tried that, too.
It tasted different from cigarettes.
(Does he really want to quit?)
How can you say that when you're trying to quit?
I'm so frustrated.
Seulgi, taste is very important.
Any kind of taste is very important.
Stop, Yeongja. That's enough.
She talked about taste.
Have you thought about smoking less?
Since I smoked so much, I promised myself
to only smoke when I drink.
So that's how I gradually decreased the amount.
But I did end up drinking during the day.
I had to keep my promise.
But I was able to smoke less.
I've tried to smoke less, too.
I decided to smoke an hour apart or
only smoke after each meal.
But since it's been a habit for years,
I just ended up going back to the way I was.
(It's been a habit for years)
Do you think that your wife is acting
too odd about this issue?
Yes.
Maybe she's a little too sensitive.
She nags at me for an hour
when she smells smoke on me.
The whole time for an hour?
Yes. So I tell her to just hit me
instead of nag at me.
You'd rather be beaten?
Yes. Other people would not have
endured being nagged at for an hour.
When he got caught smoking before,
he used to apologize.
- But he's brazen now. / - What does he say?
He says, "It's not that I want to smoke.
I smoke because my body asks for it."
He seems like the pregnant one.
That's what wives say.
Since I do service work,
I get stressed out often.
I tend to relieve stress by smoking.
But she isn't so understanding of that
and I smoke more because of that stress.
What does your wife say when she nags at you?
I honestly listen to it in the beginning only
and tune it out later. I can't bear to listen.
He must've done it quite often.
He's quite skilled now.
She makes me feel so guilty.
- What does she say? / - Do you remember any of it?
This is something that I don't understand.
She says my lungs reek of smoke.
Your lungs reek of smoke?
I can't clean my lungs.
He says he can't clean his lungs.
You can't shower your lungs, right?
Right.
The smell comes from his lungs.
Whenever he breathes.
I wake up in the middle of the night from it.
I'm particularly sensitive.
She won't register your marriage. What's your plan?
I always thought she would do it someday.
She thinks that you will quit smoking someday.
She's waiting for you. She's trying harder.
(He doesn't realize the gravity of the issue)
You don't think you did anything wrong?
If your wife has come here,
she seems to be serious about her decision.
What are you planning to do?
I plan to quit before the baby is born.
- We've heard that before. / - There's no time.
Before the baby is born.
Is this rubbish line #2?
I plan to quit someday.
I asked people around me and
they said the only way is to quit cold turkey.
That's right. You must quit all at once.
I am going to try.
When?
Before the baby is born.
I shouldn't have stayed for the last story.
(A guest leaves in the middle of the shoot?)
You feel quite uneasy right now.
I can understand how he feels,
but there's nothing I can really tell him.
He thinks he can quit someday and
he also thinks you'll register the marriage someday.
- I won't. / - Never?
Not unless he quits smoking.
That's the only thing I ask of him.
I am understanding with other things.
He likes to go fishing.
I let him go.
Jihan, why are you surprised?
One of the hobbies that girlfriends or wives
cannot understand is fishing.
- You're shocked that she understands? / - Yes.
We've gotten many concerns regarding fishing.
I'm understanding when he goes out to drink.
You are?
But they all have something to do with smoking.
I only asked him to quit smoking.
She's very generous.
She only asks you to quit smoking.
She says she's understanding about other things,
but I've only gone fishing once this year.
It's October.
- Just once? / - Yes.
I only went out to drink twice or so.
But you still went.
It's hard to accept that she's understanding.
You couldn't go fishing because of her?
It's because you were busy, right?
Yes, I didn't have the time.
She didn't stop you from going.
You don't care if he goes fishing every weekend?
(Well...)
Drinking twice a month?
That's fine.
She says she's understanding about drinking.
That's because she likes to drink herself.
- She quit because she's pregnant? / - Yes.
She went out to drink so often before then.
That's why she said she's understanding.
She used to come home drunk every day.
Really?
She can't even drink a bottle of soju.
She can't drink that much.
But once she gets drunk, she drinks more.
Drinking leads to more drinking.
Oh my.
So everyone knows her drinking habits.
She runs around.
That's not that bad except
she gets drunk and falls down often.
- Some people do that. / - Yes.
My friend runs home when he gets drunk.
He wakes up super tired the next day.
(That sounds familiar...)
Do you remember running around?
Yes.
You are tired the next day, right?
It's because I feel so happy.
- What else is there? / - Well...
He's excited.
He's mischievous.
He's excited right now.
It took her an hour to get to work
by train every day.
She used to go to work by train.
Since she fell asleep drunk on the train,
she would always miss her stop.
Then I have to drive along with the train.
He drove after the train.
Wait. Shouldn't you two switch seats?
She can't drink now because she's pregnant.
He said that I drank quite often, but
I don't. That was only around the end of the year.
I admit that I can't control how much I drink.
I haven't drunk because I'm pregnant.
I don't think I'll drink from now on.
I realize that it was hard for him.
She realizes your hardship.
I am understanding about
her drinking.
So you want her to allow you to smoke?
What can she do to help you succeed in quitting?
I want her to wait for me instead of yelling at me.
She's been waiting this whole time.
I want her to wait without nagging at me.
Without nagging.
You've broken your promise so many times already.
(How can she not say anything?)
My wife said that I have to quit for
at least 6 months for her to accept it.
6 months is too long for me.
Once you quit, you shouldn't smoke again.
You're not supposed to smoke again.
If she could reduce it to a month...
Do you not know the meaning of quitting?
You're going to smoke again after a month?
I will try, but 6 months seems too long.
The hardest part is 3 days after he begins.
Your wife quit drinking after she got pregnant.
How would you feel if she still drank
and slept on the street?
That's unimaginable.
Right? She made a sacrifice.
Right.
I think it's time for you to make the sacrifice.
She had no choice but to quit drinking
because she got pregnant.
Then imagine that you're pregnant, too.
Your stomach is big enough to think that.
(You look just as pregnant)
No one can force anyone to quit smoking.
It's a preference.
But you made a promise.
That's what's wrong.
You could smoke if you had never made a promise.
She married you thinking that you'd quit.
That's why you're responsible.
I hope I'm not out of line when I say this.
My father loved smoking
and he passed away at a young age.
His absence gave our family so much pain
and it was tough after he left.
I'm jealous of people who have their fathers.
Once you quit smoking, it's not only good for her,
but for you, too. You'll be healthier.
I hope you know this.
The woman you love the most
hates the smell of cigarettes the most.
She can't stand the smell. It's tough for her.
Then I promise to quit before the baby comes out.
What will you do if you don't keep that promise?
I will keep my promise.
You failed so many times before.
It's hard for us to believe you.
You've lied so many times up until now.
I would rather hear you be honest and
say you can't keep that promise.
Don't try to escape this moment
by making a false promise like you've done.
You're not just promising your wife,
but with all the viewers of this program.
Every Korean is a witness.
What would the elders say when they see you smoke?
"That awful scoundrel."
"What's wrong with him?"
Don't make the promise.
You don't think you can keep it, right?
But my wife hates it so much,
so I will try my best to quit.
I will do my best to quit
before the baby is born.
What if you fail?
Then I would be a rotten scoundrel.
But I'm not obligated to do anything even if I fail.
I will keep my word.
(He's right, but something doesn't seem right...)
- It's noncommittal. / - I can't trust him.
What if you're rewarded for keeping your word?
Once you quit smoking, you have withdrawal symptoms
and end up eating lots of snacks.
If he needs more money, I will give him more.
- She'll raise your allowance. / - More allowance.
I get $300 a month for an allowance.
I'm sure I'll get $400 a month at best.
That won't greatly improve my life.
He has no will to quit.
You want more? How much do you want?
No, I don't need anything like that.
I just want her to have faith in me.
I've lied so many times that she doesn't believe me.
Right. She's lost faith in you.
May we go see you when the baby is born?
The baby will be born in 2 months and
I have to quit for at least 6 months for her.
Who cares? Just quit.
Why do you care so much about that 6 months?
Just tell us now.
If you can't quit, say you'll smoke less at least.
Promise that you'll gradually quit.
But I've heard from those who've quit that...
You say too many buts!
- So many buts. / - He doesn't want to quit.
You've heard it from those who quit, right?
- He quit and I quit, too. / - I quit, too.
Once you quit, you'll be healthier.
Your life will change. It'll be great.
You must quit cold turkey. Don't do it gradually.
What would you like to say
to your husband?
I was rough on him
and that must've caused him stress.
I should've had more faith in him.
Yes. Don't let him think that you're nagging.
If he tries hard, cheer for him and encourage him.
Let's start with Oh Jiho.
I think it's a concern.
I hope you quit before the baby is born
and let the baby only smell good things.
You smoke, too, but you think it's a concern.
Seol Ina.
I'd say it's a concern for the family.
Okay. Seulgi.
It's definitely a concern.
Smoking is not negotiable.
I think it's a concern, too.
I understand how hard it is to quit,
but your wife and child are most important.
- Please protect them. / - You can do it!
Keeping your promise is the most important thing.
Right.
If you think it's a concern, press the button.
The beeps won't stop.
Time's up.
Please stop.
One last word for your wife, please.
Honey.
I've always lied about quitting.
Since I'm here today, I'll do my best
and quit before the baby is born.
I love you.
Ma'am!
Are event halls fun or is it more fun here?
- It's fun here, too. / - Is it?
Should he quit smoking or not?
- He should. / - He should, right?
Please hand her the mic.
Please say a word for the husband.
I hate the smell of cigarettes.
It'd be great for him to quit.
For the baby, too.
Will you quit going to event halls or not?
I will.
(Good choice!)
How many votes did they get?
Please show us the result.
I'm really curious.
The last digit.
6! If it's 146...
Then they're #1.
146?
(They got 156 votes)
(Oh my)
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